It's very sad

rdsco:
“He told me that he would give me 20million dollars , buy a house for me in America and connect me to his rich friend in America where I would be driving big cars. I was excited.


All these for one kidney and you didn't notice a red flag?

You have said it all. One kidney for $20 million? Haba...!

wany:

Is easier said than done

Atleast he should move on and die on a matter that is not worth it.

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

She won't change. She is a serial cheater. She will keep giving you a heartache. You go dey lean dey go, sleep you no go fit sleep, your mind go dey play you hat-trick....except you wan die before your time, then you can keep dating her.
She is not worth your time, except you do not know your worth and value...

FairlyUSEDpussy:


This life no balance true true......... Graduated in 2018 and served year 2019............

since then no stable job even tho have applied a billion time.........

will be 33 yrs and no plan off getting married self..............

Here's another young man with a good job, car s, and comfortable house and already planning to settle down.........at age 33

A lot of 33 years have gone to the grave despite having a good occupation, good health, etc.
Please stay alive, things will eventually turn for good.

Jakumo:
I really like the body type of this girl but my taste leans towards women with bigger busts than this one. My only other criticism is those massive fake eyelashes this lady is wearing, but that said I do understand that fake eyelashes and excessive makeup are regarded as compulsory accessories for all social gatherings in Nigeria. Not my cup of tea though. Fake eyelashes are hideous in my book, regardless of the context in which they are worn.

On the positive side, this lady's thighs and tight ass are super sexy to me and extremely grope-worthy. Looking at silky, smooth, and toned thighs like that inspires me to meditatively ponder over the sublime pleasures of eating wet pussy with those thighs wrapped around my head.

Herpes is lurking around.

DolbyDigital:
Most companies think it is OK to pay so little to people who are passionate about their work. Spending over 8 years in the last company I worked with is the biggest mistake of my life. I didn't really care much about the salary when I made my career debut. I was young, 21, and fresh out of school when I got the job and I was just excited about practising what I learnt in school. As I grow older with more ends to meet, the realities of life started setting in. For the first time in four years, I realised that I was underpaid and the excitement started to wear out.

Within that period of 4 years, the company witnessed massive growth, that we have to get bigger office spaces and recruit more hands. I keep negotiating for 80% salary increase which is already ridiculously low and the company keep stalling them. Although I didn't push for it aggressively because I do not like to appear entitled and I do not like to think my fate depends on something or someone other than me. It is easier for me to be that conservative because I have some side jobs I do that pay little, but it feels like a dagger in one's heart to know one is being cheated on and I know I am going to have to leave someday. It seems to me that the only people that matters in the eye of the management are the subcontractors, consultants, and the expatriates.

As a senior member and team leader, I always tell my colleagues to give their all regardless of the poor pay, but seems that giving your all while suffering is harder that the thought I put to it when I preach to my colleagues to do their best. Subconsciously, my productivity started dwindly. My life feel paused, and slow and somehow I feel empty. I feel like something is wrong with my life but I couldn't figure out what I am doing wrong. I started waking up late, talking back at my boss, engage in unprofessional interactions, and not caring about what is going on in the office anymore. That is unlike me, I am aware of that but somehow I couldn't get myself to change. I know it is a matter of time for me to leave that company and their is so little sand in my glas. Before the excitement died completely, I know I have to leave.

I started sending out my CV and surprisingly, I got another job faster than I thought. And what is actually more surprising is the fact that I got 200% increase in my salary for doing the same thing (a tiny little bit more) when I have been spending 4 years negotiating for 80% and the best they came up with is 30% (which is even the highest in my division that year).

I loved my new job but after spending two years, I thought there is nothing wrong in applying for more challenging jobs. I started sending out my CV again and I had just accepted an offer with the pay about 420% increase from my first salary.

Congratulations mate. You took a calculated risk and it eventually paid off. What field are you in? What city are you in? As this factors will help those make a quick decision.

Jossyfine:
All the comments above have not actually hit the nail in the right place. The major issue is that African marriages are not laced with romance and affection.
How do I mean?
* Most couple stop showing affection to each other once they start bearing kids and over see finish has crawled into their marriage.
* African couples rarely make out for themselves alone in terms of going on dates ( at least once in a while)
* Marriage is what you put in it ,that’s what you get, you should learn to do things together ie weekends both man and wife can create time to put the huz in order( not by force) but with love cuz it creates bond between couples.
*You can create low budget vacation for just you both without the kids.
*Once in a while try having sex outside the huz, look for an affordable hotel around ur area and maybe do just one night.
* Marriage shouldn’t be about the kids, cuz have noticed what most couple talk about the kids, bills and family issues.Spice it up a little and gist about ur selves, probably the sex you had the previous night😜
* Let there be stewardship ( you guys should always review ur attitude towards each other by asking if each is meeting up expectations etc)*

*Most African couple rarely send romantic messages unlike when they were dating when most times you wake up to see sweet soul piercing messages from ur lover. But in marriage all the messages are for purchases of huz hold items.

