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PoliticsRe: Jim Nwobodo Loses Son by Sagamite(op): 7:49pm On Nov 26, 2014
iconize:
Faggotic mooron, stop lying. You told us masonkz bought you diapers for N100 after ramming and thrusting your butt on Tuesday. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Masonkz

https://s25.postimg.org/qbzsxl7db/there_is_God_o.jpg
You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. grin grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Nigerians, Before It Is Too Late!!! by Sagamite(m): 7:48pm On Nov 26, 2014
EMANY01:
No insult taken.To be honest I get the picture now.
Imagine if you will a smart clinical psychologist on the verge of insanity.Its the hardest scenario to deal with, as this fellow knows all about the decent to the pit of insanity,can recognize the classic signs and the non documented indicators but for the life of him can not or will not bring himself to accept or even consider the possibility that he is loosing it.
I feel you.
I know the diagnosis is as hard to take as cancer. But I am the expert, take it as the knowledgeable work of an expert.

You are purely and extremely dumb.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Of Anger And Shame In Africa by Sagamite(m): 7:44pm On Nov 26, 2014
carefreewannabe:
The more I read here and the more videos they post, the stronger my conviction that the West should stop paying anything to African countries.

Why should Germans pay for something that their forefathers did more than 100 years ago?
Why should they pay when all they get is hatred in return?
Why should they pay when these people do not know a simple thank you because they were brought up to have this entitlement mentality that everyone owes them something?
Why should they pay when such people will complain about what happened more than 100 years ago but do not complain and react to what is being done to them TODAY by their own people, their so called leaders?

Useless people. Someone with such a victim mentality can never be on the winning side.
You want many of them to die of hunger? grin grin grin

Life expectancy in some countries could possibly drop to the same as that of baboons. grin grin grin

Life expectancy of a baboon in a Western zoo is 45 years. Roughly the same as that of many African countries including the GIANT OF AFRICA. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Of Anger And Shame In Africa by Sagamite(m): 7:35pm On Nov 26, 2014
fhunn:
Nice, calling me what I am........I just can't get the smiles of my face, dunno why?
But come to think of it with your 'resistive' reasoning and semi-liquid brain that even with your vast knowledge, someone tells you, you're better off than me .....................even with your respective 'specs' above................. You'll know the person is lying/deceiving you, bro!

Ehen, I knew you won't understand because it seems you're an average citizen.
Still asking the same silly question again!!! what has all those got to do with the average German today?

Man, get this into your head, its their muddy history, their dark past, it has got everything to do with them!!!
There's no way you'll talk about Germany in full and you won't mention what you listed up there, their past affects them it tails them to their graves.

And what is the use of all those 'African motivational teaching' in their schools when they can't do anything, when they can't implement the morals/message in it.

IMO, they're trying to exploit africa/blacks and there no way the plan will work without being in the blacks/Africans 'good light'
I knew it!

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Well your history is of you being a dumb fuuktard who could be taken as a slave and used like a wild animal. So why should you have a problem with people looking down on your dumb arsse and wanting to use you?

Why are you whining like a fuuktard then?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Of Anger And Shame In Africa by Sagamite(m): 3:42pm On Nov 26, 2014
fhunn:
I don't see any reason for abuses, man or did you see any of those words in my post?

what has all those got to do with the average German in today?
Seriously?! What has that got to do?!
Don't you know average people don't rule nations?
And if an average person rules a nation, then that nation is below average, my friend
So if an average German wants to rule Germany, he/she has to up his/her game, he/she has to become more than average, he/she has to be great!!!!
I did not and I have never insulted you.

I don't throw abuse. I just called you what you are.

Explain to us how the average German or the Germans ruling today have anything to do with Jews being slaughtered, caused any war or did any injustice to blacks.
CelebritiesRe: Emotional: Gay Couple In Tears As They Meet Their New Born For The First Time by Sagamite(m): 2:36pm On Nov 26, 2014
iconize:
Faggotic mooron, are you trying to say that if masonkz doesn't get you pregnant in one week you'll cheat on him with johnpaul88? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Homoerotic fuuktard, are you not known as the player in the homosexual community butting all4naija, masonkz and adamskutty? grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Jim Nwobodo Loses Son by Sagamite(op): 2:36pm On Nov 26, 2014
iconize:
You're a drunken mooron!

