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Nairaland GeneralRe: Ope Mercy: 21-Year-Old Benue Girl Declared Missing! Have You Seen Her? by sammiewrite(m): 9:26am On May 13, 2025
Always the teen girls/21 - 25 year old ladies. Abeg, let this be her family's problem and/or the police's, because when she is found, after I must have wasted my time retweeting and sharing, her family will just give us the middle finger by thanking us that she has been found, without telling us if she ran away due to family ish, eloped with a lover, or even a one-chance or ritualist victim. These details are crucial, but apparently the families don't rate us enough. Anyway, na anyhow pesin dey give birth to anyhow pikin.
FamilyRe: Pastor’s Daughter Reveals Why She’ll Never Seek Marriage Advice From A Pastor by sammiewrite(m): 3:16pm On May 12, 2025
Kobojunkie:
IF your idea of marriage indicates suffering and disrespect, then doesn't that already indicate its low worth to both involved? undecided

2. Why engage in an endeavor that you know would bring you more suffering and anguish? Not all marriages worldwide are fraught with suffering and shege, mind you! undecided
For your point 1, it is not my idea. Those were the words of your fellow gender whose posts was referenced, which I simply replied to. In the post, she stated she will not seek marital advice from a pastor because pastors usually advice women to tolerate suffering and disrespect. And my reply was off that premise, that it is only your gender who believes and can voice the opinion that it is only women who are suffering and enduring disperect in marriages. You lots believe that as far as a relationship between a man and woman, the man is automatically the aggressor or culprit, while the woman is a gentle angel that cannot lie or hurt a fly. For most men, we believe within our ranks, there are the good, the bad, and the ugly.
For your point 2, I have been around here for sometimes now and I know you like unnecessary arguments and drawing silly conclusions to suit your own agenda, which is fine. But, I didn't say or mean any of what you highlighted. You may want to go back and read my last post that you quoted.
FamilyRe: Pastor’s Daughter Reveals Why She’ll Never Seek Marriage Advice From A Pastor by sammiewrite(m): 2:07pm On May 12, 2025
It takes dishonesty, delusion, or lack of exposure to opine that only women are suffering and getting disrespected in marriages. In Nigeria and elsewhere aruound the world, there is no shape, size or level of shege that men are administering to women that women are not administering to men. The false sainthood narrative that modern women have always tried to push just for attention and being seen as the victim will be their end.
EventsRe: Family Slams Nigerian Uk-based Man With N21.57m Wedding Bills by sammiewrite(m): 12:49pm On May 07, 2025
"If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." The groom should just call of the wedding if he is smart and not try to negotiate. This is the kind of family where the wife will collude with her mother to use Western family courts to wipe the man clean after birthing a child or two. To the bride and her family, the groom is not a husband-to-be or a son-in-law-to-be. He is simply an utility, a means to an end. God help you marrying into such a family.
PoliticsRe: Ansaru Expands Terror Cells In Kogi, Builds Largest Terrorist Camp Near Abuja by sammiewrite(m): 6:59am On May 07, 2025
Obasanjo's legacy. Like the other leaders the country had had bar maybe Muritala, OBJ is one very unpatriotic leader who was all about himself and power.
That time the 12 northern states demanded a separate law from the laws that applied to other Nigerians, OBJ should have given a very robust response (a la Odi and Zaki Ibiam) or at the very least, countered with the option of a separate country. It was because those 12 states succeeded in their quest and there were no severe consequences to send a very strong message, is the reason Boko Haram even had the temerity. Today we aren't only talking about Boko Haram, we are talking about their splinter groups, which is a bigger problem considering Boko Haram were confined to the North East for many years.
FamilyRe: Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children by sammiewrite(m): 3:39pm On May 03, 2025
I have been following Op's story for a while now and I just wish the next time he post, people will just ignore him. He is very selfish and irresponsible, and I know that his next update would be him announcing the birth of his eight child. He is not thinking about his wife who has had to put her life on the line seven times, or his kids whose standard of living will be severly impacted with his ambition to become the father Abraham of our time.

