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MrCrackles:
really

yes, really

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=204276.msg3187452#msg3187452 date=1228518695]Funny you should mention hell, I hope you know that according to the bible, your post could be consideed as blasphemy!!

So be careful what you wish for,because you just might get it.
MEN RULE!! [/quote]men rule only in their heads. i rule in my world and in my life

chika98:
Yeah sucks but it is a mans world.

no it doesnt suck, i get away with anything i want and whereever i want it, just as men do. it only sucks for those who believes in that old language

To hell with men and their world

Raymond88:
That's a lie from the devil! women are made to be under men!!

my dear thats a lie in ur own palor, cux ur woman hasnt thought about it,  but in my life thats very true

ndumart:
Are u sure?
If i pull my shirt leaving my singlet in the market, how would u do better?

bring it on

my dear, anything a man can do i can do better,

ndumart:
Love conquers all problems. Stay and build your home (that is if u survive), and if u don't, u died for love.

oh mine! what kind of love beats someone to death? anywaxs i couldnt help but laugh at ur post so funny

ibkaye:
Oh lawd, as much as you should love with your heart, the head is also in need of good use

well said my dear, thats one of those things most women forget. to save ur marriage u have to first save ur life

ibkaye:
And people of talking about 'saving their marriage', how about saving your life?

exactly !

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=204059.msg3186658#msg3186658 date=1228505311]Lol, I know, funny that's why he's one of my favorite saints. Quite frankly I think he is the model for our society. A society that is sex crazed, and doesn't know what to do with itself and decides to pass laws to permit itself and convince itself that if it is lawful it isn't wrong. He is the perfect model for all who think they cannot do without sex. He is the perfect combatant for those who say "bodi no be wood" or "man must ****" or "no one can stay away from having sex" as if sex is an involuntary necessity.[/quote]very true, some folks of today believes that life is boring without sex and st augustine is the perfect example, he believed it in enjoying of the fresh and he later realized that there was more to life than just fresh

victorian:
I will leave , such men never stops,its either they destroy her emotionally&mentally for years or as time goes on with the physicall abuse she ends up dead . My aunt lost her life in the arms of her abusive husband,if only she had listened to her sisters& brothers to file for divorce and leave him but she wouldnt, always hoping and praying that he will change someday , what a pity and she was so pretty, may her soul rest in peace,amen.

how sad really sorry for ur lost, u see thats the problem most women always believe they will change, and they contiune receiving the beatings and the insults

congrats , u are in a bisexual relationship, have u tried party?

tpia:
the woman has to be lying.

How can someone sleep with 150 men from the same website?

it is actually possible, i mean you have street and high end prostitutes why not online prostitutes. 

the site opened in 2001 so it is quiet posible and also i dnt think the site cares about how many people u met,

it is up to you, u met this one and don't like him then do it again,

but i am most suprise why how many hours she claims she had sex, 15hrs and the guy even backed it up,

i date a police man so that he will be bringing that extra 20 naira moneies he collects from drivers on the road plus his salary

and how cool is that? very cool

i like st. augustine when he said " God grant me chasity but not now" yea he wants to finish enjoying the good things of life before he signed up

Deshannel:
Sea goddess
Post the link to the darm site.

i will post it if only you are going there only to look and not to sign up

ibkaye:
I'm sorry but I would leave the relationship, even in the case of her being 'deported' or the children issue, i'd prefer to be deported or break the family even with the children if it means that I'd still be alive, who knows, he could even turn to the children sha

If he's doing it to the point of me considering to leave him, break the family etc then it must be a habit, not just a 'one off thing'

Please jor, I value my life

my dear thats exactly what i believe in, like i said is either he leaves or i leave or someone is going to die of rat poisoning

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I no fit!
Touch me and die [/color]

lol

those who want the website, wetin u want  go and find there?

there was actually one married woman who said the website service saved her from her lifeless marriage,

she claims she has slept with 150 (say that number slowly) men she met on the site, and one of them she said that they had sex for

over 15hrs (again say that number slowly) in a day. while the average sex lasts 7 to 13 mins what more can i say wow!

and another woman says her husband no longer pay attention to her in the bedroom, so she signed up on the site and since she has been seeing other men

and her hubby wants her back and condenming the site for destorying her marriage, how sad

Missy B:
You can't imagine the [size=3pt]'stupid'[/size] things love can make
one do.Some stay for other reasons tho and I think I'm with
OMO on this . . . I don't see how packing out will solve the problem.

leaving the house for him, first saves me some beating, slapping and cursing for that day or even a week or months
it makes him see that i can still do something about it not always staying there and receving those beatings
it gives me a chance to really reevaulate my life now and what i want to do next
and lastly it makes him think i am more valuable than he is treating me so leaving him makes a very huge difference,
you know like that saying that goes " you never know the value of what you have till you lose it"

i will simply confront him with it and see the big liar he is going to tell

there is this website  that encourages both married and those in relationship to cheat on their spouses or partners because they claim life is too short to stay in a boring/lifeless relationship/marriage so cheat. how sad i thought! instead of having a website that helps people rebuild their relationship/marriage after cheating they are encouraging it.

so do you think life is really to short not to have an affair? Or you do you think something else?

who is your favorite saint?

mine is ST. Anthony, ST. Jude and ST. Rita

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=203998.msg3182937#msg3182937 date=1228430935]It's not only about love. . . .it's because they don't know what to do or they're helpless.
A loving mother would do anything to protect her child.
If her husband is abusive to her, yet her children loves their dad, she would endure the beating to avoid a broken family.

Another scenario:
She is jobless, helpless, and depends on him.
If she leaves him, where will she go? Who will provide for her?

Some abused women out there are really not stupid or ignorant. They just simply can't live without their abuser.
An illegal immigrant will rather stay abused than report her host to the police.


Why stay?
Fear, helplessness, dependent, history of abuse etc[/quote]true cox they have become used to the abusive that it has become a normal or their daily routine, so it is harder for them to accept that it is not normal

[quote author=~smurf link=topic=203998.msg3182840#msg3182840 date=1228429258]I can't stay oh, I don't want to have a watery grave, Scott Peterson Anyone? [/quote]i can't stay, is either i leave or he leaves or someone is going to die of rat poisoning

Outstrip:
I know how you feel. I used to get upset about that a lot too but I have talked to a lot of women going through this and by the time they finally accept that the abuse is a bad thing and they should not deal with it, they are already so broken down emotionally and mentally that they feel like they do not have what it takes to make it on their own. Abuse in marriage is the worst thing someone can go through and I agree that the first time he pushes you or shoves you, you better have a plan B because it will only get worse. Plan your exit so that by the ti
me he graduates to using a stick or a club on your head, you are financially ready to break free.

i had a friend who was in abusive marriage, her husband was abusive both physically and emotionally, everyday she had scars, and the worst path is that when u ask her what happened to her she always denies it, one of her excuse is oh is nothing i just fell from the stairs or similar excuse. every attempt was made to get her out, but she remained and her husband finally beat to death, she died and after 6 months the husband remarried, citing he cant stay alone. now who is the loser? if only she listened to her family and friends and moved on as easily as her husband did when she died.

why do so many women stay in abusive relationships/marriage even to the point of death?
after being slaped, beating, called names, and other ugly things why can't they just pack their things and leave?
afterall, all it takes for the men is just 6months to remarry another lucky lady soon going to be abused, while the other one is dead
it reallys pains me to see women go through abusive in their relationships/marriage all in the name of being and staying married
so what says you?