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I don't see any reason why opposing/annoying words or tantrums on a faceless forum would shred my skin or emotion apart, we should learn to adapt in this funny world because its not everyone who will compliment u even in reality. Always take all yabings u get in good faith because u're far more better than most of the yabbers.

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A clear conscience fears no accusation.
AMEN

onila: don't judge a book by its cover

I am tired of guys treating me like a who.re because of the way I dress

you guys looks dumb when u think a girl is a slu.t because of the way she dresses

some Nigerian dumbas.s held me by the waist yesterday because I wore mini skirt asking me crap like do u want it?

I just pushed him away-He felt embarrassed tho but he deserves it

guys think with yr brain and NOT your D..ICK!

remember that how u dress is how u're addressed

The heart of man is desperately wicked. What a show of shame by heartless fellows

k2039: [color=#FF0099] I don't know if it is right or wrong;there are lot of controversy surrounding it.I will advise to be on the safer side,dont wear trousers(my reason if you get to heaven if God says it's not a requirement you don't have anything to loose,but if it is the other way round you have all to loose

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i love this bro. But the truth lies in Deut. 22:5, so my advice is that it is wrong, if not satisfied ask God to speak to u concerning this.

All humans are not the same in thinking, so not everyone will be quick to detect that, most people that cheat on their spouses, their spouses do not know about until when they catch the person red handed. The guy is working and probably was in morning shift that week for him to be at home in the day time.

All humans are not the same in thinking, so not everyone will be quick to detect that. The guy is working and probably was in morning shift that week for him to be at home in the day time.

CrazyMan: Its no news.

Nigerian girls are the strangest creatures on earth...if your story is true, then tell your friend to accept his faith and move on.

I know such an incident can drive a man crazy or make him miserable. Considering the magnitude of investment he put into that relationship.

He should know that life is one bumpy road, and in order to survive, you must expect the worst.

Tell him to take heart...its well.

my guy this a true life story, it happened last month, i still blame the guy for staying with someone he is not married to in the same house, though he was having marriage plans. Anyway like u all said, "life goes on", but he learnt his lesson in a bitter and hard way.

I don't fancy the idea of a girl smoking or drinking talk less of a guy and i'll also tag it irresponsible because u're not showing a lifestyle worthy of emulation to those looking up to you and the person's health is at risk here also.

cindyrella: What she did was wrong,
but the guy should move on with his life.... Shiit happens!

i know shiit happens, but do you think this guy would ever trust any girl again in his entire life?

This happened to my friend's friend. The girl he was dating and also put up in the same house with himself got married to another without his knowledge. It happened that she was getting married on a saturday and was still living with her boyfriend without letting him know, she went out on thursday (i.e 2 days to her wedding) and when she came back in the day, she started parking her things and her boyfriend tried to find out the reason behind her action only to be hit by a bombshell (her getting married to another man on saturday) the guy was shocked beyond words and couldn't do nothing. So my question is if u were the guy what would u do and was the girl's action right or was it an act of wickedness?

Na 52nd independence package, nothing much

amyg: U mean ladies r always touching u and u enjoy it?

i mean most ladies talk with their hands and u have to cope with that but when it gets out of hand you better shift ur position or else

ogbronx: only a few peeps here replied with the right answer. lust is to men as money is women(girls). for me,its the same crime. marry a beautiful woman only cos she satisfies your sexual desires is wrong.this however isnt as bad as marrying someone only because he has got money. Its what this wayward generation has been sold into. As stupid as this sounds,television(bad movies and music) does affect pple wrongly. To men,the ideal woman is one wit figures and very sexy(most sexy ladies are senseless,materialistic and selfish).Women however,think only of successful men not minding how the money came. Abeg! the story plenty and plenty of u wont understand, some who understand might not agree but divorce is a bad thing. it has bad effects on the kids affected.

very true

Adabar: Suffice to say that part of the marriage failures nowadays is that both men and women have lost their traditional place or position in the institution: women,now assume the head of the family partly because of the economic situation that places bread winning privileges on the women folk and partly cux of the craze for gender equality in our generation. With due respect, women and men are not equal; the good books recognised the inequality in their injunctions and attempts to usurp such position especially in close knitted relationships will only cause chaos. It's against natural tendencies for men to be fed before women in times of famine or men are allowed to sit back while women go to the battle ground during wars.
The truth is our marriages will be a lot healthier if husbands love their wives and the wives respect their husbands though there is no much of one without the other. Our women are very intelligent and industrious and husbands shouldn't be threatened by that but support them all the way and wives should Be humble enough to make their MISSION sub of their husbands: that's submission. Having an understanding that men are the HEADS and women, the neck underscores our interdependence.

i agree with u

bejay766: Most Marriages fail because of immaturity, selfishness and greediness.Most couples fail to seek the face of God. Some even depend on their wealth, educational qualifications and beauty,(on the side of the Women).
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i so much agree with u on the case of immaturity, selfishness and greediness. I'll also add over-pampering to the list and most just venture into it for the fun of it without realising the true meaning of for better for worse, though this days alot of the vows have been amended which gives the immatured coupled the right to back out of marriage eg for better for best, in health and in prosperity and they forgot to change till death do us part. Alot don't seek the face of God like u said and right counseling before venturing into marriage that is why there is a high rate of failed marriages because they were not educated on what marriage is all about.

Yeah it does happen most ladies talk with their hands. Has happened to me

swtchicgurl: grey: i don't have an 'ex' and don't give a hoot!

i'll go with u. same with me here, got none

They want to join the married league and be addressed as mrs. Just because their childhood friends are married or school mate, most end up marrying the wrong person and before u realize whats going on u start hearing, i didn't know he was like this before i married him and that is why divorce is on a high rate

Aza Montana: sugar girl dont you dare make the mistake of thinking sex will love you better or that it will show that you love him. Hell to the no. Do not let anyone blackmail you into this. Sex is sex period. He can still leave you after sleeping with you hey, then you will be left feeling all dirty and guilty. You can nver show anyone that you love them by using sex realy. let him love you for you. If you do not want to do it its your choice and you can not be forced to so it and sugar if you decide to do it, do it for yourself not for anyone else. Just like money can never buy you love, the same with sex. Otherwise we would not have breakus, separations and divorce on earth. you show someone you love them by paying positive attention on them not nonsence

nice one

I always tell people that sex is not a bedrock for any relationship and i don't advice pre-marital sex, sex is meant for married couples and not for bf & gf. So does who partook of it before marriage sinned and know the consequences

Everyone with their own choice

Skirt and blouse and gown

debrief08: First they are responsible for rap3 now they are responsible for broken marriages. God forbid that a man would actually ne held responisble for his own actions.

open ur eyes and face reality

coogar: and you were told bôôbs were the motivating factor for king solomon to marry 600 wives?

citing an example, never said it was about the boobs

coogar: i grudgingly agree - the environment also plays a role here! a dude who has been used to going to em beaches and seeing jugs all the time would have been used to such stuff than a complete villager who is seeing such for the first time!

king solomon how many did he see was he still satisfied or was he a villager?