Op is grinding out kids now he is happy. Ten years from now when his first three kids would've become teenagers with increased appetite for food, or when one or two of his kids will be sitting for the jsce/ssce exam, when he will be required to pay for three terms at once plus the exam fees, that is when he will start blaming the government in power. Or, he turns to his first born and start blackmailing him into taking on responsibilities (s)he is neither capable of or prepared for.

And as for the few people who are hedging Op on, telling him to ignore sound advice and live his life, I just want to say that may we not become victims of our own devises. Well, I would like to remind them that hardly will you see armed robbers, bandits, internet fraudsters, oloshos, ritualists, etc. from middle/high income families. These vices are usually common with low-income families where the father can't provide the basics, but even so, large families like Op where the parents aren't actively involved (on a personal level) in the lives of their children.
PoliticsRe: Sandra Duru Leaks Calls, Says Sen. Natasha Deleted Their Chats (Videos) by sammiewrite(m): 4:35pm On May 02, 2025
Natasha's goal is to destroy men, so what? Why is this woman getting herself involved? Lessons were meant to be learnt in full by the likes of Apkabio.
From the group of men who sponsored a Natasha to the senate despite all the other qualified men and women in Kogi, to the male police bosses who refused to take action on the evidence presented to them because this is not a Sowore with a dangling phalus, to Natasha's husband who rewards a serial liar and blackmailer with marriage, to the old fools whom Natasha sent to beg Reno Omokri for out of court settlement - all these kinds of men deserve to be destroyed completely, and the last thing anyone should be doing is trying to interfere.
PoliticsRe: North Will Decide The Winner Of 2027 Presidential Election – ACF by sammiewrite(m): 11:06am On May 01, 2025
This particular strain of madness is very easy to fix.
First off, heighten border control and make sure they don't head the immigration or customs.
In the lead up to the election, roll out raids across the country especially up North to deport as many undocumented foreigners.
Then, census must happen before the elections, with advanced techs like fingerprint being at the core of the process.
Lastly, we already have iRev and Bvas, integrate more of this type of technologies into our electoral system.
Christianity EtcRe: Christianity Etc Section And No More Oaths by sammiewrite(m): 10:42am On Apr 25, 2025
Seun, if you're reading some of the feedback on your so-called announcements, you should have notice a trend by now, that communication is not your strong suit. Improve on this or get a professional.
Some of the things I have seen you write over the years on a faceless forum can be forgiven. However, if you mistakenly say half of it offline, especially as someone with maybe political ambition, your opposition won't even need to campaign against you.
PoliticsRe: Terrorists In Military Uniform Kill 6 Residents Of Ilesha Baruba, Kwara by sammiewrite(m): 11:36am On Apr 22, 2025
Unfortunately nothing will be done. It is sad because we aren't even looking at the elephant in the room: democracy. All that democracy will get any country or people (especially of different idealogies) are pandering leaders who will always kowtow to their election sponsors or where majority of their votes will come from.

Governor Aiyedatiwa and Abdulrahaman are mute. Governor Mbah and Nwifiru are always in denial mode. Governor Muftwang is always acting confused or ignorant. Benue Governors are always acting clueless. Governor Seyi Makinde ate his own words on Sharia because of presidential ambition. Atiku deleted his post on Deborah. Governor Opkeholo of Edo ran to Kano meanwhile there are several reports of killings of his own people on his table that he neither speak to, nor took any action against. Even the president will be asking where are the cows when the victims are from a section of the country with less "political value," whereas when it is the other side, he will be talking tough, creating ministry of livestock, trying to grab people's ancestral lands in the name of ruga, or offering amnesty to hardened criminals who should ordinarily have their day in court.

