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Celebrities / Re: Davido's Aide, Israel DMW Curses Estranged Wife Sheila (photos) by sandygechy(f): 3:54am On Mar 06
They can’t take half of what they dish out!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How dare a woman file for divorce…it’s only their exclusive right to do so!

Sheila Courage,Sisterhood is so proud of you 👍 👏👏👏
Jeon:
LMAO
"Men aren't emotional and marriage crash have no effect on them".
We always see the outcomes of it, which is not how they always paint in words.
cheesycheesycheesycheesycheesycheesycheesy



They can't accept the reality and move on .

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Ivory Coast AFCON 2023 Finals (1 - 2) On 11th February 2024 by sandygechy(f): 10:56pm On Feb 11
What a loss!!!!
😭😭😭😭😭

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Business / Re: My Client Wants To Buy Dollar Inflow by sandygechy(f): 9:33am On Jan 06
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4. Parties confirm transfers.
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6. End of transaction
7. Next Tranch
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Business / Re: My Client Wants To Buy Dollar Inflow by sandygechy(f): 9:32am On Jan 06
Happy New Year Everyone!!!
Business has started in earnest.
Family / Re: What Your Next Move? by sandygechy(f): 7:18am On Jan 01
Stupid topics now make front page.smh
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 12:46am On Dec 31, 2023
🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
PDJT:


-Mtchew.
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 8:08pm On Dec 30, 2023
You are the poor one! I will never be poor in my life!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Have u cooked dinner?
PDJT:


-Mtchew! Go and find your poor mates to chat pukkies with.
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 11:38pm On Dec 29, 2023
You are the lazy one here! Women don’t have a problem sharing financial responsibilities but men have a problem with sharing chores ALWAYS! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
U can’t eat ur cake and have it bro 🤣🤣🤣.

Get up ur lazy ass and prepare a meal! Don’t forget to do the dishes afterwards!
School resumes soon….get ready for school runs 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Ndi 50/50,una neva see anything yet!

PDJT:


-How long have you lived in the UK?

-And do you actually think those small activities you mentioned are difficult for men? I don't want to call you lazy, but ...
Family / Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 10:05am On Dec 29, 2023
Same here!!! MUMU 🤣
rapheal5:
Well I got songs for you bimbos in my next project... : grin
Business / Re: Dollar Inflow For Sale by sandygechy(f): 6:25am On Dec 29, 2023
*Strictly Offshore Seller available to U.S,Europe and Asia*

USD is N855/5/$



5m minimum request

TRANSACTION PROCEDURE

1. SELLER/BUYER SIGN MOU/DOA
2. Buyer does a PND,lien, blocked funds or funds reservation or Bank gurantee in favour of Seller for confirmation.
3. Seller Deliver products to buyer’s nominated Destination within 7 days max and provides Buyer with all necessary Documents and CIS for confirmation of delivery.
4. Buyer confirms product and pays the seller and settles all the beneficiaries as contained in the MOU/DOA.
5. Ready for Next tranche

*A. Optional cash-backed Pre-advise costs N5M last, it's a processing fee to get the pre-advise and must be paid via cash transfer OR BANK DRAFT. “IF REQUIRED”
6.Transaction to based on Indemnity of ₦10M a piece confirmable cheque “IF REQUIRED” with Buyer raising first
Family / Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 6:00am On Dec 29, 2023
U should read and understand it yourself!

rapheal5:
Read that comment again, u will understand..
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 5:58am On Dec 29, 2023
No be when u see money u go live ur best life!
House keeping assistant ko book keeping assistant ni 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thankfully,UK is not Nigeria.
Men like 50/50 until it comes to cooking,school runs and house chores 🤣🤣🤣🤣

PDJT:


-Just reminding you that those can be done by a housekeeping assistant, whilst the man work and live his best life. Men should never contribute more than 50% in the West. QeD.

-The 20hrs/week is only on term-times.
Family / Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 8:05am On Dec 28, 2023
So those prostitutes in brothels that sleep with multiple men daily attach emotions when having sex with all of them abi?
Dey play..
rapheal5:
The reason is men can sexxx any lady and still love their woman, because they are are not emotionally attached to them. Women can't because of the emotion tied to sex, but the moment you don't feel emotionally attach to ur sexual partner like men, you have become sarewa, sooner or later you would be at road as sex worker...I mean oloshos.... grin
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 12:43am On Dec 28, 2023
Most families in UK do not employ housekeepers cos they are expensive.
Meanwhile,the student cannot contribute until there’s a switch to work vida because he/she can only work for 20 hours in a week unlike the dependant.
PDJT:


-Those things you mentioned can be done by housekeepers paid for, equally, by the partners.
Travel / Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 7:02am On Dec 27, 2023
Hope u are aware chores and child care are shared too alongside bills? U do school runs, cook and clean the house when it’s ur turn.
Just so u know..
PDJT:
-Stay within the law and ensure you record every of her abusive moves towards you. You can use those evidence to get permanent residency, if you really want to stay in the UK in your own right.

