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I can't believe a thread about cheap actors like Ramsey Nouah or Nonso Diobi would attract more posters than proper A class actors like Chiwetel Ejiofor and David Oyelowo!! :-

Anyway he is going to get bigger I'm sure. His latest film stars Jude Law and Judi Dench. Its not released yet though.

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@afam
He was in the Last king of Scotland. He was the doctor that was killed in the end. Look him up on IMDB. He was also in the TV series Spooks as Danny for a few years. He is more of a theatre actor though.

@St. Funmi

What's your problem? Don't disrespect your white sisters' please. We are also human like you. By the way David is happily married to a white woman and have 3 children, he isn't dating anyone.

David Oyelowo 100%. He is a fantastic actor. He is a well respected actor in the UK. He is too under rated though.He deserves a real place in Hollywood. He is also very intellegent. handsome and he has a got a really sexy british accent, pity he's married.

@biina
I am not selfish. I have been too selfless for long enough in the past 5 yrs and look where/what it has got me. Anyway there are too many imperfections that my husband has now that he didn't have when we were newlyweds, yet I accept him for who he is. I don't nag him about his pot belly or cheat with a sexy, well built man outside!! I have thought about it but I haven't actually done it. I have a concience afterall.

What's that supposed to mean exactly?

I have discussed issues with my husband over the last few days and we have decided to seperate officially. We are not divorcing though. I decided to leave the house for the forseeable future and get my priorities together. Actually I have already left the house and I have never felt better! I am also getting a breast enlargement procedure in 2 weeks. I am going from c to double d and I am looking forward to putting the finishing touches towards the new me. My husband does not agree with the surgery and told me he hates all things fake. But I have always wanted big boobs and nothing is going to stop me from getting them. I'm 24 and I'm not getting any younger. I want to look back on photos of myself when I am a haggard old woman and say 'God I was sexy!!

What a coincidence that the first time he cheated on you in 4yrs, that he picked up an STD?  And he gave it to you. If he really was sorry he wouldn't have slept with you after sleeping with that tramp. The first thing he would have done is go to the STD clinic and treat it straight away. Its very straight-forward really. He knowingly put your life at risk. And by the way I hope he hasn't destroyed your fertility because for all you know he could have given you Chlamydia years ago!!

About 95 percent of the nigerian women in ireland are definently overweight. All they seem to do all the time as far as I can see is eat , talk too much and sit on their lazy fat asses all day long.

I was hardly plus size when I married him I was a size 12

well I am not a Nigerian woman i am european. When i met him I was about a size 12 then when we got married and had our daughter I was a size 18 then after a year or so I gradually went to size 14 without any diet. I didn't seem to lose much weight after that so I decided to join gym and do aerobics and weight training and cut my calorie intake to 800kcals per day at the very most. In the space of less than 2 months I was down to size 10 I haven't been training for a while so my weight has stalled but I'm still on the strict 800kcal a day. My goal is size 8. Well I'm not going to gain weight thats for sure I told him last week that if he dosen't like it then he should file for divorce but he said he won't divorce me so what can I do.

Come to think of it actually, the Sister also taught Biology at school, not me though. I had a different Biology teacher. Thats the thing about the RC clergy, they have an open mind. They believe in God but they also believe in Science and evolution. Afterall is there not proof that we all originated from apes and are what we are today because of evolution and we are still advancing. I think that stories like Adam and Eve are not meant to be taking literally, technically. I believe it is actually a metaphor for how the Earth, Man and Woman formed and how man became sinful by being tempted by the devil. Don't get me wrong I really believe God created Earth and all it's creatures' but he did not create it in 7 Days literally and there is plenty of evidence there to back that point up. By the way there is no mention of dinosaurs in the bible. Did they not exist billions of years before us on the same planet we live on right now? And birds were actually around with the dinosaurs so they were definently there before us.

She did not say the bible was all fiction. She said there were moral stories in the bible as well as real scriptures and prophecies. Anyway I wouldn't dare say that to a nun or anyone for that matter. Thats a bit rude!

I remember in Secondary School I had a nun teaching me Religion. She asked the class 'Do you think Adam and Eve are real or just a story'? She said it was just a story. What do you all think? This came from a convent sister who literally dedicates her life to Christ.  I am Catholic by the way.I am confused. I hear  pastors' from other churches say its a true story yet the nun said it was one of many stories that are in the bible!

What is considered sin? Is smoking a sin? Is getting angry from time to time to sin? Is divorce a sin even if you're married to someone wicked?

Thats my situation, my husband hasen't touched me since last May. Just take your mind off by getting another hobby. There is no point in cheating on your husband. Its not worth the guilty conscience. Sex isn't everything. Maybe I wasn't good in it in the first place so I shouldn't be doing it anyway. My husband goes outside to have sex. I try not to let it get to me though, I occupy my mind with other things.

Hi. I'd just like to say why would I make up something as stupid as that if it weren't true. Sadly enough it is true. He dosen't think I know but I have found lots of porn dvds hidden all over the house and the women in these are chubby (not that I've looked at them, all I had to do was look at the cover if the dvds') He has also registered with an adult dating site. I saw it on our computers history. On his profile on this website he states that he's looking for women and transexuals and that he's into fetish, group sex etc, etc. I would love my husband to change and be the person he was when I married him but I can't change him. It's up to him to change. I am not going for a divorce either, thats out of the question! I'll just keep out of his way for as long as it takes.

I'm getting alot of compliments from men outside saying how great I look, but my husband can't stand the sight of me. He says he dosen't want to sleep with a pole, but I am hardly a size 0. I still have nice womanly curves. I'm a 34c. my waist is 25 inches and my hips are 34 inches. I am not a matchstick.

I have been married to my husband 4 yrs. In the last year I have lost a bit of weight. I used to be size 16. I'm now a size 10. I am very happy with my new figure however he is not. He said he won't sleep with me because he hates my new figure and now he has found a big woman outside to sleep with. She is bigger than I was before I lost the weight, I'v seen her. He says he won't leave her unless I add weight or else I can forget about the marriage. What am I going to do? I am very happy with my current size and at the same time I don't want the marriage to end.