winningwinner:


See now... I think he was right in what he did. Calling him foolish because he appealed to the world to witness what is going on is not being stupid. That's wisdom and a show of his likeness for justice. That is if he is guilty or innocent, he wants the world to know.
Yea, your likes have condemned him to death already by saying he was guilty. If I may ask, what type of justice are you going to get from a court where everybody including the judges have passed a verdict GUILTY before the case is heard in court for the first time?
Hatred everywhere.... God help Nigeria!!!!

Half of the inhabitants of that African forest are animals.
Remember that whenever you are dealing with them because everything is judged in three ways there; Religion, Tribe, Political Party.

Anybidy who is not among their Religion, Tribe or Political Party is an enemy.

cococandy:
Man's house indeed. Because the wife is a tenant in it.

You're obviously a retard. I need a knock or two for engaging you in the first place.

I don't blame you, it's this white garment and ring that confuses some of you to think that after marriage, you can get away with everything you do.
You think Nigeria is in America. We will judge things based on what is obtained in the society we live. When we become like those countries where women have that 50/50 rights with their husbands, we will adjust our judgements and advices.

In a society where 90% of the wives depend on their husband, you seriously think equal rights can work.
No sister, it's not my doing but as long as the husband provides nearly everything in the house, you will remain a half tenant there.

It simply means you can be thrown out if you cross some red lines. Tell me you don't see such things everyday.

But you, you can't throw a man out from his house in Nigeria, can you? Especially if the house is in his ancestral home.

Mindfulness:


Since you are sure that she is evil, you should be the first to encourage her to take the child back.

I was going to do that, but I got pissed off the way she totally condemned this girl online.
No single good word for this girl, just total condemnation like a common criminal.

So how come none of these people has said anything about it?
Did Buhari tell them not to say anything about it?

Until some of them comes out to tell us this is true, i will take this news the way i take APC news.

cococandy:
How difficult is it to develop love?

Shows you have no idea what you're talking about.

Typical mor0n. Telling others to do what they can't do. How many suffering children have you taken in and developed love for like your own kids? Do that first before telling others to do it.

And yes you're right. If it was her child she'd probably have more patience. But it's not her child is it? Give me one reason why someone else's child should become her responsibility without her deciding on her own to take on such responsibility? Except for the simple reason that most of you are entitled mor0ns who think others owe you sh*t for fvcking your own wives and putting babies in them.

Silly.

Who would blame you evil thing.
You are probably having a very bad marriage, that's if you are married.
I pity the unlucky coward that lives with you.

One thing you blackheads should always understand is that it's pretty much easier to find a woman to marry than to find a man who will marry you.

So before you give those ultimatum in a man's house, especially against his relatives whom you don't know the relationship between them, know that it's easy to send you packing.

GoodBoi1:
Women and their territorial behaviour. The moment they marry a man they expect everything to take the back seat in his life.Free the girl jaree,,she's exploring the world, and when you explore things get broken. It seems she has a flair for engineering.

Very well. Reasonable people are talking now.

I have dished it out to her already. She is the evil woman here, just that she doesn't know it yet.

MarryMeee:
Wrong people?

Mrs Aristotle,
I didn't know you are this clever to post a quote.
Are you just seeing my posts?

When next you need advice, look around your house, you can get everything you need there.

You don't come to condemn a living little girl and want us to approve whatever evil plan you wish to dish out on her. I wonder what you would tell any man who wishes to marry this girl in future.

We hear and see women bathing young house helps with hot water and and all that.
We have heard of one who cut off a young boy's manhood.
What evil can you people not dish out?

Before you make that looming mistake, ask your self what you would do if this evil girl is your younger sister.
If you would have did all you could to help her, then extend the same to this girl.
If you would have poured hot water on your sister, do the same to this girl.

If you would have sent your sister back to wherever she came from, please do the same thing to this evil girl.

But if you would have given your sister time and small punishments to change her ways, do the same to this one.

You first of all, have to withdraw this raging anger inside you, otherwise you are going to make a mistake you will regret.

It's just a matter of few years before you get old and rinkled while she glows and shines like you think you do at this moment.

