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Devil incarnate!!!!!!

humilitypays:
What you suggested to the op is good theoretically but will lead to pain practically, how you may ask? By the time they are still trying to conceive in their 4th or 5th year in marriage, the little love he feels he has for her now will fly out of the window because he will be filled with regrets and had I know.



In life, if you want to be at the top and to get the best out of life, you must be ready to act selfish in most critical life decisions and also make some sacrifices that many people will hear and say you are not a good person but only you know why you took the actions you took, which are best for you and your life situation at the moment.


OP, sit her down and let her know that you love her and truly wish to marry her but scared of the fertility situation she is in. Suggest two options; you guys try having sex before marriage to see if she would get pregnant or you guys part ways. There is nothing on earth that one cannot let go. Many people do think that without their father or mother or a particular sibling or uncle or aunt that they will never survive, but when that person dies, 20 years later they are still alive and living a life far better than when that person was alive. So nobody is indispensable, and no human should ever think others cannot do without them.



In most families, the fertility issue there is beyond ordinary, some family's fertility issue have a spiritual tone and what activates most of the spiritual side of married couples fertility issue is the paying of bride price and taking of marriage vows to formalize the marriage traditionally and otherwise. Family altars don't recognize pregnancy out of wedlock, they only reign supreme when couples are trying to conceive after traditional marriage rites and wedding vows have been exchanged, so to outsmart them, get your fiance or girlfriend pregnant before marriage.



Virginity to me is not a big deal, most times its lack of opportunity or the lady haven't met a man that melts her heart, and in most cases today, the so called virgins are not real virgins but technical virgins carefully preserving their hymen to deceive a future husband into believing they are exceptional or too good whereas in reality, she has engaged in all manner of sexual acts, from kissing to sucking to necking, to petting to romancing to anal and whatnot. So true virginity is mostly about the purity of heart and soul, not really about the hymen that most virgins of today carefully preserve for wedding night glory.



If you have ever imagined having sex or thought of it, or looked at someone lustfully or engaged in any form of sexual act, according to Bible principles, you are no longer a virgin.

Including your mother,sisters and daughters!!!!

Savedday2:
9ja girls are the most useless set of women that ever lived on the surface of the earth. They are all useless , all of them.

As polyandry has started already,how do u want to kill yourself:by drinking sniper,hugging transformer,shooting yourself,slitting ur wrist or setting yourself ablaze
Choose one and end it fast!!!!

U must be a bloody liar to say men don’t complain about providing.There’s a post right now on front page where one MUMU commented asking a wife who just gave birth to bring her savings to buy baby food and insisted that the role of providing is for both genders.I guess u didn’t see that one abi?
How also did 50/50 come about if men are not complaining about providing Continue deceiving yourself inugo

If it’s not a shameful thing for a man to marry two wives,it will never be a shameful thing for a woman to marry two husbands.Cry me a river 😭😭😭😭😭,there are enough buckets for ur tears 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If u like quote the whole Bible and Koran,polyandry is here and has come to stay!!!
Accept change and live🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Reject change and die….the choice is yours 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Beverlyjean:
.... stories of Abraham. Moses , David, Solomon... those were men God loved so much , despite having other women .... u can't start competing and comparing some acts with men ... u are among the toxic feminists that want to eat their cake and have it ... men and women abide by 2 sets of rules... we don't hear men complaining about providing .... we have gender roles , but toxic Narcissists like u will leave the good attributes of a man and go for the same bad attributes u complain about... it simply shows that all u want is to become a man... a woman having or wanting 2 men at the same time is nothing to be proud of...its shameful ....
U are a Narcissist, toxic feminist and a misandrist...reason u like that idea

Hypocrite has spoken! U are surely the demon speaking through yourself not me!
What happens when a man leaves his wife for another woman? Does he commit adultery too?

Bloody misogynist!

U can’t use the Bible and koran as a standard cos some people are Atheist. In India,where polyandry is common,they practice Hindi religion.
God did not accept murder but it’s practiced daily worldwide so u can’t single out one thing God did not accept and leave the rest.
It’s a Tit for tat situation and there’s nothing u can do about it!!! On the judgement day,everything will be judged by GOD together!
Rest!!!!

