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Poster, if you prefer white girls, why worry yourself with what naija girls are doing. For your information not all naija girls are materialistic,
there are some nubian queens who are hardworking and dont depend on men for their needs! I think it is high time we start appreciating women irrespective of race!

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I like topics like this! Love is in the air

some 9ja girls go kill person all in the name of beauty pageant


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Amen

[quote author=won-90 link=topic=693139.msg8539929#msg8539929 date=1308345886]^It takes a second to know someone and forever to keep one

Marry me and i would make you a real woman like OPRAH or beyonce  [/quote]clown  

Poster what happened to ur loff for pweety4me now?

Very sad!

nawa pweety and 190, pls end this beef now, no need for these insults now.Gosh

male haters

Mamagee I hope this will help and pls dont forget to pray it is important too.

1)Recognize your insecurities. What does that voice in the back of your mind say? What makes you ashamed of yourself? This could be anything from acne, to regrets, or friends at school. Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name, and write it down. You can also tear these written pieces to start feeling positive on those points.



2)Talk about it with friends and loved ones. Wear it on your sleeve. Each day you should chip away at it; wear it down. There's no quick fix. Get to the root of the problem; focus on it and understand that you need to resolve each issue before you can move on. And that doesn't mean you have to get rid of whatever makes you feel bad (many times, you simply can't). You need to learn to accept yourself, your past, your circumstances as they are, without necessarily thinking of them as "bad".

3)Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.


4)Identify your successes. Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes. Inferiority is a state of mind in which you've declared yourself a victim. Do not allow yourself to be victimized. Express yourself, whether it's through art, music, writing, etc. Find something you enjoy. Everyone is born with talents and strengths. You can develop and excel in yours. If it's difficult to name two or three things you have some ability in or just plain love to do, think about things others do that you would like to do too and take some lessons or join an enthusiasts club. When you're following your passion, not only will it have a therapeutic effect, but you'll feel unique and accomplished, all of which can help build your self confidence. Plus, adding a variety of interests to your life will not only make you more confident, but it will increase your chances of meeting compatible friends!

5)Be thankful for what you have. A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc. By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence.


6)Be Positive, even if you don't feel the same way. Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior--they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. Do not be afraid to project your strengths and qualities to others. By doing so, you reinforce those ideas in your mind and encourage your growth in a positive direction.



7) Accept compliments gracefully. Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively ("Thank you" and a smile works well).


Look in the mirror and smile. Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run.

9)I am gorgeous, huh?
I am gorgeous, huh?
Fake it. Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel!


10)Stick to your principles. It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability.


11)Help others. When you know you're kind to the people around you, and are making a positive difference in other people's lives (even if it's just being kinder to the person who serves you coffee in the morning), you'll know that you are a positive force in the world--which will boost your self confidence.


http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence

you are beautiful! Pls put an end to constant abuse of Nigerian men ( calling us fugly)

@ 2buff & pweety4me, very funny

^^^^ Nice one.

@poster, serves u right

190:
**I don hit Jackpot**

Dear Natasha,

My Dearest, life can be cruel but when it all comes together there is no moment as sweet. That is how I feel about you entering my life. You have rekindled the flame called love in me. You have given one more reason to look forward to tomorrow.

Now, you are a significant part of my life and I look forward to the day when we can make it permanent. I love you so much. I love you for your kindness, for your caring and giving nature, for your beauty - both inner and outer, and most of all I love you because you are you.

The fact that you show me who you really are and not what you think I may want. Sweetie, let this letter be a testament to my true feelings for you. The whole world can see and know how I feel for you. I love you, mi kuuipo.

Eternally,

Yours 190

190 you are a clown

finally 190 don score. 190 hope ur madness go stop!

Poster pls do not generalize due your own bad experience!

@ Poster contact Tony Tetuila he will tell you what to do

because the phone s expensive, she might damage it!

Dreamer

@southchi, ride on brother feel free to air your opinion there is nothing sneaky about it.

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hello room

@poster dont repay evil deed with evil. if you are comfortable helping her out, pls help her out. If I were you I would seek God's guidance in this situation.
Please forgive her for the hurt she has done to you.

999mugu1 add me quick  

@freeman9ja, so leaving her at the roadside was a kind gesture. That is the worst thing you could have done to her.
Pls dont do this to another lady. Nobody deserve this kind of treatment

what a shallow man! what u did was mean. You should have at least had the guts to tell her you are not interested instead of running away like a little boy.
Anyway it is a funny experience