We're still saying the same thing. You told us masonkz bought you diapers for 100 after ramming and thrusting your butt on Tuesday. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Masonkz

https://s25.postimg.org/qbzsxl7db/there_is_God_o.jpg
You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. grin grin grin grin grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Of Anger And Shame In Africa by Sagamite(m): 2:35pm On Nov 26, 2014
fhunn:
Germany talking about the injustice done to blacks??!! *scoffs*
Like they did not also perpetrate injustice?? Like they were not the ones who slaughtered skyrocketing number of Jews?? Like they were not major causes of world wars??
Like they would go on air and condemn the injustices still perpetrated by the 'powers' and significantly stand against them??
Like they have no ulterior motives??

aaaaaaaaaaarrrrggggghhh........................like they care? Ungh?
Moronic fuuktard, what has all those got to do with the average German in today?
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 2:24pm On Nov 26, 2014
Chrisbenogor:
Sagamite grin come when you go marry self? We need all this ya theory for practical o.

This cheating matter is a very complex one, there's emotions , reality, and then the reality that most people get ruled by emotions anyways.
When I see that marriage is to my advantage. tongue grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 2:21pm On Nov 26, 2014
carefreewannabe:
We are talking about relationships and marriages here, aren't we?
The example you gave involves two strangers and not two people who know each other, share their lives, become intimate and build up trust.
We are talking about married people who promised each other something. And if you cannot trust your husband / partner to keep his / her promises, who in this world can you trust? Are promises not based on the premise that they will be kept, especially by those who we love and trust?

Therefore, I don't agree that "Nothing gives anyone the right to expect anything from another adult." because all our close relationships are built on expectations without which they could not function.

You have the right to expect from your best friend not to sleep with your girlfriend.
And you have the right to expect from your girlfriend not to throw herself at your friends.
It is your right to expect minimum respect from people close to you.


The fact that they can choose not to meet these expectations is a different thing.
They can do it even though it would be considered wrong for different (moral) reasons. However, it is not your fault to have trusted those close to you. And this trust is based on the expectation that those closest to you will avoid to hurt you in one way or another.

Without these expectations, there can be no trust and we will have dysfunctional relationships full of mistrust. These unwritten expectations make our close relationships (with family members, friends, boy- and girlfriends) special and set a framework for us that we need.

You can question these norms but you cannot deny that these norms are generally accepted and that we actually profit from them.
It is human to have such expectations as it is human to want to have relationships built on trust. To trust, we need to be free to have expectations in our relationships.

The fact that some people will not meet them will sometimes lead to disappointments but that does not deny people the right to have expectations.

And of course we cannot complain to the UN when someone disappoints us and there is no moral police we can call to arrest someone who disappoints our expectations but that does not make moral standards and values which lead to expectations invalid.

I could go on giving examples of how necessary and vital it is to have expectations in other spheres of life but I will leave it at that for now.
Extremely good points all the way through.

I have highlighted the part relevant to my point though which you have stated yourself:

Of course everyone have a right to have personal expectations but it is not their right for someone to have to give it to them.

No one can deny anyone their rights on what to feel, but it is not their right for another person to deliver that feeling.
FamilyRe: The Angry Black Woman: Racist, Sexist Or Truth. by Sagamite(m): 2:13pm On Nov 26, 2014
Stillfire:
Sagabobo, call it shakara or whatever.
It is a defensive mechanism that every black woman MUST adopt otherwise she will be sure to be left with little bastards to cater for!
Growing up, I frowned my face well wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, like an arrogant boss! cool cool cool cool
Those who were not firm in their shakara, have to deal with little rascals to cater for ALONE.
It was highly, highly important to do so as a teenager. As a grown up, my pristine words are my weapon! The hypersexuality of the black man cannot be curtailed. He is on permanent HEAT! Every black woman should be careful before he gives you baggage to carry.
The race is in serious trouble because of the little rascals unleashed into the society without fathers!
I will not be part of that statistic! grin grin grin grin grin
Fair enough!

You do have an undeniable and unarguable points about black men there.

But you have to understand after all your frowning and pristine words if they have little interest in you afterwards as they get older and/or as their choices expand to other races if they move to new geographies.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 9:47am On Nov 26, 2014
Meddler:
But that's the thing. If he wants more then he should speak out. I'm not psychic. It's just like women who go around thinking they have a bad husband because he doesn't show some romantic gesture. How is the man supposed to know what you like romantically if you don't say so. No one can read minds that's where communicating comes in.