Beverlyjean:
When demons speak thru u , u end up saying leave the Bible... man can't be as wise as God , man can't decide against God ... there is no place in the Bible or Koran that God accepted a woman having 2 men as husbands...infact , if a woman leaves her husband for another, she and any man she has anything to do with commits adultery

This is not a case of Tit of Tat or what's good for the goose is also good for the gander ... a lot will enter hell just because they wanna prove a point... don't ever find urself in sin just because the other gender did what u feel is wrong but accepted and u in turn wanna prove a point that u can play the same game

Go and make money and provide for ur family because it’s ur duty as a man!!!
Na u sabi….

Silentgroper:
Ok .. Do not contribute to the finance of tour home .. na you sabi ...

The man is the provider! It’s not both their duty to provide.I’m sure the man wants submission from the woman that co-provides with him.In order words,the woman becomes a submissive provider!
Dey play….
Unfortunately,such world does not exist.
As long as it sounds absurd for a woman to ask a man to go through pregnancy and birth children, that’s how it sounds when a man ask a woman to provide!
A broke man should not impregnate a woman.

Silentgroper:
ok


It's both their duty to provide .. so if hubby cant do that at the moment, it lies on the wife to take over .. She's not going through pregnancy for the man alone, it's for herself too .. Besides, most kids when they grow up and are financially stable usually have their mums benefit from than their dad would ..

So why can't you the woman make thst investment since in the long run, you'd be favoured the most...

A woman can marry two husbands.Leave Devil alone for this matter because u don’t call him when a man marries two wives!
Leave Bible out of this too!
Polyandry is common in India and this story here is a fact! Sadly too,the men are not gay as some ‘African’ men have labeled them.
The world is changing fast! Accept the change…

Beverlyjean:
A woman can't marry 2 husbands...the devil's is massively creeping into the worlds mentality and u all think u are living life ...I really pity alot...better go read ur Bible to save yourself

Hustle ooo so u don’t cap rubbish online!!!
It’s ur duty to provide.So the woman will go through pregnancy,birth a child and u are asking for her savings to feed a child that bears ur name? Delusion at its peak!
Go and make money my friend!!!!!

Silentgroper:
did he put a gun to her head to sleep with him unprotected ..

if he doesn't buy it . she should buy it ..


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Where’s the man’s savings He didn’t know he’ll buy baby food when he was sleeping with her unprotected.

Bliss62:
Is the wife allergic to working?! Or even if she is on merternity leave she doesn't have any savings or income not even business

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Lies from the pit of hell.He’s not the only Igbo person in the world.

Gajagojo:
He said it is Igbo culture and custom

Delusion at its peak!
Speak for ur sisters OWNED by men.It doesn’t apply to all women.

sandygechy:
I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.

You have mental disorder in addition to over bloated ego!
Get help fast!!!!

Gajagojo:
You have low self-esteem and you are breaking the rules of the forum
There is no need for gratuitous insolence

That’s ur thinking Dude.Single mothers live long.She’ll die faster if she moves back feeding and providing for the man in addition to her kids.
In other words,she becomes a submissive provider.I reject that situation for her or any woman.She’s better off alone.

frog12:
i think some of these single mothers don't live long because they are doing everything themselves. they should find out what really happened between them

U no even get brain at all!
Lazy baboon that cannot take care of ordinary 5 months baby🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

sandygechy:
There are baby formulars the baby can take.
What if the mother died during delivery?
Won’t the father raise his child?

You are wise!

Maobichek:
"Owner," such word is derogatory. The man is not the owner of his sister; use more appropriate word, thank you.

U seriously pray and wish a man owns a woman he married because he paid stipend as bride price!
Chaiii……i know it’s heartbreaking and a deep pain to ur entire body to hear that it’s not true!!!
I understand ur frustrations and the pressure u are applying on the matter.Did u notice how stupid u sound
U really think so highly of yourself.
Empty vessel!!!
Your mates are busy with their lives endeavor and u are here displaying your stupidity.
U mentioned that women have no say in governance in Igboland. So Stella Oduah,Uche Ekwunife,Joy Emodi and even the first female Governor in Nigeria; Dame Virgy Etiaba are all Yoruba women abi? Your brain is leaking obviously.
U need the dictionary more cos u are DAFT!
Bleep off my mentions!!!

