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Persephone1:
Mumu human being You no know who you dey drag counter with sha... Na both of you will tire and I won't sweat!


HELP AND MOVE ON don't calculate your life on it!

help and move on,help and move on,oya help nigeria Na,pay all the debt nigeria owe

Oya walk your talk

Werey alasho

Persephone1:
Simple words they make you bleed from all holes in your body like this

Una go cry blood Tonight....

HELP AND MOVE ON MADAM! No die there!

aww I see NL is the only place you have a life and a voice

Life outside NL must be lonely and miserable for you with this your imaginary punishments o

Eni ti won wo lawo sunkun tinwo Ra e laworerin

Persephone1:
Swearsssss you and your friend go cry well well tonight

And my single stroke will continue to be:

HELP AND MOVE ON.

eh ya.i see say the pepper I put for your eye still dey pain you

You go advice Taya you never start

Persephone1:
Wahala dey oOoOO. I guess nah because I dey reply you you dey feel like one mgbeke ojota slay queen

Nah ontop your post i go write grammar on? Lol 😂 😂 😂 if this is grammar to you I wonder what village you crawl out from.

HELP AND MOVE ON MADAM! like move on move on!

village champion,you have been noticed

We don see you,oya shift

Persephone1:
Are you getting tired? I thought your mouth dey run before

HELP AND MOVE ON!

Very simple instruction come hard for you like this!

your own mouth sef don loose elasticity Na why e just dey talk off point repetitively

Na mad person dey talk repeatitively without direction

Abi Na by force to accept your unintelligent,lousy unsolicited advice.abeg carry your advice go give lawma,Na thrash

Persephone1:
HELP AND MOVE ON!!!

Who is impressing you with grammar? You think yourself too important

HELP AND MOVE ON MA'AM

Aunty stop impressing me with grammar.its not by grammar,it's by common sense which you're clearly bereft of

In your bid to justify yourself,you ended up exposing yourself

Talkative.when you talk too much you end up sounding stupid

Persephone1:
HELP AND MOVE ON!!!

HELP AND MOVE ON!!!

HELP AND MOVE ON!!!

take your own unsolicited advice,carry am give your children

Move

escapadechuks:
Avengers! Assemble!

Defender of the universe. Rest. Please rest. You must be stressed from all the defending. Op don rest. You sef rest.

OGA no be you I dey follow talk,Na you sef need the rest more.e don do you.chochocho everywhere

Zuwanike , alabosi okunrin

Persephone1:
You are just throwing words around and it's shameful

I maintain, Help and move On! Very simple Samlarry

haaa asoro dun,ofeke

E pain am

Hobiii

She's even using grammar to impress me

Pele tie.wa wa alright

I go soon bring Bucket o so you can cry me a River

Persephone1:
You are beginning to sound like a broken record and you lost me in your tantrums.

Jumping up and down the thread like a march hare. Madam I maintain help and move on. No be by force!

ejo reti poju, you're no longer making sense, you're talking off point

That's what happens when you try to hard to paint a picture of who and what you're not,you end up doing more damage to yourself by talking off point and incoherently.

Persephone1:
Ope afofungbemu ni eh .... You are not wise at all.


Anyways i maintain, help and move on. If you can't do that, don't help.

Very simple.

so kintu Sepe alabosi ati oniro Ni e,you're also a gaslighter and manipulator.otun go,ofenu hora.

I've said it before and I'm saying it again so that others can see who you really are,a fake.

Person wey dey do friendship with you don die,Na walking corpse.your matter be like nairamarley.anybody wey near you, their life must spoil

bigdawg7:
I always wonder if this hoes got family members

wait is this someone's wedding? And they let her in? With this ridiculous outfit? How? Are her parents dead?

Persephone1:
Oda pe Messi n gba bolu Lori ehn ,

I won't suffer the brunt of your half education...

My point remains Help and Move on. Maa ro pin sibe!

abosi Loma Pa e.

Alabosi Ni e.i now see what the op is talking about when she called you a hypocrite

Na your type go dey form unsolicited advice for church but be scattering people's home's underneath.you are not straight so koshilo.

Anybody wey near you don die,them never bury am

Persephone1:
I have made my point and I stand by it! Quit your panting like one who is experiencing brain cramps.

Help and move on! E ma ku sibe... It's simple nah!

Why are you crying on my mentions?

you sef rest! You talk too much.always trying hard to form miss Saint, zuwanike.its clear that you're a pretender

Persephone1:
Woman! If you can't help and move on, make it a business deal with clear terms!

