₦airaland Forum

opanco:
She's a good spirit that cares for you. Whenever it happens do not be scared. Mention her name tell her ur aware of her presence and you miss her. Tell her to rest well. Pray for her soul to find some peace. Take some alcohol and pour libation to the ground that her soul should find peace. That she should stop freaking you off. That she should be a layer of protection for you and wish you well. That she should rest well. From time to time pour libation and pray this prayer. It would stop

Since she’s a good spirit, why chase her away?🤷🏻‍♂️
What’s the gain in losing her and the loss in having her?

Infolenka:
How can I welcome her? I can't even see the person doing all this

Good question.
Just speak. She will hear you.
Alternatively, just write it on a paper and paste on wall. Clearly tell her what you want. To show herself to you. But you have to remove fear first so she can believe you.

TemplarLandry:
You have soul ties with her. You need deliverance bruh.

Deliverance from what or from who?
Jesus came to set the oppressed and possessed free.
Is he oppressed or possessed? He put camera and the person hides because she wants his peaceful consent before he can see her.
Her girl arranges her clothes, show her signs that she loves her and so on.
If Jesus had been born in Nigeria and died and rose in Nigeria, I’m 100% sure any Nigerian He appears to would have fled for their lives and gone for “deliverance”
What you need deliverance from is evil spirit that posses your body not someone trying to communicate and connect with you with good intentions.
You need deliverance from bad government and slave mentality too.

Most of human beings have chosen ignorance because of fear and lies.
When someone dies they have a chance of taking their second body to return. This second body if it’s hurt or killed, doesn’t have another spare. You’re lucky. Welcome your girlfriend and enjoy life with her instead of harlots. With her second body, she has access to information that will turn you to a king among men, but it’s totally up to you because she loves you.
I don’t know what lies or religion grew you with fear, but next time ask her quietly to show herself to you that you won’t freak out. But first you must open your heart to learn what you didn’t know before and remove fear.
The person in your house is your girlfriend with her second body as designed by God. She loves you deeply. If she wants to hurt you, you’d be gone since. So welcome her.

Zooposki:
Delta Amaka. Anioma Amaka. Most of them are also mixed with Edo blood.

Mumu!
Delta is a state created in Abuja by Neocolonialists, just like Abịa, Anambra, Imo....

Delta or Enugu is not a race or tribe. igbo is! Mumu!

Because many men chose to be simps.
They're trained to tolerate rubbish
They respect you more when you create boundaries and enforce it.

Dearlove2me:
Honest about what? He don't want to lose me, yet he wouldn't do things that makes us grow. Is that the definition of love?

Very clear
Both of you clearly had different problems & you brought it into the marriage and you made each other worse.
Shame on you both.

Dearlove2me:
If you love someone, you don't inflict pain on them. You make yourself a better person for the one you love. He don't love me nor our baby. He put so much stress on us and you can it love? I'm tired. I'm not strong.

You mentioned he said he doesn't want to lose you.
Is that true?
I think you need to be honest too.

This painful story. Is it true?
Can he just open up because God brought you into his life to help you.
It could be sex addiction.
It looks like sex addiction.
You're a strong soul. But you can take back this man if and only if you can overweigh his pride, shame and fear.
He's scared and the FEAR imprisons him in the form of a spirit.
He loves you but first, find a way of getting him to open up.
Finally and more importantly, he needs God more than anything.
Addiction is very cruel and dangerous.
The victim defends it with his/her life until someone or something sets him/her free.

Mind games doesn't work when people have made up their minds.

Bankowner:
Nobody has used the SIM card you have, the number is a reassigned number that someone has relinquished and network operators are obligated to put these numbers back into use within 90 days.

They do it, which is very wrong and stupid.

akpunda86:
Ya I'm thinking dat direction ,bros no vex opay Na microfinance Bank, thought Na foreign company

I gave you the name already.

akpunda86:
A pity how glorious zenith bank is dying.I don't know about other banks but zenith is dying.
The App can disappoint you at any time,bought fuel of 15k ,just to transfer my app was stuck,they used POS my cash was stuck,I have to leave my car at the filling station as a collateral to go look for money.

Yesterday 31st,can you imagine a stupid bank we were not more than 60 and presidential road branch asd they said you will write names and if they call your name you will enter,so pathetic,till I came and tore the paper and told the so called lady she was stupid.
Please 🙏 I'm trying getting the best bank I can use,don't mention GTB as bad as Zenith,I love Stanbic IBTC but their spread is low.
I'm moving all my cash from Zenith bank as soon as I get a new bank.
Thanks

Try regulated microfinance banks.
Blueridge Microfinance (their app is Opay)
One Finance (app is Carbon)
They will give you peace of mind in bill payments and transfers.

LordVoldermort:
My point is not that education is bad, education is good as long as people stay within their respective fields but in Nigeria we place educated people on a very high pedestal this allows them to stray from their fields without getting much scrutiny or criticism and this always results in disaster.

Putting a round pet in round hole is very important.
Specialization and division of labor brought about the industrial revolution.

