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heartofcity12:
@ sajmark @ Someoneschild2
You’re both right about Thomas Shelby

His body language and composure is out of this world... Definition of Alpha.

Someoneschild2:
Well since you only stated "studying and imitating" I only understood as much as the text itself but now you clarified, we are all good.

Yes! Those (@bolded) are worthy of emulation.

Cheers

It's all good man, we are all here to learn so it's okay to call out a supposedly misleading comment.

Someoneschild2:
While this may sound like good advice, I'd also add that you understand the troubles he had to face living like that and ask yourself "am I strong enough to live like this? Looking over my shoulder everyday knowing my family is not guaranteed safety? "

Everything in life obeys the universal laws and one of such laws is " the law of cause and effect"

If one chooses the path of machiavellianism, one must accept the rewards and consequences that come with it.

Thomas Shelby stepped on too many a toe and the consequences he bore heavily (as he should).

I'd rather advise one take a cue on how he kept his own family in check most especially the women.

Also to learn from his flaws (example: "wifing" a hoe)

To learn to deal with people, I'd equally advise we see what Robert Greene had to say in "law of human nature" and some other good books that explain the human psyche.

Always have leverage
Cheers to better men

I said study the character (body language, composure, confidence) and not his decisions or involvement in crime... Relax.

Kings, in your leisure time watch PEAKY BLINDERS not necessarily for the show itself but for the sole purpose of studying and imitating the THOMAS SHELBY character.

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Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

You and your girlfriend and the doctor are all Murderers, what if y'all parents did the same to you?
Prevention is better than cure.

Joshkid:
what device are you using?

I clearly wrote PS3 in the comment na...

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Finished GTA 5... PS3

Congratulations

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TLona1:
I still don’t get this.

How about the random beautiful women we see everyday and are attracted to? How do we let them do the chasing when we’re just strangers to them?

Learn Game, workout/ lift weights, always be on self improvement...
The better and more attractive you become the more women will be attracted to you, they might not approach you directly but they will give you a lot of green lights to approach them and they will make it very easy for you.
If you learn and become good at game, you can approach a total stranger and ignite attraction easily, then you apply the push and pull techniques or other gaming tricks that will make her invest in you and do the chasing... And before you know it she has fallen.

NAS

Ghostbusters have hit rock bottom, it can't be any more worse than this.

adambeatz:
Why go out of your way to monitor a woman at the expense of your goals.

As a man if you are with a woman, you ought to know subconsciously she's for the streets and as so you should just play along and when its time to let go, don't argue with yourself just do the needful.

Its only when you've had enough and you wish to cut off without their usual yapping about how she gave you her all ( their usual sermons to guilt trip you), then you can go all CIA mood to cut her off. Anything more than this is simping of the highest order and any man who does this should be remanded in a mental institution.

Like a nairalander has mentioned, women are quick to adapt and any method used to cut her off only teaches her how to prevent her been caught the same way next time ( women are the real AI ).

If you must be with a woman endeavour to keep her on her toes 24/7, this is where alot of men get it wrong even the alpa male. Cause you got her easily you then relax and become soft minded (lol) bro the same way men hustle till their last breath is the same way a man should be ready to remain in power till his kingdom ends on earth.

FINALLY, this Comrade just ended the argument... Almost perfectly said.
I won't be surprised if someone still disagrees and try to push his own agenda though.

SOZINN:
You guys just like to take things over the top.
How did we encourage oneities. Didn't you read where we said kick her out if you find anything. The you go ahead to shoot yourself in the leg by saying vetting is very important. Simple idea una carry ego full everywhere.

There's a difference between Vetting and being a beta creep.
Vetting is very important, but overdoing it becomes something else.
Quick question: As a redpiller, Is it okay if I quit my job/ abandon my business to become my wife's bodyguard? I don't want her to cheat on me.

The bolded question is an example that overdoing this vetting stuff can become something else.

UncleJudax:
Apparently, the latest retard is J $tash

An upcoming rapper who has hustled his @ss off and the dollar bills are coming in just wasted himself and an innocent woman just because it was his turn with her he thought he owned her, thank God he didn't kill her kids too... A retard indeed.

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Where did we get it wrong, 1000+ pages and redpillers are openly encouraging oneities in the name of vetting?
Vetting is very very important but using CCTV to supervise a woman is kind of overdoing it.
Maybe very soon we'll start discussing about how to quit our jobs and be staying with our women at home, asking her to put her phone on loud speaker when she receives a call, following her to the market, saloon etc.

Stay on your grind, maintain frame, Workout and stay in shape after marriage and your wife will be the one bugging your phones... She's not the price, you are.

Junnior:
Sadly, I doubt guys will heed to this. I mean, if even someone like ubúnja cannot keep insults out of his arguments, I doubt most guys here will be able to.

It's a cold world we living in, I support calling ourselves out (without insults though).
If we get used to typing "K" in here of all places, then we are just training ourselves to be doormats in the real world.