So you do things for purpose? Interesting to know. Next time tell whoever is unfortunate to meet you this so they won't be caught unawares.

Very simple stuff!

alabosi, always speaking with 2 sides of your mouth, pretentious fake Christian

Mrs Nicodemus, pretender.tuehhh

Keep your toxic unsolicited advice to yourself.you need it more

Persephone1:
It's obvious you don't read to comprehend. The students were of a university in our town, Dad housed them without any gain years later I met one of them, we reconnect and offered to help my business. Do you understand or do I need to get crayons ?

Very different things but you are too narrow minded to figure it out. I have noticed you have comprehension issues now it's clear you do.

No need for back and forth, if you need a nanny, employ one. Leave your friends kids out of it. That's my point and I maintain it!

double mouthed woman, hypocrite,alabosi, green snake under the green grass.hiannnn!



I fear who no fear you!

Saint Mary for afternoon,demon for night

See as you just change mouth.e be like film

Persephone1:
I'm defending the woman because I know people like you who take advantage of other people's vulnerabilities. People like you would will maltreat the poor and needy because you are privileged enough to have more than them. People like you who turn themselves to almighty because they are able to render little help. I defend the woman because people like you will turn her kids to maids and maltreat them because you believe you own them.

Op couldn't even talk to the woman to confront her, she blocked means of communication and possible reconciliation just to come to Nl to rant of her goodness. And mumu you saw no wrong in that. How does this make sense?

Op you do whatever with her stipend, no one cares. We wouldn't know if she doesn't bring it here. If you need a nanny, employ one! It's very very simple!

yes because the neighbour is not a baby.hence the blocking.like the neighbour didn't know what she did? She needs someone to tell her Obi is a boy and Simbi is a girl.

If her kids Cannot be useful or are too big to be sent on errand make them Siddon for their mama house and yes like you rightly said she can do whatever she wants with her money and since op hand dey scratch,invest in your family, they'll pray for you and have your back than any fair weather entitled owo epo neighbour

Persephone1:
Says the person who have been calling God's name like tomorrow no dey Now you mock selflessness and expect me to take you seriously?

Nahhhh when I help i move on, I will not be expecting the person and his or her generations to serve my lineage . Help and move on, no turn Mario there. It's that simple! Later una go dey complain of how unkind people are or how they make everything about money and favour. Una go complain of being objectified because you need help. Nah like this everything dey start.

Palapala iwa apala

yes o I have to call God's name since you brought religion into the matter

Help and move on.pele o.mother Theresa of Africa I no know say to now send children Na insult only in nigeria


This one still dey lala land who told you people don't do things for a purpose? As per you wan outdo Jesus?

Oni Kati Kati

Ginaz:
Tufiakwah on your head. it's people like you will criticise king David who took Jonathan's son from nothing to be eating at his table but when he found out Jonathan's son didn't accompany him to flee from his son Absalom he gave his inheritance to his servant.

what do you have to say about what David did? If Its in this modern world I know you will say David is wicked and abused him. you people don't care about nobody apart from what you gain from them. it's only about your needs and wants, never mind if the giver is hurt.

Una go open mouth waaaa, begin talk rubbish. you that is talking can't put 5 kids at once in your house to feed for 2days let alone 4weeks.

Tufia on your mango head.

shebi I told you

If they cannot see anything to justify their parasitic behaviour after calling them to accountability, insults Will follow.this is so typical of fly monkeys.

Like Nigerians like their leaders.a lot of Nigerians are as wicked as their leaders.

Persephone1:
Was I the one who helped the students? is how low your brain capacity is? Was that the only thing you could get from the story? Anything to justify yourself I guess! . If I had requested he washed our plates or sing abusive songs like someone like you would have would he be of help to me years later? Your problem is delayed gratification, you can't just wait! You believe because someone did it to you it is the right and single way to go about life. You have tried so much to justify yourself on this thread that i doubt if your intentions were pure from the beginning! Na your type dey show up on outreach day to snap pictures and carry volunteer label while you do nothing! Lol see me ooo I dey help my poor friend with her 6 kids . Where's the hypocrisy in what I wrote, you just wan talk. Which proceed? Which help I gave out? Better go back to that post and read with a clear mind!

Aunty if you want to break the friendship with your friend, go on. Your grouse is with the mother not the kids! Leave the kids out of your repayment plan, you fit send their mama go market if you like!

She said exploit like she's my secretary and she sees us talk business You do have a creative imagination . Anyways... okay no ways... I owe you no explanation . So kids running errands for you is your priority? The best gain you can ever get.