Nigerians are on a long thing is all I can say. Without the usual blackmail of votes and with the enormous powers of a president or governor, any nonsense can be stopped in two weeks tops.
PoliticsRe: 8 Gunmen Ambush Vehicle, Abduct Seven In Kwara Attack by sammiewrite(m): 7:49am On Apr 21, 2025
The security architecture in Kwara state should be ashamed of themselves. Kidnapping has been happening in that axis for at least five years. To apprehend these kidnappers is very easy if not that the police don't want to for reasons best known to them. Those guys are always operating around that 6 - 7 pm Saturdays. A neighbour and my dad's former boss who lost his live to those daredevils in 2022 was also kidnapped around that same time while he was returning from a wedding.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Does Nairaland Need Right Now? by sammiewrite(m): 8:55am On Apr 15, 2025
Lots of great ideas already so I don't have anything else to add. I just want to say that you should be very careful with your users that are harping on propaganda and bigotry as some of the things that needs to change (yes, it needs to, but not in the way they want it).

What I have come to understand is that majority of the people making these comments are guilty of this same propaganda and bigotry that they're always wailing about (check their monikers and post histories). It's not like they want bigotry or propaganda to be gone for a good reason; it's just that they don't want competition - they just want to be the only one spreading the lies and hate unhindered. You can already see someone on this same thread justifying his attacks on other users tribe but in the same sentence feigning ignorance of why someone would dare attack his own noble, protected tribe. It has even gotten to a level that commenting on neutral topics like japa would earn one the label of being on the payroll of the government.

If you want to approach this particular issue, go ruthless; If you're dropping mods, drop the ones that have been accused of being pro APC and/or the Westerners, and also the mod that is always pushing the oriental guys agendas and taking their sides in matters. Don't allow anybody to gaslight you. Treat everyone as guilty and nobody as victims. This is the only way. Failure to do this, then you will be creating another "ronu" situation.
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by sammiewrite(m): 7:27am On Apr 07, 2025
dealslip:
Thanks for your strategies. Do you have a channel where you share signal or give guidance. I will like to subscribe. Today I blew my account from 592usdt to 138 usdt. I a very sad 😢. Though I began trading just two weeks back. I built from 160usdt to 592usdt but the charges are just two much. I will really need guidance and more strategies to do better. I will appreciate your help
You didn't quote me but as someone who has benefited immensely from this thread I'd like to say:
1. As for reducing your balance from 592 to 138, this is clearly a risk management problem. I think your knowledge in this aspect is not enough and should do some more readings. Myself as an example only trade BNB with a x3 leverage. BNB is very liquid and with two or three successful trades in a day, ranging between 15 - 25 USDT, I close shop for the day. With a x3 leverage, worst that would have happened to your 592 is you lose the 92 on top. It is also beneficial psychologically, because you won't be under the same amount of pressure, or won't be as desperate to make 92 USDT back, as you would trying to make over 500 USDT back.
2. If you think the trading fees of the platform you're on is too much, I recommend you switch to B1nance. But regardless of the exchange you're on, another thing you should be aware of is funding fees. Don't go trading funny pairs like FUN/USDT their funding fees will kill you. Stick to BTC or BNB for now.
NYSCRe: Maharazu Tsiga: Hell I Saw In Kidnappers' Den - Ex NYSC DG Narrates Gory Story by sammiewrite(m): 3:46pm On Apr 06, 2025
National disgrace. On top of it, we still aren't shameful as a country, nor have we shown any seriousness or readiness to tackle these monsters once and for all.
By now I expect that political representatives from Katsina to be moving motion to ban open grazing since these daredevils use it as a guise to perpetrate their evil acts. Also, instead of this needless video, I expected to see scores of those idiots being paraded, that is after they must have sent another scores six feet under. What about a full independent investigation being conducted on the likelihood of some serving officers within our security architecture being collaborators?
PoliticsRe: Police Officer In Kaduna Threatens Reprisal Attack On Southerners In North by sammiewrite(m): 2:51pm On Apr 02, 2025
Believe it or not, that policeman spoke the mind of majority of his people. They have been getting away with the killings of Southerners for as far as I can remember, so he knows that at the end of the day, nothing will happen. If nothing happened to Buhari after his "dogs and baboons will be soaked in blood" 2011 statement, where hundreds of Southerners were targeted and killed, nothing will happen to him. Worst case scenario he gets transferred to another core Northern state.
PoliticsRe: INEC: Tinubu Shops For Yakubu Mahmood's Replacement as tenure ends in November by sammiewrite(m): 12:44pm On Mar 27, 2025
When it is convenient, as in when talking about the price of food items or the state of the economy, OBJ and GEJ governments will be referenced, but when these same governments are referenced for something that doesn't suit the agenda, like how the two presidents appointed INEC chairmen in their time, that is when some people gets to draw the line, and will now be asking stupid questions.
As much as I know this article is speculative, the president should choose anyone he wants and heaven will not fall!
Since serious national issues are now being reduced to agenda and interests, let's keep up with the hypocrisy.
CrimeRe: Wife And Children Decided To Kill Their Dad Because Of Pension Money by sammiewrite(m): 12:04pm On Mar 17, 2025
Sunk cost is what got many men into this kind of situation, unfortunately. All the stories of spousal abuse that I have followed, it usually starts during the courtship/dating. In fact, ask this man the first time he received slap as an adult, I can tell you it will be from this his so-called wife and also most likely when they were dating. Many years after, that woman who was slapping him then has now graduated into tying him up like a goat, and even recruiting his children against him.

