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iconize:You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. ![]() |
EMANY01:I know the diagnosis is as hard to take as cancer. But I am the expert, take it as the knowledgeable work of an expert. You are purely and extremely dumb. |
carefreewannabe:You want many of them to die of hunger? ![]() Life expectancy in some countries could possibly drop to the same as that of baboons. ![]() Life expectancy of a baboon in a Western zoo is 45 years. Roughly the same as that of many African countries including the GIANT OF AFRICA. ![]() |
fhunn:I knew it! You are a cretinous fuuktard! Well your history is of you being a dumb fuuktard who could be taken as a slave and used like a wild animal. So why should you have a problem with people looking down on your dumb arsse and wanting to use you? Why are you whining like a fuuktard then? |
fhunn:I did not and I have never insulted you. I don't throw abuse. I just called you what you are. Explain to us how the average German or the Germans ruling today have anything to do with Jews being slaughtered, caused any war or did any injustice to blacks. |
iconize:Homoerotic fuuktard, are you not known as the player in the homosexual community butting all4naija, masonkz and adamskutty? ![]() |
iconize:You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. ![]() |
fhunn:Moronic fuuktard, what has all those got to do with the average German in today? |
Chrisbenogor:When I see that marriage is to my advantage. ![]() |
carefreewannabe:Extremely good points all the way through. I have highlighted the part relevant to my point though which you have stated yourself: Of course everyone have a right to have personal expectations but it is not their right for someone to have to give it to them. No one can deny anyone their rights on what to feel, but it is not their right for another person to deliver that feeling. |
Stillfire:Fair enough! You do have an undeniable and unarguable points about black men there. But you have to understand after all your frowning and pristine words if they have little interest in you afterwards as they get older and/or as their choices expand to other races if they move to new geographies. |
Meddler:That is good. You understand a good part of it. A belief in communication is a very good starting point. But that is really only about 50% of the solution. If you remember, I asked earlier "Do you feel you create an environment that enables him to freely express himself?" and you mannerisms and body language is one that potentially is not receptive, or show you are hurt, or demonstrate you are going to condemn, get annoyed and cause trouble, or you are going to bring out the bible and scream "With the blood of JEESUS! FATHER, I banish the devil from the soul of this man", of course he would be reluctant to communicate. For example, I have always been comfortable joking with girlfriends about type of girls I find attractive and what features about another girl I think is sexy. Likewise I am comfortable with them telling me same about guys. I am confident and don't feel threatened. I expect girls to pick up hints from there. If I say a skirt fits a girls body shape, maybe it might make sense for my girl to think of what fits her body shape when picking a skirt to buy instead of just buying some BS she say in a magazine that they say is 'in fashion' and when she wears it (because she wants to feel among), it makes her look like a potato or The second part (with the communication receptiveness stated above) of the other 50% is your ability to apply ZBA (Zero-Based Assumptions) this is coined from the ZBB (Zero-Based Budgeting) that accountants use. What this means is that you should drop all these traditional assumptions of what women think men want based on what THEY the women want them to want. Find out for real what he wants, don't assume. For fck sake, I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about when we first met and our anniversary date. I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about baby's weight in pounds and ounces. I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about Xmas, Birthdays, Valentine and all the other meaningless commercialised celebrations. That is ME! That does not mean I would not make an attempt and participate if it means something to her, but don't expect that irrational enthusiasm from me and start shouting some bullocks about romanticism. IT IS NOT FCKING ME! I DON'T GIVE A FCKING HOOT! I would celebrate with you, but that is just me being nice and understanding what you want. But don't try and disturb me to care about these stuff or you gettig annoyed about the fact I don't care it is 2 years since we first kissed, I DON'T GADDAM REMEMBER IT. I like knowledge and money. That is what I give a hoot about and get excited about. And NO I don't like to talk everyday or for hours. I prefer to have my solitude most times and develop my knowledge. Sorry, I am letting off steam a bit while chatting with you. ![]() Meddler:Are you sure? You will not engage in emotional blackmail? ![]() Women tend to say this sort of things easily but they themselves don't even attempt to be straightforward when breaking up because they want to avoid the drama. They would rather use tactics (see points 5 & 