Communication!!! You can't be in a relationship and not be able to express urself freely and openly. What the heck are you doing in that relationship then?
That is good. You understand a good part of it.

A belief in communication is a very good starting point. But that is really only about 50% of the solution.

If you remember, I asked earlier "Do you feel you create an environment that enables him to freely express himself?" and you mannerisms and body language is one that potentially is not receptive, or show you are hurt, or demonstrate you are going to condemn, get annoyed and cause trouble, or you are going to bring out the bible and scream "With the blood of JEESUS! FATHER, I banish the devil from the soul of this man", of course he would be reluctant to communicate.

For example, I have always been comfortable joking with girlfriends about type of girls I find attractive and what features about another girl I think is sexy. Likewise I am comfortable with them telling me same about guys. I am confident and don't feel threatened. I expect girls to pick up hints from there. If I say a skirt fits a girls body shape, maybe it might make sense for my girl to think of what fits her body shape when picking a skirt to buy instead of just buying some BS she say in a magazine that they say is 'in fashion' and when she wears it (because she wants to feel among), it makes her look like a potato or N20 shaki. Some ex-girlfriends could stomach it, others would flip out about me even looking at another girl. If me looking at another girl and talking about her bothers a girl much, then she would find it difficult to date me because I have sharp eyes and I have never been to SpecSavers. I will not pretend a girl is the only attractive human on Earth, I don't lie like that. Looking should not be a problem, I am not chasing her. Many women can't handle that, so many men pretend.

The second part (with the communication receptiveness stated above) of the other 50% is your ability to apply ZBA (Zero-Based Assumptions) this is coined from the ZBB (Zero-Based Budgeting) that accountants use. What this means is that you should drop all these traditional assumptions of what women think men want based on what THEY the women want them to want. Find out for real what he wants, don't assume.

For fck sake, I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about when we first met and our anniversary date. I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about baby's weight in pounds and ounces. I don't give a flying flipping fcking SHYT about Xmas, Birthdays, Valentine and all the other meaningless commercialised celebrations. That is ME!

That does not mean I would not make an attempt and participate if it means something to her, but don't expect that irrational enthusiasm from me and start shouting some bullocks about romanticism. IT IS NOT FCKING ME! I DON'T GIVE A FCKING HOOT!

I would celebrate with you, but that is just me being nice and understanding what you want. But don't try and disturb me to care about these stuff or you gettig annoyed about the fact I don't care it is 2 years since we first kissed, I DON'T GADDAM REMEMBER IT.

I like knowledge and money. That is what I give a hoot about and get excited about.

And NO I don't like to talk everyday or for hours. I prefer to have my solitude most times and develop my knowledge.

Sorry, I am letting off steam a bit while chatting with you. grin

Meddler:
Then there was no reason to continue the relationship and let it progress to man and wife. Breaking up is painful but I'll eventually get over it. Everybody does. I didn't put a gun to his head and insist he should wife me. No sir! I'll rather die as a single woman with peace of mind.
Are you sure?

You will not engage in emotional blackmail? grin grin grin grin grin

Women tend to say this sort of things easily but they themselves don't even attempt to be straightforward when breaking up because they want to avoid the drama. They would rather use tactics (see points 5 & 6):

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils/7#11126660

A lot of men just kowtow and do what society expects of them so no one says "You used that girl and dumbed her", "You wasted her time", "That is not how a real man behaves". And women love to revenge with calumniation and bitchtalking about people that have offended them.

Meddler:
And I get that. People say things that they might think you want to hear- I hate that. I'll rather you be bluntly honest with me so I know where I stand. Its not like I can read his mind and know if he's been genuine about his feelings. His actions make me think so but after time I've had to rethink that and I've told him.
Not many women have your personality nor the patience for a guy to tell them such. They think any guy "worth their precious princess time" should be besotted with them and head-over-hills without reservations (despite not knowing them well enough) from the very first time he sets his eyes on them and he should put all his trust in them. At least that is what love is considering what they read on Mills & Boons.

Most women cannot handle honesty. That is a fact! They take some as personal attacks.

Women listen:

That dress looks horrible on you does not mean you are ugly. It just does not fit your damn arsse even though you like it.

Your arsse/breast is not as big and nice as Zena's does not mean I don't like you or am not attracted to you, there are other things I find attractive about you hence why I am still here and still have a hard on.