Remmedy:
Please I have a Muslim girlfriend…. Do I have any reason to be scared ?

YES SIR

Martinez39s:
If somebody says or type "k", it means they don't want to engage further for whatever reason, good or not. The fact that you both disagree and he chooses to disengage doesn't warrant you calling him a wimp. That's going too far. He is not a wimp or an emasculated man for choosing to not engage further.

On this thread, let's solely focus on people's ideas, actions and opinions without unnecessarily calling them names or unnecessarily implying things about their disposition. We are here to learn one thing (the red pill), but we are different individuals with different experiences and background; as such, divergent views are bound to clash and it is no big deal. Simply discuss to come to a better conclusion or agree to disagree.

K...
Respect bro.

luminouz:
It's ok boss. We are all on the same page here.

I have been reading check her phone or not arguments here.

I will check hers, when I'm suspecting stuffs and cut her off with evidence. That's different from stalking, which is creepy.

This is my own personal opinion. I must vet.

Lol, vetting is a must... I just think the whole CIA stuff is overdoing it.
It's all good sha, ahead ahead.

Joker09:
K

Bowing out like a little wimp, men have really been emasculated

Joker09:
Some ppl are funny here. Someone said a girl being virgin is enough to vet her, my brother you have been played. How do you know a woman is a virgin? Coz she told you? . Even if she is, and so what?
Even if she says she's a virgin or you sleep with her to know or you take her for a test and it confirms she's a virgin, never you still trust her, still continue the vetting process. Virgins cheat too, some of them give the best head and anal. Never stop vetting any woman you consider for a serious thing, you commit to them or not. My 2 cents.

PS Don't get me twisted, I'd rather choose a virgin over non virgin myself but I'll continue to vet her like any woman, no pedestal.

"If you pray for rain, you've got to be prepared to deal with the mud too"
If you want to marry just know that you are marrying a farm tool, that's why many redpillers don't want to get married.
If all women are like that then why stressing yourself to bug her phone in the name of vetting? Asking around and making friends with people who know her is enough vetting, no need to become a CIA agent because of women...
If you read my comment well, you will see that I said "don't be surprised if the said Virgin cheats"...
The way you carry this vetting for head Hope you don't end up like the guy below.

Meedon:
You are not lying ooo some men are really passing through emotional pain because of football. Imagine someone said that he cannot eat or do his work properly because they win Arsenal FC. Some people even commit suicide self.

I just enjoy the game, I no longer support any club.
I remember when Barcelona lost 8-2 to Bayern, my own guys almost laughed me into depression. I don't know if the below story is legit but worse have happened.

CAPSLOCKED:
I'VE SEEN MORE MEN BROKESHAME THEIR FELLOW MEN PUBLICLY THAN I SEE WOMEN DO THAT. IT'S MEN THAT ALWAYS TRY TO BRING THEIR FELLOW MEN DOWN TO SCORE CHEAP POINTS. A FOOL TRYING TO WOO YOUR GIRL WILL ALWAYS REFER TO HOW HE HAS MORE MONEY AND HOW HE CAN PROVIDE FOR HER BETTER THAN YOU DO (EVEN WHEN HIMSELF IS STARK BROKE).
IF A GIRL TELLS THEM "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" THEY MOSTLY RESORT TO "DOES HE HAVE MONEY THAN I DO?"

JUST AS WOMEN ARE THE LEADING BODYSHAMERS, MEN ARE THE LEADING BROKESHAMERS. BUT I'VE NOTICED WOMEN POINT FINGERS AT MEN TO BE BODYSHAMERS AND MEN DO SAME TO CALL WOMEN BROKESHAMERS, AND IT'S OBVIOUS BOTH PARTIES WILL RATHER PLAY THE BLAME GAME INSTEAD OF ACCEPT THE OBVIOUS TRUTH FOR WHAT IT IS.

MEN'S ZERO GAME TELLS THEM THE ONLY WAY TO ATTRACT WOMEN IS TO HAVE MONEY OR PRETEND TO HAVE MONEY WHILE PULLING DOWN OTHER MEN'S REPUTATION.
90% OF THE MEN AGAINST THE REDPILL ON NAIRALAND USUALLY EMPLOY THE BROKESHAMING TACTICS.

SO ON THE ISSUE OF BROKESHAMING, LEAVE WOMEN OUT OF IT BECAUSE MEN ARE THE MAJOR ENABLERS.

Word bro, word.

DieRich5:
I'm still a man utd fan but brother the day Liverpool give us something ehh I nor fit eat food e com be like na Cr7 die dat day now I'm out of the sports matrix jor mk all the big teams Dy fool dere self I don't care since I'm not betting again

When Liverpool kicked FCB out of the champions league after FCB winning the first leg was the day I unplugged, this might be funny or look like derailing but many men literally suffer emotionally from supporting these clubs with passion.