LordVoldermort:
Interesting take, but I think most people are smarter than given credit for, Hitler for example tried to run for election in germany but he lost, for him to gain power he had to rely on the intellectuals because the common people (the illiterates) wouldn't vote for him, the same goes for Lenin, Stalin and other brutal dictators, they usually don't have the support of the majority.
Most of the supporters of Boko Haram are not illiterates, the underwear bomber - Umar Farouk was not an illiterate yet he still tried to blow himself up.

Just because a person is an illiterate does not mean they are easy to manipulate.

That it is also not easy to deceive some illiterates does not mean that illiteracy is good for a country.
There's no syllogism or factual connection between what u just said and the topic here.
Educating everyone is in the best interest of the elite and everyone who desires prosperity.

Lionnation:
you call those hausa students literates, have you ever visited a collage of education in the north before, if you have you will know that they are all illiterates including their northern lecturers

Very correct!
More than half of the mobs have below average jamb score but got admission not on merit but on the basis of "federal character".
"F.C." is a term defined in the Constitution of Nigeria such that you're more predisposed to getting admission into a university in Imo or Jos if your dad dead or alive is a native of the state or a state in the same "region" than you're predisposed by merit.

So it means that your tribe matters more than meritocracy.

This breeds a solid unbreakable cycle of illiterates in economically disadvantaged regions.

LordVoldermort:
No, they use other educated people like themselves to carry out their atrocities...
Also observe the girl burnt in sokoto was not burnt by illiterates.

No
For example, some are undergraduates with jamb score of 100 because of federal character in getting admission and because he had some uneducated teachers in primary/secondary school too who went to school not on merit but because of affirmative action in federal character..

An educated rable rouser cannot lie to anybody if everyone is educated.
To destroy a country you destroy her education.

These educated people use illiterates to perpetrate their crime. The front line pawns in the crime committed by these literates are mostly illiterates.
If the illiterates are educated there's no chance of the educated one using them. Because everyone would know what the other knows and no one could be lied to or decieved
Therefore literacy & education of everyone is very good for Nigeria and also very very urgent if the country will continue.

ikorodureporta:
Why?
Do you think they really happened in the past?

It does.
Even more.
You just think it's CocknBull tale.
It does so much, and only where God decides, just like in the Bible stories.

debbydams:
Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

#Lalasticla

My mind is blown!
So honest

silverkings:
Good day all. One of the new generation banks employed me as a contract staff in marketing department. Digital sales product executive precisely.

Please what do i expect? How demanding is the job?

This advice will change your life. Open your ears well.
Accept the offer.
Start work with diligence.
Here is the life changing part--- As you meet clients to help u meet your target befriend them genuinely. Help them out in their banking needs genuinely. THEN OBSERVE AND CHOOSE THE MORE SUCCESSFUL ONES. Just one or two. Get closer and try to casually ask questions about his business and what made him tick.
Listen attentively. People like teaching. Get him or her to LIKE u more. If you notice a growing interest in you, strike!
You don't find your mentor! Resign with immediate effect for your life! Enter his business and start learning.

You will have a better life ahead of you than working in the bank on a long term. It will only make u a poor slave for the rest of your life.

Thank me later!

Saintmary:
First off, you are one of the rarest of men who actually respect your wife enough to speak positively about her before stating the problem.


I applaud that.


Now, about the sex issue. Please just try to make her relaxed, take her out and overall just reduce your stress and hers.

Attract her with your grooming too. Take a bath before bed, shave the shaveables, get nice deodorants and perfumes, brush your teeth AND tongue, buy nice soaps like St Ives (1k), dress sharp when going out, give her your 'come hither' smile.

Before you say Jack Robinson, she's all over you even without the mention of sex.


If that doesn't work after 2 weeks, please report back.

Powerful.
Attitude can change anything including hormone.

This stadium could become ultramodern in near future with massive reconstruction.
My problem with Anambra PEOPLE is delusions of grandeur.
They live in a nutshell but think themselves kings of infinite spaces.

Humility and touch with reality is needed for development.

Ezewuzie01:
Soludo reminds me of Barack Obama, fit and bouncing, very agile and fit. He may not even like to wear big agbada that slows many of our governors down. Our darling daddy, you are God-sent to govern Anambra state. May God bless you and protect you sir and may your reign bear pleasant fruits for the blessed state of Anambra, Nigeria.

Amen

Omicron007:




This is not America or other advanced natons where voters are interested in manifestos, policy analysis and plan.

In Nigeria, the electorates dwell more on the party and it's existing structure.
Any other candidate except Soludo on the ballot of APGA could have amassed the support of the people.

Don't know how Nigerian homies got this very hallowed idea of especially America. The voters there are actually more fickle in their electoral decisions than Nigerians.
Debates don't sway nobody.

How do we kill this entitlement mentality among young men?
Why won't they join Bokoharam & IPOB with this lack of sense of responsibility?

PrinceOfLagos:
Yes

Because it will kill off the unrest in the south east

It will not. It will bring a new fire.
Only a war on ipob and their armed killers will save South East at this moment.
It's too late.