6): https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils/7#11126660 A lot of men just kowtow and do what society expects of them so no one says "You used that girl and dumbed her", "You wasted her time", "That is not how a real man behaves". And women love to revenge with calumniation and bitchtalking about people that have offended them. Meddler:Not many women have your personality nor the patience for a guy to tell them such. They think any guy "worth their precious princess time" should be besotted with them and head-over-hills without reservations (despite not knowing them well enough) from the very first time he sets his eyes on them and he should put all his trust in them. At least that is what love is considering what they read on Mills & Boons. Most women cannot handle honesty. That is a fact! They take some as personal attacks. Women listen: That dress looks horrible on you does not mean you are ugly. It just does not fit your damn arsse even though you like it. Your arsse/breast is not as big and nice as Zena's does not mean I don't like you or am not attracted to you, there are other things I find attractive about you hence why I am still here and still have a hard on. Yes, I know Tyson Beckford has better eyes than me. You can say it, I would not be offended. At least I know I have a better body than him and that is why you are with me. *Straight Face* Stop interpreting everything as negatively as possible and then upsetting yourself. Sorry Meddler, I went of-course and ranted again. Too much steam built up for women. ![]() Meddler:This is one major problem with marriage. Marrying for the wrong reasons or the wrong time for one or both parties. That is not to say yours is wrong or going to be a disaster. It could be all good in the end. I for one have always questioned why David Beckham or Wayne Rooney married so early. Geez! If I were them, I would have fcked the Whole World In My Hands, Fcked the Whole World In My Hands, I'll fck the Whole World In My Hands, Fck the Whooole World In My Hands ....................before I even think of anything called marriage maybe in my late 30s. Do you know the amount of hot girls these guys could have yanshed that they missed out on? Girls that would throw themselves on their rod? Then you see these ediots facing public shame cheating on their wives when they could have been like Eddie Irvine. Lesson: Both parties need to free-ly, without pressure, be interested in and in the right frame of mind for marriage. |
musKeeto:We need more black men like this and watch how the black race would accelerate and shoot up. At the moment, black people have extremely underdeveloped brains and these low-quality brains are being mislead by loonies of hate. Mentally-ill fuuktards! |
MysticZeus:They have limited other options considering many men in the West are ball-less fuuktards, who would cowardly watch themselves being discriminated against and support it. But they will then turnaround to label themselves feminists. Women have found a soft under-belly to attack a man and potentially destroy him: Men's higher libido and the consequently and cultural requirement that men are the one that tend to approach, and responsible for approaching, women. Every time a man does that, not only is he potentially putting himself forward to be disparaged and rejected, but he also risks reputational damage if he meets the few mean loony ones. If a man approaches such a woman, he faces a risk, if she chooses, of at best being tagged as "harassing her" or worse being tagged as "sexually preying". Women can marry you and then take everything you worked for from your youth under a law that makes the stewpid assumption that by them marrying you, they made you or contributed half. They get the house, your money, the kids and the right to limit your ability to see the kids. And hardly anyone finds that sexist as long as it is in favour of the woman. You need many men to protest these, and there are just not many men with balls to do this. They are more interested in kissing the balls of masculine feminists. These MGTOW guys have refused to be such victims and avoid all the risks completely. They want to be free-ly themselves. |
iconize:You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. ![]() |
Freshtomato:It is "progress" na. ![]() It was done "in the best interest of the child". ![]() In the West, you will quickly realise the logic is homosexual rights over all others rights including child rights. It is okay to bring a child into the world specifically to enter an unnatural and abnormal family setting and then spill moronic rubbish that "Our laws are based on the best interest of the child". ![]() Welcome to the world the moronic and nihilist liberal "progressive" funkies want us to live in. ![]() |
iconize:Homoerotic fuuktard, are you not known as the player in the homosexual community butting all4naija, masonkz and adamskutty? ![]() |
