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Politics / Re: Okonjo-Iweala, Mo Abudu Make Forbes’ 100 World’s Most Powerful Women List by Scarfin(m): 1:43am On Dec 07, 2023
Zooposki:




Delta Amaka. Anioma Amaka. Most of them are also mixed with Edo blood.

Mumu!
Delta is a state created in Abuja by Neocolonialists, just like Abịa, Anambra, Imo....

Delta or Enugu is not a race or tribe. igbo is! Mumu!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Gender Inequality Against Men At Work by Scarfin(m): 9:01am On Jul 21, 2023
Because many men chose to be simps.
They're trained to tolerate rubbish
They respect you more when you create boundaries and enforce it.

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Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Scarfin(m): 10:24pm On Mar 17, 2023
Dearlove2me:
Honest about what? He don't want to lose me, yet he wouldn't do things that makes us grow. Is that the definition of love?

Very clear
Both of you clearly had different problems & you brought it into the marriage and you made each other worse.
Shame on you both.
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Scarfin(m): 9:40pm On Mar 17, 2023
Dearlove2me:
If you love someone, you don't inflict pain on them. You make yourself a better person for the one you love. He don't love me nor our baby. He put so much stress on us and you can it love? I'm tired. I'm not strong.
You mentioned he said he doesn't want to lose you.
Is that true?
I think you need to be honest too.
Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by Scarfin(m): 5:05pm On Mar 17, 2023
This painful story. Is it true?
Can he just open up because God brought you into his life to help you.
It could be sex addiction.
It looks like sex addiction.
You're a strong soul. But you can take back this man if and only if you can overweigh his pride, shame and fear.
He's scared and the FEAR imprisons him in the form of a spirit.
He loves you but first, find a way of getting him to open up.
Finally and more importantly, he needs God more than anything.
Addiction is very cruel and dangerous.
The victim defends it with his/her life until someone or something sets him/her free.

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Politics / Re: 2023: Obansanjo And Afenifere Dumps Obi, Visits Sultan Of Sokoto by Scarfin(m): 7:41pm On Feb 18, 2023
Mind games doesn't work when people have made up their minds.
Phones / Re: Help! I Bought A New SIM Card That Has Been Previously Used By Someone by Scarfin(m): 11:20pm On Feb 03, 2023
Bankowner:
Nobody has used the SIM card you have, the number is a reassigned number that someone has relinquished and network operators are obligated to put these numbers back into use within 90 days.
They do it, which is very wrong and stupid.
Business / Re: Death Of Zenith Bank by Scarfin(m): 6:08pm On Feb 02, 2023
akpunda86:



Ya I'm thinking dat direction ,bros no vex opay Na microfinance Bank, thought Na foreign company
I gave you the name already.
Business / Re: Death Of Zenith Bank by Scarfin(m): 8:00pm On Feb 01, 2023
akpunda86:
A pity how glorious zenith bank is dying.I don't know about other banks but zenith is dying.
The App can disappoint you at any time,bought fuel of 15k ,just to transfer my app was stuck,they used POS my cash was stuck,I have to leave my car at the filling station as a collateral to go look for money.

Yesterday 31st,can you imagine a stupid bank we were not more than 60 and presidential road branch asd they said you will write names and if they call your name you will enter,so pathetic,till I came and tore the paper and told the so called lady she was stupid.
Please 🙏 I'm trying getting the best bank I can use,don't mention GTB as bad as Zenith,I love Stanbic IBTC but their spread is low.
I'm moving all my cash from Zenith bank as soon as I get a new bank.
Thanks

Try regulated microfinance banks.
Blueridge Microfinance (their app is Opay)
One Finance (app is Carbon)
They will give you peace of mind in bill payments and transfers.

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Politics / Re: Illiteracy Is Good For Nigeria - Bashiru Mustapha by Scarfin(m): 6:57pm On May 24, 2022
LordVoldermort:


My point is not that education is bad, education is good as long as people stay within their respective fields but in Nigeria we place educated people on a very high pedestal this allows them to stray from their fields without getting much scrutiny or criticism and this always results in disaster.
Putting a round pet in round hole is very important.
Specialization and division of labor brought about the industrial revolution.