Marriage is sweet but not in Africa. Africa marriages are very boring😭

Am just wondering how I survived 10 freaking years 😳😳😳and it’s still counting 😔

The way and manner you survived 10 years and still counting, you will survive more years to come.

The points you listed are very valid. When struggling couples take your counsel, their marriage will take a good course to happy ever after.

So back to you, do what you have pointed out I am sure you will share more success stories.

cathodekazim:
Not working for all. I've tried that in my group, but it seems it's for selected users

It is working, i tried it seconds ago. Update your whatsapp to the latest.

Penguin2:
Igbo man and pride

Take a French leave.

Creamypie:
Damn. Human parts hunters will increase in Nigeria. So many Nigerians abroad, asking and processing documents for their kinsmen to come over, especially in Asia, end up killing them, and harvesting their kidneys, liver, and .....yes heart, and pancreas

No, be lie. In 2019, i couldn't watch a disturbing video of a guy whose organs was harvested while he was alive. Tummy sliced opened. Pancreas removed...i run o...i no fit watch am.

Nazgul:
Once he comes back to Nigeria and changes his Euros to our useless Naira, he's a big boy. Nigerian girls in serious relationships with average hardworking responsible guys would instantly break-off the whole engagement just to marry an Europe based guy.

5 years into their marriage, she's still in his family house in Nigeria as a glorified house girl while uncle is in Italy sending her 100 Euros every month for her upkeep.

This one enter sha...glorified house girl.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright...lagos...warey state...too many warey for lagos

See kitchen tight anyhow...
So person nor fit do quick doggy for this kind kitchen with your baby girl or wife

If I build a house...the first place to create enough space for na my toilet and kitchen...

He get why....kitchen and toilet sex is the sweetest type of sex on planet earth

Yes na..that sweet moment..you are returning from work...you meet your baby girl in the kitchen wearing something sexy and cooking a nice meal....you just kiss her on the back of her neck and slide in

Pepper never touch you for where e suppose no touch you.

I once went to a POS operator to withdraw N10,000.00 (Ten Thousand naira), he over paid me. He gave me Twenty thousand naira as against 10k.
He didn't noticed the mistake he had made. I counted my cash and re-counted it with surprise. I called his attention quietly and refunded him his 10k. He was shocked. He thanked me and i left.
What OP did was impressive and worthy of emulation.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Collect your shop. Expand your Mum's shop and have good peace of mind.

Depressed101:
Mention me when it gets to front page

It has gotten to front page. Lol.

Then who come loose? It's your body that's been used. If you like nack him Grand father and uncles join, you are still at the receiving end.
I just pity the man that will end with this one.

Arthurity1:
"cut off his ear"... Is that how justice works in a sane country?? These people are no different from bloodthirsty oligarchs and genocidal tyrants. By the way, who gave them the right to pronounce a sit at home order?

Sounds more like a Taliban approach.

MHBNeiman:
Hyip scam.

It's not. Operate an open mind to every business opportunity that comes your way. Do diligent research and make your conclusion on that.
Even if you don't subscribe, assuredly, you have gained some insight on business.

musicwriter:


I've already written everything down and I believe it could come to fruition in future. However, Google keeps coming closer to it but something haven't just closed their mind.

Let your passion be your motivation while you seek prospectively client's that matter.
In the meantime, create a network of individuals you may work with and share ideas (not your main business idea) with.

musicwriter:


My brother it's very worrying but not even Nigerian companies. In 2009 I sent an email to Google informing them what to do to improve some products, they implemented everything I told them without even replying my message.

I now have an idea of a company and service that can bury google and WhatsApp but the problem is how to go about it. Sell the idea to someone and they'll run away with it.

Keep the idea inside your belly lest this wicked generation sniff the idea and bank you out.

News like this will keep putting our nation in the bad light. Instead, be proactive to curb this menace.

Glink2018:


Daughter of Jezebel...you don't have any saying in this matter because you are under the rulership of the devil...

