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matify: Crap!!!

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander and that is the gosple truth and not the antiquated ink of male chauvinists whose thought-train have little relevance in our dynamic and contemporary world.

Women! Don't be blinded by those contraptions of men to hold you bound .

gbam!



Spot on

Godmystrength: But we can't say for sure how long the OP has been at it. What if the person is not willing to change or adjust?

then let him be.na by force. How easy do you think it is for an adult to change to please/satisfy another human being



During my early 20s my Brother UNSUCESSFULLY tried in every way to change me from addiction to tv/movies and he failed WOEFULLY because I DIDN'T WANT TO CHANGE

bottom line is :if an adult is used to a particular activity he has been doing over time, IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO CHANGE, believe me no amount of pressure from anyone can make him change. Change doesn't happen because a person whines shouts beg etc it starts because the person has made up his mind to willingly change.

Sophyrocks: This is marriage we are talking about o. Privacy for where person dey sleep for night again? Na im be say una be roomates and not husband and wife o. Then what kind of bond do you hope to create with your husband? How often will you bond with s*e*x if you continue with this privacy issue?

you can't expect anyone to change automatically just because he or she got married. Someone used to his space and privacy cannot immediately change. It takes time to adjust. I don't understand why op is looking for problem when there's none because I don't see any problem here

Some people enjoy their space and privacy like me to.


I cannot sleep if someone else is sleeping beside me . individual differences


solution: respect it


nothing wrong with that

Kanwulia: I really do not understand some of these posters and their insane urge to get personal on a faceless forum
The height of imbecility!

lmao abi o




if to say them fit exchange blows and punches for nl, I know how many people for don off their shirts



like the national house of assembly way
wey them dey use mase dey porshu themselves

Enu dun rofo

Kanwulia: Na wissh wan konsine ya?

roftl I was about asking the same question o

Instead of them to take a cue from people like danggote, they are shouting submission up and down as if people like dangote beg and shout for submission. Like he didn't earn it.rada rada

Submission ko subranulayi ni

Bar man, give me one bottle





I will come back to post when this place is on fire





observation mode activated

Kanwulia: I do the EXACT opposite and can still get what I want!

My husband does not subscribe to any submission rule. I trained him well!

baby fire
baby hot legs

Those days were before Nigeria gained its independence





as she said continue dreaming, it's free

oyb: sigh. . .

where are those days, when men were men, and a womans place was in the kitchen and then the bedroom?

lalasticlala: Aki

akis self confidence makes me marvel

Singing


pasito pasito oro resumi, ewoni kama gbadura, ko ka tan le mi



pasito pasito oro re sumi

to you



to her its loffff

soulglo: They are both mentally unstable. This is just like seeing a woman jump in front of a car to kill herself and then you conclude that women like to commit suicide. I thought you meant smacking her butt during sex or maybe just sex were a woman might want to be dominated.

cococandy: If a man is a good dad,he doesn't need his wife to launder his image to his kids.
And vice versa.
That speaking ill of the father is a moot point.
It's that simple. You can't bad mouth a parent who is up and doing. The kids can see things for themselves.

gbam.thats my point. You have nailed it

soulglo: What do you mean by slaps turn women on?

slaps turn SOME women on e.g the case of a husband who slapped his wife and she jumped and kised him.its on nl na.check the story and confirm yourself, meaning it triggered honiness in her

obowunmi: What's wrong in eloping with me?

mr great god is coming with police to get you arrested for conspiracy to elope with his wife

This is super story a life of strife and sorrow.......



continue the song na

Well slaps turn some women on and make some men feel more manly



its even amusing everyone of them are claiming innocence


as if they will admit before

At least 3million will cover all expenses and lgistics.its almost like paying for the whole wedding organisation, logistics etc . You don't need to lift a finger. All you just do is call and say this is how I want this or how I want it to be.


Renting folks from oshodi isn't to good because you don't want to rent illiterates who don't look presentable or will embarrass you at your wedding, rushing for food etc.we will make your money worth it. The ones at oshodi maybe lesser but it will be rowdy and devoid of class . they won't even help you out with the organisation of the whole isshh

coogar: hahahaha
£11,000 because you want to act as my mama? this thing is about N1,000 in oshodi. your price is too steep!



so you can't even guesstimate?

OlamiB: In this Nigeria?

what does location have to do with that?

OlamiB: There are some things the children doesn't know.

I don't understand what you mean

smartg: guess she's too useless to be a mother.

maybe as a mother but not as qn entrepreneur and hardworking lady

DonaldGenes: He is an overweight nigga

so disgusting. Ewww

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Bar man bring one stout.this place go be interesting

coogar: oga bellong, name your price!



so how much will this cost? i want a rough estimate.

at least 3 million which will cover other miselenous like hotel bills of the clients, feeding of the guests, and so on and so forth

Una never talk this matter finish. Una still dey on it

In addition sef if you are doing the right thing you will always want your wife to talk about you to your kids because you know your ways are worthy of emulation and you are proud of your character. Moreover kids are not stopeed.they see things.if what their mom says always match with what they see, then, case closed. .....next

OlamiB: It still doesn't make sence speaking ill of ur husband to the kids. What good will it do you? Will the child stp the bad attitude in the father? Rather it builts hatred against the man. I know what m saying, there is nothing the man will do that the child will appreciate, only if God. Grant Ɣ☺u a good child.

yes o.it will stop the bad attitude because when he is conscious that the mother is saying unpleasant things to his kids about how irresponsible their father is and how their father prefers to spend his money in the beer parlour and street ladies than on his kids, hr will start feeling ashamed that his kids a aware of his evil ways and that will force him to change for the better. In fact if he cannot change because of his wife he will change because of his kids because he won't want to appear in front of his kids that he has failed them. Those are the reasons o.


you cannot eat you cake and digest it.you can't be a father and still act irresponsible.stop letting all this men think they can be irresponsible or abandon every thing to the mother and when the child is some body tomorrow he will say that is my daughter. She took after me.let them know that he wasn't there for them.

greatgod2012: @op, can you marry me with my "baggages"

mr great god must hear of this.how you are trying to elope with mr obowunmi

That is all. If wives are just status quo instruments, then kids will come first after all the purpose you married them was for kids, so what's with all this rantings of you people looking for women who will perpetually massage your ego as if you have esteem issues. Una ni dey taya after all you are the MEN NOT BABIES SO WHY SHOULD YOU EVEN BE COMPETING WITH BABIES FOR ATTENTION






how does it appear to you?


stoopeed abi? Yeah right

Kanwulia: Another 'masculinity-whiny' thread!

DEAR AFRICAN MEN. . .YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW! DEAL WITH IT!
If you give love. . . you will get love.
IF YOU TREAT MARRIAGE AS A MEANS OF SOCIAL RECOGNITION. . . YOU WILL GET THE SAME!

The children will ALWAYS COME FIRST. . . EVEN BEFORE MARRIAGE! We will always use YOU to get them. . . .and dump you afterwards!


*next topic please*