-At the moment, you have as much rights as her.

-However, I would advise you and any other man relocating to the UK or the West, NEVER assume full responsibility for your family. In the West it is a shared responsibility between you and your wife, that's why they call it partnership. If you must buy a property, make sure your partner contribute as much as you do as well as share your bills equally if possible, otherwise share it based on percentage of earnings.

-Never contribute more than you should. You're no longer in Africa.
Family / Re: Should I Relocate My Family To My Base Or Not. by sandygechy(f): 3:53am On Dec 18, 2023
He should employ a single man rather to take care of them!
Why employ a woman since single mother children always have some sort of deficiency
U hate women but unfortunately can’t do without them!!!!
Radarada Oshi….
hopeforcharles:


Single mother children always have some sort of deficiency, it's better they are with him and he employs a matured woman to take care of them.

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Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sandygechy(f): 1:10am On Nov 29, 2023
Devil incarnate!!!!!!
humilitypays:
What you suggested to the op is good theoretically but will lead to pain practically, how you may ask? By the time they are still trying to conceive in their 4th or 5th year in marriage, the little love he feels he has for her now will fly out of the window because he will be filled with regrets and had I know.



In life, if you want to be at the top and to get the best out of life, you must be ready to act selfish in most critical life decisions and also make some sacrifices that many people will hear and say you are not a good person but only you know why you took the actions you took, which are best for you and your life situation at the moment.


OP, sit her down and let her know that you love her and truly wish to marry her but scared of the fertility situation she is in. Suggest two options; you guys try having sex before marriage to see if she would get pregnant or you guys part ways. There is nothing on earth that one cannot let go. Many people do think that without their father or mother or a particular sibling or uncle or aunt that they will never survive, but when that person dies, 20 years later they are still alive and living a life far better than when that person was alive. So nobody is indispensable, and no human should ever think others cannot do without them.



In most families, the fertility issue there is beyond ordinary, some family's fertility issue have a spiritual tone and what activates most of the spiritual side of married couples fertility issue is the paying of bride price and taking of marriage vows to formalize the marriage traditionally and otherwise. Family altars don't recognize pregnancy out of wedlock, they only reign supreme when couples are trying to conceive after traditional marriage rites and wedding vows have been exchanged, so to outsmart them, get your fiance or girlfriend pregnant before marriage.



Virginity to me is not a big deal, most times its lack of opportunity or the lady haven't met a man that melts her heart, and in most cases today, the so called virgins are not real virgins but technical virgins carefully preserving their hymen to deceive a future husband into believing they are exceptional or too good whereas in reality, she has engaged in all manner of sexual acts, from kissing to sucking to necking, to petting to romancing to anal and whatnot. So true virginity is mostly about the purity of heart and soul, not really about the hymen that most virgins of today carefully preserve for wedding night glory.



If you have ever imagined having sex or thought of it, or looked at someone lustfully or engaged in any form of sexual act, according to Bible principles, you are no longer a virgin.
Family / Re: Married Woman Justify Her Secret Affair After DNA Reveals Real Father of Kids by sandygechy(f): 3:39pm On Nov 26, 2023
Including your mother,sisters and daughters!!!!

Savedday2:
9ja girls are the most useless set of women that ever lived on the surface of the earth. They are all useless , all of them.

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Family / Re: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 3:17pm On Nov 26, 2023
As polyandry has started already,how do u want to kill yourself:by drinking sniper,hugging transformer,shooting yourself,slitting ur wrist or setting yourself ablaze
Choose one and end it fast!!!!

U must be a bloody liar to say men don’t complain about providing.There’s a post right now on front page where one MUMU commented asking a wife who just gave birth to bring her savings to buy baby food and insisted that the role of providing is for both genders.I guess u didn’t see that one abi?
How also did 50/50 come about if men are not complaining about providing Continue deceiving yourself inugo

If it’s not a shameful thing for a man to marry two wives,it will never be a shameful thing for a woman to marry two husbands.Cry me a river 😭😭😭😭😭,there are enough buckets for ur tears 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If u like quote the whole Bible and Koran,polyandry is here and has come to stay!!!
Accept change and live🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Reject change and die….the choice is yours 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Beverlyjean:


.... stories of Abraham. Moses , David, Solomon... those were men God loved so much , despite having other women .... u can't start competing and comparing some acts with men ... u are among the toxic feminists that want to eat their cake and have it ... men and women abide by 2 sets of rules... we don't hear men complaining about providing .... we have gender roles , but toxic Narcissists like u will leave the good attributes of a man and go for the same bad attributes u complain about... it simply shows that all u want is to become a man... a woman having or wanting 2 men at the same time is nothing to be proud of...its shameful ....
U are a Narcissist, toxic feminist and a misandrist...reason u like that idea

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Family / Re: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 11:39am On Nov 26, 2023
Hypocrite has spoken! U are surely the demon speaking through yourself not me!
What happens when a man leaves his wife for another woman? Does he commit adultery too?

