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FamilyRe: Married Woman Justify Her Secret Affair After DNA Reveals Real Father of Kids by sandygechy(f): 3:39pm On Nov 26, 2023
Including your mother,sisters and daughters!!!!

Savedday2:
9ja girls are the most useless set of women that ever lived on the surface of the earth. They are all useless , all of them.
FamilyRe: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 3:17pm On Nov 26, 2023
As polyandry has started already,how do u want to kill yourself:by drinking sniper,hugging transformer,shooting yourself,slitting ur wrist or setting yourself ablazehuh
Choose one and end it fast!!!!

U must be a bloody liar to say men don’t complain about providing.There’s a post right now on front page where one MUMU commented asking a wife who just gave birth to bring her savings to buy baby food and insisted that the role of providing is for both genders.I guess u didn’t see that one abi?
How also did 50/50 come about if men are not complaining about providinghuh Continue deceiving yourself inugohuh

If it’s not a shameful thing for a man to marry two wives,it will never be a shameful thing for a woman to marry two husbands.Cry me a river 😭😭😭😭😭,there are enough buckets for ur tears 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If u like quote the whole Bible and Koran,polyandry is here and has come to stay!!!
Accept change and live🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Reject change and die….the choice is yours 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Beverlyjean:
.... stories of Abraham. Moses , David, Solomon... those were men God loved so much , despite having other women .... u can't start competing and comparing some acts with men ... u are among the toxic feminists that want to eat their cake and have it ... men and women abide by 2 sets of rules... we don't hear men complaining about providing .... we have gender roles , but toxic Narcissists like u will leave the good attributes of a man and go for the same bad attributes u complain about... it simply shows that all u want is to become a man... a woman having or wanting 2 men at the same time is nothing to be proud of...its shameful ....
U are a Narcissist, toxic feminist and a misandrist...reason u like that idea
FamilyRe: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 11:39am On Nov 26, 2023
Hypocrite has spoken! U are surely the demon speaking through yourself not me!
What happens when a man leaves his wife for another woman? Does he commit adultery too?

Bloody misogynist!

U can’t use the Bible and koran as a standard cos some people are Atheist. In India,where polyandry is common,they practice Hindi religion.
God did not accept murder but it’s practiced daily worldwide so u can’t single out one thing God did not accept and leave the rest.
It’s a Tit for tat situation and there’s nothing u can do about it!!! On the judgement day,everything will be judged by GOD together!
Rest!!!!

Beverlyjean:
When demons speak thru u , u end up saying leave the Bible... man can't be as wise as God , man can't decide against God ... there is no place in the Bible or Koran that God accepted a woman having 2 men as husbands...infact , if a woman leaves her husband for another, she and any man she has anything to do with commits adultery

This is not a case of Tit of Tat or what's good for the goose is also good for the gander ... a lot will enter hell just because they wanna prove a point... don't ever find urself in sin just because the other gender did what u feel is wrong but accepted and u in turn wanna prove a point that u can play the same game
FamilyRe: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 11:20am On Nov 26, 2023
Go and make money and provide for ur family because it’s ur duty as a man!!!
Na u sabi….

Silentgroper:
Ok .. Do not contribute to the finance of tour home .. na you sabi ...
FamilyRe: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:29am On Nov 26, 2023
The man is the provider! It’s not both their duty to provide.I’m sure the man wants submission from the woman that co-provides with him.In order words,the woman becomes a submissive provider!
Dey play….
Unfortunately,such world does not exist.
As long as it sounds absurd for a woman to ask a man to go through pregnancy and birth children, that’s how it sounds when a man ask a woman to provide!
A broke man should not impregnate a woman.

Silentgroper:
ok


It's both their duty to provide .. so if hubby cant do that at the moment, it lies on the wife to take over .. She's not going through pregnancy for the man alone, it's for herself too .. Besides, most kids when they grow up and are financially stable usually have their mums benefit from than their dad would ..

