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Na for my mouth you wan hear the colour of the pant of your landlord wife

Anyway the name of the university starts with O

cocolacec:
Mention the name of the University,lets put evil to shame.

freshkik:
smh you just ended up typing what you typed earlier on, only making it longer..... re-read all you wrote and notice
** how you keep mild n justifying (by a way of giving excuses for) the lectures promiscuous behavour.

** how you all of a sudden started spitting venom blaming and attacking the females

just because you didn't fall in their situation

*** another thing i want you to notice, is how without knowing what really happened, you pegged all of them as lazy and wanting to use their pvssys to get marks *smh

.....i know of someone that got a "F" in a course, fought it because the person believed he performed very well, at the end after remarking it showed he got "A" but it took him more than a year to get it done, n he was termed lucky self to get it done (it was in yr 1 yr 2, imagine if it was final year, dats extra yr)

... i know a girl, in yr 2 she was having issues like dat, but she used her mum who was a prof in another faculty unknown to d lecturer to solved d issue (she graduated with (she graduated with high 2.1. ....... 4 pointer for that matter)

....i know of one that was very intelligent, was a sure 1st class, but evil lectures planned to fustrate .....bcoz according to dem, "we don suffer am"......dey spoilt d final year with 'C's ...na see e graduate with 2.1
.... i can go on and on
.......i can confidently tell you that many girls that have done it, shouldn't have, if they weren't put in a difficult situations..... mehn i use to know bad chicks den that can do things, but hate the thoughts of foking their lecturer.... unlike guys, i know most ladies find it difficult to willingly have intimacy with guys they arent emotionally attracted to , and majority are not attracted to their lecturers .

.....their are so many of this situation i know, university systems are not strong enough to handle these problems, students know... and lectures know too..... the fact some people do it, is based on situations, pressures etc and not all are due to the fact that they are Lazy and unintelligent.... the fact that the lecturer didnt pressurize the more doesn't mean they are all alike...

like i said its boils down to your mindset....

it's only fascinating to me that you're even the female here... while I'm the guy

.....they really said that a woman's worst enemy is her fellow woman, I'm done enlighten you.
good day ma'am

continue living in fantasy island .I'm giving you the raw undiluted truth of the reality and how you can escape a lecturers male harassment but it's unfortunate you are thinking of an utopian situation.if you have younger sisters still in school you better enlighten them not.to put themselves in a position where a male lecturer will be harassing them for marks

There are many fine girls in.school that lecturers have never harassed,most complaints of sexual harassment come FROM bitter female students who tried to use their brez or vagyna to seduce lecturer and it didn't work,they now turn around and say sexual harassment

It's them you will see twisting their waist in a seductive manner when the male lecturer is passing by

It's them that you Will see giving unsolicited visits saying sir I just came.to your office to greet YOU.can I help you with anything

It's them you will.see winking at the lecturer or unbuttoning their shirts to display cleavage

It's them you will see looking for lecturers phone number about so they can send their nudes to him

Some will even go.as far as going to pay unsolicited visits in his house uninvited regardless of his marital status

The serious ones that came.to study and graduate,we know them.Randy lecturers aren't even attracted to them or have their time but the unserious ones that are wayward are food for Randy lecturers to eat and pass around

Then get to staff meeting or beer parlor on bottles of drinks and asun and gossip about how good she is on bed.na when you go dey hear so you too never taste am.she no know book but she's good and other derogatory statements because they've put themselves in that situation

blueSpartan:
Sex in his office?

it's a common thing among lecturers of that university.I don't want to mention the name of the university but that's their usual habit
Those who know,know
Some of them are dirty TO the extent that you will be seeing the stains of their release on the penis side of their trousers and a female.student adjusting her bra straps and picking her bag to leave the office

I don't think so but in rare cases they woo the male students.it's usually a consensual relationship not harassment or compulsion

[quote author=OfficialDad post=67175309][/quote]that one na your cup of tea.if you want to escape lecturers harassment,study well pray,respect yourself,stop famzing any male lecturer,dress school appropriately.it's not that you will be coming to school and then wear green wig,blue lipstick and strange dressing.you'll only end up attracting wrong male attention to yourself

TEYA:
Listen to my good advice o, you won't get it elsewhere.

advice from a pedophile rappest?

