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Petyprincess:
It baffles me hw some guys are proud to say they had their first sex with a prostitute
#shamelessguy

Many girls don't know they are prostitutes. When you give a guy sex and he buys you material things or gives you money, you are a prostitute even if you did it in your father's house. Prostitution is xchange of sex for material things.You might have even done it.

Ladies,we are disappointed in all of you

VanGun:
Dear please am sorry okay.

He is wrong, Paul Kagame is the president of Rwanda

It is Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu University

Mammy water ...abiku,ogbanje,aljenu etc

iLegendd:
This is why I always say, "You are your president."
In being your president, keep it legit.

Where can I buy this book?

Congratulations dear...it's not easy to get this score in an era where malpractice is the in-thing .

Finally we have seen him. Where are those people that were blabbing that the Federal government is not saying the truth?

You would have been right if you told her to leave your husband alone but sorry sister, boyfriend doesn't belong to anybody

... and I will still call her prostitute

Corona youths

MelesZenawi:
Pentecostal churches are the problems of this country.

They have configured, subjugated and brain washed the minds of their followes and creating followership without proper God's word.



You can as well refer to them as CEO of their churches( Company) and chairman board of directors in the church company business.



They are many Redeem, winners, mountain of fire, Iginla, house on the rock, synagogue...etc

These churches has made christianity a laughing stock in eyes of men and other religions.

Until all these churches are abolished, they will continue to work on minds of people with their tactics.

What a beclouded and deluded mindset

This is super storyyyyyy .... somebody complete it please

If I call her prostitute,some slowpokes will rush to criticize me but I am still gonna call her PROSTITUTE cos she is marketing her body

Ok , we have noticed you,can you move on please

Sex !!!! how many minutes kwanu ? his eyes go don clear by now

Leezah:
Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.

Maybe.

2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.

Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.

Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.

Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.

Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.

Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner.

If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own. Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.

I especially think in todays world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in othe areas. Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…

Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).

Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it. Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.

Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.

Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.

Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one?
Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous?
Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend?
Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side?
Many questions to ask before you take any action.

So long a letter by Mariama Ba

Leezah, you are very much correct. Teach me more. Can you?

In the next world,God will not create women

Computer breasts...yet to believe that

I want to join that business. pls is it advisable? serious advise please

Someone encouraged me to start Bitcoin business.he has opened account for me.Do you think it's not risky investing now the world economy is shrinking?

Chi59:
She has the kinda shape of lips I wish I had. Pretty woman.

Your lips are fine

Ifere Mee gi there

I have not seen lady's comments. What's happening? Una never come back from church?

They have removed comments from his mouth. Last last, nobody is bigger than the government

The man is jejely having his rest. Last last,he will add weight to his physique.

Straight to her father's house.

and heat dey kill person here.