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Politics / Re: Okrika LGA Solidarity Walk For Wike In Pictures by Agbadorian: 2:54pm On Apr 26
KGBKremlin:


They are not tribal Bleep liké Igbo

Nairaland is for childish like you , I dare you come to Twitter or Facebook and talk that thing again
Religion / Re: Call It What It Is, Jehovah's Witness Is A Weird Fucking Cult by ThothHermes: 2:51pm On Apr 26
MaxInDHouse:


Of all the religions ever mentioned today which is most talked about on this forum?

Well i will help you it's JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES and that's the only organization practicing what Jesus taught exactly as he laid it down! Matthew 5:14-16
You self talk true. Who is seeing your "good works" and glorifying your father in heaven. The only thing you're doing is getting doors slammed shut in your face.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Champions Of Europe 2021 by Jodera: 2:47pm On Apr 26
iamoyindamola:

Go and research on the biggest bottling job in EPL
No team led the table for so long to bottle it
Did we finish a match day with 8 points or not
Let me explain the match day for you, all matches complete (Friday- Monday)
All the talk about playing 1 match ahead is story for far they didn't play in the matchday we led by 8 points and still bottled it
It's a fvcking disgrace

He bottled top4
He bottled the league
Anything he bottle won't suprise me again
@bolded
No wonder you said ystdy that the league is in our hands presently and that whether Man city drop point or not against Brighton, it has no effect as long as we win all our matches

Lmaooo.... A football fan saying this.?

Shebi, we dey first. Make we and Man City win all our matches this season, na we go carry league you hear? cheesy

I clap for you!!

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Family / Re: How Can I Survive My Parents Burdens As A 19 Year Old? (HELP) by Onyedikachi231: 2:41pm On Apr 26
HelpfulBro:
Hey guys, it's been a while if you knew my past posts you know I come on here to let out steam sometimes when it gets tuff with my family.

My parents are still people I continue to be very amazed at sometimes, not in a bad way but in a very concerned way. What brought this topic to my head is that fact that my parents have been on my neck lately because I've been skipping family prayers most evenings.... The thing is I purposely do it because I'm very tired of seeing everybody, not really that I don't love them but it's that I'm just not in the mental state to engage in family for now.

I already made it clear to them that I always pray morning and evening, I have proper fellowship with God and in everything I do because I basically have an oath with God (that's personal) the thing is they still keep disturbing me and telling me things like "don't feel too big for God", "don't leave God presence", "it's God that is helping you make this money, don't forget what God told you that if you leave him..." and things that make me feel like I'm a sinner and I'm being prideful


When knowing very well that I great everyone and my sister's in the morning, I pay respects to everybody in the house even do I pay for most things and I still have a good relationship with God.

Now the thing is this... I've been very stressed lately because my family has taken 70% of my earnings from December till date so far and in my calculations I've spent 1M+ in just 6months plus by paying the rent this year and the three times I've bought food stuffs in the house and other mini bills so right now I don't even have money anymore, I'm tired because the family is draining me

I don't have support from anybody and we are 5 living (me, my mom, my dad and my two senior sisters) , I worry more than my age and I have developed anxiety because of this reason (I'm working on it), I've been taking care of these bills and things since I was 15/16 years and im 19 years now but I've not made any reasonable thing for myself at all, money i suppose to save I use for family because if I don't we won't eat or survive.

My mom sells plantain and my dad does welding (pipeline and others) but he doesn't have a job for 8 years now so he does agent work to support himself for now and I'm really not angry with him at all because I understand but I atleast want to be left alone to my peace at the very least even if thats all because I'm trying, I'm trying really hard to sustain everybody

My parents did same to my sisters when they were my age by limiting them, controlling them and stopping them from socializing or going to public university then and now they're above 25 (not graduates, at home all day, no job) and I'm left to carter for everybody.