You may eventually need her help someday. That's how this world works.

cococandy:
Wish I had your patience to calmly explain things like this to 'adults' who should know such without being told.

You probably believe I am interested in whatever this perceived evil child does or don't. I don't care, trust me.
The problem with your likes is that you already have this bad memory of the girl, even when you don't know if what she was accused of were true. If you ever happen to meet this young girl on the road, all you need to condemn her more is for someone to just point at her and tell you she was the girl in question. That's how powerful evil words can be.
That said...



My outburst was centered on how this woman condemned an entire family she married into.

She condemned the father as a no good man who only goes out to enjoy himself.
She condemned the mother, and butchered the girl herself.
All on the ever open Internet.

The woman deserves what she got from me.
Since she wants to play condemnation game, I am just giving her a helping hand.

enygmababe:
@SamMilla1 and Valprof, you may have a point but you have also being very extreme.

1. You assume that marrymeee was wicked even from the beginning because she said initially she did not want the child. Well, when a couple are young and newly wedded, particularly when there are no kids yet, bringing in a child from a relative is something that should be seriously considered first because it will inhibit relations between the couple. A young couple in the home alone will make love any and everywhere. The can prance around their house naked and cook when and if they feel like so when thinking of bringing in a child it merits serious consideration.
2. We live in a society where we believe strongly in monitoring spirits so when a couple are newly wed, it is advisable not to bring in third party as then there will be no freedom to argue, quarrel or hash out issues without interference or someone listenning in.

3. You are right about the broken toilet sit though. It is difficult to believe that an 11 year old can do that however is she makes something heavy crash on it well... I speak from experience when I say some kids can be like messenger on a mission. My hubby's cousins visited us severally after marriage. One in particular was something else, he broke and cracked almost all my teacups. I just reserved the cracked ones for him. Till date I have had to use glue on all my ceramic ornaments. He broke them all and would not say. You will only get there and find that it was arranged there like it was not broken. One days after breaking a glass, he took the shards and placed them inside my hubby's shoes. I thank God his elder sister was around. She was the one that raised the alarm 'Sister sister!! Gift wants to kill brother!' I was too shocked to reply? Except of course to ask him later why he thought that was the best place to put the shards. He was destructive. But he loved to sing. I still remember him holding tight to the CD player and singing 'ma babe ma babe, ma babe you're the one I want for me...'

If he does something wrong and you asks him why he just looks at you, doesn't say a word.

For my sanity, I cut his visits but I visit them. Amternal feelings do no develop over night, they grow over the 9 months and as you watch a baby grow. Also if a woman grew up with kids she could be more inclined to mothering another person's child however take not that when you handle bed wetting, it needs do someone to wake up several times at night, breaking your sleep to wake up the child and force them to pee. And often times even after,they still do it. The man is hardly available to do that. When the bed is wet and the house smells, it is the woman's responsibility to correct the smell else, the man's friends will complain and make the woman out to be dirty again.

Finally, no one has asked if the girl wants to be there. Despite the better living conditions have you bothered to find out if she wanted to leave home? That might be the reason why she is acting out. In my teenage years, one of my most loved aunts got married and my mum sent my younger sister to live with her in Lagos not because my parents could not take care of her but because my aunt was loving and she was moving to Lagos which was like the London of Nigeria. While those of us back ho.e envied my sister for being the 'lucky' one we never knew that my sister felt abandoned. According to her she felt like our parents hated her the most and sent her into servitude. Thankfully she came back after three years but I am still baffled when she explains how she felt.

The best persons to take care of a child are the parents. And 'uncle' should stop birthing like....and take care of his children.

Thanks for your post and points.
I can't fault you.
I was just angry reading how this woman condemned this girl without shame.
She is probably looking for Sympathy from us so she could have justification to do one evil plan she already harboured.

I never used that thing.
Evernote is the best thing to happen to online storage.

cococandy:
You don't even have common sense. Is she supposed to be responsible for the girl? Having the girl in her home is supposed to be a favor and not something in-laws sit together, decide and foist on her. Your type will always have marital problems because you take your spouses for granted.

