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Christianity EtcRe: Pope Leo XIV: See A 6-Month-Old Prophecy That Came To Pass Yesterday by sandygechy(f): 8:17pm On May 18, 2025
Dullardeen!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
RaySimran:
You're so dull

He edits the replies too, abi? 🤡
Christianity EtcRe: Pope Leo XIV: See A 6-Month-Old Prophecy That Came To Pass Yesterday by sandygechy(f): 10:38pm On May 09, 2025
An old tweet was edited!
How can a sane person believe thishuh
TravelRe: Why Does Abroad Make people Look Fresh? by sandygechy(f): 2:20am On Apr 09, 2025
Aaaahhhhh
kings59:
Stop embarrassing yourself

The beautiful environment: the way streets are constructed, houses, trees, roads, and glowing lights. Those things would add to the picture effect.


I give up on Nairaland, too many illiterates here. I can't stay in an environment where fools, tribal bigots, and perpetrators are inhibited because I don't want to be like or sound like them.

No need to quote me because I have deactivated this account!


I'm done!
FamilyRe: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by sandygechy(f): 9:49pm On Apr 03, 2025
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
PUMPIN11:
Biko continue your search jare.....by the time you are like 65 and a billionaire, you go see two and make a choice between them. No loose focus ooo....Happy searching!
Virgin kee you dia!
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by sandygechy(f): 6:23pm On Dec 22, 2024
I need BTC and USDT flasher urgently!
PropertiesRe: Who Owns The Property Wife Or Husband (photo) by sandygechy(f): 12:16am On Aug 31, 2024
Which law is thathuh
Henry2405:
According to the law, if the cost of building the house exceeds the cost of the land, the property belongs to the husband. The court will instruct him to compensate her, as they believe he obtained her consent before building on her land.
FamilyRe: You Can’t Get 50% Of Husband’s Properties After A Divorce in Nigeria - Lawyer by sandygechy(f): 2:13am On Aug 24, 2024
And Nigerian men must continue to raise other men’s children!
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KIDfurniture:
He failed himself ! No woman can try that game with a man who built all by himself in Nigeria. A woman must choose between staying with a serial cheat or live with a polygamist.
FamilyRe: You Can’t Get 50% Of Husband’s Properties After A Divorce in Nigeria - Lawyer by sandygechy(f): 5:23pm On Aug 23, 2024
The fact that u think a man can have a fling that can result to pregnancy without remorse is why I’m happy with the judgement!
He should live with his regrets for the rest of his miserable life and advice his fellow irresponsible men who will in turn get worst treatment!

Sisterhood and motherhood is so proud of Mama👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

KIDfurniture:
I didn’t mention he had the handsome son before marrying the woman sha. Even at that a man can have a fling and result to pregnancy. Nothing was lost. If ain’t married be ready to be a fifth wife or steal another woman’s husband. Reality .
FamilyRe: You Can’t Get 50% Of Husband’s Properties After A Divorce in Nigeria - Lawyer by sandygechy(f): 5:12pm On Aug 23, 2024
Was the woman aware of the said son before marriage huh

KIDfurniture:
A handsome son he had before marrying the woman. Maybe because the son resurfaced and she felt threatened or she just hates the man and the son .
FamilyRe: You Can’t Get 50% Of Husband’s Properties After A Divorce in Nigeria - Lawyer by sandygechy(f): 2:07pm On Aug 23, 2024
Fair judgement!
Why will the man have a son outside?
U only critiqued the effects of an action but said nothing about the action itself!

KIDfurniture:
I have always advised men to build alone . Never build ur home with ur wife! It is risky . Very risky. I witnessed a 60 year old wife and 67 year old husband fight bitterly cos the man had a son outside. The wife knowing fully well she contributed to the property they live in which happens to be only house. Asked court to sell off the property and give her more than half of the proceeds. She provided strong evidence and that house was sold. Old man is now a tenant, old woman moved in with her son after brainwashing all her kids to hate father
CrimeRe: 14-Year-Old Boy Beheaded For Ritual In Ibadan By His Friends & Islamic Cleric by sandygechy(f): 1:31am On Aug 13, 2024
InvestmentRe: How To Withdraw Your Naira From Binance by sandygechy(f): 3:05am On Jul 15, 2024
Thanks for the update.I have a question please.
Does the online banks have dollar accounts?
BusinessRe: Dollar Inflow For Sale by sandygechy(f): 4:37am On Jun 30, 2024
*$1M BILL CHEQUES AVAILABLE IN LAGOS URGENT SALES: Price is N1020/5 for now.
Availablity: $500m worth in tranches of $50m to $100m on first sales.

