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DollyParton1:
And the bullshiiit continues. ...
So what did the husband do to salvage the suitation? Of course step out and cheat. And the wife is silly enough to justify it.
What happened to taking a long and irreversible walk.

How can he salvage the situation. You know she married herself

DollyParton1:
A woman who can justify the act of her cheating husband is not INDEPENDENT but SENSLESS.

Gbam. You have nailed it. Of which I've never seen any man justifying his wife's cheating when caught . of course we all know what happens

Omotayor123:
U sound pained. Why press P on D'banj matter.

Anything the problem

It is you I should be telling that when you turned someone's private life to your worry




of course you are pained if not his single hood will not be your business

Vyolet:
Lol,this is the smallest issue one can deal with,it is culture and to avoid unnecessary arguments,just call her whatever she likes and move on with your life.
That you use 'e' for her doesn't mean you can't send her errands or ask her to do house chores. The way you carry yourself will determine how much she will respect you.

exactly you can even stylishly send her errands and she won't notice e.g anti kemi ede sare gbe awon Aburo yin kuron school or ede bami ra ata tima se fegbon yin

As long as he's not suffering from inferiority or superiority complex, why not

Phema:
May girls that possess such qualities not come near my brothers IJN. Amin!

I follow you say amen

No pheneese answereth all things




That's good enough

pwerrymansion:
. The big deal is that the OP or whoecver wrote that bullcrap wants a mannequin as a partner. And what are you 21st century guys willing to offer? You looking for a lady to boss around and break nd immediately latch on to the next "zombie" that the op described. Mr loyality

Pile of dung


Mshewwww




this one has obviously been dhik whipped

NemzySeries:
35 & no. Wife & no kids?......is life all abt gathering money & jumping frm 1 feminine tree to anoda?.....ride on Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo,maybe u wanna start paying ur child's sch fee @ 55

if that's what makes him happy which one be una own for another person private life .You for kuku ask for the length of his pheneese.

Omotayor123:
You are one of those dat want him to take 'junior' go school @55

if that's what life throws at his table so be it and if you are so concerned about his private life, don't just talk on a public forum. Walk the talk. Go look for him and when you find him, propose to him and tell him how his single hood has been bothering your life and giving you sleepless nights and how you want to end his bachelor hood.


talk is very cheap on nl, provide a solution to the problem since you have seen that he's 35 and a bachelor

Lol even the Op knows he typed bull sht

FrancisTony:
Why should a girl say "sorry" when she didn't do anything?.
Heck!, I tag those kind of girls dull with inferiority complex.
Not my kind of girls.

Well, not bad.
People's emotion differs.

Are you kidding me?
Seriously? Sorry, there's probably something else she's enjoying in that relationship but pretending to be absorbing the hurts.
Trust me, if that thing dries, you'll find out that she will abandon you.
Err', those kind of girls eh.

Stvpid girl with inferiority complex.
To save gini? choi!
If she wasn't making sense in the argument, it's understandable but if she's spot on, then she's a FOOL for stopping the argument.
Relationship kor!

Not bad.

Uhmm! Really?
As in upset with the guy rude/nasty behaviour(s)? If YES, she's very silly for keeping mute.
Annoying kor!

Seriously? She is a dormant girl except if she's planning to change the guy, anyway.
If NOT, then she doesn't deserve to be called a HUMAN.

God forbid bad thing.
This kind of girl is leaving my life because I won't wanna date a girl that tolerates any SH1T from a guy just to keep him.
I'm not advicing ladies to be rude and disrepectful to their boyfriends/spouses but atleast, don't keep mute and act like a fool because you don't want to hurt his feelings.

FrancisTony:
Even diildo will satisfy her more.
I wonder what this little boy has got in between his legs.

Not like i'm in support of paedophilia but older men having sex with little girls(male paedophilia) is still comprehensible a little bit.

male or female pedophilia is disgusting. A child that she should be dragging to school and ask what he was taught is the one she's marrying. I bet when he has grown to an age of maturity he will almost beat both the person that joined them together and the pedo. Very appalling

Then stop telling her things or doing things that she will reveal outside. When she knows you cannotr trust her she'll change.



Na so she go use careless talk invite armed robbers into your house. When she cannot hold her mouth

Awon pedos.tufiaaaaa.shes getting married to a child old enough to be her grandchild and she's happy

in the name of ancestors. Koni da fun awon ancestors werey

RoyalRoy it is 9am o.oya go and wake that your lazy dog to find food. Im mates don go out .Just look at this one. I was impressed when I saw him. 6.45am he don wake up by himself. No alarm clock to wake him. See him stretching and ready for work. He nor even baf sef

I can see the short people are really furious

Really? Happy birthday to her but she doesn't look 30 one bit. She looks 19 or 20

So what? What's your own with his personal life

Omotayor123:
wait oooo





At 35 And he never marry!!!