Yes, I know Tyson Beckford has better eyes than me. You can say it, I would not be offended. At least I know I have a better body than him and that is why you are with me. *Straight Face*


Stop interpreting everything as negatively as possible and then upsetting yourself.

Sorry Meddler, I went of-course and ranted again. Too much steam built up for women. grin

Meddler:
I caved into family pressure and his, forgetting the most important person in the equation- Me. I regret that and not just because of his infidelity. But I've found myself questioning my decision.
This is one major problem with marriage. Marrying for the wrong reasons or the wrong time for one or both parties.

That is not to say yours is wrong or going to be a disaster. It could be all good in the end.

I for one have always questioned why David Beckham or Wayne Rooney married so early.

Geez! If I were them, I would have fcked the Whole World In My Hands, Fcked the Whole World In My Hands, I'll fck the Whole World In My Hands, Fck the Whooole World In My Hands ....................before I even think of anything called marriage maybe in my late 30s. Do you know the amount of hot girls these guys could have yanshed that they missed out on? Girls that would throw themselves on their rod?

Then you see these ediots facing public shame cheating on their wives when they could have been like Eddie Irvine.

Lesson: Both parties need to free-ly, without pressure, be interested in and in the right frame of mind for marriage.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Of Anger And Shame In Africa by Sagamite(m): 8:45am On Nov 26, 2014
musKeeto:
Hmm, this thread spiraled out of control.. grin interesting comments.

Apologies I haven't been involved in the conversation as much as I would have liked. Glanced through a few comments and I feel this video reflects most of what Sagamite and carefreewannabe have said.
We need more black men like this and watch how the black race would accelerate and shoot up.

At the moment, black people have extremely underdeveloped brains and these low-quality brains are being mislead by loonies of hate.

Mentally-ill fuuktards!
Nairaland GeneralRe: MGTOW - A New Movement As A Result Of Feminazism by Sagamite(op):
MysticZeus:
'

MGTOW isn't the best way to go!
Best Believe, on the long run, it will most definitely turn useless!

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They have limited other options considering many men in the West are ball-less fuuktards, who would cowardly watch themselves being discriminated against and support it. But they will then turnaround to label themselves feminists.

Women have found a soft under-belly to attack a man and potentially destroy him: Men's higher libido and the consequently and cultural requirement that men are the one that tend to approach, and responsible for approaching, women.

Every time a man does that, not only is he potentially putting himself forward to be disparaged and rejected, but he also risks reputational damage if he meets the few mean loony ones.

If a man approaches such a woman, he faces a risk, if she chooses, of at best being tagged as "harassing her" or worse being tagged as "sexually preying".

Women can marry you and then take everything you worked for from your youth under a law that makes the stewpid assumption that by them marrying you, they made you or contributed half. They get the house, your money, the kids and the right to limit your ability to see the kids. And hardly anyone finds that sexist as long as it is in favour of the woman.

You need many men to protest these, and there are just not many men with balls to do this. They are more interested in kissing the balls of masculine feminists.

These MGTOW guys have refused to be such victims and avoid all the risks completely. They want to be free-ly themselves.
PoliticsRe: Jim Nwobodo Loses Son by Sagamite(op): 8:26am On Nov 26, 2014
iconize:
Faggotic mooron, but you told us, masonkz, your boyfriend bought you diapers for N100 after thrusting and ramming your butt. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
You were the one that told us he rams your butt and you buy diapers for N100. grin grin grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Emotional: Gay Couple In Tears As They Meet Their New Born For The First Time by Sagamite(m): 8:24am On Nov 26, 2014
Freshtomato:
So disgusting!

I pity the poor helpless baby

Tufya! angry
It is "progress" na. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

It was done "in the best interest of the child". grin grin grin grin grin grin

In the West, you will quickly realise the logic is homosexual rights over all others rights including child rights.

It is okay to bring a child into the world specifically to enter an unnatural and abnormal family setting and then spill moronic rubbish that "Our laws are based on the best interest of the child". grin grin grin

Welcome to the world the moronic and nihilist liberal "progressive" funkies want us to live in. grin grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Emotional: Gay Couple In Tears As They Meet Their New Born For The First Time by Sagamite(m): 8:20am On Nov 26, 2014
iconize:
You're a faggotic mooron!

