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andyallor:
What a waste, poor creatures

But wait o, after slaughtering the buffalos were thy eaten or left alone?
If so , oh damn ignoranxe is badddddd!!!

I think they are just a sacrifice for the Gods.

Video of the process.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=quvkfkU-KZk

Some of these guys are looking for a job with ISIS or Boko Haram. Alhamdulillah!

andyallor, please come here and come and have a look at this, sweetie.

ProfCorruption:
http://sunnewsonline.com/new/?p=59681

I don't think Femi is mad that the woman in question sleeps around. He is a free giver and except he suffers from moral hypocrisy, he can't expect others not to be free receiver. He is just saying "don't give me what is not mine".

Whatever motivated the woman to sleep around should also motivate her to take responsibility for her actions.

RESPONSIBILITY?

Women are not suppose to have any. They should only have rights.

baLLoTBOxX:
When countries have evolved to the level of using state of the art trains fully equipped with AC, GEJ is still celebrating old school molue type trains with no doors and windows.

That is because of our common enemy (the WHITES) stopping us from buying trains that are good.

cap28, thoth, gatiano, GenBuhari come and tell this man why we are so backwards. It is not our fault, it is the fault of the white man.

GEJ till 5390!

emmysexxy:
boring by the day.I wonder why the mods have decided to go mute on dis case.

I hope you know you are free to visit the hospital and get the updates for us yourself?

andromida:
Femi naive

Even if i wanted to speculate along those lines it won't hold water he is not naive, his type is ashawo, and his wealth is a major attraction to her so he found her and they began to live happily until the bubble burst and a part of him always knew this would happen so femi is not surprised and of course she planned to cuckhold him i mean its her trade so whats the big deal. Did she leave him with the kids? he rejected her and the other kids and i am sure there is a woman around the corner he plans to move in.

But how do you know she is an ashawo? Who knows it maybe femi who ruined a good gals life lemme go read the story.

I am just playing "I am a poor victim, I was just naive and the other sex is always at fault" card women and "real men" mugu love to play to explain a woman's failure in responsibility.

andromida:
She is not a victim. They are living their lives by their standards their normal may not be other people's normal. Abeg i didn't say this woman is a victim. Are you sure you don't need the paper and pen? The slot is still available with discount sef.

So why didn't you speculate she was a local ashawo who enticed poor him because of his naivete, wealth and once she used her charms to get him suckered into falling for her, she cuckhold him as she planned with the many men she has been playing with before him and left poor him to raise the kids?

kennygee:
She is pretty and looks Nerdy.

I am not surprised she is based abroad

A 13 year old writing a book with a Title like this shows she is receiving quality education.

She looks studious and happy, innocent, I'm sure she doesn't have an Instagram or twitter account.

I just have a lot of admiration for her.

Her Dad must be so proud, he must have had her at a young age.

So many have aborted young stars like these on a quack's table.

In Nigeria, she would be dancing Kukere & Alanta and typing in textspeak.

All problems would only be resolvable through prayer and fasting.

Of course she is living abroad in a sane country.

andromida:
You need to come to class to find out what we teach. Don't just sit on the outside making assumptions.

There is still a slot for you plus discount sef.

Tufiakwa!!!

I reject the offer with the blood of JESUS!

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andromida:
HE married the retired prostitute what is there to complain about i would think he is well aware of the risks that come with that.

Maybe he forgot about her, she got lonely and well you know the rest after all she is only human and women only thrive in an atmosphere of love .

Even real women are human.

Awwwwww!!!

Oh God, someone please pass me a tissue. I am tearing up!

Poor Woman!!!

She is a victim, just like women are always victims.

It is always a mans fault and responsibility for all they do wrong.

Muscomide, have you got your pen and paper out? Your Black Belt teacher is dishing free advanced lessons here.

uplawal:
Sagamites,its not moronic,its real,when a bastard is in a home,he start doing otherwise unlike other kids,and this traits comes out from puberty to adulthood.ask your elders,they will tell you.The genes will not just agree no matter what,they will be conflicting.

Where did you get this science?

From the Patience Jonathan Institute of Scientific Excellence?

andromida:
Yeah i am sure he is a great man with a big heart. I love that.

Well Real men do save the honour of their women i don't know why femi had to make this news public even if he was so hurt, there are kids to consider, the shock they will pass through he is the one they've called father why shame them like this? so yeah a real man would put all this into consideration, man up and put his hurt feelings aside so he can do what is best for his crew not just himself.

Yeah authority,leadership, anything that makes you want to be in charge comes with responsibilities and if a man wants to be that kind of man he can't afford to share some responsibilities with a woman.