No THANK YOU

Fourwinds:
hmmmmmmm....now you have said the truth... some students that were being fvccked by lecturers are here in nairaland ooooo...

it's obvious na.they're not ready to work,they think owning a big brez and vagyna is enough to pass every course and when they fail they start playing the victim

No one talks about when a lecturer is in his office,attending to his work and minding his business then a female student will enter his office and start making suggestive moves,using brez.to touch lecturer inappropriately then when someone walks in,in.other not.to look Hot,desperate and.cheap they shout rape and then the lecturer minding his business will start dealing with unnecessary drama

Fourwinds:
that is very correct

exactly my point

freshkik:
so because you are an "A, B or C" students you somehow agree with him that it's ok for lecturers foking and making advances to fok other females like you, simply because they aren't as sound as you're academically...what happen to the lecturer trying to encourage/motivate them to study harder, even if it was d student making advances, why can't he call her to order (if dem record am now, he ll run and hide like a prof)... you see nothing wrong in what he's doing bcoz it didn't affect you, i tell people that the biggest problem in naija na selfishness "as far as my own good, its ok, if e bad for others na their problem" thats why we where we are....btw don't you think that the fact that, out of everybody that replied that sick person, you were the only one that agreed with him shows something is wrong with how you see things ? check your mindset ma'am

I am not justifying evil.behaviors or lecturers sexually harassing students.there's a Yoruba proverb that says if there's no opening on the wall,the lizard will not see where to enter.the point is there are promiscuous men everywhere and in every profession and field ,knowing that you shouldn't be giving those Randy lecturers leverage or opportunity to take advantage of you.if you study hard,it is certain you will pass and no lecturer no matter how uncontrollable his pjenese is will be able to harass you.infact you will be like a corn inside a sealed bottle and the lecturer will be like a chicken,all he can do is salivate but he won't have anything to use to sexually harass you.

It's only decent and God fearing lecturers that will.see a D or f student and will.want to bring him up to an.A student but an f student that knows she's f and is unwilling to make any personal effort to move up to.c or b and then the Randy lecturer will.defietly spot the loophole and starts capitalizing on it at the detriment of the student.

If a Randy lecturer knows this girl is an F student but she's making effort to come up and other lecturers know,they'll be the ones standing up for the girl behind her back and protecting the girl from the wayward lecturer by saying even though she's a slow learner at least she's making little steps.but you be slow learner and you don't want to make efforts,YOU will be like a toothless dog sleeping in the territory of an hungry lion and then the lion walks in and spots the sleeping dog .you know the rest of the story

As for that ife professor THE thing that they know how to eat belleful them.the professor has a penchant for sleeping with anything in skirt and the student herself is not ready to work,she wants to use vagina to exchange marks the lecturer spotted her laziness and desperation,played on it and now both of them are in for a long ride of embarrassment and dismissal

TEYA:
I am mentally strained and out of ideas now . Next time I will think twice before ranting. There are evil men in my family, try to find them, you will be glad you did.

God forbid,tuehhh

Carry them.and market them.elsewhere

TEYA:
I grew in the midst of paedophiles and that has affected my psychologically, making.i think every man is one. I must to inform you, many men are like my unfortunate father and uncles and brothers are! I need help befor it is too late.

yaba left is created for people like you na

CarlosTheJackal:
All my other siblings ask me to throw him out that if you cant hustle and stand on your own then you should go back to the village

exactly

loswhite:
if a human being can reason like this then we are in a very serious problem...we need to check your brain

bros leave sentiments alone.a lecturer knows serious students from unserious ones.some of these students themselves make passes at the lecturers.my elder brother's friend who's a lecturer told me about a girl that is always coming late to his class and will dress in a very suggestive Way,sit in front and open her legs.

She will still be doing kube kube for the lecturer.if she sees him passing by she will say sir let me carry your bag to your office just so that she will be alone with him and she was always trying to seduce him.until h told her point blank not to ever come to his office again and if she wants to submit assignments she should give the class rep.do you think it's only lecturers that harass students? Students too harass lecturers.you will even see male students making passes at their female lecturers

FrenchWay:
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These students, some of dem are mad.
I started supporting the lecturers after my sojourn in a COE during NYSC.
Some of these girls are whores And we lecturers know.
Now the problem is dis; it hurts the ego of a lecturer to get rejected and refused sex when he is well aware that the student is Alan Shearer. It really hurts.

That is why u hardly see us pestering good and serious students for sex. rather, we respect them and learn from them.

DURING MY TIME, I FAIL ANY STUDENT THAT REFUSES TO SLEEP WITH ME.
She can't be fucxking poor dirty students and refuse me sex.
nuffsaid!

exactly.I had a lecturer too that was always on my case. I made sure I read well for the course and attended all his lectures and sign for attendance so he won't have any excuse to fail me.TO God be the glory I passed his course

Subsequently some months later he became my project supervisor and he never raised the issue again that was how the matter died a silent death I graduated normally and he didn't give me unnecessary stress.I played my part and did my own side of the corrections.if he says meet me in my office by 2pm I get there by 1'50pm and I MAKE sure I don't go alone .

