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Anand where are her v shaped eyebrows

1Sharon:
Kulyie, you don't know the person you quoted?

I know it as a nonentity

ahnie:
iya wura eku welcome back.lang time no seeee.
K for kulyie.herpi sondey beby.

ahnieee omo dada.how YOU dey?.long time no see.how is family and work?

Ise aye re o.she has gone to meet her village people when she was,pregnant or she fought with someone during pregnancy

Homeboiy:
Na that old man won marry that young girl

Don't quote me

when will you use your brain.that's her dad

idealsico:
Study harder. Even your sentence construction is not good enough. You should rather admit that you failed your admission tests and not that you were denied adnission.

see talk for mouth.egboro buruku lenu eye.after you will say children of this generation are delinquent,there's cultism and violence everywhere.

If a child IS not admitted into school because you think he's not good in academics,is he bad in other areas? It's people like you that provoke these kids to do extraordinary things that will make them successful without going to school pelu enu buruku yin

NwaAmaikpe:



When will Captain Matthew Ekeinde man up and do the needful just like Teebillz has done?

How long will he die in silence?
It's in his best interest to do away with this woman who isn't committed to her marriage.

It's a total mistake for any man to marry a woman whose life is centered on showbusiness.
Marriage and it's sanctity means nothing to them.

advocate for scattered marriage,weh done sir.so it's now an offence for a woman to develop her career.so she should sit at home like a full house wife when the husband is barely at home and always on air abi?ode

DrHighchief:
OBO means native doctor in a state in Nigeria

IT also means v@gyna in a state in Nigeria

ConAir:
Good observation Bro,

Iyana Iba is worst, very rowdy, rough and full of petty thieves. The armored vehicle stationed there is for decoration. The security operatives are less concerned.


Our security operatives should be more diligent in doing their work to curb all these menace.

you're right my brother.Since I've been passing there,the armored tank is just THERE for decoration,filling space.infact,I've not seen it moving since it was brought there.but surprisingly I saw lastma officials and police men today when I passed there however they're inadequate.that place is full of confusion,rage and brutish behaviors typical with lagosians and lagos drivers.there needs to be at least 10 lastma officials stationed in the entire lyanaba/lasu gate.the one I saw today were in front of lash gate area trying to manage traffic,even though they're trying but the 3 lastma officials there cannot curtail or control violent drivers and bike men.

Secondly they are only in front of lasu gate area,HOW ABOUT IYANABA.PARTICULARLY THE ENTIRE AREA /route WHERE THE ARmored tank is parked .including IYANABA ESPECIALLY.I MEAN THE ROUTE TO ENTER IYANABA MARKET.THAT PLACE IS A PERFECT DESCRIPTION OF THE STATE OF NATURE.BUS DRIVERS DRIVING recklessly,okada men parking anywhere,market women selling directly on the road to the extent that there is little or no where to pass.even the place pedestrians should cross or walk has been filled with heaps of dustbin.


Please Lagos state government,please there is need for environmental sanitation officers.that place is extremely dirty,vulgar and unhealthy.I mean we are human beings.that area is too nasty.please do something so that it won't spread viruses and sicknesses

Another issue is when it rains,o my God.that place is grossly disgusting.the rain will push the dustbin that is already piled up in the pedestrian area to the road side,to the extent that both the road where cars should drive and pedestrian road will be filled with heaps of refuse


Bottomline is that iyanaba and ,lasu gate is in URGENT NEED OF

ENVIRONMENTAL SANITATION WORKERS
LASTMA
KAI
AND POLICE MEN


We are civilized human beings.we can't continue living like barbarians.please do something.it's extremely dangerous to the public health e.g it's a good place for spreading dangerous skin infections,cholera,asthma etc because of the dust,human and material pollution

Kindly forward this to the appropriate authorities.cc lalasticlala etc

The BEST solution is to shun them.them plenty for every work place.it's if you continue putting up with their excesses that they will keep misbehaving.if they interrupt your conversation uninvited,remind them that the conversation has nothing to do with them

How about forking at the back of the mosque?what's the consequences of that?

See rules and regulations


How come they didn't mandate all females to wear blue bra and male students wear black boxer's since there is rule for everything

THIS dude should be arrested for child abuse

Happy married life

Momcherry:
My dear, I've forgiven her. I do visit her but I find it difficult staying under the same roof with her up to a week because she's still very difficult to be with, always rubbing salt to my old wound. I prefer sending her whatever I can.
She keeps complaining I don't like visiting her.

you better tell HER because it's very possible for her not to be aware of her harmful behavior and poor parenting skills