,...








OR
.Did I miss Something

What judgemental Africans fail to realise is that

Ok so the cries are supposed to soften her punishment or make her go free


and as for those ideyoyts praying for her you are also part of nigeria's problems and may he turn your prayers to curses. You stole people's money and you just want to walk away like that unpunished. These are the kind of women they should beat to death in the cell. Anyway I trust the frustrated souls who will soon be her cell mate to do justice to her

You arrested awon ara oruns



hope you tore their pieces of rags they call masquerade clothes and gave them the beating of their lives

Pedophiic monarch

eazisky:
try it here in Kaduna. u will c the way police will grab ur boby and drag u into their hilux

Gbam!

LewsTherin:
True,

Or one can find a different option of seeming to give her her desire while not eating her shite.

When I found myself in a similar situation with an older cousin, I skipped it all by calling her Mrs Elder-Cousin. She was forced to accept that as anything else would make her look very obviously childish.

Exactly what I told her. She should find a nick name for her if she is not comfortable with calling her aunty

LewsTherin:
True,

Or one can find a different option of seeming to give her her desire while not eating her shite.

When I found myself in a similar situation with an older cousin, I skipped it all by calling her Mrs Elder-Cousin. She was forced to accept that as anything else would make her look very obviously childish.

@ lews therin you're not calling her the aunty because she deserves it or she's worth it .not even that because you are married to her brother but because you want to avoid ejo oshi. When the chips are down and she goes ranting to the mother about aunty bull sht the mother will definitely take sides with her daughter because she's her daughter. No matter how good you're her daughter will always be her daughter and in the order of priority she'll place you as secondary to her daughter since you're from another family and that's why the yorubas say because another person's child has a bigger ass than your child doesn't mean you will put waist beads on another person's child's waist.



Except where the mother inlaw is a reasonable human being and says you shouldn't call her aunty.but if your mother inlaw didn't say so, if it's aunty your sister in law wants to eat then give it to her

Exactly my point. Just give the insincere eye service respect to her face and call her whatever you like at her back so you won't have to be fighting unnecessary and needless battles

raumdeuter:
Lol. SOme people dont know there are bigger battles in life than small ego trips

A small story.

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One of my uncles told us a story
2 friends John and Fred got a job in a bank in the 90's after they had worked in many other organisations

It now happened that one of their junior in school was the Head of their department. Like they was in final yr when the girl was in year 2 one of his coursemates babes those yrs

Later she insisted everyone in the dept call her "Ma". Both guys were so shocked and insisted they wont call her Ma

So she staged a drama at the bank

She started calling from her office

John!!

John answered YES.

Fred!!!!

His friend answered YES

Later she told them to wait now started calling other people in the dept

Ade!!! , Ade answered: Yes MA!!, Obi!!! Obi Answered Yes MA!! Steven!! Steven answered Yes MA

She now told both friends to go back out and she recalled them. John just answered even though reluctantly YES MA. Fred his friend refused and insisted on YES

They started a mini silent war. She wrote him up for insubordination gave bad appraisals and finally got Fred fired

over a yr later she was transferred out of the country.

And John today is a top shot at the bank while Fred after his sack only got a teaching job and struggled

Now think about it who lost on the long run

Yorubas usually say something about calling Malu(a cow) brother to allow us pass or call a mad man the groom so he would give us peace

Ngokafor:
...15years?? ....i can imagine you mentally rolling your eyes and muttering 'aunty fire'

exactly. I was like save yourself the stress. What's the point but you know in some families you have to call them aunty this brother that for their body to come down



op just call her aunty to her face and call her directly by her name at her back since its in yoruba culture to encourage eye service and fake love. Or better still you can find a nick name for her like if for example her name is abiodun you can call her aby

Lol . They're taking a ban at the moment

Chillisauce:
As I was saying
When they say 22 million Nigerians are mad. You think say them dey rehab center.

Many are here looking for who to dash them 200mb to browse. Once they access the net N'a to look for půssi to sniff.

I'm here to deliver their product.

Where is that nonso and dinachi.

Comon come here come collect free gorilla .

Eh... wrong thread

One of my uncle's wife who's 15 years older than me calls me aunty shewa and uses e for me and I'm always like o puleasssee


we all know It's hypocrisy. I told her to call me directly by my first name and leave all this aunty sh1t because you and I know you can't refer to me like that behind my back. Seriously I don't know why yorubas encourage hypocrisy and fake insincere respect


Anyway different family different rules. If aunty will make her feel good call her aunty and then sometimes use e for her sometimes use o for her

Lienus I'm enjoying the lies. Kontinu