We don't have any good source of daily income and I don't even think they realize that at all, I know prayer is good but goddammit we need to do more because our lives are wasting but nobody can see it but me, they keep talking to me but all i just think is 'none of us are even supposed to be home at thus point of our lives'

With my little successes I'm never supposed to be broke but I always find myself so before now because I limit myself for my family, I don't even spend on myself that much but huge money goes into family and mostly food for everybody, it's a huge burden but I never speak about it to anyone in the family for respect of my father and mother because I know if they had good job I wouldn't be doing so

My sister's on the other hand I partly don't blame them because it's this controlling attitude that made them like that and I don't even know if they realize it because I really expect them to go find jobs even if it's 20k a month to ease my stress, I just paid jamb registration for them recently even though I couldn't do for myself, my parents restricted them from working and finding out life for themselves years ago that they nlw solely depend on my parents to do everything for them even sort out their jamb resources (im disappointed)


I can't tell them about my concerns because they tend to shut me up if I do talk about them getting jobs sometime ago so I just gave up and promised myself to only provide but sort out my own life


I'm trying to gather money soon to park out and only send money monthly for them but I keep wondering if they have nothing doing now then what if when they're in school? It's not like I can't continue giving them money but it's that fact that I'm worried of what if they don't really find their foot in life because as at now they aren't making efforts at all


That's why I said the way my parents are is so loving to the point they shielded us from the reality of life, if not for God helping me I don't how we would be surviving if I act like my sisters because......


I have had to break free from the cave we were in to experience life myself, I have had to put up with fights my sisters couldn't with my dad to break free from something's, honestly I need y'all advice: as breadwinners from not so rich homes how did you survive taking on so much responsibility and if possible I need help to be able to make more money because as at now I'm serious looking for money as I don't have an online job anymore


I'm speaking up now, if others are shy I am not: HELP 🤲🏽 ADVICE AND TIPS WILL BE APPRECIATED

Young man, you are doing drugs, this is the first stage to a very ugly end.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Champions Of Europe 2021 by iamoyindamola(m): 2:40pm On Apr 26
Jodera:

Show me table where it's 8points and we played same number of matches?

As for the bolded, my point is that using 83% of the season to top league with just 5points averagely is nothing. Just a lose and draw and everything will come crashing especially when it's middle of season.

Go and do research, any team that topped from November to April(which is the 83%) have at least 15 points they use to top 2nd. Nobody lasts that long with a little as five points to second except us.
Go and research on the biggest bottling job in EPL
No team led the table for so long to bottle it
Did we finish a match day with 8 points or not
Let me explain the match day for you, all matches complete (Friday- Monday)
All the talk about playing 1 match ahead is story for far they didn't play in the matchday we led by 8 points and still bottled it
It's a fvcking disgrace

He bottled top4
He bottled the league
Anything he bottle won't suprise me again
Crime / Re: All My Money Just Got WIPED OFF!!! by descartes400: 2:38pm On Apr 26
sheanzy:
dey play,

You don't know they are website that all they need is your card number, issue date and 3 digits at the back of your card for you to order from they website. Make I no talk too much before I go cast format. I'm not into fraud before person go talk another thing, just basic knowledge..
Just be careful wetin u no know pass u ooo

Even at that, an OTP will still have to be sent to your registered phone number to validate that specific transaction.
Politics / Re: Statisense: Top 10 Most Watched Movies By Nigerians On Netflix Q1 2024 by LegendHero(m): 2:37pm On Apr 26
DMerciful:
Always competing with Igbos.

In the film industry, Igbos wanna make money so they make LOTS of small movies. Its all about quantity by small time producers to make money

You mean Ibos are competing with Ibibio people on the list?

How can you compete with Yoruba when the only Ibo movie that made the top 10 was directed by a Yoruba man?

First try to outcompete the Ibibios on the list first, then we can talk.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by izzou(m): 2:34pm On Apr 26
iamoyindamola:

This your come back is epic oo🤣🤣🤣
Imagine AI snapping spectator head and mistake it for ball true true

Anyway welcome let's talk about what happened on Tuesday

Na Techbro from Apari's camp design that camera.

Tuesday is behind me. I no need stress from Dada-looking children
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 2:31pm On Apr 26
izzou:
.
This your come back is epic oo🤣🤣🤣
Imagine AI snapping spectator head and mistake it for ball true true

Anyway welcome let's talk about what happened on Tuesday
Foreign Affairs / Re: Can Great Britain Invade And Successfully Conquer Nigeria? by Reflect7: 2:22pm On Apr 26
Sladem05:


The problem with all this talk is that we are assuming that Nigerians have the same spirit as Afghans, Viets and whatnot. Nigeria is a make believe country. It’s not a real country. Who is going to die for Nigeria. If the country was invaded. Nigerians do not hold their green passports in pride. Most will just run away or even join the invading force. Soldiers in Nigeria don’t even have the spirit to fight the Bandits and terrorists of the country.