BennyMaiNasara:
Peculiar family issues that most people had to deal with esp those born in the 80's through early 90's. Issues like Strict parenting, hostility within the home, transfer of aggression, physical or verbal violence and the likes which tends to damage the child's emotional, mental and physical capacity thereby resulting to Low Self Esteem and other psycho-social crises even as adults.
I really appreciate your courage to open up on such an issue which forms part of the life story of most adults and young persons in our societies today. You're a survivor and many others out there should feel the same.
We may also want to consider some contributory factors to the way and manner our parents behaved towards us; which could be social, cultural, religious that could have influence their perception and affected their family lives of which the children had to bear the shocks. I also want to believe most of them would have behaved differently if they've had the exposure and understanding we have now. we're a reflection of where we come from ( as in home training, perception deposition from our parents and society and how we relate all together) the only thing we owe ourselves is not excuses but rather struggle to be better, so engage in meaningful association, read books and materials, go places, meet new people to widen your horizon because things can only get better and we'd be better than our parents.There's a huge generational change. we're in the computer age I mean, we communicate freely, get information at ease that we can access useful materials to enhance our capacity. Let our past not hunt us and we should not give it a chance to. we should do different right now, we're our encouragements. I'm glad we have such platforms so we can relate to lifetime happenings and feel better.
And lastly, we should be grateful for them, we're what we are because of them. Experiences sharpen us so "you know better you do better" and last last nobody's perfect.

my cousin was emotionally and verbally abused so much that he had to save money and ran away from home from Lagos to kano.dude finished university and nysc and the mom will rain insult on him why he hasn't gotten a job and how daft he is for them not employing him .it became too much that he suffered depression,told me he will leave the house any time soon and I said fine.

When the mom was all alone in the house and was looking for him everywhere THAT was when she realized how badly she TREATED that boy

rita25:
my dad went to NMS and NDA became an officer and we were girl....he would barb us skull and plant our heads on bottle corks i.e coke and Fanta till he sees blood...we would do NDA baptism during hamattan...we were not allowed friends if they are going out they would lock us with the burglary and go with the key....God saved us what if there was a fire outbreak? my MUM was TOUGHER than my dad 10times she would use army belts to flog us and called us criminals...convicts...her slogan was I will break the egg before it hashes....she used egg to check our virginity up till our university days...if we offend 2days to xmas she would use shaving stick or shaving powder to give us molo and tell us that's our xmas gift if pple ask us we should tell them what our crime was....I was always crying and asking that they show me my parents cos the hatred was maximal....I remember my 1st jamb I filled usman dan fodio uni sokoto just to get away from home when the admission came my dad beat me that am a criminal and forcefully put me in yabatech near his office where when I close I would go and wait for the driver to take me home every day..when I went to university I never visited home till my 300level....I can shine boots...dig gutter,wash car,do pressup...do frogjump...infact name it but thanks to God I am better off today ....but whenever I remember the DRILLING I shutter

I can't survive such home,I would have stolen some money and ran away from home

gazilion:
Is this for real? How did you survive? How did you manage to escape?
The discipline looks cruel and lacks love
I hope it never affected your psyche!

in fact that one is NO more discipline.this is exactly why some kids I know of run away from home and get recruited to the streets only to be prostitutes and engage in one vice or the other

Momcherry:
Interesting
I used to think I'm the only one who had the worst childhood, until I started listening and reading other people s stories. In my own case, there was no father figure. In fact I don't even know where to begin. All I can say is my childhood was so rough that when I started menstruating, I had to go to tailors shop to gather some pieces of fabrics that will serve as pad
When I experienced my first menstrual flow, my mom, instead of putting me through, started shouting and accusing me of sleeping with boys if not how could my period come this early (I was just 13). . I didn't even know what period was all about until we were taught about it by our teachers (God bless them wherever they are). I was in pri 6 then.
She accused me of things I know nothing about and she would announce it to anyone who cares to listen. As very shy and timid as I was then, it affected me so much. She never bought a pair of bra for me for once in my life. I remember when I was in jss, a female teacher called me one day and asked who I was living with, I told her I lived with my mom but she didn't believe me. She was so furious and asked me to tell my mom to get me bra. In my mind I was like what!!! Who born me to ask my mom for bra?. I decided to gather the little money I saved and quietly bought myself a pair of bra.
Thank God I'm a mother today, though not perfect, but will never be such mother to my children.

is she still alive?

What a mother.assuming I had such mother and I become ok,I.will leave her to rot .I won't even GO visit HER Talk less of buying anything for HER.I'll basically abandon her to the mercy of neighbors and good Samaritans because if she knew she wasn't ready to take care of me WHY she born me

orbitalgis:
My dear your parents are not faultless.They are human beings.That said,you and your siblings need to.deal with your parents with wisdom.When you engage with them at that level,that is when you too will have a good home and be a good mom when you are settled.The moment you begin to antagonise them ,that is when you start digging the grave for your future.

Remember that they raised you,clothed you and sent you all to school despite their obvious shortcomings.If they wanted you dead or.out of their lives both of them would have either killed you all,sent you out of the house or just walk away from you both.
It is critical.you respect and honour.your folks regardless of whom they are.
I wish you and your siblings all the best.

etun bere.assuming I gave you food and shelter but insulted and abused you everyday,will YOU appreciate ALL of the good about it? Stop justifying narcistc parenting.

The op and my dad seem to be twin brothers and the solution if you're still with toxic parents is to ignore ,tolerate and endure otherwise they'll MAKE you sin against God through them

His head was just facing the camera too much jare