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Romance / Re: What You Should Do About Your Partner's Past by Sagamite(m): 2:27pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
pansophist: Never take relationship advice from a woman. They will feed you selfish nonsense. As I said here, they will always argue in a way that favours them. https://www.nairaland.com/7555050/gradually-becoming-misogynist/4#120654920 I can bet you that this philosophy she shared is for another woman's son, not hers. Her son must marry the girl with a good past. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: What You Should Do About Your Partner's Past by Sagamite(m): 2:20pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Mercisharelove: So, if your son brings in the born-again local street prostitute (that all the men on the street have slept with and pay N8K per cumm) as the girl he wants to marry, you will be happy because that is now her past and she has decided she will not do this anymore in the future? You will tell your son he is decision is okay and take her as your daugther-in-law? And then you will help them build a better future? Please answer. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 2:14pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
OLULAW: Stop talking total nonsense! I can bet you I know, work with and have dated more smart women that all the women in your "neck of the woods" put together and they are almost all the same in relationships. The thinking, mentality and stuuuupid arguments they would not give in a workplace environment, they would freely (without any reservation of contrition) engage in producing in their relationships and personal life. At work, they know they are held accountable for all actions and utterances, hence behave like men. In relationships, they feel entitled to be not accountable, acquiesce to and treated as special. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 2:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
jaxxy: Presumably the men are no already doing this? These are not automatic/subconscious approaches in the brain? These are rocket science in your world? Your solution is still "find the needle in a haystack with my simpleton approach". 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 2:04pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you a Typical Woman. Experts in obfuscation, diversion, deviation, going of tangent and conjectures to avoid any logical debate they know they would lose. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 8:38pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: More obfuscation and diversions. It is a very simple question that can even be answered with even a simple "Yes" or "No" answer. Not the storyland diversions. Are women logical or not? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 8:02pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You are a joker. So you can type all this and yet not answer the simple question: Are women logical or not? You are gaddam proving me right as I stated here. https://www.nairaland.com/7555050/gradually-becoming-misogynist/5#120655991 Obfuscation and diversion experts. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 6:23pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Farfalla: I was in prison jare! UK government locked me up for not paying child support for any of 69 children. Dem wan come deport me on top am. Na all my 200 obese council estate side chics who never born tell the UK Border Force say if dem try am, dem go do a naaked protest at Heathrow Airport and stop all flights. Na im make dem release me on bail. Still grumpy though. Farfalla: Awwwn. Farfalla: My opinion when anyone has these rugrats is that you have 2 roles to play: a) Mother/Father b) Parent Many people nowadays do not play both roles and don't know they are two different roles. When being a mother/father, you are there to love and provide for a child. Show them care, provide what they need in life, joke & smile with them and make them feel generally catered for. When you are being a parent, it is when you do the job of making and building them to be able to grow up and function effectively in society. This when you show them the ropes and the norms, just like other animals show their young ones the ropes and the norms of survival. You need to be stern, or even harsh if needs be, to ensure they are equipped and equiping themselves to be competent adults and valued members of society. Not a fcking liability, cry-baby, entitled mentality and iiidiots that think the world should revolve around them. Life is a story of challenges and struggles for all animals. Hollywood have damaged a generation to the point most people in the West, and some of the affluent in Third World, are only doing (a) nowadays. In the UK and USA, I can just see the damage with the useless Woke kids, with fragile sensitivities and who have a need for "safe spaces". Parenting has failed. China will overtake them in the coming years. As for your specific question, a child of about 6 years. I think it is a highly trainable age. You need to ensure you show them love at this age and less of smacking (Note: I did not say "No smacking", I just said less of). Smacking should be last resort after repeated advice and warnings. Establish your authority and ensure you are building the following: i) The child feels loved. ii) The child respects you. iii) The child fears disappointing you. Most yeye modern parents focus mainly on only (i) An emotionally fragile child is unlikely to be one that highly misbehaves in my opinion (the child no be the young version of Sagamite ), so the child is likely to want to please and get validation. Emotionally fragile kids need less smacking and more speaking to. They are not stone-hearted kids like I was that might be more susceptible to smacking. Ensure you communicate with the child frequently, aka speak to him/her and let him/her speak, correct the child and let the child know you will be disappointed with some things and consequently he/she will not get your validation. And when the child does the right thing, give the child a decent (not too much) validation as a sign of approval. A lot of talk is important. Talk about life and the right behaviours at different opportunities in the house, the car or at venues. Farfalla: The bolded is where we are different. I don't know any of my blood that reallly thinks I can not and will not cut them off. They know I am nice, jovial but I don't take shiiit. They have even said it to my face at family gatherings. So they know. If I can cut Jesu/Mo and God off, I can cut anyone off. So, my advice is to cut the person off if your perspective is completely the truth. Another thing you need to consider is what is wrong with such a person. There are some things wrong with people that is not clear to the eye at first sight. I suggest you read about Borderline Personality Disorder. People with such a disorder behave like that, so that family member might need awareness and therapy. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 4:37pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Seems you are struggling with knowing what "context" is. The context to the "question" is that women tend to argue illogically, not that are not in positions in logic industries. I don't know where the hell you pulled that out from. The premise is based on comparisons. Women tend to argue illogically more than and in comparison to men, hence woman are illogical. Are women logical or not? Or you are still struggling with the logic? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 4:32pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are dimwitted! You made a stuuuupid statement about how the solution to a complex problem is to just "change the circle of girls" one is around. Now, when you are challenged on the stuuupiid solution, you resorted to making fooolish logical assertions to back it up. One of the logical assertions is that "because such girls are accessible and available, then they must be easy and simple to find". The thing about logic is that it is universal! So I decided to test your foooolish logic by giving you another thing that is also "accessible and available" to see how you can teach us how "easy and simple" it too is to find. It is a simple logical test. When I tell una say una dey poorly educated, una go think say na insult. Your brain is poorly developed and things are above its capacity. 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Ado Hadi Collapses, Dies During Match In Spain by Sagamite(m): 2:51pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
