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chika98:
Yeah like where did you buy your shoes! they so lovely. A naija chic will say " errrrmmm i don't remember" lol

yep, they wouldnt tell u, so u dnt go and buy the same chic things like them. so na u will be in their level or class

tope2000:
Kia, esp us naija women
We lie about our relationships, marriages even the cream they use for their body
This is why i only have 2 female friends, n i don't even tell them about relationship either good or bad let alone seek advice, abeg.
I will rather go with my heart

omg tell u ko, so that u will na be glowing like them? women, what can i say, we are such a wonderful species

tpia:
abi.

Some friends. They advised her to get a gigolo but forgot to warn her to use a condom.

anyway, the woman can't really blame anyone but herself.

She just gave the husband himself a clean slate to do whatever he wants now.

well, whats left but to pick up the pieces and move on. don't know if the man can forgive her. Some men can but most wont.

honestly i think he has no other option but to forgive her, cox he pushed her into it. everyone deserves a second chance afterall, who knows what he does over there in his so called business travels. he might even have a family or girlfriend over there. business travel ko

chika98:
lol. They will tell you to do this and that BUT when it comes to them. . they will do anything to keep their man. How many people out there will tell you that their marriage isnt rosy?? My dear na life be that

exactly

tope2000:
Men huh!!!!
But still the woman shudnt have cheated esp with the gateman
What was she thinking!!!!!!was she that desperate
She should have bought a Love Machine instead

i guess the urge was just too much to resist, just like when u want to unrinate it is either you pee now or ur pant will be soaked.
also u know like how women are usually sexually active during their ovualtion time, maybe who knows it may have contributed. i think the Love Machine would have be a great idea, but her so called friends never suggested/ or so it never crossed their infected minds they wanted her to have the real thing which is now costing her marriage

tpia:
did the woman go the extra mile with her husband before shagging the gateman?

eg did she ever try to pay him a surprise visit while he was away on assignment? Surprise visit doesnt mean trying to catch him unawares with a suspected girlfriend, but rather just making time to be with him, on her part.


if she was that lonely and there were no kids to tie her down, then she could have considered that option.


Did she try phone intimacy with her man? Afterall, singles do it all the time- why can't she do it with her own husband?



Loneliness can be terrible however. But banging the gateman? eyah.

anyway, nothing new under the sun.

and lastly, evil communications corrupt good manners. I hope one of the people giving her bad advice wont be the one replacing her as the Mrs.

lord know how long some of the friends may have been eyeing the man while pretending to like her. na today?

the man travels out of the country, the so called abroad business. i dnt think the idea of phone intimacy ever crossed her mind, u know not many ppl have heard of it.
her friends have be supportive of her, but then u never know what they have in mind.

tope2000:
I am still saying they are both at fault sha
The woman should have talked to her husband about it and the husband should have done sumting about it and if the husband can't come to some sort of a compromise then the woman should have just ask 4 a divorce jejely rather than shag the gateman.

B.T.W
Does the woman work??
Did she marry him for his money?

she did tell the husband how lonely things get, but the man always assures her oh i wouldnt be long, he always finds some silly excuses to give. the woman doesnt work, she is a thick stay at home madam, well the man has money, so i dnt really know if she married him for it.

we marry so that we can have more money in the bank when we file for tax returns
we marry so that we prove to the society we are not gays or selfish or really ugly that no ones says hi to us.
we marry cox we want children who can be nagging us every now and then

fe32:
i think i've seen the movie too

seen which movie , the one u made , abeg this is a pure true life story of a woman

tope2000:
Is this taken out of a movie?

yea it sounds like one of those nollywood movie, maybe cox it was a long story,
but it is actually true. it did happen or are u now saying such things dnt happen in real life again
c'mon now u know such things do happen in real life, anywaxs i'm too old to makeup such silly phony stories

follypimpi:
JUSTI KINI,IS NOT JUSTIFIED JO !. what happen to calling ur hubbie and explaining how u feel to him,If nah me i go send her packing without thinkin twice.To think she stood herself so low to shag my gatement,haba insult of highest order.

i think if you were in the same position as her you would have done just that, calling her husband solves no problem, cox she does object to the man's travel but all falls on deaf ears, the husband should have known better that she is a married woman not a hanging picture on the wall.

you know like how this so called business men travel all the time staying away from home for all most a month to 2 months all in the name of doing business,
this married woman had her husband doing the same thing, traveling and staying up to 3 months away from  their mansion home doing business and leaving only his wife at home alone, they have no kids and whenever the man comes home,  he only stays for like 1 week or so and he travels.