Gajagojo:
You need to open a dictionary
I am not digressing just providing collateral evidence and cultural background about the status of Igbo women in their culture to emphasise the point that Igbo women have minimal rights and no say in governance which is corroboration to the idea that they are chattels.
The person who made that claim is according to him,from Nnewi. He would know Igbo culture well and I believe him
An Igbo woman has no inheritance rights in her Umunna and is an acquisition of her husband s umunna.

We are talking about a man OWNING a woman! This is not a land matter.Don’t digress…

Gajagojo:
I believe it based on my interaction with them
That is how they reason.
Women cannot inherit land in their tradition and are generally blocked from inheriting from their father's property

Going back should entirely be her decision.She survived 8 years without him.She’s going back to add extra stress to her life by providing and feeding an extra mouth.

Coming to the issue of her remarrying,must she do so Is it a must to be in marriage even when it’s obvious she’s better off as a single mother? Moreover,single mothers of even three kids remarry.The father should need the kids too by doing his responsibilities.

mrmachine:
Let her go back. That's her husband. Don't let her deceive herself thinking she would just see another man that would just come from the moon to come and marry after 2. It's rare o. And those children still need fathe figure.

And u believe it
It’s a big lie cos I’m Igbo too.
Nowhere in the world does any human OWN another human!
Women are not commodities that are owned.Bride price is a traditional rite.

Gajagojo:
He said it is Igbo culture and custom

I’m as surprised as u are! A man goes to another family and MARRIES a woman and pays a token as part of the traditional rites and it now translates to OWNING her!
The token paid as bride price is not even up to the amount spent on feeding the woman for a month!!!
U can imagine how delusional and stupid some men are…

Gajagojo:
What does owner of kids mean practically

How does one own a grown up child that has become an adult

What does this ownership look like?
When the child starts working he will give his father his salary or what?

What is the benefit of owning a child

I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.

frndfghtr:
Am a nnewi man, we love our families, you are a liar
My advice to you is to hurry and beg the man, even if it last for thirty years, you just help the man to train his children, am a igbo man, once bride price is been paid, in our custom, the the man is the owner of your sis and the kids

I’m Igbo too and a man does not own a woman because he paid bride price.Bride price is paid as a traditional rite and does not mean u own the woman.

The so called bride price can be returned in event of divorce and underage children stay with their mother until they come of age.The man does not own the children alone either.

Chigozie321:

It’s their stinking audacity for me!!!
No atom of leadership traits but demand submission.
From all I’ve read here,submission to them means control.

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeewwww, when you have a logical response to give me as the gendar deserving of "leadership", come back to quote me.



Imagine person like you sef dey find woman wey go dey bow and worship am 🤣.

Like is this the intelligence you go take dey do head of house? This is it? You people have audacity sha. Boundlessly.

No marks of rope on her neck according to the police only points to murder!
Autopsy should reveal more facts.

The man should be detained! He’s a prime suspect!

See tears everywhere🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
OP,u are entitled to ur opinion and choice jareeeeee

Skull miners!

Is it the same dollar that has started going up or another?
Nothing fit shock us again!!!
Chi m ka Tinubu!!!

Nonagenarian rather.A septuagenarian is one in in his seventies.

SIXTEENTH:
Hmmmmmmmmmm Anambra State will shake with massive groove when burying the septuagenarian.

He died a proud father
Journey well Daddy.

In ur fuc**king dreams!!!!!

MuslimIgbo:
Nothing last forever. SOONER OR LATER, THE TERRORISTS ÌSRAEL WILL BE DESTROYED.

U no even get brain at all!
Lazy baboon that cannot take care of ordinary 5 months baby🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Later,u’ll say u are strong.ODEEEE

goody234:
Errr breastfeed you don sell your brains for saw dust ni