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nnamdibig:
My dear
U said it all. And to think that it's only few of the people u mentioned feeds with their certificate. I can't even remember the school Genevieve Nnaji attended..... That's if any?

KanwuliaJara:
A happy DAUGHTER!

komek:
But must u lie with " its paining me" just 4 us to view u as good gurls? Can't most of u be creative? As in get better ways of driving ur points

komek:
When I see men listen to the cock and bull stories these babes come to tell us I just shake my head. What is going to be the diff btw now and when u guys r married. Would marrying her automatically reduce the pains?

MOST gurls are just pretenders , they just want u to see them as a good gurl meanwhile they r something else. Sex is not everything u need a lady for, if she has some other qualities that u want in a lady, just ignore her story and marry her, like she has told u she will open it better by then and tell u that u were the one that made him start liking sex...choi Naija babes can scam us sha. But atimes one will discover that the place is wider than that of a woman who has given birth to more than 7 children and yet they claim its paining them. Na wa.

kilokeys:
my gene is strong o

freecocoa:
You probably should ignore whatever you are not interested in then.

kilokeys:
i resemble my father
my father resembles my grandfather

its an anathema, a lugubrious stata if my baby doesn't look like me

freecocoa:
Yet you won't let her be, no be you dey always call her come every thread? You are very much interested in what she has to say na, so take whatever she says and don't complain.

BTW, the humour in that post was lost on you, maybe it's me having a weird sense of humour or something.

kilokeys:
hehehehehehe.. i laff in dutch..

no babe can try that with me.. i have this very unique large head, if my acclaimed baby is born with a tiny agbalumo head.. i know that child aint mine.

i wonder how pple accept other pple's babies.

raumdeuter:
No be ede times ede school you go ni?

You wey be ten ten champion for your street

Femsyn:
Maybe I'm old school, but I'm still wondering what a N5m wedding looks like. Who knows, the guy or his mother might be celebrities. I'm almost certain tho, that most of the funds will go into hall/tent rentage + decoration.

@topic, the answers are right in your face. Make a pick. Remember, its your wedding, not the mother's. Your decision should be final!

Platnum1:
Tell ur friend that a married nairalander advised thus;
**** that ceremony is just a show.after the ceremony when the real marriage starts,she will barely remember d glamorous wedding cos marriage can overwhelm an ill prepared person.
**** tell her to plan ahead,for her home cos after that ceremony,reality kicks in and God help them if all they ever planned towards was a day occasion.

I have lot. To say but I dey cook.lol. In a nut shell, 1 mill is more than enof.....it's even too much foe ggoodness sake

KanwuliaJara:
See yeye advice for me "frontage" o!
Abeg, make I go wash my nyansh first!
I dey smell sointin "meaty"!

Westendel:
Even if I forgive, how do I get to like him again? I can't possibly look at him without the thought of his abominable act playing in my mind

cococandy:
@westendel, sorry I responded late to your mention.
Just pull yourself together.

Don't let anyone guilt you into taking back a guy who betrayed you like that. If you want to, you want to. If you don't, then fine. it is not your responsibility to make work a marriage that your partner has no regards for.
In the end, make the decision that gives you peace and not the decision that leaves you with questions and bottled up resentment.

Your sister is 19 even though pretty young, she should know better.
I don't even have words for your husband.
If it was anyone else but your kid sister, it would be so much more different.
This is one of those situations where you wish he did it with someone else and you'd readily forgive.

All the best.

cococandy:
@westendel, sorry I responded late to your mention.
Just pull yourself together.

Don't let anyone guilt you into taking back a guy who betrayed you like that. If you want to, you want to. If you don't, then fine. it is not your responsibility to make work a marriage that your partner has no regards for.
In the end, make the decision that gives you peace and not the decision that leaves you with questions and bottled up resentment.

Your sister is 19 even though pretty young, she should know better.
I don't even have words for your husband.
If it was anyone else but your kid sister, it would be so much more different.
This is one of those situations where you wish he did it with someone else and you'd readily forgive.

All the best.

olu4life:
Just went thru all d posts. Most gave good advices but we shouldn't be sentimental. Fine, d sister is promiscious. What IF it was d sister that seduced d man Lets not conclude that d man had sex with her at age 14. OP said something about been the first love of the husband. Trying to view it the other way round.

Sincerely, divorce isnt yet an option till both parties reveal what went down. OP take heart. Its very ok to be angry at this moment and feel like getting a divorce but it isnt easy as u see it. Calmness is even far from u rite now, that I know but try to be patient and like sis babyosisi said, u have to sit ur sister down to hear her first before the family meeting. It is very very crucial. Also ensure u ae calm when talking to her. Be approchable during the talk and have listening ear.

#My2Kobo

KanwuliaJara:
I nor be fan of desperado fruit of womb and blokos matters o!
Instead of some women to be jumping up and down like they have won the lottery of "barrenness" in the hands of one SWINE of a husband, this wan is lamenting that she has been SAVED BY HIS DISGRACE!!!!
Which kain yeye atteshun?
Barrenness or incccest still dey in vogue for 2015?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!!!

Please, if she ever manages to conceive and finally born, make she come meet me make I show am a very SEXXXXXXY ABORTION DOCTOR, before or AFTER the birth!

Nansenze!!!!!!

thorpido:
She is unsettled accomodation-wise.I guess she needs a job/source of income and some funds.

suggyspic:
You don't get it. its not his business whom she choose to visit. its his friends that keep telling him about her. i think her relationship with his friend would definitely affect their friendship one way or the other.

thorpido:
She don misfire already.Now she has a child and needs to earn an income to take care of herself and the baby.Can u assist in any way?

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