Men have no business with sunk cost. As humans, we won't make the best of decisions all the time, but once you know you have fvcked up biggerly (especially with the choice of a wife), admit it quickly (best before the kids start coming) and move on.
NYSCRe: Lagos Corper Ushie Rita Cries Out Over Threats After Criticizing Tinubu’s Govt by sammiewrite(m): 1:36pm On Mar 16, 2025
People call Tinubu names everyday without anybody paying them any attention, but must she criticise the government while being a "government pikin"? What is so difficult in waiting a few more months, after her status must have reverted and having returned to her turf, before sharing her opinion?

In her small mind now she thinks the worst that could happen is that she will not receive her certificate? She forget, however, that she is not indigent to the city she tagged "smelling." Plus, the politician she labeled "terrible" has a lot of supporters who could quickly go out of line. I also hope she knows revealing private conversations could have legal consequences.
PoliticsRe: Igbo Town Unions Reject FG’s Ranching Plans In South East by sammiewrite(m): 8:47pm On Mar 12, 2025
lawani:
It is many people's source of livelihood and it must therefore be done with caution. They must call them to.meetings which will lead to a deadline for them to sort themselves out even if only to withdraw gradually and build their ranches in the North. There is nothing wrong with building ranches in the North where they have land. They can still get fodder from anywhere. It will be wrong to approach them like criminals. There must be a long enough deadline that they subscribe to
PoliticsRe: Igbo Town Unions Reject FG’s Ranching Plans In South East by sammiewrite(m): 8:44pm On Mar 12, 2025
lawani:
It is many people's source of livelihood and it must therefore be done with caution. They must call them to.meetings which will lead to a deadline for them to sort themselves out even if only to withdraw gradually and build their ranches in the North. There is nothing wrong with building ranches in the North where they have land. They can still get fodder from anywhere. It will be wrong to approach them like criminals. There must be a long enough deadline that they subscribe to
It is the right to approach them as criminals because that is what they are, no sugarcoating. Murderers are criminals, rapists are criminals. This idea of preferential treatment for certain groups of people is why we are still having this discussion in 2025. It is why Bashir is being overlooked for his statement about the Southern Kaduna people whereas FFK in 2022 received an invite for much less. I just hope the FG knows that Nigerians can see through the bias. I also hope that they can feel the temperature of most Nigerians, that they're tired of these marauders.
PoliticsRe: Igbo Town Unions Reject FG’s Ranching Plans In South East by sammiewrite(m): 7:48pm On Mar 12, 2025
In Nigeria, rape, murder are crimes where the perpetrators are often arrested and prosecuted. Why is it that when it is done by a Fulani man it is no longer a "crime" where the criminals are to be arrested or prosecuted, but rather a "problem" whose only solution is "a livestock ministry" and/or ranching?