Just accidentally found online a tag being used for men with some of my way of thinking and the male-hating I have been screaming on NL. [size=18pt]MGTOW (”Men Going Their Own Way”)[/size] "MGTOW is basically the statement of self-ownership and saying that only you have the right to decide what your goals in life should be. It is saying that, as a man I will not surrender my will to the social expectations of women and society, because both have become hostile against masculinity." ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "MGTOW is a way of life which refuses to defer to women in defining the worth of men. Instead, it focuses on positive male aspects, inviting men to go their own way in life." ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "The Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement is a weird offshoot of the men's rights movement resembling some kind of straight male separatism. Basically, MGTOWers buy into the same rhetoric MRAs spread ("society is actually biased against men, not women!" etc.), but instead of taking any sort of action, they have vowed to stay away from women altogether, or at least stop forming any sort of relationships with them." This is the complete opposite of a trained mugu Real Man. |
iconize:He is a member of your homosexual community and you know you like it up the arsse, stop lying. ![]() |
KanwuliaJara:GADDAMIT!!! I love this girl! ![]() She was on fire throughout but particularly nailed it at 5.56 to 6.02. |
Stillfire:In Nigeria, we used to call it "Shakara". |
babygirlfl:It is the truth. The average one has poor interpersonal skills and an aggressive, miasmic personality. Most of them tend to carry a huge frown and unfriendly face everywhere they go. Except when they see a guy with money. |
BananaBender:Fuuktard, you think I am reading the thread? Dumb Fisk brain. ![]() |
JulianBond007:He was a profound thief when he was in Customs and became stupendously rich. I will wish him a miserable journey to hell on his Deathday. |
BananaBender:Go to all the league tables and check the top universities. ![]() Where is Fisk there? After your father paid for Chrisland? ![]() |
iconize:Homoerotic fuuktard, you are already on another homosexual thread thinking of having babies? ![]() |
BananaBender:Did I not show you my certificate from Harvard when you showed me your fake diploma from Vanderbilt? ![]() So a bunch of people who shouted for civil rights over 60+ years ago and attended Fisk (pre-1970) when that was the only few options for intelligent black people are the ones you are screaming about? ![]() List 10 intellectuals that have attended Fisk in the last 40 years after civi right laws allowed blacks to start going to the best. ![]() When I say intellectuals, I don't mean twerkers and doing the superman. ![]() Tell us how Fisk alumni is anywhere as good as ordinary University of Salford. ![]() |
Meddler:Having a baby seem like a honourable reason for you both to continue the relationship. It is in the best interest of the baby but based on the other parts of your statement, it might not be in both of you's best interest. Meddler:Okay. I guess on this we can only go by what he told you and what you experienced. Fair enough. Meddler:To be frank, this does not sound sufficient enough for the needs of an average man. It really sounds like what women tend to think men "should" want in a relationship. Secondly, some of these might be claimed (and believed) but that might not be the view of the guy. That said, the needs of different men can be different. I would leave you to judge whether what you pride yourself as giving him is what he wants. You are the one that knows your man. Give and want can have a deep disconnect. For example, if someone asks me what I bring to the relationship for my woman and I say, I spend a lot of time with her watching football. That might be nice for me, she might even enjoy it moderately but her needs might be extremely different and more complex than that and that is not a typical high-level need of a woman. Of course, I would probably think she "should" like that and not think of what she "would" like and "how" she would like it. Meddler:Most women tend to want emotional, financial and physical security as a fundamental need. Most men tend to want sex, financial success, social position/power, an aesthetically beautiful trophy partner, someone they are sexually attracted to, good conversation, limited/no arguments and little domestic work as a fundamental need. You have to figure out which of these you provide him with (or support him in getting or not hinder him in getting) so well from your view of making him very happy. Each gender wants more than those, those are just the fundamentals. As for you being the love of his life, that might be very true but I also know many men say such rubbish because they think that is what they are suppose to say or that is what a woman wants to here otherwise there would be snide trouble. I have the philosophy that there are multiple choices for everyone. If a girl is not with me, she would be with someone else and be equally happy. I am a core realist. Meddler:If I may ask, why didn't you say "No, lets wait a bit till we get married"? Because he asked and want to is not sufficient reason to do it now if he is sure that is what he wants now. Meddler:Okay. |
bukatyne:GOOOOODDD? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dj6_98tq4mY |
2CatWoman:I only asked questions. I did not say anything. |
SirShymex:Cretinous fuuktard, you are still running? ![]() |
bukatyne:If it is an act of law, then you will need to call the police. ![]() |
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