There is still a slot in the programme for you Sagamite.

Yep, making it public is the only fault I can credibly allocate to him.

Keeping on raising the kids is a choice HE has to make.

The rest of your bulahashi, give to your "real men" mugus.

coogar:
femi sleeping around isn't the issue here. femi has not taken someone else's baby & claimed it belonged to the wife. this woman conceived a baby with another man & lied to femi the baby was his. she's been keeping up with that lie ever since she got pregnant till the day the DNA results proved otherwise.

how can you not see the big deceit here? the infidelity is a small part of the issue, introducing bastärds as the legal kids of femi is the main issue here. stop prancing about the matter & call a spade what it is.




that's what we have come to expect from 21st century women. they never take responsibilities for their lascivious lifestyle. brainless, poor in spirit & always the victim. watch the woman go to the media anytime soon to say she was rapëd & she was too scared to tell anyone about it cos the räpist threatened to kill her if she mentions it to anyone.

GBAM!

babyface333:
Its not the kids fault...... what about the woman? Bro! you guys should stop encouraging this women for goodness sake.

Assuming, this kids become famous and decide to know their biological father, you know Blood is thicker than anything on earth.

Assuming, this kids become famous and their mum starts a serious battle then with femi over the kids, she could bring up the issue of femi not being their biological father then. Do you guys even think before you type.

Can you for once put femi kuti in your shoes, just try imagining if you are femi. And there is a difference between adopting a child and being tricked to accept a child thats not yours, a very big difference.

Many women find it effortless to pit a child against their biological father, so why wouldn't it they find it piece easy to do that against a man that is not their biological father in the future if needs be?

And some people are insulting him for not making a choice to keep the "innocent kids"?

logica:
At least you see how emotion is involved here. It is a matter of 419; simple. Nobody says a woman shouldn't cheat; that's her prerogative. But she better take the bastard child she conceives to the man that impregnated her. That's the least I would expect.

Simples!

uplawal:
Tile ba ntoro,Omo ale ibe o ti ba gba,,,,,meaning if a home is sweet,splendid,the bastard in there never grow/mature.bastards are poison to anyhome,no matter the innocency it involves

Stop quoting moronic adages!

andromida:
Sagamite there is still a slot in the programme

If Femi wants to return the kids he should feel free no one has to put up with this kind of betrayal if he can't. There are men who have a bigger heart and can keep on loving the kids irrespective of the truth but if he can't it does not make him less of a man.

EXACTLY!

Simple logic!

But you would not teach your "Real Men" that in class, you teach them to be mugus for your benefit. Wicked woman!

Give your slot to another mugu.

incrediblestev:
You don't get the point. Perhaps you are establishing your facts based on the single story of Femi, the one that obviously has the voice, this is just his own version. You are yet to hear the woman's own version of the same story. It is possibly they both were cheating with other people while they were married or whatever and she took in and assumed it was possibly from the equally cheating husband's seed. What if she is not in the know that these kids were actually not Femi's....what you call facts are your own manufactured conclusions based on one story. Even in the face of fact, you don't punish the children involved for the iresponsibilities that the man probably has a hand in. If you were caught up as kid in the middle of something like this, I bet you wont be kissing Femi good by after dropping you off and cutting ties with you all because he just discovered you are not from his loins.

Awwww, poor woman!

Well if a woman is cheating then it is her RESPONSIBILITY (Yep, I know most women hate that word and its connotations) to make sure if she gets pregnant, the right father is introduced to the "innocent child".

Then you moronically progressed to blame the man for "irresponsibilities" for the children being conceived and their allocation to the wrong father.

Moronic fuuktard!

bola4dprec:
Femi can you please tell me whether you married the mother of the affected children legally? If yes your wife have case to answer because the owner of the bed is the father of the children

WTF?

nduchucks:
I fully understand your position.

As far as being there for Femi to take his pain for him if the circumstance you described were to occur, I'd simply state that the situation being discussed is very unfortunate and will be painful to everyone involved but I'd suggest that the pain Femi would feel would be no where near what the innocent children are feeling now.

That does not mean he should necessarily volunteer for any further pain after he has already got one he did not subscribe for.

If you want to volunteer for the pain, that is fine. If others don't want to, then don't start insulting them down.

You don't tell people to take pain or be charitable. Pain and charity should be voluntary things.

The welfare of the "innocent kids" should be that of the creators, if Femi decides to take responsibilities for their welfare after he knows he is not the creator, then that is him being charitable.

He has a right to think of his best interest above that of the best interests of the "innocent kids" if he wishes.

