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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 2:47pm On Jan 06, 2022
Smartb0y:
Let's close the topic with you can't really vet a woman, she'll cheat on your ass if she so wishes.

So I understand why ubunja made that statement earlier,like why give yourself headache over something you can't control.


There's no such thing thing as vetting l,it's just you getting lucky

Remember guys,she might be a reverend sister today and a who.re tommorow,their emotions are always in constant change.

You saying you can vet a woman can be equated to saying Nawalt when deep down we all know woman nature can turn the tide at any moment.

The belief of this vetting process is as a result of "I must get married no matter what"grin.....such thinking creates that vetting process that'd seem rather uncompromising and not bluepilled but in truth we are just deceiving ourselves undecided

So simply pick your poison and move on, there's enough delusion to go around already.
Stop adding more to the pile.

There's no such thing as vetting
Nice input bro.
VIRGINITY remains the only valid way to vet a woman.
If your fiancee is not a virgin, you either marry her (if she meets your other requirements) or you keep searching, no need going through the stess of bugging her phone and stuff like that... She's a h0e.
If she's a virgin and you marry her, maintain frame and don't be surprised if she cheats on you in the future... Luckily in Nigeria men can still terminate marriages without ruining their lives.
ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT.
Romance › Re: Please Help Me Look At This Situation.did I Mess Things Up by sajmark(m): 12:11pm On Jan 06, 2022
Softboy001:
I worked a costumer service call agent. And there is this lady that I really admire. I mean i like her so much and I don't really know how to express my self to her and let her know how I feel about her. I just started working there some months ago


The girl is really very beautiful. I don't even know the word to describe her. I really like her. But the issues was how to communicate this to her because all we say is hi or Good morning. So 3 days I summoned courage and I ask her for her number.

She was first resisting to give me but later did and then I texted her that evening on WhatsApp and told her how I felt about her.
On text and voice note

She didn't reply at first but later replied and said "thank you we can only be friends or colleagues."

That's not the issues now...
The issues now is that since that chat on WhatsApp. She has been avoiding my
As in seriously avoiding me...


What do you guys think might be the issue
Did I do wrong by expressing my feelings to her
Or was I too fast or what....
Normally I won't care but I do because
I really love this girl
Your approach was creapy, and you showed her that you lacked confidence And Cojones.
Work on your game.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:51am On Jan 06, 2022
Battalion1:
thanks..... grin carry ur bluepill dey go somewhere abeg ....u dey ,u dey,u dey buy phone 4 girl....lol...mumu
Go back and Read the post again, slowly this time.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m):
Battalion1:
wetn be this way u type,?? ....u be _______ oooo
Shallow minded, wannabe redpiller.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 1:51am On Jan 06, 2022
heartofcity12:
The Redpill literally saves lives. He would have known better if he was redpilled. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. She wanted a breakup but he couldn’t handle it, she was probably cheating too. He allowed female nature to cut his life short, the betasimp must have invested a lot in her. Stay redpilled, expect anything from females.
Why on earth would this SIMPle man expect anything good to come from dating a single mother of three?
As a Man, learn to
1. Keep your heart out of your dealings with women.
2. Live in the moment and Enjoy it while it lasts... That's how women play the game.
3. Always expect the worst.
4. Avoid investing in women so that walking away is easy.

You must spend money when associating with women, but investing in them is a foolish choice that men make mostly because they can't differentiate between the former and the latter.

*NORMAL SPENDING
Take her out to the cinema, eatery, restaurants, clubs and bars etc.

*INVESTMENT
buy her a phone, clothes, shoes, bags, start a business for her, sponsor her education etc.

*Quick Tip: Date/associate with women in a way that when you break up, she wouldn't have anything to show for it except memories.

*BOTTOM LINE
Walking away and moving on is way more easier with the former than the latter.

#Maintain Frame
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:06pm On Jan 05, 2022
Update your tracklist...
J.i ft lil tjay _ hood scars 2

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 4:28pm On Jan 05, 2022
Zabiboy:
Bro.. I have a problem with 2 of the pictures you posted..i'll repost them for easy reference
@pic 1
"If you have nothing built, she'll move to the next" angry honestly, no one gives a fvck where they go and what they do BUT only a fool would build his "kingdom" alone and then entertain leeches.
@pic 2, (my main concern here is not the sex part, just adding it to buttress a point)
Is watching another man fvck the so called "woman you want" awkward? Yes. (Who tf watches another man having sex)
But does this signify No ambition or low confidence ( assuming he just knows but doesn't watch) I personally dont think so. Unless he has been investing alot prior.