Bottom line is leave the kids out of your repayment plan. Move on.

lmaooo Na them.fly monkeys everywhere.this is exactly like the op's neighbour.she is defending the neighbour because it's her type that's always feeling entitled on top of another person's thing.

Op have you seen another reason to face front?

Leave the woman at her 6 burdens alone and face your front oooo

I am sure your family also needs your assistance.i am sure if you call your sister once she will answer you twice.now this should teach you a lesson that before you help first study the behaviour of the person and know whether he/she has characteristics similar to these clowns on NL justifying mediocre behaviour before you know whether or not to help

Persephone1:
Yes it is, sending kids errands, calling kids or asking parents to send their kids over so you can send them errands is downgrading and disrespectful. It's like you reminding them of their condition and rubbing it in. For a minute think of this from the woman's perspective! No mother will be happy with that not even you! I'm not misconstruing, there's absolutely nothing to misconstrue here we are simply seeing from different perspective. So not indulging is a wise decision.

Yes nothing wey person no go see for Nl, because lot of you in support of Op will act exactly the way the mother did and even more if you were in her position. Help and forget! If you can't, make it a business deal with clear terms and conditions. Don't make someone go to bed in tears because you decided to "help"

Leeches? Again i ask, was Op held at gunpoint to help? In times she couldn't help was she resented for it? Leeches you say! This is terrible!

continue.

Pele o saviour of the world.you go soon learn the hard way them never press am for your eye before

You soon jam op neighbour type but I know you will be too ashamed to talk
Oshi rata marayo

Smh

Smh

Persephone1:
Are you saying your sense of gratitude should involve "enslaving your kids for food" ? Sometimes I wonder why you lots think you MUST receive where you SOW. Isn't this the genesis of "nothing goes for nothing" "you must offer something in return for anything you get" . It's really funny how you lot replace selflessness with selfishness.

I have been helped in the past, I didn't pay back immediately but I held them close to my heart. Recently I reached out to the lady who helped me, she was in need and I was fortunate to help out and promised to do more for her. Would i have helped her when she had nothing now if she had made me washed her panties or run errands for her because she helped me. Most of you are just so narrow minded that you believe you should be served because you rendered help oh scratch that you INVESTED .

She wasn't held at gunpoint to help anyone, if her help means enslaving her FRIENDS kids then she should stop it. Even the bible says whenever you help your left hand shouldn't know. Sadly here is one who is calling her supposed friend to send her kids over to run errands because she "helps" them. Hain! The lady didn't chase her away, nah op dey chase herself.

Lol... No worry leave me and God... Change your own mentality first!

running errands means enslaving kids? Tufiaaaa.did I say you must do tit for tat.i know you understand what I mean,you just want to misconstrue it but I will not indulge you

Nothing wey person no go see for NL o

Anyway to each his own.you can keep encouraging leeches till you learn the hard way.by the way who dey hold you and God

Even God helps those who will change first before he gives to them.no go read your Bible

9icetoo:
Sometimes, it is better to keep silent and be thought to be wise than to open the mouth waaaaa and dismiss all doubts.

Carry on ma. You and sambarry can do all you wish to people's kids just cos you are fortunate enough to give them hot meals every once in a while.

This life sha.

yinmu

I love children but I Will never feed anybody's entitlement or ingratitude.even the Bible says the Lord resists the proud and gives grace to the humble and one of the elements of pride is ingratitude,ego and entitlement.besides there's a difference between being kind and being foolish

Op like I said,carry that money and buy your mom Christmas clothes, send money to your dad, spoil your siblings and spend on your family and loved ones they'll appreciate it better and pray for you

That includes supporting the church financially.if you continue enabling the entitled n them go turn around to bite you and the same nlders will be here to laugh at you and drag you.you already know how caustic they are.

Ginaz:
abeg you dey madd. you never sabi where your madness dey start. why you nor carry the orphanage children for your house and feed them with that money if e sure for you?

you think it's by giving money? your mate nor dey get orphanage homes? You dey mad? you think it's easy to care for children and show them love? that money you put, I dey give orphanage money too.

carry children for your house and cook for them, wash plates and buy ingredients to cook for them. simple!

oga you dey mad but you're too stupid to see.🚫

anybody dey just enter NL dey cap rubbish talk is cheap

Na for nl person go say Na him get banana island,Na him build all the bridges for Germany,Na him dey supply Donald Trumps suit

Talk is cheap on nl jare

Ginaz:
They will curse you if you're a baby mama and constantly remind you how you're a second hand item which has lost its value.