the wife being a woman and not a piece of furniture in the house became very lonely, she cooks, eats and sleep in this huge bed alone. her friends advised to find a man to keep her campanion, that she needs intimacy and love, but she refused, claiming her love for her husband and trust. things came crashing down oneday when she was so lonely and just needed the touch of a man, she ccouldn'tresist it has been like a month or more since she has been intimate with her husband, on that day the feelings overwhelmed her that when their gateman came to drop the car keys after going on errand, the woman told him to go and drop the keys on her bedroom, instead of the pparlor

the gateman being surprised couldn't disobey his madam, the woman immediately followed him and drag him to her bed and begged him to touch her, citing her loneliness, the gateman refused but the woman begged on and they eventually had sex, and that was the only time it happened. when she came back to her senses guilty followed but her friends cheered her on.

weeks later she was pregnant, surprised and confused he told her husband he couldn't believe it, he calculated the date and claimed he wasn't the father, it was then that woman confessed about her night with the gateman. the husband was furious, and now wants her packing, the gateman was sacked. the gateman is a relation of the man.

disregarding the part of the pregancy, my questions is,  is it really this woman's fault? i mean she is a woman and she needs care and love, i really think it is the man's fault.  only the lawd knows what he does there when he travels.  while i don't support cheating, i really think in this case that her cheating is justified.

yes, i believe honesty is and will always be the best policy

kufreabasi:
Is this true?
Love is only a chapter in a guy's life,
but to a girl, it's the whole book.

and thats how love should be. u love with your whole life not with your half life

it is either u smoke the egbo with her or u get her some help or leave her alone

i'm really confused by the topic, @ poster are you pure gay? biconfused? or something else?

in your dreams you had sex with a girl you wished you just met in the bus.

sorri u cant do anything about it cox it is a just a dream not a reality so wake fellow

why are men intimidated by successful women? shouldnt they be proud that at least they have someone that have their back?

honestly if a guy introduces me to their parents, i happen to know that they don't approve of me and there is nothing that will change their minds

about me, i will kindly end the relationship though i may really  love the guy.  cause eventually if the guy disobeys his parents and we get married,

it is really going to be hard for me to get along with them and you know nigeria marriages are, when u marry a person u are not only marrying that person

but also his/her whole family so it will definitely make me look like an outcast which will be very awkward to deal with.

however if i introduce a guy that i really love and my parents objects, it is going to be very hard to deal it, though they might know more about

marriages/ life and relationships, i must also put my won choices on the table, cox evetually i'm the one who is going to live with that person,

not them but it is going to be very hard

~Sauron~:
Whatever happened to ELOPING!!!
Solomon Island----here i come.

oh mine

MrCrackles:
No one can tell me that

It is about a woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

If anyone is not happy, say gobe!!!

Wedding will go ahead, anyone wey no wan come go watch video later!!

lol

MrCrackles:
U sure say ur liver no go fail u?!

omg u r so fuuny

MrCrackles:
I would defo go with my heart!!

what if they insist you end it or you will be disowned or they will not come to your wedding or have anything to do with you ko?

you know like how parents always claim they know what is best for their children even when it comes to mate selection in marriage/ relationship,

if you find someone you really love so much with all your heart, and you introduce him/her to your parents and they object, and advises you to end the

relationship because they have the eyes of the wise one and see something very Peculiar about the person which you havent noticed or doesnt think is

true would you listen to them and end the relationship or would you go with your heart and contiune loving?

~Sauron~:
Keep ya head up, Tope. . . . .

Trust me, every great man has a woman in the background supporting him.
It's good to be independent but a woman's independence should also help her partner feel more like a man, not less than one!!!
Unfortunately, today's women don't even know what independent woman entails. . . . . . .

i guess thats becos today's men dnt know to treat a woman

~Sauron~:
Not solid enough. . . . . .
Do men get pregnant because the year starts with a 2 instead of a 1?

men are getting pregant nowdayz oh havent u heard that man that had a baby? it is already happening. google it

Okija_juju:
O my bad.

So the 21st century one is the Independent woman thing right?? I thought that was supposed to be from the Destinies child album??

You women had better come to terms with reality, we are the boss, and their aint shit you can do about it. God through the biblesaid it and Science concurs.

i was and will contiune to be an idependent woman whether it is from destiny child album or from undestiny child album

we women have already come to terms with reality, that you and your fellow so called men are no longer the boss of anyone, and we are already doing some

about it by empowering more women to stand up and be counted. too little too late for you men

~Sauron~:
A woman should be there for her man at all times, and sacrifice her career if she has to.
It's what the majority of men want, but are too afraid to say out loud anymore.
Screw what the feminists are saying, a wife that knows her domestic role will always get a man.

Women have been supporting men, cooking for men, and raising men's children for thousands of years.
Why should things be any different now because the year starts with a 2 instead of a 1?

question answered, it is becos the year starts with a 2 instead of a 1 and that makes a whole world of different

Okija_juju:
I am also loving it bro. Its not easy to be us jare.

All these women can do is whine and attend Geneva Conventions.  

thank Goddness u said Geneva Conventions, and from what i understand that was in the 20th century! and we are now in the 21st century going into 22nd century. so my dear the old days are now behind us, i am a proud independent woman who no man born of a woman can rule or control