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edwife:
Always first to celebrate people but no one thought of me huh?

No problem,I am taking notes......

Meanwhile my colleagues are celebrating me,#realworld#realpeople.

RoyalRoy:



[color=#000033] Yoruba dogs be like.........
Ekaaro Sir!!! Ekaaro Ma!!! [/color]

pus11:
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The People of the independent country in western Nigeria cant pay taxes to Nigeria

Igbos complaint why do northerners win senatorial seat inside the independent country in western Nigeria, because it is call diaspora senatorial seat inside the independent country in western nigeria . Your states are suppose to sponsor you. Yoruba people are not suppose to run for the seat. it is 2 countries. While the Igbo waste their times, telling you. Western Nigeria is not a country. It is a country. Senatorial seat inside western Nigeria are diaspora senatorial seats.

The Igbo's people are making mistake. The senatorial seat inside the independent country in western nigeria are for Igbo,hausa people to win.

That why you see northerners winnings it. Because it is not for Yoruba to contest for those position


The northerners sponsor their children living in western nigeria to win the seat. That why you people complaint all the time.


That why northerners occupy those position and not Yoruba people. Because Enugu abia,ebonyi state is expected to sponsor its citizen living in western nigeria to run for those position. Because the people of western Nigeria can't take part in the election. Only Igbo,northerners can take part In senatorial seat inside western nigeria



But the Igbo's don't know this. And for many years northerners occupy this position.

List of northerners senators and others who won dispora senatorial seat inside the Independent country of the Kingdom of Western Nigeria, why the Igbos waste their time shouting Biafra or niger delta.. they did not present candidate for dispora voting inside the Independent country of the Kingdom of Western Nigeria

list of 30 diaspora senators from the country of Western Nigeria, Igbo refuse to contest, claiming it is 1 country.

Saraki (north) representing Diaspora from Kwara
Ahmed magaji tinubu(north) representing Diaspora from lagos
Buruji kashamu(north)
Mamora(north)
Okurounmu (ijaw)
Boroface (ijaw)
Bareehu Ashafa (north)
Edu(north)
Nassir isiaka (north)
Badro (north)
Bakare (north)
Shebba Lafiagi (north)
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TonThrilla:
I just wish Nigerians would someday understand the law!

gokay11:
When will this barbaric act stop?

Chidoks:
The author of this piece supports adultery 100%.note the following:
1. You cannot fight adultery with adultery.if he becomes violent during confrontation.cool down,force yourself to stay calm and bring up the issue at a safer time.don't even run to your/his folks.nothing much can come out from that end.report to God who will help you deal with the pain and ultimately change him
2. I really don't understand why most people these days say stuffs like"you see in Africa the expectations are high bla bla..."before nko? We are Africans!we have rich cultural heritage and characteristics. What is wrong in asking a woman to submit to her husband?can there be 2 captains in a ship?we understand order and uphold it.recently there are many cases of divorce because most of our celebrities got deceived by westernization.must we copy their nonsense?
3. Marriage is not for girls but women who can endure whatever challenge marriage brings and enjoy in the future when they must have refined their husbands and raised good children that will bring honor to such homes.but if you insist on adultery and are caught,your husband will drive you away,marry a more beautiful,younger cool headed damsel that will take your place and by then he may have stopped cheating! And your family,friends,co-workers ,supporters will mock you,avoid you,gossip about you,insult you and it will amount to 3-0

whizqueen:
Open marriage , like seriously

firstEVA:
like Ben10?

Ewuro4:
stop bringing me back on this thread kuilye abeg.

tooth cavity recipients boku here , the pain is excruciating

And I repeat..

bukatyne:
A wife should have the common sense to address her in-laws older than her by 'Aunty Y'/'Uncle Y' or 'Mummy X'/'Daddy X'

While I am a strong advocate of scrapping nonsense culture, I equally advocate wives/husbands make use of common sense and courtesy.