He did not create he mess of their life, their mother did. They are her "innocent kids". She put them in guilt, not Femi.

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cap28, GenBuhari, gatiano, thoth come and warn these people that these polio vaccines are just a drug produced and used by the whiteman to reduce reproduction or dumb down the brain of the black population.

These Northerners are falling for the tricks of the WHITE MAN!

MissMeiya:
Did I give alternatives? Where did I say "time out" is a good practice? Is that even a common practice or an urban legend used to mock noncorporal forms of punishment? I said PSYCHOLOGY and REASON.

Fall back Sagamite.

Okay, tell us the other alternative model of upbringing that you know of that would lead to good behaviour in society if the threat of consequences is removed.

Please make sure the one you state is one we use in the real world, not fantasy land like Disney o.

MissMeiya:
Copy and paste the relevant parts please, with confirmable names and dates. HOMELESS MEN.

Huh?

MissMeiya:
Is this an intellectual response? Don't give me reason to dislike you. I thought you were better than this.

It was not intellectual, sweetie. It was "progressive".

nduchucks:
If the Children are under 2 years old then I withdraw the insult thrown at Mr. Kuti.

If on the other hand, he has been raising and loving these children from birth and they are now say, over 7 years old or even teeagers, then I'm sorry to say that I'd be unable to make such a withdrawal. For Femi to Abandon the innocent kids, who have giving him, the only dad they've ever known, unconditional love, smacks of cruelty.

Just my humble opinion sha.

Stop trying to be defiant in a silly position.

So you are saying it is his responsibility to raise kids he was deceived to be his?

So what if the "innocent kids" (I love the way you use emotive words) gave him their "unconditional love" and he is the only dad they have known, that makes his own feelings irrelevant?

And if the "innocent kids" are the type (like many African societies) which when they grow up find out from their mother who their real father is and decide to bond with their "long-lost" biological father because afterall "blood is thicker than water" (you know you Africans love your adages and let it guide your lives) and feel less attached to Femi, would you be their with your "principles" or take the pain for him?

MissMeiya:
@carefreewannabe was absolutely correct in saying that it makes no sense to beat a child that is old enough to comprehend your words. They are not animals. They are sentient, reasoning human beings that can be taught. In addition, she quoted something that is the biggest argument against corporal punishment:
"In fact, spanking teaches children to behave only when the threat of physical punishment is present. Once the threat of physical punishment is gone they have no reason to behave appropriately (Hoffman, 1983)."

Why do you think Nigerians are so corrupt? When the possibility of physical punishment disappears, so does good behavior. If a child was brought up not to eat a certain sweet or he would be beaten, would he not eat it if he was sure he wouldn't be caught? Even the concept of punishment by hellfire is not enough of a deterrent, because it is vague and nonimmediate. After all, you can pray for forgiveness. So what does it mean? You have a society that must be monitored to ensure good behavior. In the absence of witnesses and/or immediate and physical punishment, people answer to their basest urges.

This is complete rubbish psychoanalysis.

So you think in societies where physical punishment do not take place if you remove the threat of their other forms of punishment, people would behave with good behaviour?

They would see some others misbehaving and gaining benefits/advantage and many would not join and do the same because they were not smacked?

They would see some others misbehaving and gaining benefits/advantage in a society that has limited resources and is poor and many would not join and do the same because they were not smacked?

They would say I was given "time out when I was a child, so I will be a good boy"?

MissMeiya:
Can you conceive of a homeless man returning thousands of dollars in cash to their rightful owner?

"A homeless man in Boston turned in a backpack loaded with $2,400 in cash and $39,500 in traveler’s checks, CBS Boston reports. He found the bag outside a shopping mall in the city’s Dorchester neighborhood on Saturday, and soon handed it over to police. In addition to the cash, the backpack also contained a passport and other personal documents, according to a statement from the Boston Police Department." 2013 TIME

"Joe Cornell tells The Fresno Bee that he found the bag containing $125,000 cash Tuesday after a Brinks truck pulled away from a red light in Fresno and left the sack behind.
The 52-year-old California man is in a Salvation Army shelter and substance-abuse rehabilitation program.
Cornell says he started crying and shaking after finding the money. He says he decided to report it to police after thinking of his coming grandchild."
2014 AP

"Inside, he found $2,400 in cash and nearly $40,000 in travelers checks, along with a passport and personal papers. For a homeless man who subsists on food stamps and spare change, it was a staggering sum, maybe even a chance at a new life.

But James, a slight, bespectacled man in his mid-50s who says he has been homeless for five years, said the thought of keeping the money never crossed his mind.