Are you saying you won't make babies with your fagg husband, masonkz? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Homoerotic fuuktard, are you not known as the player in the homosexual community butting all4naija, masonkz and adamskutty? grin grin grin grin grin grin
Nairaland GeneralMGTOW - A New Movement As A Result Of Feminazism by Sagamite(op): 7:32pm On Nov 25, 2014
Just accidentally found online a tag being used for men with some of my way of thinking and the male-hating I have been screaming on NL.

[size=18pt]MGTOW (”Men Going Their Own Way”)[/size]

"MGTOW is basically the statement of self-ownership and saying that only you have the right to decide what your goals in life should be.

It is saying that, as a man I will not surrender my will to the social expectations of women and society, because both have become hostile against masculinity."

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"MGTOW is a way of life which refuses to defer to women in defining the worth of men. Instead, it focuses on positive male aspects, inviting men to go their own way in life."

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"The Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement is a weird offshoot of the men's rights movement resembling some kind of straight male separatism. Basically, MGTOWers buy into the same rhetoric MRAs spread ("society is actually biased against men, not women!" etc.), but instead of taking any sort of action, they have vowed to stay away from women altogether, or at least stop forming any sort of relationships with them."


This is the complete opposite of a trained mugu Real Man.
CelebritiesRe: Emotional: Gay Couple In Tears As They Meet Their New Born For The First Time by Sagamite(m): 6:39pm On Nov 25, 2014
iconize:
Faggotic homo mooron, masonkz said you're the wife.

So, when are we expecting babies from you? grin grin grin grin grin grin
He is a member of your homosexual community and you know you like it up the arsse, stop lying. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: The Angry Black Woman: Racist, Sexist Or Truth. by Sagamite(m): 5:01pm On Nov 25, 2014
KanwuliaJara:
NL BLACK WOMEN! cheesy
Who will argue to SHUT you up. . . with their ITK religious, holier-than-thou attitudes! grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o_OCxh769Vs
GADDAMIT!!! shocked

I love this girl! grin grin grin grin grin grin

She was on fire throughout but particularly nailed it at 5.56 to 6.02.
FamilyRe: The Angry Black Woman: Racist, Sexist Or Truth. by Sagamite(m): 4:23pm On Nov 25, 2014
Stillfire:
Can we get some background info on how the term came about, before we as Nigerians who have no clue about race join in on the bandwagon because americans are using it? I think that's a good place to start. wink wink wink
In Nigeria, we used to call it "Shakara".
FamilyRe: The Angry Black Woman: Racist, Sexist Or Truth. by Sagamite(m): 4:20pm On Nov 25, 2014
babygirlfl:
Sometimes people refer to the black woman as the angry black woman. What do you think about this label on the black woman. Is it another racist word, a sexists word or just the truth. It would be nice if we justified our answer. Please no insults.
It is the truth.

The average one has poor interpersonal skills and an aggressive, miasmic personality.

Most of them tend to carry a huge frown and unfriendly face everywhere they go. Except when they see a guy with money.
FamilyRe: Dear Nairaland Family. . . . .how Do You Define A 'KRAY-KRAY'? by Sagamite(m):
BananaBender:
Sagamite is stup1d but he's not that dumb. He knows the post is addressed to him, there is no ambiguity on that.
Fuuktard, you think I am reading the thread?

Dumb Fisk brain. undecided
PoliticsRe: Happy Birthday Your Excellency, Atiku Abubakar (turaki Adamawa) by Sagamite(m): 4:04pm On Nov 25, 2014
JulianBond007:
Alhaji Atiku Abubakar was born Jada,
Adamawa State, on November 25, 1946.
He attended Jada primary school from
1954 to 1960 and Adamawa Provincial
Secondary School, Yola , From 1960 to
1965. His Advanced Level Studies were in
Economics, British Economic History,
Government and Hausa Language.
He later went on to the School of
Hygiene, Kano from which he earned a
Diploma of the Royal Society of Health. In
1967, he proceeded to Ahmadu Bello
University, Zaria and graduated with a
Diploma in Law. He Began his leadership
Training in the students union
politics of the 1960s, serving first as
President Emeritus of the Students Union
of the School of Hygiene, Kano and later
as the Assistant Secretary General of the
Ahmadu Bello University Students Union
as well as Deputy Speaker of the students
Parliament.
He joined the Customs and Excise
Department in 1969 and rose to the rank
of Deputy Director. In his 20yrs career in
the customs ,he attended several courses
in Leadership, Management and Drug
Enforcement in Egypt, United States and
Finland. He retired in 1989 and went into
private business.
In business he has
investments in Oil Services, Insurance,
Pharmaceutical Industries, Agriculture and
Print Media. He was the Chairman of
some seven companies before his
election as Vice President.
He has held since 1982 the traditional
title of Turakin Adamawa and more
recently Sardauna Ganye.
He is a sponsor and member of the
finance committee of the World
Constitution and Parliament Association;
and Member World Citizens based in
France. These associations dedicate
themselves to promotion of world peace
and understanding.
He was a profound thief when he was in Customs and became stupendously rich.