When a purpose is not known abuse is inevitable...Bishop doesn't want those lazy youth to abuse heavenly mandate and ask them to leave ....

Didn't you comprehend what she posted before your post?

SexyBabe001:
I know the sacked pastors were lying

I have two lousy ones in my compound. They don't have a single attribute of being a Pastor. From what I learnt one of the two is currently having issues at his local Branch. It would be closed soon.
They are just soiling the pastorate.

See this fool.

Rozcol:
Is sex that important in marriage, I hate it when a lady outrightly complain of not getting enough sex or been satisfied by her man,some women are bold sha.

It is her right to demand sex from her husband.
If she sought sex outside the confines of her marital home, a lot of people will call for her head.
She should be praised for voicing out. Alot of married women are dying in silence.

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex-boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterward to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has canceled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to reconsider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his married life on the wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

The lady in question doesn't have any excuse for visiting her ex. She deserves everything she got. Your friend just got an early signal warning. Better a broken relationship than a broken home.

HigherEd:

Thank you.

Welcome, enjoy your read.

HigherEd:

Hmm thanks. Can you please recommend me the book?

Here's the link to the book I talked about.
/Mossad2021
bit(dot)ly/Mossad2021

HigherEd:

Huh I don't think you know what you are talking about.
Israel's airforce is the fourth to fifth best in the world. Matches the French or British airforce. And can infact significantly defeat the Chinese airforce in aerial combat because it has a better fleet of well performing American fighter jets that has been even enhanced by Israeli engineers. Infact the only adversaries that convincingly beat the Israeli airforce is Russia and USA. But mind you, during the war of attrition at Sinai, it did overpower Soviet airforce.

Infact Israel has a better understanding of US made fighter jets lol because it is always
illegally invading and evading Syrian and Iranian airspace and frequently encounters live Russian systems and knows which ones are really a threat unlike US airforce that can only predict by theory.

Remains one of the five countries in the world that can shoot out a satellite from space. And the only country that can shoot a dangerous incoming nuclear powered ICBM even before it reenters Earth's atmosphere with it's Arrow3 system.

Has the best integrated air defense system in the world. Protected at 2500km by Arrow3, Arrow2 at 1500km, David Sling at 250km, Iron Dome at 70km and newly Iron Beam (laser tech to complement iron dome). Lastly, the Barack8 jointly designed with India protects it's shores.

Heard of Heron Drone? The fifth best UAV in the world is the best in the middle East, only Turkey can mildly compete with drone technology.

Heard of it's Merkava tank? They are the only indigenous tank specifically built for the middle East terrain. You don't want to see that sh*t in battle. Israel's enemies mostly use American tanks that are not suitable for that terrain.

Heard of its Air To Surface Missile, the "Delilah" tasked within destroying a nations air defense system before Israel's airforce swarms an airspace. It would take out the best Russian S500,400 and 300.

Israel's JerichoIII surface to air can strike targets as far as Abuja, Capetown, Alaska. Anywhere in the world really. Her land forces are some of the best trained in the world with a large supply of well trained reservists to make for the small numbers.

Her Shateyetet special forces are just as good as US Navy seals or Delta force.

The only average segment of Israeli Military is the Navy. This is because Israel's military doctrine is defensive not offensive. And israels problems can mostly come aerially and from land. Not sea.

Not putting Israel on that makes the list a perfect joke.
Many of you measure Israel's military with her crisis with Gaza. Not knowing it is only handling Hamas with kid gloves. Let Iran directly try nonsense that day you would see premium tears in the middle East.

You are quite knowledgeable with the state of Israel defence systems.
I have read about them recently. I do like the way you made your points though.
Your post reminds me of book I read about Mossad few weeks ago.

iLegendd:


That's great. Keep it up. Very soon, you'll have them handled.

Unfortunately, I don't attend to people's requests online or via private chat. I used to, but those who get declined turn to haters and abuse me with different monikers.

They have entitlement mentality and when it doesn't work, they get angry. With this, I decided to 100% lock up to avoid drama.

If the girl that gets chosen declines the 6k, then I'll send you half and the rest to the first person that asked for it.

I'm stingy, so I operate in my terms, not request, but when my instinct kicks in, I operate based on kindness.

You are great guy! Saw your post from a FP thread about a Nigerian named Nonse who graduated with a 1st Class degree in a private Ugandan University.
I decided to check the topics you created.
The things you've mentioned; Averagely average for me.