“Even if I were desperate for money, I would not have kept even a penny of the money found,” he said Monday in a handwritten statement. “God has always very well looked after me.”

James immediately flagged down police, who in short order returned the bag to its owner, a student visiting Boston from China. James, a man who lives in a homeless shelter and relies on charity for change to wash his clothes, had returned a small fortune without a second thought." 2014 Boston Globe

Those are literally just the first three stories I found with a casual Google search. Could this happen in Nigeria? In a situation where the suffering of these three men were exactly equal, and the possibility of being caught even less in Nigeria. In fact, none of the men did anything wrong. The money was lost, not stolen. So, in HONESTY, could it happen?

This is what you get when people do research from their bias prism and then bring rubbish results because they are only interested in their bias outcome, not objective facts.

And who told you such has not happened in Nigeria before?

http://www.nigerianeye.com/2014/08/meet-nigerian-man-who-found-and.html

http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/18457/53/abuja-cab-driver-returns-n18m-missing-money-gets-n.html

https://www.nairaland.com/163145/man-finds-returns-n95m-rewarded

Did you even attempt to search for Nigerian people being honest before you posted this rubbish, Mrs Psychologist?

They are not poorer, in a society with less opportunities and less chance of being caught?

Or your argument, Mrs Psychologist, would now be that these men were never smacked when they were young?

MissMeiya:
This is the result of embedding virtues in children with PSYCHOLOGY and REASON, instead of fear. Because as I said a few pages ago, the only thing corporal punishment teaches you is not to get caught. You don't learn why something is bad or something is wrong. All you know is not to make certain figures angry. Why are they angry? Doesn't matter. Don't make them angry. Who are those people you need to fear? The ones who apparently have the right to beat you: your parents, your teachers, the police, soldiers, etc. etc. But once those people are not around, do what you like, just make sure those people don't find out. Oh, don't forget God, he'll beat you too--with eternal suffering. Ok, then don't do it. Unless you REALLY want to. Then do it and pray for forgiveness. Repeat as desired.

Is this more of your Okrika expert psychological analysis?

nduchucks:
The circumstances are very relevant!

I simply have a very soft spot for innocent children and would rather spare them the trauma. This explains my bias.

Well if you know it is a bias, then you have to realise not everyone would have your bias so don't start insulting them for not having your bias.

slimmy05:
How would the court hold him? He doesn't want what doesn't belong to him? Do you people think with your brain or your anus?

That cretin definitely thinks with his anus.

femtoj2:
Thank you so much for this your thoughtful and objective response. Please Ask the Femi of a man,(outside Fame and Money), what would make a responsible man not to have a woman(wife) under his roof? As we speak now, None of those women were with him. Meaning apart from his first wife, the other women were possibly some else’s wife before he starts jumping on them. In my Opinion , I think Femi at 46 should be ashamed of himself. He has betray many of his fan’s respect and am much disappointed for bring this to the public hear. Those innocent children would see this threads one day and they would never forgive him. If this happen in a civilised society where child right is well protected , i think by now Femi should probably be facing some Law charges.....

You are a cretinous fuuktard.

So if a man does not have a woman under his roof he is "irresponsible"?

You think you can bring the moronic nurture you were given online and not have it shoved back up your moronic arsse where it came from?

Odunharry:
those hoes aint loyal....i trust u 2 shw face

Why would a man think or evn say it only men that cheat..i dnt blame those men sha,they are real men!


Buhahahahahahah

nduchucks:
Excellent point. I'd even go a bit further. If he had fathered and loved these kids all these years, why not simply keep loving them and treat them as his adopted children? These are not artifacts from a shopping mall; they are children who have loved their father since birth through no fault of theirs. Why destroy them?

Femi is probably just as guilty as the kid's mothers in this case...... As Femi was screwing around, they too were doing the same. So Femi, how many kids have you fathered out of your immoral acts? ehn?

I'm sorry to say that Femi is a heartless baboon!

So the circumstances and assumptions under which he loved and fathered the kids is irrelevant?

IYANGBALI:
the guy has a myopic mind and he must be a first class woman wrapper

More like first class woman doormat.

IYANGBALI:
na wa for you o,so as your brothers resemble your papa pass you,does dat make you a bastaard?no vex o

He is a "real man". Most likely trained by andromida because he seems highly trained.

All his focus is on putting blame on Femi. To "real men" like him, women never do wrong. Men are the ones with responsibilities, women don't have. So only men can face blame, so he is digging for any blame he can find to save the honour of the women. That is what "real men" do.