I will wish him a miserable journey to hell on his Deathday.
FamilyRe: Dear Nairaland Family. . . . .how Do You Define A 'KRAY-KRAY'? by Sagamite(m): 3:58pm On Nov 25, 2014
BananaBender:
This fool called Sagamumu aka Sagamite is such a crook! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

No more yahoo-yahoo sagamu boy sense, you must tell me the name of your alma-mater today grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You can't be dissing Fisk when you have nothing to show for your pathetic self.
Go to all the league tables and check the top universities. cool

Where is Fisk there?

After your father paid for Chrisland? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Emotional: Gay Couple In Tears As They Meet Their New Born For The First Time by Sagamite(m): 3:56pm On Nov 25, 2014
iconize:
Sagamite and masonkz, when are we expecting a baby? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Homoerotic fuuktard, you are already on another homosexual thread thinking of having babies? grin grin grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Dear Nairaland Family. . . . .how Do You Define A 'KRAY-KRAY'? by Sagamite(m):
BananaBender:
Fake diploma?? Bwahahahahahahahaha grin grin grin grin grin grin grin Haters gon' die hating! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

At least, I can post a picture of my "fake" diploma unlike someone that can't even namedrop the fake ivy league he went to. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

What stup1d school did you go to where Rhodes and full bright scholars are what you're proud of in your alumnae?? Rhodes and Fulbright scholars walk around the school as professors daily.

You are fixated on mathew knowles on a list with WEB DU Bois, Ida B Wells, Nikki Giovanni, Alcee Hastings, Aaron Douglas, Charles Diggs.

What??!!!!!!!!! Fullbright scholars in comparison to WEB DU Bois achievement?? What??!

Who are you?? And how are you this stup1d??
Did I not show you my certificate from Harvard when you showed me your fake diploma from Vanderbilt? grin grin grin grin grin grin

So a bunch of people who shouted for civil rights over 60+ years ago and attended Fisk (pre-1970) when that was the only few options for intelligent black people are the ones you are screaming about? grin

List 10 intellectuals that have attended Fisk in the last 40 years after civi right laws allowed blacks to start going to the best. grin grin grin grin grin

When I say intellectuals, I don't mean twerkers and doing the superman. grin grin grin grin

Tell us how Fisk alumni is anywhere as good as ordinary University of Salford. grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 3:47pm On Nov 25, 2014
Meddler:
I have a baby on the way. I feel I at least owe it to the baby to work things out with him and I told him that. If I was the baby wasn't on the way I would have left immediately.
Having a baby seem like a honourable reason for you both to continue the relationship.

It is in the best interest of the baby but based on the other parts of your statement, it might not be in both of you's best interest.

Meddler:
he told me so and Lord knows I have asked severally. I did leave once and he begged me to stay and yes I loved him and gave it a chance and we were working out fine.
Okay. I guess on this we can only go by what he told you and what you experienced. Fair enough.

Meddler:
Now that's the tricky question but I would answer as objectively as possible. I give him peace of mind, I support him and his dreams, when he was without I gave him my all, I supported him financially. I guess on the other hand I guess I wasn't always there for his sexual needs and my libido completely dropped with pregnancy but I always made an attempt and even when I was not in the mood I always caved in for him. And he was aware of my sexual appetite before we got married. But I always tried to initiate sex and he was the only declining it.
To be frank, this does not sound sufficient enough for the needs of an average man. It really sounds like what women tend to think men "should" want in a relationship. Secondly, some of these might be claimed (and believed) but that might not be the view of the guy.

That said, the needs of different men can be different. I would leave you to judge whether what you pride yourself as giving him is what he wants. You are the one that knows your man.