So why can't you the woman make thst investment since in the long run, you'd be favoured the most...
FamilyRe: An American Woman With Two Husbands And Three Children Is Causing A Stir Online by sandygechy(f): 10:18am On Nov 26, 2023
A woman can marry two husbands.Leave Devil alone for this matter because u don’t call him when a man marries two wives!
Leave Bible out of this too!
Polyandry is common in India and this story here is a fact! Sadly too,the men are not gay as some ‘African’ men have labeled them.
The world is changing fast! Accept the change…

Beverlyjean:
A woman can't marry 2 husbands...the devil's is massively creeping into the worlds mentality and u all think u are living life ...I really pity alot...better go read ur Bible to save yourself
FamilyRe: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 10:04am On Nov 26, 2023
Hustle ooo so u don’t cap rubbish online!!!
It’s ur duty to provide.So the woman will go through pregnancy,birth a child and u are asking for her savings to feed a child that bears ur name? Delusion at its peak!
Go and make money my friend!!!!!

Silentgroper:
did he put a gun to her head to sleep with him unprotected ..

if he doesn't buy it . she should buy it ..


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FamilyRe: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by sandygechy(f): 12:58am On Nov 26, 2023
Where’s the man’s savingshuh He didn’t know he’ll buy baby food when he was sleeping with her unprotected.
Bliss62:
Is the wife allergic to working?! Or even if she is on merternity leave she doesn't have any savings or income not even business
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FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:46pm On Nov 15, 2023
Lies from the pit of hell.He’s not the only Igbo person in the world.
Gajagojo:
He said it is Igbo culture and custom
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2023
Delusion at its peak!
Speak for ur sisters OWNED by men.It doesn’t apply to all women.

sandygechy:
I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:36pm On Nov 15, 2023
You have mental disorder in addition to over bloated ego!
Get help fast!!!!

Gajagojo:
You have low self-esteem and you are breaking the rules of the forum
There is no need for gratuitous insolence
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 7:34pm On Nov 15, 2023
That’s ur thinking Dude.Single mothers live long.She’ll die faster if she moves back feeding and providing for the man in addition to her kids.
In other words,she becomes a submissive provider.I reject that situation for her or any woman.She’s better off alone.

frog12:
i think some of these single mothers don't live long because they are doing everything themselves. they should find out what really happened between them
FamilyRe: My Wife Got A Job As A Paramedic In The Uk by sandygechy(f): 9:22am On Nov 15, 2023
U no even get brain at all!
Lazy baboon that cannot take care of ordinary 5 months baby🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
sandygechy:
There are baby formulars the baby can take.
What if the mother died during delivery?
Won’t the father raise his child?
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 9:08am On Nov 15, 2023
You are wise!
Maobichek:
"Owner," such word is derogatory. The man is not the owner of his sister; use more appropriate word, thank you.
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 9:07am On Nov 15, 2023
U seriously pray and wish a man owns a woman he married because he paid stipend as bride price!
Chaiii……i know it’s heartbreaking and a deep pain to ur entire body to hear that it’s not true!!!
I understand ur frustrations and the pressure u are applying on the matter.Did u notice how stupid u soundhuh
U really think so highly of yourself.
Empty vessel!!!
Your mates are busy with their lives endeavor and u are here displaying your stupidity.
U mentioned that women have no say in governance in Igboland. So Stella Oduah,Uche Ekwunife,Joy Emodi and even the first female Governor in Nigeria; Dame Virgy Etiaba are all Yoruba women abi? Your brain is leaking obviously.
U need the dictionary more cos u are DAFT!
Bleep off my mentions!!!
Gajagojo:
You need to open a dictionary
I am not digressing just providing collateral evidence and cultural background about the status of Igbo women in their culture to emphasise the point that Igbo women have minimal rights and no say in governance which is corroboration to the idea that they are chattels.
The person who made that claim is according to him,from Nnewi. He would know Igbo culture well and I believe him
An Igbo woman has no inheritance rights in her Umunna and is an acquisition of her husband s umunna.
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 6:36am On Nov 15, 2023
We are talking about a man OWNING a woman! This is not a land matter.Don’t digress…

Gajagojo:
I believe it based on my interaction with them
That is how they reason.
Women cannot inherit land in their tradition and are generally blocked from inheriting from their father's property
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 6:33am On Nov 15, 2023
Going back should entirely be her decision.She survived 8 years without him.She’s going back to add extra stress to her life by providing and feeding an extra mouth.

