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GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Boss, I feel your pain. Not every girl is worth investing but you actually got earning warning signs but didn't act on it cos of emotion. It was better you found out before getting married to her. You had over 1000 reasons why wait for another till she kill you?
My ex cheated countlessly on me I made my mind and dump her sorry ass after a two year rship.
Today I am married to a good lady God has blessed me with. October will make it two years BTW I am 31.
Pick your life and move on. She doesnt deserves you.

Beverly1:
Hi fellow Nlanders

I was born into Catholic faith and practice till I was 12 and I enjoyed it. My parent became deeper life member while we were living apart and now a pastor in that church. I re-united with them when I was 12 and since then I've been attending the church with them and still attend Catholic occasionally....I love the preaching from the founder of deeper life as he preaches the bitter truth but I believe most other young pastor see d church "doctrine" as commandment and so must be kept 100%.....the founder of the church addressed this issue several times but NO.

18 years on since we re-united, I'm a graduate, married and living abroad but my father still forcing his believe and doctrine on me. I considered myself spiritual but not so religious. I connect with my God easily but not a 3G church guy.

He made me and my siblings antisocial and introverted simply because he believed we shouldn't be involved in any social activities even sports. I still remember being beaten for playing soccer, he believes we would be influenced badly. Watching TV was a crime especially movies.

Fast forward to yesterday he rang my wife to check on us but the first question he asked was if we attend to church. I told him it's been raining and temperature was really low....then he started lamenting asking if I won't go to work if it wasn't Sunday,complaining about the country where I can't worship God...then to get me more exasperated he asked and insisted I tell him how many time I've been to church lately and how many times I've read d bible....I told him we've been attending but he insisted on a number.

This got me so mad that I stood up for myself under a heavy breathe as I do not want to disrespect him or hangup on him.I told him I do not appreciate being asked questions like a 10 yrs old boy and at my age I should know how to live my life and what's best for me.....he got angry and said goodbye and I guess he was still on d phone but I didn't know...I just hang up.....Now I've block him from reaching me ... planning to change my numbers.....but not any financial support. Only cutting all communication with him but not with my siblings as they mean more to me and I wanna see them through as much as God help me...

Please is this not an over reaction because I loved him as he's a very responsible man who puts the family first and strived to make us who we are. But we do not av a close relationship because of his believe even though he's been forcing it.

I lost my dad six days ago, if I could keep him for a little while mehn I would appreciate it but then I advise you bear with him. Continue to make him see reasons with you without hurting any body's feelings.

I pity her husband sha

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expert in the house help,
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richidinho:
Good

Since that road is an inter state road, why can't federal govt use part of the Diezani loot recovered to upgrade the road to at least double lane with street lights

Even if they can just deliver only this one road before 2019

FG no send anybody o. Them only send their pockets besides their kids don't ply that route daily.

Klamour:
I was robbed on Saturday, 2nd September, 2017 at Jabi, Abuja and my car was snatched at gun point by daredevil robbers - three armed men.

The details of the vehicle are:

Reg. No: YAB 161 FM

Chassis No. 1NXBR32E86Z652760[/size]

Engine No: 6375092[size=8pt]

Any useful information about the car, kindly contact 08063978826, 08056851188, 08030719888, 08037688242, 08032003913 or the nearest police station.

Lalasticlala, Mind44, super mods kindly push to FP and help a brother broadcast.

Do you have tracker device installed in your car? That would be easy to track your car

I do not want your renewed hope. Just make cost of living less expensive to what it is now. Ensure better living conditions, better business opportunities etc.
After 2019, go to the other room and enjoy with Mrs Aisha Buhari. Just leave us for a younger generational visioned leader.

Opistorincos:
Even in football R1 is the surest

I see a PS player and FIFA U20 lover

Habisoye:
2nd Degree,ACCA/ACA OR 6-years Work Experience which one is Key?
I just lost a job offer of 650k because of Professional Certification.

This recent one happened to be a Finance Manager and which i got to the last stage as a result of proven extensive work experience in Accounting and Financial Operations and with my MBA. But i was surprised when the CFO that interviewed me said he would've chosen me but it's quite unfortunate that i have no Professional Certification(ACA or ACCA) not considering the fact that I'm at the final stage already and i have HND & MBA with 6yrs exp.
It really pained me but i just I've to let it go.
But one thing i'm sure of is that there's nothing a Chattered Accountant can do that i can not, but there's a lot that i can do with my experience that a chattered accountant cannot do. so why the discrimination?.

My questions goes thus; 1. Why do company always want a Chattered Accountant by all means to fill the position in Account and Finance.
2. Is 6-years Extensive Work Experience in Account not enough for a person to hold a position of a Finance Manager?
3. Does MBA not ok enough to hold that position?

Never give up, every encounter are meant to position us for future prospectives. Get your professional qualification and apply where necessary and good luck too!.
NB: All the itemised questions you listed did you by any chance ask your interviewer?

adisabarber:
He declared Friday and Monday as public holidays and then left for his village on Wednesday.

Let them deduct two days payment off his salary.

Nigerians demand better power plans.

Omo the engine neat as well as the body. God give m this cash to pick this ride.