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Politics / Re: Illiteracy Is Good For Nigeria - Bashiru Mustapha by Scarfin(m): 11:21am On May 24, 2022
LordVoldermort:

Interesting take, but I think most people are smarter than given credit for, Hitler for example tried to run for election in germany but he lost, for him to gain power he had to rely on the intellectuals because the common people (the illiterates) wouldn't vote for him, the same goes for Lenin, Stalin and other brutal dictators, they usually don't have the support of the majority.
Most of the supporters of Boko Haram are not illiterates, the underwear bomber - Umar Farouk was not an illiterate yet he still tried to blow himself up.

Just because a person is an illiterate does not mean they are easy to manipulate.
That it is also not easy to deceive some illiterates does not mean that illiteracy is good for a country.
There's no syllogism or factual connection between what u just said and the topic here.
Educating everyone is in the best interest of the elite and everyone who desires prosperity.
Politics / Re: Illiteracy Is Good For Nigeria - Bashiru Mustapha by Scarfin(m): 7:35am On May 24, 2022
Lionnation:
you call those hausa students literates, have you ever visited a collage of education in the north before, if you have you will know that they are all illiterates including their northern lecturers
Very correct!
More than half of the mobs have below average jamb score but got admission not on merit but on the basis of "federal character".
"F.C." is a term defined in the Constitution of Nigeria such that you're more predisposed to getting admission into a university in Imo or Jos if your dad dead or alive is a native of the state or a state in the same "region" than you're predisposed by merit.

So it means that your tribe matters more than meritocracy.

This breeds a solid unbreakable cycle of illiterates in economically disadvantaged regions.

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Politics / Re: Illiteracy Is Good For Nigeria - Bashiru Mustapha by Scarfin(m): 7:25am On May 24, 2022
LordVoldermort:
No, they use other educated people like themselves to carry out their atrocities...
Also observe the girl burnt in sokoto was not burnt by illiterates.
No
For example, some are undergraduates with jamb score of 100 because of federal character in getting admission and because he had some uneducated teachers in primary/secondary school too who went to school not on merit but because of affirmative action in federal character..

An educated rable rouser cannot lie to anybody if everyone is educated.
To destroy a country you destroy her education.
Politics / Re: Illiteracy Is Good For Nigeria - Bashiru Mustapha by Scarfin(m): 4:47am On May 24, 2022
These educated people use illiterates to perpetrate their crime. The front line pawns in the crime committed by these literates are mostly illiterates.
If the illiterates are educated there's no chance of the educated one using them. Because everyone would know what the other knows and no one could be lied to or decieved
Therefore literacy & education of everyone is very good for Nigeria and also very very urgent if the country will continue.

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Religion / Re: Why Are Those Great Biblical Miracles Not Happening These Days? by Scarfin(m): 10:44am On Apr 03, 2022
ikorodureporta:
Why?
Do you think they really happened in the past?

It does.
Even more.
You just think it's CocknBull tale.
It does so much, and only where God decides, just like in the Bible stories.

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Romance / Re: The Ordeal Of Relationship In 21st Century by Scarfin(m): 2:37pm On Mar 19, 2022
debbydams:
Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

#Lalasticla

My mind is blown!
So honest

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Advise Me On This New Banking Job by Scarfin(m): 6:37pm On Mar 04, 2022
silverkings:
Good day all. One of the new generation banks employed me as a contract staff in marketing department. Digital sales product executive precisely.

Please what do i expect? How demanding is the job?

This advice will change your life. Open your ears well.
Accept the offer.
Start work with diligence.
Here is the life changing part--- As you meet clients to help u meet your target befriend them genuinely. Help them out in their banking needs genuinely. THEN OBSERVE AND CHOOSE THE MORE SUCCESSFUL ONES. Just one or two. Get closer and try to casually ask questions about his business and what made him tick.
Listen attentively. People like teaching. Get him or her to LIKE u more. If you notice a growing interest in you, strike!
You don't find your mentor! Resign with immediate effect for your life! Enter his business and start learning.

You will have a better life ahead of you than working in the bank on a long term. It will only make u a poor slave for the rest of your life.

Thank me later!

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Romance / Re: I Need Advice, My Wife Just Changed - A Nairalander by Scarfin(m): 6:55pm On Jan 07, 2022
Saintmary:



First off, you are one of the rarest of men who actually respect your wife enough to speak positively about her before stating the problem.