atleast I nor dey worry about wenti my pikin go chop for this wicked economy. Make i enjoy the ignorance of not having a child yet.

you dey mind them

Madam those people castigating you and saying what you did is wrong are people exactly like your neighbour.they are people who like leeching on others and when they are called to accountability,you now see their full fledged character.you can see for yourself why you should Chanel your resources on your siblings and parents,let her look for her help go front

Persephone1:
Lemme pray this in my dialect

'Ki oluwa maa fi ona ati je wa sibi ti o nira '


God abeg ! Na beg I dey beg ooo 🤲

as you dey pray to God tell him to also give you the spirit of gratitude and take away the spirit of ego and entitlement when he eventually sends your helper to you make you no use your character chase away your helper like op's neighbour with her 6 kids and lousy bad character

Persephone1:
Lemme pray this in my dialect

'Ki oluwa maa fi ona ati je wa sibi ti o nira '


God abeg ! Na beg I dey beg ooo 🤲

as you dey pray to God tell him to also give you the spirit of gratitude and take away the spirit of ego and entitlement when he eventually sends your helper to you make you no use your character chase away your helper like op's neighbour with her lousy and bad character

goodmike7:
Poster what i can deduce from your story and responses is the fact you think everyone thinks and has a good intentions or pure heart like you.
people fail to see the pains of the poster here and its really sad, this a a woman who sacrifices her comfort, finances and groceries to help her friend and kids, and now she is suddenly enslaving the kids for sending them on errands? what is wrong with you people?
If the poster decided to adopt one or convinces the parents she wants one of the kids to live with her and take full responsibility would she not go on errands?

Suddenly we are all acting like we are not Nigerians, we all grew in societies where every child can be sent on errands by ant adult who lives there and gets disciplined by neighbors much more kids you cloth,feed and access your private chambers at will.

Dear poster, your good don do, focus noe on yourself as god sees your heart, if you ca, relocate to another neighborhood, but you were too quick to block her and not pick her calls...you should have gradually cut ties with her, i sense you also have anger issues and a little pride, work on it.

exactly what I told her.

Op stop giving them.carry that money go buy Christmas clothes for your mom, send money to your dad,buy shoes for your brother, take your sister out and spoil them,go to the hospital and ask for those patients who cannot pay hospital bills to by discharged and pay them, support the church in envangelism.stop feeding ungrateful people otherwise they'll bite you.as you can see there are even people like them supporting your neighbour and accusing you of playing god.you will know they're her type.you don try.now Chanel that money to your family and face front

JOHNFBOSCO:
Anty, do you ve to reply to all the post here omo...you no dey tire ni. You would ve just read through and pick the points that interest you.

There is a statement you made about how the kid has not eaten fried egg, tea and bread before he or she met you, please madam how did you know that..also how old is the kid per say.

Another thing is, you said ur so called frd is your childhood frd right And she has 6 kids already, abeg make I asked you...you never reach to born your own pikin, say shame no dey catch you like this 😒

Mehn I tire for you, I was supporting you right from onset, but the way u were just lambasting the whole thing is something else, I'm out of this shi^^t...close thread dahmmmm

misery loves company.so you want her to be like her friend Abi? Or she should just fling open her legs for any pen1s that comes around? Abi children Na toy wey you just dey get? You no go plan for their arrival?


No wonder poor single mothers don full everywhere with dysfunctional children.tuehh.when you see some posts you just wonder whether some people even had home training at all or they grew under the bridge.

Tuehh

escapadechuks:
You sound so sure about all you typed about me like you know me. Lol. You're just grasping at straws. You couldn't have been more wrong.


Anyway, truth is I help people when I can. It's not something to brag about. It's just basic human decency. But I don't help them expecting anything in return. . . Unlike you.

It's not too late sha. Change. You're too entitled and arrogant. It's not nice.

Calm down and reflect on yourself. You hate hearing the truth. That's why this post has entered 15pages and counting. If you want to help somebody, help them. If you don't want to help, don't help. You're nobody's God OK? She shouldn't need to turn her children to your nannies because you give them "something" after. Get off your high horse and realize you messed up.

They were surviving before you came along. They'll still survive without you.


If you want to send someone on errands, please send your own children.

Enjoy.

Na them.im not surprised.

Wherever you see narcissist,fly monkeys must dey around.wherever you see people encouraging ungrateful and entitled people,you must see their kind

Op this is exactly why I said stop responding to every post because the more you respond the more they label you.this is a typical example