₦airaland Forum

Preshieben:
I miss me

Lol.

Natural441:
A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house, where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport.
He left for the office.
The wife took a Taxi to the wedding reception, there she met a fine girl and they got talking to each other. Soon they became friends.
In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi. The Girl responded; "My
boyfriend brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to
him on the phone and he's on his way. Why don't you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house.
The woman agreed.
A few minutes later, her husband's car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front passenger's seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did, confused and
perturbed. Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the
man turned around to greet the woman.......ghen ghen......he found out that the woman sitting at the backseat is his wife.
Nothing much was said along the way. The wife also kept her cool.
He dropped the wife at home first as planned and proceeded to drop the Girl at her house.........
Now, the question:
1. If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home?
2. If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home.
Please its an open discussion, we want to learn from your view.

In Nigeria or another country?

delkuf:
On and off we dated for one year

It is well. I'm not married so I don't know what advice to give.

Lalasticlala
Dominique
Seun
Mynd44.

Front page pls

delkuf:
Good nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off. Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. she is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it. Something if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give. She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she have ever ask me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Na wa ooo two of una no date? or you just go village go marry her?

Nwanyiogwashi:
But on serious note can you compare America with Iraq

I don tire bye bye.

Nwanyiogwashi:
lolz I need him seriously

Don't worry, i will say a little prayer for you.

Nwanyiogwashi:
Vex for waiting? Urhobo people can never produce what Anioma people has produced in the next 500years in 2023 we will teach them governor yahaya bello 101 election format

You need Jesus dear!

Nwanyiogwashi:
How can someone from urhobo call
Anioma inconsequential in Delta state

Lol na make you they vex?

Nwanyiogwashi:
You want them to ban me

Yeah tell us the meaning? but what's your obsession with urhobos tho?

Graysons:
And their women are too black.

Black is beautiful stop that.

Graysons:
Always shouting our oil wells blowing pipe line every damn time.

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temptnow:
You Ghanaians will die soon

I'm not a Ghanaian.

Ok.

hammerP:
I SPEAK BASED ON MY OWN ASSESSMENT AND NOT BASED ON OTHERS OR WAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK.

THIS IS Y, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO CHANGE MY POINT OF VIEW, NO MATTER WAT.

I HAVE STATED MY OBSERVATION.

If you say so.

hammerP:
GHANAIANS ARE BY NO WAY BETTER.

HOW HAS GHANA DONE BETTER THAN NIGERIA.

A SMALL COUNTRY BLESSED WITH NATURAL RESOURCES AND SIMILAR AKAN GROUPS.

TELL ME HOW THEY HAVE DEVELOPED MORE THAN NIGERIA?

ONE THING GHANAIANS DO, IS TO ALWAYS PUT NIGERIA DOWN BUT I HAVE NOT SEEN HOW THEY ARE BETTER.

But your brothers on Nairaland always sing the praises of Ghana 24/7. Even your sister Gifty did the same.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.guardian.ng/life/gifty-powers-says-ghana-should-be-called-giant-of-africa-not-nigeria/amp

Eyhaaa but Ghana is better than this rubbish zoo na, they are not corrupt.

That's what Nigerians on Nairaland keep screaming everyday.
Smh. Nevertheless rip to the deceased.

Nwanyiogwashi:
I am bigger than all the urhobo people put together

seriously waiting urhbos and Ijaws do you?

MinorityOpinion:
Na wetin he talk be this

Are you sure?

MinorityOpinion:
Everyone know he's a scammer

Waiting Asari talk? I no watch the video.

Graysons:
Nobody give a shlt about Anioma whatever now carry your attention seeking self out of here.

She is hot.

Tasha7:
Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.

Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.

Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.

I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.

Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.

I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...

And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?

I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.

I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.

Thank you,

Tasha

Your husband is a fraudster. Case closed.

Kinematics:
I am from an area that gives ipoo their greatest nightmare.
An area every ibo and ipoo wish it was theres.
An area every ibo man is ready to kill his bloda for.
An area where most ibos migrate to for a better life.
An area Biafrans will write lengthy epistle about everyday just to hide their insecurities.
An area that's the envy of every Biafran.

I'm from the Niger Delta and I'm happy I'm not a Biafran!

You end up saying nothing smh.

Graysons:
There is nothing like south south minorities once Nigeria break everybody will go their separate ways.

Case closed.

I tell you. Fvck Niger Delta Nonsense.

Smoke55:
i said especially akwa iboms,go through my post i have never been in support of biafra that comprises the sstherners....so i dont really give a Bleep if you guys join or not...just stating the obvious.

Who are the other south south minorities? mention their ethnic group or don't disturb my mention again.

some of us like to be on our own, you know. We don't want to form country with I TOO KNOW PEOPLE.

You dig?

Smoke55:
Amara Can You Please Go To MAZI NNAMDI KANU facebook page and tell them all these?the debate is still on there,there your opinion will count...so yesterday i visited kanus page on facebook,fortunately for me this same topic was been discussed,so do to what i read on nairaland i opposed the idea of ss joining biafra but in my greatest suprice i received so many backlash from sstherners especially from akwa ibom people there,they even insulted me for saying that they are not biafrans,since then i have and will never take anybody claiming niger delta that oppose biafra serious here on nairaland.

So Akwa ibom speak for all south south people? Mr man don't be silly.

Graysons:
They are hard working while others are lazy the Foolishness of these bia bia people is Amazing.

I guess Evans the kidnapper is also hard working.

Nwanyiogwashi:
I will keep sing it like a song,any Biafra with urhobo people and ijaw is no no for Anioma people,if you're from Delta state you will understand .we rather join Yoruba people where their hatred and competition we always drive everybody to work hard than form a country with people that will wake every morning expecting free money without working for it.

The Yorubas are no longer skull miners dirty Afonjas again? but come to think of it, why will any one want to breath the same air with the cunning Jews from Alabama?