Give and want can have a deep disconnect. For example, if someone asks me what I bring to the relationship for my woman and I say, I spend a lot of time with her watching football. That might be nice for me, she might even enjoy it moderately but her needs might be extremely different and more complex than that and that is not a typical high-level need of a woman. Of course, I would probably think she "should" like that and not think of what she "would" like and "how" she would like it.

Meddler:
I make him very happy and I think that's what got me in trouble. Trying to give him a place where he could relax and knowing that I would trust whatever he says. We had the same likes and maybe some dislikes. And he tells me that I'm the love of his life. And these are unsolicited compliments.
Most women tend to want emotional, financial and physical security as a fundamental need.

Most men tend to want sex, financial success, social position/power, an aesthetically beautiful trophy partner, someone they are sexually attracted to, good conversation, limited/no arguments and little domestic work as a fundamental need.

You have to figure out which of these you provide him with (or support him in getting or not hinder him in getting) so well from your view of making him very happy.

Each gender wants more than those, those are just the fundamentals.

As for you being the love of his life, that might be very true but I also know many men say such rubbish because they think that is what they are suppose to say or that is what a woman wants to here otherwise there would be snide trouble.

I have the philosophy that there are multiple choices for everyone. If a girl is not with me, she would be with someone else and be equally happy. I am a core realist.

Meddler:
He married me because he wanted to marry me. I wanted to move out of my parents house and be on my own but he didn't want me to do that. I asked him severally before we got hitched if this was what he wanted and that I was in no way pressurizing him. I love my independence so much. I was never one to fantasize about weddings or having a child. My priorities in life as follows - a good career, well paying job, being able to travel, being in a long term relationship (if it led to marriage- good) but marriage, family, kids were not necessarily on my agenda. Till now I still feel weird that I would be bringing life into the world and I'll have someone calling me mama. My family knows that I don't have the maternal instinct and getting pregnant this early in our marriage was definitely not the plan but what's happened has happened.
If I may ask, why didn't you say "No, lets wait a bit till we get married"? Because he asked and want to is not sufficient reason to do it now if he is sure that is what he wants now.

Meddler:
I don't even know if I could give him an environment that's even more enabling. I'm not a shouter. I'm a simple girl by nature. Give me food and a good tv show and I'm good to go. I've supported myself for the better part of my adult life so I'm not necessarily looking for someone to support me.
Okay.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 3:22pm On Nov 25, 2014
bukatyne:
Ok then angry grin

Don't commit to your wifey and see the sledge hammer of God descending on ya bum grin
GOOOOODDD?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dj6_98tq4mY
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 3:21pm On Nov 25, 2014
2CatWoman:
Sagamite, are you trying to say that the answer to the pregnant ladies' predicament is polygamy?
I only asked questions. I did not say anything.
FamilyRe: Dear Nairaland Family. . . . .how Do You Define A 'KRAY-KRAY'? by Sagamite(m): 2:05pm On Nov 25, 2014
SirShymex:
Darn Sholly, don't engaged the blinkered bald-headed broke midget with limited lexicon, stuck in shared one bedroom apartment, whenever he's trolling with smileys and videos. That is the only way he catches fun, to mask being an utter failure in life. It is like engaging Musiwa in discourse about western Nigeria and maps lol. You can't win against raving lunatics, esp. A demented one with tons of illiterate dyckriders like that.

Just wait for him to stray into any topic that requires the use of cerebral prowess and logic, to prove his mettle and mental capabilities. That is going to be out of his depth - and you'll just pick him apart, annihilate him, while lacing it with vicious verbal assault that'll nuke his self-esteem. And watch him run after a while and go on hiatus for days or weeks depending on how hard you hit him. The guy has nothing up there - and engaging him in trolling about nothing is waste of time lol.

He's dead meat. Once you destroy him - he'll come back using every word you destroyed him with on other posters. And that automatically means he's forever ya biitch and ya stan lol.
Cretinous fuuktard, you are still running? grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Sagamite(m): 1:54pm On Nov 25, 2014
bukatyne:
It is a declaration under the Marriage act cheesy

I don't comment in some threads either because I do not want to work the boat. A pregnant woman's husband cheated on her and she should sit down, discuss bla bla bla

I wonder what the advise would be if a sick man's wife cheated on him.
If it is an act of law, then you will need to call the police. grin

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