The people have spoken and the FG should back off. If they are serious about the whole "farmer-herder" crisis - like, is it even farmer-herder clashes, when it is the herders who are always trespassing and committing mass murders? - and think they need to get involved, they should:
1. Ban herding and proscribe the herders national association and its members as terrorists
2. Go after the criminal herders and treat them like the criminals they are.
CelebritiesRe: Skitmaker Oluwadolarz’s Fiancée Ends It, Says He Is Broke And Sleeps Around by sammiewrite(m): 1:24pm On Mar 12, 2025
Anyone who thinks this lady is lying should go and watch Oluwadollarz interview with Chude (in 2023 or 2024) on YouTube. Also, for those doubting Dollarz being broke, what most people don't know is that some of these guys are struggling with addictions. Some it is drugs, others it is gambling.
EducationRe: Kidnapped Female Students Of Uni-agric Makurdi Released (video) by sammiewrite(m): 10:39am On Mar 06, 2025
All these kids with brains that are not fully developed. After their parents must have collapsed their life savings, sold properties, or maybe even borrowed millions to secure their release, so the next thing is to set camera and be jumping around like a deranged squirrel?
HealthRe: NAFDAC Director, Martins Iluyomade, Escapes Hoodlums’ Attack In Onitsha by sammiewrite(m): 7:23am On Mar 05, 2025
If until now the government has not arrested or started the prosecution of certain high profile people in connection to this case, Iluyomade and his DG should read the room and use their heads. They should understand that without the government arresting the faces behind the fake drugs (most of whom are their politician friends), all their efforts is a waste, as these guys will only lay low for maybe a few months and resume duties like nothing ever happened.
PoliticsRe: Attom Magira: Zulum Demolishes Plaza Owned By Staunch Critic by sammiewrite(m): 10:01am On Mar 03, 2025
Our redemption will start any day we come to a conclusion that democracy is a SCAM. It was the idea of cunning and dishonest people who wanted power, but knew they stood no chance against the military and monarchy system.

Democrats have not been better at administration, governance or cost saving. Their record is also very poor in terms of abuse of office and power, as democrats sneaked in fancy and deceitful words like immunity and clemency (which they routinely abuse to free their criminal family members and associates). If you ask me, I'd say, democracy is everything the other systems of government is, with "hyprocrisy" as the icing.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Kicks Zelensky Out Of The White House After Heated Argument (Video) by sammiewrite(m): 10:58pm On Feb 28, 2025
There's just too much that I can't just understand about this Zelensky of a man and his country.

First off, are there are no older, more experienced politicians in Ukraine that can be guiding this schoolboy on how to deal with OGs like Trump and Putin? His naivety and lack of experience is clearly showing.

Like, why did he even attended the meeting (alone)? How come he didn't anticipate this kind of situation? Why did he agree to have the meeting with cameras everywhere and with Trump's vice present? Why did he accept that kind of sitting arrangement? (someone like Putin will be having such discussions on a very long table, for example).

Ukraine is fvcked currently but at the speed this guy is going, I dunno. One thing I know though is that it is a race against time to salvage what is left, and Zelensky can't be a part of it anymore.
PoliticsRe: 'Akpabio Wanted To Sleep With Me' - Natasha Akpoti Alleges by sammiewrite(m): 3:05pm On Feb 28, 2025
Standard women go-to. Didn't the now expelled Unizik girl tried the same shit?
PoliticsRe: How Babangida Converted Maryam To Islam by sammiewrite(m): 3:44pm On Feb 25, 2025
I shared with her the fact that my faith was an integral and essential part of my life and that I would require her to convert to Islam.

Praise be to Allah; this was not a difficult decision for Maria. Being part-Christian and part-Muslim at birth and already living in a Muslim household, it was never going to be wholly uncharted territory for her.

Who swore for this old man never to say the whole truth? Why always half truths?

IBB admitted in his first statement that the whole convert thing was his idea but look at his second statement. According to him, although from a mixed background, Maria was still a Christian and an adult as at the time they met. If she wanted to switch sides so bad, wouldn't she have done it prior to meeting Babangida?