Bloody misogynist!

U can’t use the Bible and koran as a standard cos some people are Atheist. In India,where polyandry is common,they practice Hindi religion.
God did not accept murder but it’s practiced daily worldwide so u can’t single out one thing God did not accept and leave the rest.
It’s a Tit for tat situation and there’s nothing u can do about it!!! On the judgement day,everything will be judged by GOD together!
Rest!!!!

Beverlyjean:


When demons speak thru u , u end up saying leave the Bible... man can't be as wise as God , man can't decide against God ... there is no place in the Bible or Koran that God accepted a woman having 2 men as husbands...infact , if a woman leaves her husband for another, she and any man she has anything to do with commits adultery

This is not a case of Tit of Tat or what's good for the goose is also good for the gander ... a lot will enter hell just because they wanna prove a point... don't ever find urself in sin just because the other gender did what u feel is wrong but accepted and u in turn wanna prove a point that u can play the same game
Family / Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 11:20am On Nov 26, 2023
Go and make money and provide for ur family because it’s ur duty as a man!!!
Na u sabi….

Silentgroper:
Ok .. Do not contribute to the finance of tour home .. na you sabi ...

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Family / Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:29am On Nov 26, 2023
The man is the provider! It’s not both their duty to provide.I’m sure the man wants submission from the woman that co-provides with him.In order words,the woman becomes a submissive provider!
Dey play….
Unfortunately,such world does not exist.
As long as it sounds absurd for a woman to ask a man to go through pregnancy and birth children, that’s how it sounds when a man ask a woman to provide!
A broke man should not impregnate a woman.

Silentgroper:
ok


It's both their duty to provide .. so if hubby cant do that at the moment, it lies on the wife to take over .. She's not going through pregnancy for the man alone, it's for herself too .. Besides, most kids when they grow up and are financially stable usually have their mums benefit from than their dad would ..

So why can't you the woman make thst investment since in the long run, you'd be favoured the most...

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Family / Re: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 10:18am On Nov 26, 2023
A woman can marry two husbands.Leave Devil alone for this matter because u don’t call him when a man marries two wives!
Leave Bible out of this too!
Polyandry is common in India and this story here is a fact! Sadly too,the men are not gay as some ‘African’ men have labeled them.
The world is changing fast! Accept the change…

Beverlyjean:


A woman can't marry 2 husbands...the devil's is massively creeping into the worlds mentality and u all think u are living life ...I really pity alot...better go read ur Bible to save yourself

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Family / Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:04am On Nov 26, 2023
Hustle ooo so u don’t cap rubbish online!!!
It’s ur duty to provide.So the woman will go through pregnancy,birth a child and u are asking for her savings to feed a child that bears ur name? Delusion at its peak!
Go and make money my friend!!!!!

Silentgroper:
did he put a gun to her head to sleep with him unprotected ..

if he doesn't buy it . she should buy it ..


🤨🤨

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Family / Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 12:58am On Nov 26, 2023
Where’s the man’s savings He didn’t know he’ll buy baby food when he was sleeping with her unprotected.
Bliss62:
Is the wife allergic to working?! Or even if she is on merternity leave she doesn't have any savings or income not even business

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Investment / Re: For The Deriv Traders by sandygechy(f): 5:10am On Nov 20, 2023
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Family / Re: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:46pm On Nov 15, 2023
Lies from the pit of hell.He’s not the only Igbo person in the world.
Gajagojo:


He said it is Igbo culture and custom
Family / Re: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2023
Delusion at its peak!
Speak for ur sisters OWNED by men.It doesn’t apply to all women.

sandygechy:
I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.
Family / Re: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:36pm On Nov 15, 2023
You have mental disorder in addition to over bloated ego!
Get help fast!!!!

Gajagojo:

You have low self-esteem and you are breaking the rules of the forum
There is no need for gratuitous insolence
Family / Re: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:34pm On Nov 15, 2023
That’s ur thinking Dude.Single mothers live long.She’ll die faster if she moves back feeding and providing for the man in addition to her kids.
In other words,she becomes a submissive provider.I reject that situation for her or any woman.She’s better off alone.

frog12:
i think some of these single mothers don't live long because they are doing everything themselves. they should find out what really happened between them

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Family / Re: My Wife Got A Job As A Paramedic In The Uk by sandygechy(f): 9:22am On Nov 15, 2023
U no even get brain at all!
Lazy baboon that cannot take care of ordinary 5 months baby🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
sandygechy:
There are baby formulars the baby can take.
What if the mother died during delivery?
Won’t the father raise his child?

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