TRANSACTION PROCEDURE
1.Seller and Buyer sign MOU.
2.Seller and the buyer meet at the agreed location.
3.Seller provides USD Bills to buyer for confirmation of It's authenticity.
4.Upon confirmation,the buyer transfers the agreed price to the seller and to all the intermediaries/facilitators from both sides.
5.End of transaction.*
CelebritiesRe: I Took A Break From My Online Ministry To Focus On God – Yul Edochie by sandygechy(f): 7:18pm On Jun 14, 2024
Stop comparing Ned and Yul/
Ned is a Muslim and his religion permits him to marry up to 4 wives.
Yul married under th Marriage Acts which prohibits polygamy.
The two situations are entirely different.

rinzaugustine:
The guy is creating content from feminists hatred of him and he would be obviously angry that those same feminists that vilify him for marrying a second wife are happy for Ned Nwoko for doing the same as they all go on social media to praise Regina Daniels for being fourth wife while vilifying Judy Austin for doing same
CelebritiesRe: Davido's Aide, Israel DMW Curses Estranged Wife Sheila (photos) by sandygechy(f): 3:54am On Mar 06, 2024
They can’t take half of what they dish out!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How dare a woman file for divorce…it’s only their exclusive right to do so!

Sheila Courage,Sisterhood is so proud of you 👍 👏👏👏
Jeon:
LMAO
"Men aren't emotional and marriage crash have no effect on them".
We always see the outcomes of it, which is not how they always paint in words.
cheesycheesycheesycheesycheesycheesycheesy



They can't accept the reality and move on .
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Ivory Coast AFCON 2023 Finals (1 - 2) On 11th February 2024 by sandygechy(f): 10:56pm On Feb 11, 2024
What a loss!!!!
😭😭😭😭😭
BusinessRe: My Client Wants To Buy Dollar Inflow by sandygechy(op): 9:33am On Jan 06, 2024
TRANSFER PROCEDURE FOR INFLOW @ =N=1135/$ - =N=5
1. Seller and Buyer sign PI.
2. Parties confirm USD & NAIRA with Bank Manager or AOs.
3. Buyer and Seller fill transfer forms and moves funds simultaneously.
4. Parties confirm transfers.
5. Facilitators are paid.
6. End of transaction
7. Next Tranch
Zenith to Zenith only
Minimum volume is $5M
BusinessRe: My Client Wants To Buy Dollar Inflow by sandygechy(op): 9:32am On Jan 06, 2024
Happy New Year Everyone!!!
Business has started in earnest.
FamilyRe: What Your Next Move? by sandygechy(f): 7:18am On Jan 01, 2024
Stupid topics now make front page.smh
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 12:46am On Dec 31, 2023
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PDJT:
-Mtchew.
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 8:08pm On Dec 30, 2023
You are the poor one! I will never be poor in my life!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Have u cooked dinnerhuh?
PDJT:
-Mtchew! Go and find your poor mates to chat pukkies with.
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 11:38pm On Dec 29, 2023
You are the lazy one here! Women don’t have a problem sharing financial responsibilities but men have a problem with sharing chores ALWAYS! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
U can’t eat ur cake and have it bro 🤣🤣🤣.

Get up ur lazy ass and prepare a meal! Don’t forget to do the dishes afterwards!
School resumes soon….get ready for school runs 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Ndi 50/50,una neva see anything yet!

PDJT:
-How long have you lived in the UK?

-And do you actually think those small activities you mentioned are difficult for men? I don't want to call you lazy, but ...
FamilyRe: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 10:05am On Dec 29, 2023
Same here!!! MUMU 🤣
rapheal5:
Well I got songs for you bimbos in my next project... : grin
BusinessRe: Dollar Inflow For Sale by sandygechy(f): 6:25am On Dec 29, 2023
*Strictly Offshore Seller available to U.S,Europe and Asia*

USD is N855/5/$



5m minimum request

TRANSACTION PROCEDURE

1. SELLER/BUYER SIGN MOU/DOA
2. Buyer does a PND,lien, blocked funds or funds reservation or Bank gurantee in favour of Seller for confirmation.
3. Seller Deliver products to buyer’s nominated Destination within 7 days max and provides Buyer with all necessary Documents and CIS for confirmation of delivery.
4. Buyer confirms product and pays the seller and settles all the beneficiaries as contained in the MOU/DOA.
5. Ready for Next tranche

*A. Optional cash-backed Pre-advise costs N5M last, it's a processing fee to get the pre-advise and must be paid via cash transfer OR BANK DRAFT. “IF REQUIRED”
6.Transaction to based on Indemnity of ₦10M a piece confirmable cheque “IF REQUIRED” with Buyer raising first
FamilyRe: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 6:00am On Dec 29, 2023
U should read and understand it yourself!

rapheal5:
Read that comment again, u will understand..
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 5:58am On Dec 29, 2023
No be when u see money u go live ur best life!
House keeping assistant ko book keeping assistant ni 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thankfully,UK is not Nigeria.
Men like 50/50 until it comes to cooking,school runs and house chores 🤣🤣🤣🤣

PDJT:
-Just reminding you that those can be done by a housekeeping assistant, whilst the man work and live his best life. Men should never contribute more than 50% in the West. QeD.

