Jesus is the only way to heaven unless u wanna go heaven then u can cont. hiding
come out and accept Jesus, he is the way, the life and the truth
ur gf will eventually knw. so why out go come now and accept him

H2O2:

How do you define true love

so easy just follow this three simple steps ,
first define the word true then
second define the word love then
thirdly combine both meanings together and
viola u have just define true love

yes, dnt lose hope good things still happen to bad ppl or ppl who made bad decision

just put ur div. behind u and keep ur head up high, a nice fellow may come by someday

cross ur fingers, it's a new year with new beginnings

now thats a million dollar smile cant beat that

lipstick 1:

[i]My Family saint is ST ANTHONY OF PADUA.My favourite Saint are ST ANTHONY( helps me find all lot things),ST JUDE(I had to do a week ST JUDE`S NOVENA to help me gain admission in to a higher school and it worked) and ST RITA cause of her history.I love these three saints.

yea me too

kemisuga:

Nigeria has the highest percentage of smart, intelligent and beautiful babes in African. Take it or leave it!!!

wow never knew that , good thing u said now

olanajim:

I am still expecting your input anyway. At least I made it clear it is what I will do. It is not a must she do what I will do.

Let assume you are the mother, what will you do?

If you have come around with the intention of dragging me to return insult with insult, of abusing me, whatever, you you will just be dissipating your energy on useless venture.

I know your type. You derive pleasure only when dragging other people down. I look forward to more of your assaults.

Please don't forget to put me right so I can learn sanity from you.

mister man listen i hvnt altered a word of insult to u okay? u r the one who is getting everything twisted i picked that point u made cox i found it so confusing cox how r they going to monitor the girl? put a gps tracking device on her? question her every move or select her friends? or what?  maybe u needed to expalin further cox i find it confusing hope i cleared why i picked that point of urs. hope the insult or no insult path is cleared

first no matter what, you should have called her and thank her when you left her house, no matter how she treated you saying thank you wouldnt have taken anything out of you. you stayed in her house for free and eat for sometimes though she would have said no at the beginning but she didnt. it was bad on your path.

but then thats the past, now as for the calls it is a good thing you are recording it and keep saving it, since u r in california, as far as the laws there goes you can get a restraining order aganist her which at least prevents her from harassing you with calls and if she is doing it to stop calling or coming to your work place. you can get the form at the any local court house or police stations in CA. and if granted and she violates it then call the police immediately

while at it, you and your husband should arrange a family  meeting if other members of your husbands family are in CA and talk over things, if that is impossible then personally or you and your husband call her and tell her to tell you how much you should pay her for her rents food etc. ( though you shouldnt have to pay for it cox she told u not to and she didnt have it on paper that you must pay back but if that will make her get off your back then do it and have peace of mind).

olanajim:

I acknowledge I was hard on the parents. What non of you would deny is that it is true! You cannot completely exonorate parents from that kind of thing coming from a 10 year old and a 5 year old! I challenge you to prove me wrong. I am ready to learn from the wise ladies above. If you can't convinced me, then shame on you!

I expect that rather than attacking my point, you should have done what sane people do- offer a better option. [b]You didn't. You merely pick up hole in my point and that show how intelligent you are.[/b]Since I have given a bad advice, I will suggest then we adopt your stands. Let us congratulate the poster for finding out. Let us then congratulate the parents for hearing that the 10 year old and 5 year old kids that grew up under their nose is practicing lesbianism! Let us then allow the kids continues to relate with the same people that taught her the act in the first place!

Let us cease to monitor them and allow them grow in leap and bound!

I feel sorry for this generation!

At any rate, I stated earlier that I have not seen that kind of thing around me. So I am only telling you what I will do if it happen.

Good luck to you! We all make a choice and the choice make us!

if u claim to offer some advice u better say something that makes sense if not u can always close ur mouth, that what sane ppl do

onye na eji ego na eri ofe owerri, nwanna o

yes i must admit frankly that some parents do use their daughters to extort money from their in-laws/ they request unnecessary things and it is only someone who has experienced it that can tell you how dishearting it can be and it is very sad(as with everything where there is good ppl there will always be bad folks) but then traditional marriage is still a crucial part of our igbo heritage that cant be easily extinguished. and it is very fun especially when the bride Carry's the Palm wine and starting looking for the husband.

olanajim:

Hmmm, irresponsible parents!

Her first instinct would be to beat the poor girl.

I have not seen this type of problem before, so whatever I am going to give is what I would do if I were the parents.

I think the girl must be withdrawn from the school where she picked up the bad trait. And the mother should inform the school authority if possible.

The girl should be put in another school must be closely monitored for the rest of her teenage years.

Parents had got to understand why they have to get closer to their children. Most of the bad manners exhibited by kids were picked up through innocent programming. They saw, crammed, and then practice!

The bad news is that most kids never practice what they saw until they are well outside the prying eyes of their parents.

That kid must be urgently reformed. The bad programming can only be removed by replacing it with a good one.

Kids brains are like empty tapes. If you record something bad in it, you cannot completely format the bad habit unless you record another one there.

what nonsense dnt u think she should not only be monitered for the rest her teenage years but also jailed 4 for the rest of her teenage years cox she has committed the most slowpoke crime ever recorded in the book of crimes

seriously i think old ppl shouldnt be having sex they r old and it is digusting to even think that such an old man would want to have sex.
shouldnt he be thinking more about _death just a thought

what a question

DaPhoenix:

I see all the men agreeing to this not because they care but because it will legally give them the right to have sex with as many women as he can as soon he is "bored" with the previous one. I'd rather happily remain a spinster than to be a second wife.

no mind them, thats exactly what they want sex and more sex

JeSoul:

Joe, if you're truly a christian, then you must surely know that the bible says you cannot be unequally "yoked" with a non-christian?
  A christian has no business marrying someone of another religion. You're only asking for trouble.

i beg to differ please, i'm really tired with all this egocentrism that some people have about their religions, who says a Christian shouldn't marry someone cox he/she is not a Christian i thought all that mattered in marriage was love . some muslims do serve the same God as christians do.

isnt going to cause some trouble? yes, isnt impossible to do? no

honestly i dnt make any cox i knw i cant and dnt keep them so i dnt like to deceive myself with empty resoloutions i knw i woundnt keep

and good luck to those who keep theirs

A-40:

The prettiest people do the ugliest things remember that!!

true talk

wtf , i rather remain single even die single than share a man with other women no matter how a saint the man might be. i'm not that desparate afterall single life is a still a vocation.

tope2000:

I think the OP main worry is the 'meeting the parent part'
Lets face i don't think i would be happy either if my son brings home someone that is 6yrs old than him home as wife

i agree i wouldnt like/allow it either cox then it would feel like she is the one marrying him and not the opposite

it was fun while it lasted nah i cant stand it, she must give us a break