Would she address her married elder sister by name or disrespect her?

pinky1974:
Hummmm, please for u to av a peaceful home n for ur marriage to work u can use words like Iya oko mi for her n Mummy wa for your mother In law
Wishing you all the best o
Plenty Lessons in marriage O
God bless

Owliver:
it does. You and your likes reason with emotions attached which is bad. I have nothing else to say anymore.

funlord:

Bitch got what she deserved! Next.......

funlord:


Op! Learn to be patient in marriage! Your husband may be a naturally quiet individual or may be going through a difficult time in trying to provide for you and your family so bear with him! Meanwhile sit him down and have a talk with him about how you both can communicate better! Let him know that you won't mind starting a business you can even run from the home and that would also assist him in supporting the family, and believe me it can be profitable to do business from your home! For example My neighbour runs a water distribution factory from her house and business comes to her not her running after it! As for going out, try to suggest to him new and creative ways on how you and him and your kids can do more social things like take trips, picnics, and so on together and go on more adult themed dates with other couples that you both are friends with! Create a schedule that works for both of you! You are not his slave, and no man lives to make his wife unhappy, learn to both COMMUNICATE!

damiso:
Sambarry you got all this from the original post

damiso:
yes na.. I use NL to research and analyse equality issues

damiso:
I am not making excuses for him o I am just saying I don't know what advise to give as I don't know what the actual complaint is.

Like I said I can bet that 80% of the complaint is cos madam is the breadwinner. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that its not a valid complaint especially if the other party is not pulling their own weight.

But the original post is too vague for us to conclude that the guy is a lazy loafer who allows his wife to pay all the bills and now wants to go abroad to come a gateman

damiso:
I am trying to maintain a work/life balance

damiso:
I am not making excuses for him o I am just saying I don't know what advise to give as I don't know what the actual complaint is.

Like I said I can bet that 80% of the complaint is cos madam is the breadwinner. Don't get me wrong I am not saying that its not a valid complaint especially if the other party is not pulling their own weight.

But the original post is too vague for us to conclude that the guy is a lazy loafer who allows his wife to pay all the bills and now wants to go abroad to come a gateman

damiso:
aunty sambarry you def have loads of passion.

Are you now saying indiscipline should be encouraged? _{shhh I am actually replying from my office desktop and I am not in Nigeria} I say let me log on to ease off stress but walahi NL is reducing my productivity.

A good professional 9 to 5 job is also okay to live a good life anywhere in the west don't believe all the stereotypes not everyone is a janitor or gateman abroad.

Lets leave the reasons not to travel abroad illegally for another day and find out the real complaint of the woman in the original post.

damiso:
But Sambaryy we don't know if this guy wants to go for masters naa?

damiso:
Might be might not be. I also agree that 'travel abroad' is definitely not the way to go with no concrete plans. If na wasy cash, thousands have been shocked by a rude wakening when they land.

The original post is a bit sketchy but sometimes one spouse ( most times this complaints surface when its the woman breadwinner ) paying all the bills does not mean the other is lazy in the general sense of it.

damiso:
My question was more about the complaints and which is which
that she is the breadwinner or is she complaining that he does not want to travel abroad?

Those two complaints are two diff things entirely

damiso:
I get you but we have just heard one side of the story. Sometimes( and I am not holding brief for lack of respect) we tend to project how we think our partners need to see things without seeing it from their own point of view. Its a bit harder if one is dealing with someone who clams up and does not want to talk. That however does not mean that she still cant handle the situation without being confrontational.

As for her not working , I don't know if it was something they spoke about before marriage but that is a very vital aspect that I expect all couples to talk about pre marriage

damiso:
Is the issue her being the breadwinner or the fact that she does not know what he wants to go and do abroad?

Is the 'abroad' just vague or is he going for education, skill acquisition, hustle? Cos I don't really see why the issue of her being the breadwinner is just surfacing because he wants to go abroad?

damiso:
I was going to type a long epistle but this post says all I have to say.

Aunty Sambarry e calm down ejoor

ahnie:
Fifthed,its this type of husbands that likes wearin short knickers. na them go dey rub shirley for face everymorning dey press pimples from their faces.