That was how he said in his own words that he took responsibility for the June 12 ish and even affirmed that Abiola won the election, only to turnaround and try to rope Abacha in, when he was in fact the one who announced the annulment, plus Abiola was still alive when Abacha died.

Seriously, the media should give us a break from this man.
PoliticsRe: There Was No Igbo Coup - Rufai Oseni by sammiewrite(m): 10:54am On Feb 22, 2025
How any sane person will see the list of the coupists, the victims, and the beneficiaries and say it wasn't ethnically motivated is what I don't understand.

What I have come to understand is that they know the truth but are too prideful/shameful to admit it, reason they come up with ridiculous narratives like doing it to free Awolowo, a man the coupists or Aronsi neither deemed fit to immediately release or even release several months after.

If the argument is that IBB should be believed because he was part of the military, then maybe we should also believe the likes of Muritala and TY Danjuma who were also part of the military setup at the time, who deemed the coup as an ethnic coup and hence staged a counter coup.

The thing is, when a group of people crave for truth, fairness, and justice only when they're at the receiving end but turnaround to lie, twist facts and outright block every attempt at fairness and justice when they are the offender, then I'm not surprised about their karma as they'recurrently experiencing it in the Nigeria of today. It is one thing to think yourself as smart, but another thing to think everyone else is foolish.
BusinessRe: Ex-Skye Bank Chair Ayeni Rejects Ex-Mistress’ Daughter by sammiewrite(m): 11:44am On Feb 20, 2025
Glister:
Not just house, expensive cars,i remember then she was driving a Range Rover Sport latest model which he bought new for her and other cars, properties,1st class trips, he even bought or maybe rented a whole office floor building for her as law office in Wuse Abuja.The girl was living a soft baby girl life.he was always in her office so tey his own employees at d bank joked around that the man's office is in the girls office as he hardly sits in his office..that u can only find him in her office if u can go through the girl u will meet with him.lol.Suddenly matter tie wrapper he now wants to deny her child.e no go work!Shameless old man sleeping with his daughter's classmate and friend.Ozuor!
I was wondering what a man who has everything to lose was doing with a woman who has nothing to lose. I then read Mr. Ayeni's statements and your comment and did some Googling and then everything became clear. Another money miss road who didn't became rich by his brain cells or hard work but through cronyism and Nigeria's dysfunctionality, reason he was able to do all that for a woman in exchange for few minutes of pleasure. Men like him will have domestic workers they will be paying fifty thousand Naira in this hard economy but can move the mountain for women who don't give a fvck about them. The lady should not release his neck ooo.
SportsRe: One Of The Worst Penalty Takers I’ve Ever Seen, Atalanta’s Coach Blast Lookman by sammiewrite(m): 2:24pm On Feb 19, 2025
Gasperini's approach to both legs of the tie got them eliminated. It's fine if he doesn't wants to take responsibility. At the same time, he shouldn't pass the blame around. He had arguably better players than Brugge but still couldn't beat them away. Knowing what is at stake at home, you then decide to concede three goals at first half? Even the likes of Barca who have upturned such goal margin in the past would actively avoid a repeat.
EducationRe: Yetunde Lawal: Kwara College Of Education Final-Year Student Murdered In Ilorin by sammiewrite(m): 3:34pm On Feb 15, 2025
Bukola94:
nothing will come out from it you said? He will receive death sentence or life imprisonment
Maybe this one that has hit the news but don’t be too sure. You noticed it was said in the police report that the suspect is the son of a prominent cleric? Did you also saw that they didn't release his name or picture? Another detail captured in the report is that going by the setting in the suspect's room, this may not be his first victim and yes, I'm not surprise.

If it is the Ilorin that I have known for over two decades, most criminals are repeat offenders who should have been allowed to have their days in court. But once police arrest any of their sons, what his family will do next is to go to the victim's family house (Agbole), where they will try to blackmail them into dropping the case. If this is not successful, they lobby their district heads, traditional leaders or clerics to put pressure on the victim's family.

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