The thing I discovered with Randy male lecturers is that they always make sexual moves with lazy and unserious female students or female students that dress in a way that attracts unnecessary attention to themselves e.g exposing cleavage,unnecessary flashy MAKE UP or long nails .they barely harass serious minded and focused students and the reason they harass unserious female students is that even if they report and the management gives the script to another neutral lecturer to mark they will still fail and make the student look like she was slandering the lecturer and make her look stoppeed.but they dare not do that to a serious student that consistently has an a or bs even in other courses.the lecturer will begin to look questionable.

Another thing I discovered was that despite the fact that he was my supervisor and I said no to his advances I still caught him several times fokin students in his office.sometimes he will forget he said I should meet him at an appointed time in his office and when I knock severally and he refuses to open the door I will peep through the window and see he's at his usual behavior.who are the people he foks,d and f students or students who barely come to class or write test.he doesn't fork a,b or even c students

rayval:
Where else would they go to? Whose house would they scatter instead. Whose food would they eat...?.. become one with them and let them become one with you....just make your plans appropriately...then taking care of Mom and yourself wouldn't be a prob

take care of mom and dad and yourself,yes,reasonable,take.care of adults that have hands and legs to work and are not imbeciles or physically and mentally challenged? No.unreasonable

CarlosTheJackal:
I was once in your shoes. my elder brother who was around 38 wasn't bothered about anything. he will watch movie till around 4am then sleep till 1pm. I stomach it until one day i just asked him to leave my apartment that I'm tired. He wanted to use emotional blackmail on me but I told him that i know we are brothers but I'm hindering his stepping up. Told him he needs to hustle when that's the only thing that can provide food and Shelter for him

exactly when you make a sibling get too comfortable in your house,he will not have the thinking capacity to know I need to be independent and sop being a burden on my brother until you take away all the comfort and start making the house hot for him.there are many ways to chase out a parasitic relation away from your house
1.stop paying for dstv subscriptions
2.if you don't have dstv remove the extension box he will use to turn on the t.v. or the cable
3.stop buying food into the house again.be eating from outside and as soon as you enter go and sleep.if he has brain and is a sensitive person he will be the one that will pack his things and thank you for accommodating him and leave but if he's one suffering from entitlement mentality he will ask you why then kuku voice out to him AND tell him you are a man just like me,go and work.another more rude approach is being a girl into the house and be foking her in his presence ,like in the sitting room where he is watching tv or leave the room door open for him to see the sex and hear the noise.no prophet will tell him it's time to excuse himself out of your home and life

Nwambaise:
One should be op3n enough with his siblings to show displeasure when they do wrong. You now feel you need space because you have small coins, did you have space when you guys were growing up? You guys are stuck together for life so you help each other be a better human.

lol.smh.childhood life is different from adulthood

At childhood our parents were responsible for our clothing,houserent,feeding and everything.we didn't need to contribute or give them anything to keep the house functional because WE WERE CHILDREN.now we're adults and it's time to man UP or woman UP and take responsibility for your life's decisions.it is a very dangerous thing in this time ,age and generation to depend on anybody for food or shelter not even siblings because everyone has a point of limit.when you exceed it you begin to look like a nuisance and agbaya and start to get disrespected.even the last born will insult you how you're nothing without tunji,if not for tunji you will be sleeping in the bridge.respect yourself and don't put yourself in a position where anyone of your siblings will be justified to insult you and you won't be able to say or do anything about it

Iceblockbabe:
Most ppl won't understand what this man is passing through. In my own case, I have my elder brother staying with me for a long time now. The worst part of it is that he doesn't contribute to anything in the house. He lives "i don't care kind of life". No contribution to house rent, nepa bill and a lots more. And I don't even know how to tell him to find his own apartment this guy works and is over 33. I need advise ohhh

tell him you want to travel and you won't come back for a long time and you don't want to leave him at home.tell him to pack his things ahead of yesterday so there will be no excuses or the moment he goes out change all the keys to the house and if he calls you on phone,tell him your feelings that you Cannot be breastfeeding an adult,he should work and you need your space

iAudio:
I was in your shoes sometime ago. Truth be told, you have to talk to them,talk about how they disorganise your house and about your expenses but don't ever tell them the leave, thats the cross you have to carry as their brother.

mshrwew.nonsense.you're part of the people that encourage entitlement mentality in younger siblings as if they don't have hands to work.they're matured,a graduate and old enough to work.it's mentality like this that encourages laziness and entitlement mentality.so because I'm your brother,I shouldn't have savings,you must keep taking and disorganizing my stuffs.every relationship needs space and boundaries if not they're the type of siblings that will not give his wife breathing space because they feel its because of her he stopped giving them things not knowing that he has a family to take care of