Coming to the issue of her remarrying,must she do sohuh Is it a must to be in marriage even when it’s obvious she’s better off as a single mother? Moreover,single mothers of even three kids remarry.The father should need the kids too by doing his responsibilities.
mrmachine:
Let her go back. That's her husband. Don't let her deceive herself thinking she would just see another man that would just come from the moon to come and marry after 2. It's rare o. And those children still need fathe figure.
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 6:21am On Nov 15, 2023
And u believe it huh
It’s a big lie cos I’m Igbo too.
Nowhere in the world does any human OWN another human!
Women are not commodities that are owned.Bride price is a traditional rite.
Gajagojo:
He said it is Igbo culture and custom
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 3:48am On Nov 15, 2023
I’m as surprised as u are! A man goes to another family and MARRIES a woman and pays a token as part of the traditional rites and it now translates to OWNING her!
The token paid as bride price is not even up to the amount spent on feeding the woman for a month!!!
U can imagine how delusional and stupid some men are…
Gajagojo:
What does owner of kids mean practically

How does one own a grown up child that has become an adult

What does this ownership look like?
When the child starts working he will give his father his salary or what?

What is the benefit of owning a child
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 1:26am On Nov 15, 2023
I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.
frndfghtr:
Am a nnewi man, we love our families, you are a liar
My advice to you is to hurry and beg the man, even if it last for thirty years, you just help the man to train his children, am a igbo man, once bride price is been paid, in our custom, the the man is the owner of your sis and the kids
FamilyRe: Broken Marriage, Please Advise me by sandygechy(f): 1:21am On Nov 15, 2023
I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.
Chigozie321:
cry
RomanceRe: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by sandygechy(f): 5:20am On Nov 14, 2023
It’s their stinking audacity for me!!!
No atom of leadership traits but demand submission.
From all I’ve read here,submission to them means control.
Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeewwww, when you have a logical response to give me as the gendar deserving of "leadership", come back to quote me.



Imagine person like you sef dey find woman wey go dey bow and worship am 🤣.

Like is this the intelligence you go take dey do head of house? This is it? You people have audacity sha. Boundlessly.
CrimeRe: Toluige Olokoobi Babalola's Husband Was Met On Top Of Her Body by sandygechy(f): 3:23am On Nov 12, 2023
No marks of rope on her neck according to the police only points to murder!
Autopsy should reveal more facts.

The man should be detained! He’s a prime suspect!
RomanceRe: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by sandygechy(f): 9:44am On Nov 11, 2023
See tears everywhere🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
OP,u are entitled to ur opinion and choice jareeeeee
CrimeRe: I Got Fresh Human Head, Hands From Cleric – Suspect by sandygechy(f): 4:48am On Nov 11, 2023
Skull miners!
PoliticsRe: Naira: Tinubu Will Shock Currency Speculators – Tope Fasua by sandygechy(f): 1:17am On Nov 08, 2023
Is it the same dollar that has started going up or another?
Nothing fit shock us again!!!
Chi m ka Tinubu!!!
PoliticsRe: Simeon Nwankwo, Soludo's Father Dies At 92 by sandygechy(f): 12:54am On Nov 07, 2023
Nonagenarian rather.A septuagenarian is one in in his seventies.
SIXTEENTH:
Hmmmmmmmmmm Anambra State will shake with massive groove when burying the septuagenarian.

He died a proud father
Journey well Daddy.
Foreign AffairsRe: Israel Has No Right To Defend Itself - Russia by sandygechy(f): 4:22am On Nov 04, 2023
In ur fuc**king dreams!!!!!
MuslimIgbo:
Nothing last forever. SOONER OR LATER, THE TERRORISTS ÌSRAEL WILL BE DESTROYED.
FamilyRe: My Wife Got A Job As A Paramedic In The Uk by sandygechy(f):
U no even get brain at all!
Lazy baboon that cannot take care of ordinary 5 months baby🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Later,u’ll say u are strong.ODEEEE

goody234:
Errr breastfeed you don sell your brains for saw dust ni
CrimeRe: Son Cuts Off Mother’s Hands With Machete In Ogun by sandygechy(f): 4:35am On Oct 06, 2023
EVIL SON!!!

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