-The 20hrs/week is only on term-times.
FamilyRe: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 8:05am On Dec 28, 2023
So those prostitutes in brothels that sleep with multiple men daily attach emotions when having sex with all of them abi?
Dey play..
rapheal5:
The reason is men can sexxx any lady and still love their woman, because they are are not emotionally attached to them. Women can't because of the emotion tied to sex, but the moment you don't feel emotionally attach to ur sexual partner like men, you have become sarewa, sooner or later you would be at road as sex worker...I mean oloshos.... grin
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 12:43am On Dec 28, 2023
Most families in UK do not employ housekeepers cos they are expensive.
Meanwhile,the student cannot contribute until there’s a switch to work vida because he/she can only work for 20 hours in a week unlike the dependant.
PDJT:
-Those things you mentioned can be done by housekeepers paid for, equally, by the partners.
TravelRe: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by sandygechy(f): 7:02am On Dec 27, 2023
Hope u are aware chores and child care are shared too alongside bills? U do school runs, cook and clean the house when it’s ur turn.
Just so u know..
PDJT:
-Stay within the law and ensure you record every of her abusive moves towards you. You can use those evidence to get permanent residency, if you really want to stay in the UK in your own right.

-At the moment, you have as much rights as her.

-However, I would advise you and any other man relocating to the UK or the West, NEVER assume full responsibility for your family. In the West it is a shared responsibility between you and your wife, that's why they call it partnership. If you must buy a property, make sure your partner contribute as much as you do as well as share your bills equally if possible, otherwise share it based on percentage of earnings.

-Never contribute more than you should. You're no longer in Africa.
FamilyRe: Should I Relocate My Family To My Base Or Not. by sandygechy(f): 3:53am On Dec 18, 2023
He should employ a single man rather to take care of them!
Why employ a woman since single mother children always have some sort of deficiencyhuh
U hate women but unfortunately can’t do without them!!!!
Radarada Oshi….
hopeforcharles:
Single mother children always have some sort of deficiency, it's better they are with him and he employs a matured woman to take care of them.
FamilyRe: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sandygechy(f): 1:10am On Nov 29, 2023
Devil incarnate!!!!!!
humilitypays:
What you suggested to the op is good theoretically but will lead to pain practically, how you may ask? By the time they are still trying to conceive in their 4th or 5th year in marriage, the little love he feels he has for her now will fly out of the window because he will be filled with regrets and had I know.



In life, if you want to be at the top and to get the best out of life, you must be ready to act selfish in most critical life decisions and also make some sacrifices that many people will hear and say you are not a good person but only you know why you took the actions you took, which are best for you and your life situation at the moment.


OP, sit her down and let her know that you love her and truly wish to marry her but scared of the fertility situation she is in. Suggest two options; you guys try having sex before marriage to see if she would get pregnant or you guys part ways. There is nothing on earth that one cannot let go. Many people do think that without their father or mother or a particular sibling or uncle or aunt that they will never survive, but when that person dies, 20 years later they are still alive and living a life far better than when that person was alive. So nobody is indispensable, and no human should ever think others cannot do without them.



In most families, the fertility issue there is beyond ordinary, some family's fertility issue have a spiritual tone and what activates most of the spiritual side of married couples fertility issue is the paying of bride price and taking of marriage vows to formalize the marriage traditionally and otherwise. Family altars don't recognize pregnancy out of wedlock, they only reign supreme when couples are trying to conceive after traditional marriage rites and wedding vows have been exchanged, so to outsmart them, get your fiance or girlfriend pregnant before marriage.



Virginity to me is not a big deal, most times its lack of opportunity or the lady haven't met a man that melts her heart, and in most cases today, the so called virgins are not real virgins but technical virgins carefully preserving their hymen to deceive a future husband into believing they are exceptional or too good whereas in reality, she has engaged in all manner of sexual acts, from kissing to sucking to necking, to petting to romancing to anal and whatnot. So true virginity is mostly about the purity of heart and soul, not really about the hymen that most virgins of today carefully preserve for wedding night glory.



If you have ever imagined having sex or thought of it, or looked at someone lustfully or engaged in any form of sexual act, according to Bible principles, you are no longer a virgin.

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