I applaud that.


Now, about the sex issue. Please just try to make her relaxed, take her out and overall just reduce your stress and hers.

Attract her with your grooming too. Take a bath before bed, shave the shaveables, get nice deodorants and perfumes, brush your teeth AND tongue, buy nice soaps like St Ives (1k), dress sharp when going out, give her your 'come hither' smile.

Before you say Jack Robinson, she's all over you even without the mention of sex.


If that doesn't work after 2 weeks, please report back.
Powerful.
Attitude can change anything including hormone.
Sports / Re: Obiano Commissions UltraModern Awka City Stadium, Awka (Pictures). by Scarfin(m): 8:29pm On Dec 29, 2021
This stadium could become ultramodern in near future with massive reconstruction.
My problem with Anambra PEOPLE is delusions of grandeur.
They live in a nutshell but think themselves kings of infinite spaces.

Humility and touch with reality is needed for development.

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Politics / Re: Charles Soludo Spotted At The Gym Working Out In Awka (Pictures & Video) by Scarfin(m): 6:28pm On Dec 22, 2021
Ezewuzie01:
Soludo reminds me of Barack Obama, fit and bouncing, very agile and fit. He may not even like to wear big agbada that slows many of our governors down. Our darling daddy, you are God-sent to govern Anambra state. May God bless you and protect you sir and may your reign bear pleasant fruits for the blessed state of Anambra, Nigeria.
Amen
Politics / Re: Anambra2021: Did The Governorship Debates Affect The Decision Of The Voters? by Scarfin(m): 12:11pm On Nov 07, 2021
Omicron007:
shocked



This is not America or other advanced natons where voters are interested in manifestos, policy analysis and plan.

In Nigeria, the electorates dwell more on the party and it's existing structure.
Any other candidate except Soludo on the ballot of APGA could have amassed the support of the people.

Don't know how Nigerian homies got this very hallowed idea of especially America. The voters there are actually more fickle in their electoral decisions than Nigerians.
Debates don't sway nobody.
Crime / Re: Help! A Loan App Agent Keeps Blackmailing Me by Scarfin(m): 10:19am On Nov 05, 2021
How do we kill this entitlement mentality among young men?
Why won't they join Bokoharam & IPOB with this lack of sense of responsibility?

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Politics / Re: Will You Release Nnamdi Kanu If You Were BUHARI? by Scarfin(m): 9:46am On Nov 04, 2021
PrinceOfLagos:
Yes

Because it will kill off the unrest in the south east
It will not. It will bring a new fire.
Only a war on ipob and their armed killers will save South East at this moment.
It's too late.

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Travel / Re: Obiano Commissions Anambra International Airport (Pictures) by Scarfin(m): 7:28pm On Oct 30, 2021
Nice
A good step.
Future governors will make the airport bigger n tusher. Small small...
My in-laws

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Politics / Re: Anambra Kicks As NCAA Suspends Commissioning Of Anambra Int'l Airport by Scarfin(m): 5:57am On Oct 29, 2021
Well, you can trust the Governor Willie to make sacrifices and silent moves to make it happen on 30th.
You guys should not worry at all.
Travel / Re: Anambra Airport Is Ready, Waiting For NCAA Approval For Commercial Flights by Scarfin(m): 11:00am On Oct 25, 2021
Better levels of human beings from other states and regions in Nigeria will now easily access Anambra.
This is good for my in-laws.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How A Highly Intelligent Lady Lost A Job Opportunity. by Scarfin(m): 1:19pm On Oct 22, 2021
adubam:
I just want to share this painful and bitter scenario to job seekers out there.

So we posted a job advert and over four hundred applied. Three were selected for interview and only one appeared.

Salary is about 150k for a start.

So this applicant came and did well in both oral and written interview but she was not given the job because of this:

She was given a paper to apply for the job. Excellent write up though but she messed up the whole paper with cancellation and instead of asking for a fresh paper to start over again; she even went ahead and handed over it like that to my boss.

My boss concluded that she was an untidy and scatty fellow.

And that was all.

Please take note of this and try not to make this mistake.

God grant you your desired jobs.

cheesy The adubam dude didn't know the boss had given the job to someone well known to the boss cheesy
Nigerian motivational speakers don't know what's going on.

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