If you can't raise a child, don't have one. Simple. Nobody came to this world to raise your kids for you. Such disgusting entitlement mentality.

Wait a minute here.
You mean she never supposed to be responsible for any other human being in a society like Nigeria where government social security is non existent?

So you are telling me you don't do anything for any other person except you and your children?
God forbid, but what if your own parents had died when you were 2 years, would it be fine if nobody looked your way to help? No matter how stubborn you might have been?


How difficult is it to develop love?
If her own child does all that she accused this girl of doing, where would she chase her to?

All you this new generation evil silly girls should understand that anybody could be in any position anytime. That's how dynamic this is life.

Like I said, you half-brain non-functional dead woods should always remember that life is very short.

I didn't read where this OP said she is bringing one Kobo to the table, but she is angry her husband bought Gloceries for his uncle who must have had a hand in his upbringing. Or did she think the husband fell from the sky?

I expected nothing less. He is a clown.

dammytosh:
calm down.


They might be jealous of you or it is possible you still have a lot to learn.

Your presentation skills might suck. You don't have to be proud, settle down and learn. It takes nothing from you.

When they say I am not good enough, it is an opportunity to be better than them because I won't rest until they admit so.


I learnt a very long time ago that LOW LIVES derive joy in talking INTELLIGENT people down just to make you feel less of yourself and make them feel good about things.

You are very right because if we don't tell this dude the truth, he might commit suicide.

@op
If they said you don't know anything, it means they want you to improve. Always remember that they don't know everything, even your boss.
The way you presented your English here told me you are not dumb. Don't work your morale down, rather try to improve and get better. No knowledge is a waste. If your boss has not made any move at sacking you, return to work every day and do your thing.
Every damn topic in whatever you studied is there on Google search.
If you know who I am or follow my stories, you will see that I studied and graduated from University of Google search Engine.
Despite not giving me a certificate, it improved me massively.

Finally, don't let anybody put you down. The only person that can put you down is You.

You are probably an evil woman.
Take that from me.
All those bunch of lies you told against this girl just to paint her black, would you say the same things if she was your sister?

I can easily tell that you are angry because she came from the husbands side. It's common with all evil women.

Change your ways when you still can, otherwise you will pour hot water or acid on her someday and end up in Prison.

She broke Plasma TV,
She broke Toilet WC, really? That hard thing? How did she do that? With a sledgehammer or what?

What else did she do?
The evil girl broke her shoes,
She Tore her school uniform,
She Bed-wets, fights, never do anything such as assignment?

She goes into her room, picks out her best clothes, which of course you paid billions to buy, she wears the best cloths and runs out to play with it in the mud. An 11 year old girl, whose tiny breasts must have started sprouting out, playing in the mud, with her best cloth?
Please in which country is that? Somalia or south Sudan? Gawd.
How old were those chibok girls writing WAEC when they were allegedly kidnapped? But your evil girl here still plays in the mud at 11.

Why don't you just tell us you want her gone so you can bring your own sister? Apparently you have a ready replacement, even before your husband beat you to it and brought her to his house.

I am way too intelligent to believe all the rubbish you said about this innocent girl.
Even Lucipher will find it very difficult to win a destruction contest with this 11 year old girl.

On top of that, her father comes for monthly salary in your World Bank home.
Of course with other incentives such as groceries etc.
Where is the mother in all this?
How many times have you reported her to the mother or even to the Reverend Father or Pastor? I believe that's what you people do down there when you really want to help.

Do you really expect me to believe you?
No mention of one good thing from the girl, not even to fetch water or cook anything?
Apparently according to you, her life assignment is to destroy everything in your home, nothing else.


Your heart is black because I don't see why you were hesistant when your husband wanted to bring her. Do you know their family history?
Who trained your husband? What exactly are you bringing to the table?


You first of all painted the father of the girl with black paints as if you know anything about him.
Evil thing.

And all you people shouting send her home, do you really think this evil thing is telling you all the story?
Do you not believe that if this is a law court, the girl will have her chance to say her own version.
She never wanted her in the first place and she admitted it up there. She just wanted her own relatives to fill the house. It's common with evil women.