Ambitions, confidence, success are all Relative.
Bro the only thing wrong here is that you are taking the pictures too literal, relax... Those pictures are just to motivate us.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 10:02am On Jan 05, 2022
Palazee:
Indeed

Which club you de support boss
I was a Barcelona fan until Messi left, now I just enjoy the sport with no feelings attached... I guess I'm unplugged from that matrix as well. cheesy
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:36am On Jan 05, 2022
Palazee:
Zlatan The LION grin grin

Thats also the reason i like 2pac

2pac always speaks his mind and don't give a fūck about the consequences grin
Another hardcore soccer fan spotted, lol.
Zlatan Ibrahimovic isn't cowering or backing out of the fight even though the odds are against him.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:10am On Jan 05, 2022
I don't know who else follows the battle between Zlatan Ibrahimovic and Brazilian players after he made comments on their 7-1 loss to Germany... The kind of masculinity, courage, confidence and balls that Zlatan Ibrahimovic exudes is a thing to imitate by all men.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:24am On Jan 05, 2022
Random tips for kings 2

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:23am On Jan 05, 2022
Random trips for kings 1

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:28am On Jan 04, 2022
Heryormilekan:
Girls know what they want! Don't be a simp
WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, BUT THEY KNOW WHAT THEY DON'T WANT.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 1:44pm On Jan 03, 2022
SOZINN:
100%
I agree with the bolded. I heard about a similar case but the boyfriend just walked away and ended the relationship after that. And the girl tried to put the blame on the guy for not fighting for her. Does that even make sense? Was she trying to test his loyalty or what? What could a woman possibly gain from getting two men to fight each other for her sake, if not an ego boost.

Can you imagine that? Placing her boyfriend in harms way just to massage her ego. If we had fought each other I'm sure she would have walked out of that place feeling like a queen. The whole set up was intentional.

Oh and about having what it takes to put that guy to sleep. He was trying to act like a thug but I smiled because I know it was not in him.
I bet he has never had metal pointed to his head before.

But that part of me had been dead for a while now and I'm not about to wake him up for the sake of one stupid biťch
.
Comrade, You are a good man.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 9:33am On Jan 03, 2022
SOZINN:
@Osas187
So the said idiot has a boyfriend. grin grin Oh dear, better thank your stars you didn't touch her. If he was one of those simps we often read about. You could have been typing this from the comfort of your hospital bed. grin
I've been there. In November some guy appeared out of nowhere and tried to start a fight with me because I was holding hands and flirting with his girl.

Girl wey I Don use mouth finish work, she don use eye fûck me. The vibe was there and I was ready to take it to the next level. I didn't even know she was just waiting for her boyfriend. I think this is a serious issue and we need to discuss it, because I don't know how to avoid them. Daughters of Jezebel everywhere trying to cause trouble between you and a fellow comrade. angry

Why send such signals when she knows her boyfriend could appear any minute. The matter just tire me. undecided
These girls don't take their guys serious at all.
As long as a woman isn't married, she is always accepting applications.
Many married women do it nowadays even.
This is one of the scenarios where lifting weights and staying fit comes in handy, because no matter how rich her boyfriend is... he automatically becomes a lil b!tch in front of a shredded man.
Whenever this happens, the girl involved is subconsciously looking to see who is more alpha.
The best way to handle this scenario is to be fit and dominant enough to break the boyfriend's bones but calm and relaxed enough to let him go because you have enough women and can't fight because of one.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:43am On Jan 03, 2022
If you ever feel the urge to simp, remember that this is how she will see you as she does her other orbiters.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:38am On Jan 03, 2022
Random tips for kings 5

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:37am On Jan 03, 2022
Random tips for kings 4

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:31am On Jan 03, 2022
Random tips for kings 3

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:26am On Jan 03, 2022
Random tips for kings 2

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:24am On Jan 03, 2022
Random tips for kings 1

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
I celebrate all the comrades in the house, God bless us all... And may 2022 be better than 2021 to us all.
We bout to be the coldest men in Africa.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:25pm On Dec 29, 2021
This is why we need to keep preaching against oneities...

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 12:26pm On Dec 29, 2021
LutanFyah:
Can you get the management of that school to change that? Please.
Nah, what I can do is to get an artist/painter to correct it from my pocket...
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 1:46pm On Dec 28, 2021
miracood:
Nigeria grin
More like SOCIETY.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 1:46pm On Dec 28, 2021
CAPSLOCKED:
THIS ALSO CONTRIBUTES TO THE BOYS GROWING UP TO SEE WOMEN'S BODIES AS SACRED, WHILE MEN'S ARE TRASH. YOU CAN SEE IT FROM THE NEGATIVE REMARKS AND BACKLASH TARGETED AT ME A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO WHEN I RAISED THE ISSUE OF WOMEN SEXUALLY HARASSING MEN.