VeryWickedSimp: You are a cretinous wild animal. |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 2:08pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: I applied your logic. Or is N5m inaccessible and unavailable income level in Nigeria? By your logic, are things that are not inaccessible and unavailable not "simple" to get? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:42pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: That is he essense of his write-up. You don't think that is a fact? Are women logical or not? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:41pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
Supersymetry: You are a cretinous fuuktard! So you can waffle about anything, but yet cannot provide the "scientific reports" you claimed? Braindead iiidiots will be talking like if they have something to contribute. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 1:38pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are a cretinous fuuktard! When cretinnous fuuktard start struggling, they start looking for strawmans to build and attack. Where did I say they were inaccessible or unavailable? I asked your dumbass to tell us how to access them or make it available, since you seem to think it is simple and it is just about "changing the circle of girls" one mixes with. Cretins and simplistic solutions to complex situations. Oya, tell us na. Tell us how to find the good girls in the midst of a sea of bad ones. Einstein of stupidity, while you are at it, also telll us how someone in Nigeria can make N5m per month. Abi that income for the minority is not accessible and available in Nigeria too; and if it is, it surely must be simple too according to your fuuctard brains, abi? 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:41am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Supersymetry: You are a cretinous fuuktard! The same fooolish tactics of fuuktards. I am the one supposed to go and look for and present your "scientific reports" that YOU saw and read? Ori e daru! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:32am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Supersymetry: Huh? Mo ti ri fuuktard o! (I don see fuuktard o!) I am really good at fuuktard-spotting. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:30am On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are a creeetin! So your grammar was bad? So how do you find this girls when a vast majority are like that? How do you find needle in a haystack and what value is the effort? Look at the creetin saying "it's pretty simple". Complex things appear "pretty simple" to reeetards (just like black leaders). Then when they have to manage complexities, you see how they mess it up after applying their "simple solution" because in their fooolish minds "Ah, o easy gan ni. It is very pretty simples ni". 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:26am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Supersymetry: Ehen! E mi o logical lo so? (I am not logical is what you state) Kaa bo! (Welcome) Oya, provide me with your scientific studies that indicate: 1) Men are more emotional than women on average 2) Men are lesser intelligent (sic) than women on average Oya, sharp sharp. Go bring am. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:22am On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are a cretinous person! I asked you a simple question. Answer foooool! Is there a location/setting where objective and logical women gather? Tell us the place. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:21am On Feb 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Do you think women are logical? |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:18am On Feb 06, 2023 |
kushme: Hey, man. He sounded like a fcking fuuktard and I am an expert in spotting these fcktards, man. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:17am On Feb 06, 2023 |
shaybebaby: Hmmmm! Shaybebaby, you are refusing to learn? |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:16am On Feb 06, 2023 |
pansophist: It should be said when it is very bad and the perpetrators, instead of improving, are living in delusions and engaging in misandry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 10:13am On Feb 06, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are a creetin! Your lack of intelligence is demonstrated in your solution. Your solution of "Change the circle of girls u are around". Is there a location/setting where objective and logical women gather? Tell us the place. Foolish people give and implement foolish solutions, which them makes their lives and society unproductive and shitholes. We have many of you in Nigeria. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:19pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
joyousever: Darling, what part of your English dictionary explained to you that when someone says "majority", he is saying there is no population (aka "some" that are excluded? Secondly, where did I call anyone "sub-humans"? You love to use conjectures and strawmans as a point? 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:14pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Rayban25: Very well said! |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:14pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Analyst7: Very well said! |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:12pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
KlausMichaelson: She is just using SIGN language like almost all women. Later, she will claim she is "different". 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:07pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
Viicfuntop: So you think majority of women are stupid, shallow and part of a "senseless" group? |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:05pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
jaxxy: You sound like a woman. This is the kind of foooolish response they will give when you highlight women's misdoings to them. Are you a biatch or just a biatch to women? 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by Sagamite(m): 3:03pm On Feb 05, 2023 |
saphiere: Another stuuuuupid SIGN language instead of enquiring and learning. Later they will end up old, damaged and lonely, but yet be blaming the world but themselves. 5 Likes |
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