People just create problems for themselves.
Useless country.
Why not buy cars for each of her family member too?

Get her pregnant, and they will beg you to Atleast pay the bride price first.

Dahveydson:
LOL

Look at ekweremadu in Igbo native attire seeking to elicit sympathy and support from Igbos who have not benefited anything from him in his 8 years in NASS.

Baba carry your cross o

Did we tell you we haven't benefited from him?

I guess Senator Mrs Tinubu built 3rd mainland Bridge for Lagos.
Anu mpama

Okijajuju1:
Mtcheeeew!! Miracle seekers everywhere.

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With the number of churches, crusades, outreaches and religious people in this nation, yet its hard to find good people in our society.

They are mostly frustrated souls.
They can wake me up when the likes of Capital oil, Ibeto, Emeka Offor, Author Eze begin to go to these Crusades.

These were mostly lazy things who wants to hear that money can fall from Heaven.

intercom:
I was there, it was gr8, if you were not there, then you miss

Missed what?
Missed old man with a microphone saying crap.

What happened?
Did the deaf hear and the blind see as usual?

I thought this Boko Haram version of Christianity said TV and other western gadgets are evil?

What's he doing on Camera?

ffo:
i was also there.
i also created a thread for the same purpose.
https://www.nairaland.com/3189751/pastor-wf-kumuyi-national-stadium
it was a night of extra-ordinary wonder, God did a lot of miracles. Glory to His name

Blockhead, tell us some of the miracles?
The car that took you there, I hope it used water instead of the science manufactured fuel.

HeGeMon:
This is the same man that Nnamdi KANU threatened to kill if he visited the east to hold a crusade, nw see the difference, the one that threatened is in Jail , why the HATE? Ethnicity in religion. God bless the revered Pastor Kumuyi

What's your IQ again?
Is it up to 11?

Blockheads comfortably seated to be brainwashed.

What was he telling them?
That A man walked on water?
Or that Fish swallowed the other man and he remained alive four days later.

chidekings:
The man's wife should be ashamed of him.

Anuofia

iluvnaija234:

The false information is his tax certificate which bore the date of Sunday which is not a working day. Uche Oga happens to be Abians first choice before Alex Otti.

So was it Cross River and Enugu people that voted Ikpeazu in?
Since Uche Oga was the Abians choice?

Of course you will soon come up with rigging blablabla.

Justice Abang, there is a man that did not submit the required certificate in the first place.

What are you doing about it?

Relax guys.
APC Will soon tell you the account was hacked by PDP agents.
We know them.

HonSuQMaDIQ:
Grazing Reserve will solidify the spirit of "one Nigeria". Anybody against grazing reserve is an enemy of the state and should be treated as a criminal. Enough of tolerating this nonsense from idle haters.

Aaboki sit down. Come and have the land in my village and see if we will not be killing ten cows for Suya every night.

This is the best news from Buhari if it's true.
I have never come to terms with the reason why Federal government should be sponsoring religious pilgrimages.
It almost looks like they are sponsoring some people to make Heaven while ignoring others.

This should be a personal affair. If you can afford to go to Mecca or Jerusalem, do it yourself. If you cannot, sit down and rest.

You can see everybody was a thief during GEJ.
These armed forces men blackmailed this civilian president to the ground.

And the truth was that GEJ couldn't cross the red line set by these armed rogues.
I guess the Zoo still need strong military connected leaders who can scare the animals in uniform.

The problem is that the man we trusted to do the job turned out to be a tribal bigot who is only interested in installing his kinsmen in every known position and at the same time pushing for a grazing bill for private businessmen whom I believe never paid any kind of tax to the FG.

mbhs139:


I really don't know what to tell you. Anyway, I assume you're just simply frustrated with hatred.

Another half human.

Emancipation:
There is no reason why Abia and Anambra shouldnt be ahead of Enugu. Abosulutely none. Even small ebonyi state is flexing hard.

It seems you don't know Enugu
That's one place people respect themselves

donbenie:
Breast transplant?..you mean Breast IMPLANTS..

Okay. Sorry, I am Igbo not British. But thanks.