I AND MY BUDDY WERE TALKING YESTERDAY AND THOUGH I WASN'T PAYING ATTENTION I PICKED THE PART WHERE HE MENTIONED THAT A COLLEAGUE GRABBED HIS BALLS AND......
I ASKED HIM TO REPEAT THAT LINE, AND HE MADE IT CLEAR TO ME THAT IT'S LIKE A USUAL THING AT THEIR OFFICE, FROM JANITOR TO MANAGER, THEY ALL GET GRABBED AND RUBBED BY THE FEMALES AND HE SEES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT EVEN THOUGH HE DOESN'T ENJOY IT. HE GETS MOLESTED LIKE THAT EVERYDAY AND HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO ASK THEM TO STOP. HUGE, MUSCULAR AND ATTRACTIVE NO-NONSENSE GUY, BUT HE GETS DOG-WALKED BY DIRTY GIRLS AT HIS WORKPLACE. WORST PART IS THE LAST GIRL SAID HIS BALLS WERE SMALL cheesy
I'M LAUGHING HARD RIGHT NOW BUT YESTERDAY HAD ME LIKE I WAS AT MY FRIEND'S FUNERAL. IT WAS SORROWFUL. MY FRIEND IS ALIVE BUT HE'S DEAD TO ME.
Exactly, I didn't want to mention that your ordeal but that and even worse will be the future result of things like the post I made earlier.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 12:18pm On Dec 28, 2021
This is a public school's toilet in my area, the thing is:
Nobody (even the artist/painter) sees anything wrong in painting a boy pants down while maintaining the girls decency.
This might seem irrelevant or small but trust me it imprints a lot of negativity in the psyche of this young boys about the value of their body.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 12:06pm On Dec 28, 2021
Maxxim:
Y'all guys using seductive ladies as your wallpaper, kept me wondering if you're real gees, more like dying and craving for this stuffs at the same time coming here online to bash them, two faced niggas everywhere undecided
They all Thirsty Niggrs cheesy

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 10:47am On Dec 28, 2021
DeusMagnus:
heart break didn't lead me to the redpill. I just knew something was wrong with me. I knew there was more. I knew there should be a way men of strength should live. I have been searching for knowledge. When I found the pill, I knew I had found the treasure I've been searching for. My quest for knowledge led me here.
Well in my case, CURIOSITY led me to the redpill.
I fell in love with a girl and I was willing to give her heaven on earth... I was a nice guy, a beta, a SIMP waiting to be unleashed.
One day I was researching and reading about "HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU", a lot of articles on this topic are for nice guys, then luckily I ran into a Redpill article about GAME and everything I was reading seemed awkward, mean, harsh and extreme to my bluepill reasoning.
I was curious and then I dug deeper and deeper, until I read the RATIONALE MALE and that was it.
Shout out to everyone that has contributed positively to this thread.
I'm thinking of ways to take us to the next level maybe by next year.
We do/can generate a lot of traffic that can be monetised and the money shared among us... Just thinking out loud.
Happy New year in advance, Gents.

TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by sajmark(m):
Don't look up 2021... 8/10
This movie might have just predicted the future of our planet, same way CONTAGION predicted the corona virus.
I love how it accurately portrayed how clueless a female leader can be in trying times.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:15am On Dec 27, 2021
luminouz:
Nawa o. You have a point but it breaks my heart a soldier had to go out that way

If she likes, let her use Mhiz Luminouz.... Na gaari she go soak las las. No shishi for any woman cheesy
I trust you for that aspect boss.
Even if she go do change of name legally, I no go still trust her... I go still spin plates.
CaveAdullams post above sheds light on the same topic.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 7:01am On Dec 27, 2021
luminouz:
When? shocked shocked shocked
Damn. I wish I could have met/advised him before the deed
You might have advised him for hours, only for him to still take his life.
The way these girls manipulate simps now is alarming.
They know how deep and hard a man can fall in love, so what these girls do is to keep this simps falling into a buttomless pit.
The girl below changed her Facebook name to mhiz ajebo (Ajebo is her boyfriend, probably a scammer), and since then this guy has been investing so hard in this babe forgetting that she can easily change her name when things go south.
She gave him an illusion of the kind of love he wanted, and he fell for it... Just imagine how hard it would be for the guy below to recover when she breaks his heart (which is inevitable).


#Don't be a SIMP
#Say No To ONEITIES

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