I owe it to my parents to take care of them but I cannot leave my own load and be carrying my parents load (siblings) Bottom line is that any body that is 20+ should go and work.if he likes comfort and good things of life he should work.no free.thing forever.the things he put in.the fridge didn't just fall into the fridge he worked,earned money to be able to buy it


This reminds me.of a neighbor that keeps popping out kids they cannot take care of.he has 9 children and he is only an event planner.he will come and beg me.to give him money that his kids are hungry and haven't eaten since yesterday.I will give him 2k,another time the wife will.come and beg for palmoil,maggi tomorrow,garri next tomorrow,if they see me with fanta they will.collect,if I travel I must bring something for them or they won't let me hear word.when I saw this entitlement mentality is getting out of hand I had to stop it myself by cutting all ties with them and saying no to everything.my no.was firm and emphatic

The kids Will cry from morning to night and they no I'm hearing the cry but I will.deliberately ignore if not it will turn to quarrel because I refused to set boundaries.the point is everyone should carry their load.if you know how to fok without family planning,be ready to carry the burden of children ,don't come and put your load on my head,I go throway am

Jman06:
I thought as much!

Male siblings and their selfishness... Only a few care about their siblings. I'm sure it's because of one lady you want your siblings out! All these other excuses of needing your privacy and cleaning your house are just hogwash! I know that adults are supposed to cater for themselves and all that, but don't forget we are in Nigeria where the society works differently and wise siblings carry themselves along to achieve greatness together. That is how many great families achieved greatness! Through cooperative interaction (Those in sciences might understand that term better). What have you done to help your siblings get jobs or get good education or vocational training I'm sure you have done nothing in that regard! Don't worry! Very soon that lady would start showing you pepper and then you'll realize how important your siblings are.

haba shut up.didn't you read the part he said he sacrificed his savings for one of his siblings.is that selfish? A typical selfish sibling will not care if his younger ones are educated or NOT.infact I .don't have any problem being generous with my siblings but the moment I discover that they don't want to make any effort in bettering themselves and want to turn me to atm,I will be upfront with them about my feelings.anyone THAT is not happy shouldn't come to my house again.

What is wrong with a sibling saying I saw this and I decided to buy it home for all of us instead of always taking without having something to give in return however little it is

Op your siblings are parasitic.they only want to keep taking from you till you're empty and once they see you don't have again,they won't come to your house
They are also the type of siblings that will be harassing your wife because you decided to channel your resources on your immediate family

And if you happen to be wealthy and you die (God forbid) your wife won't see in laws but beasts.

FIRST thing YOU NEED TO do is lock your fridge with key if you have things inside and you don't want it taken or disorganized,if you have food in the kitchen,lock the kitchen door,they will get the message that it's time to leave and their inner potentials of independence will come out.the point is takers have no limit so givers should HAVE.if siblings know that YOU are a generous or kind person they tend to abuse it and the moment you don't have again,they'll begin to leave one by one.it's you that needs to set a boundary

TEYA:
Spend time in jail for raping a child? Like your dad did? Absolutely unlikely! Unlike you, Paedophilia does not run in my family, it is one of the things we do not share in common.

you actually look and have tendencies of pedophilia

TEYA:
It is your dp not mine. It reflects you
Shocked? No I wasn't. I understood why you act the way you do immediately I saw it. I pity people like you.
How was childhood?

pity yourself first because you'll soon spend time in jail for raping a child
My childhood was awesome

Another soon to be baby mama

Imade should get ready for another sibling some few months.meanwhile iya Imade be like but I packaged for David,kilotun fe? So ALL the show off on ig na just waste


Chi chi na you dey reign o but don't forget that the cane he used in beating iya imade is still on the roof.you too will soon have another rival after all the butterflies in David's stomach is dead

TEYA:
Only creepy thing I see is your dp. It speaks volumes about what a pervert you are.

stalker

The dp only looks as weird as you .

You're shocked abi?

Nkan toju waloju ri

TEYA:
Why are you bitter? I just wanted to find out if your dad falls into that category, you confirmed, why the insults?

this your deviation tactics isn't working,try another tactic.you look like a creep.change before you get disgraced

Wroxxane:
They are used to being abused and see it as a norm? Why then do they change the food they eat, their hairstyles? Their wardrobe? cars, friends and hope for a 'nice and god-fearing man' if they are so allergic to change? You'd be surprised that some of those women had fairly nice upbringing and relationships but choose to act without their brains. The normal human thinking is to try to change a bad situation in order to be happy, so why don't they? It's appalling.

every body has different life goals and there's nothing wrong for those who are wishing for a god fearing man but the habit of masochism and misogyny needs to stop.men aren't the only one guilty of that

TheUpsetGirl1:
so it's your sons that can/will be born here

none of them will except there's a change in our value system.the environment is full of alarming and disturbing wickedness and barbarism