Oh please SHUT UP.

IPOB traitor/Emergency Nigerian.

Just because YOU feel that way about Nigeria doesn’t mean that members of the Nigerian armed forces will not fight to defend the nation if called upon.

The military has been fighting in defence of the country and losing men since before you were born, so SHUT UP.
Romance / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by Moshybear(f): 2:12pm On Apr 26
FRANCISTOWN:


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.

If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.
Very well noted. Thanks alot dear.
Politics / Re: Naira Falling- Obidients Nolonger Say CBN Is Defending Naira by PressMyButton: 2:11pm On Apr 26
Newstory1:
Na talk be this?
Na wa for Tinubu media people

Result is the only thing that silences insults.

If you ask me, Obidients are the ones pushing Tinubu to work because they know how to dig out facts.

Tinubu must realize that propaganda won't work again.
Tinubu floated the naira which has closed the gap between the official and parrallel rate, the gap has close from 300naira difference to less than 20naira now. But Obidients lacked understanding.
Romance / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by FRANCISTOWN: 2:08pm On Apr 26
Moshybear:
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.


If this story is true.

One thing people don't understand is that success is on people, and not on what they do.

Let's flip your lifestyle.
If your friend had been the decent one and you had been the immoral one. Your friend would still have been "successful" and you'd still be broke up till this day.

If you realized I put the word "successful" in quotes. It means, your friend may appear successful, but is she really successful? Do you know whether she has any sicknesses or diseases that she's battling?
But fines pictures at fine spots are your own criteria for a successful lifestyle.

It's too early to determine who is truly successful.
My people go talk say "Person wey never die never know the kind death wey go kill am".

The end justifies the means.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Can Great Britain Invade And Successfully Conquer Nigeria? by Sladem05: 2:06pm On Apr 26
Patented:

i totally agree, they are experts at guerrilla warfare, the eat and sleep to it. The use the terrain to their advantage, they know their land adn they are wiling to die

The problem with all this talk is that we are assuming that Nigerians have the same spirit as Afghans, Viets and whatnot. Nigeria is a make believe country. It’s not a real country. Who is going to die for Nigeria. If the country was invaded. Nigerians do not hold their green passports in pride. Most will just run away or even join the invading force. Soldiers in Nigeria don’t even have the spirit to fight the Bandits and terrorists of the country.
Politics / Re: Governor Sanwo-olu’s Daughter, Modupe Oreoluwa Weds Oladele Johnson (Photos) by richie240: 2:04pm On Apr 26
Education can never cure d average igboman's bigotry, no matter how educated.

Initually ur bretbren thot he was igbo and had created countless tgreads on twitter and nairaland gloating over how an igbo son helped a yoruba daughter out.

Now, its this rubbish u are spewing.
My ppl talk say ''na fish mouth be hin albatross''.
cool
franchasofficia:
This is why rich Yoruba men marry Igbo ladies, to give their children some facelift cry


Take a look at Tinubu's wife, cute woman, no wonder Tinubu abandoned his first Yoruba wife for Remi embarassed
And in ur narrow mind u failed to realize that itsekiri - where remi hails from - are yoruba cousins, okwea??
cool
Politics / Re: Naira Falling- Obidients Nolonger Say CBN Is Defending Naira by theredaddy: 1:58pm On Apr 26
Newstory1:
Na talk be this?
Na wa for Tinubu media people

Result is the only thing that silences insults.

If you ask me, Obidients are the ones pushing Tinubu to work because they know how to dig out facts.

Tinubu must realize that propaganda won't work again.



. You mean facts like the ones they present at the Tribunal ... lmao grin

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Politics / Re: Edo Residents Thank Tinubu, Akpakomiza Over Repairs On Benin-Auchi Road by misano(m): 1:54pm On Apr 26
garfield1:


He has initiated 3 bills,even oshiomhole that knows how to talk hasn't initiated any.
Atiku and obi while in private business attracted projects home.asue is a failure

What are the bills about 🙆🏾‍♂️ when did he initiate the bills? APC too lie. Share link to backup your claim.
Politics / Re: BREAKING: Military Commander Shot Dead In Katsina by TonyBby: 1:54pm On Apr 26
helinues:


Tell us whichever religion or faith you belief on that teaches you to be hating on the progress of your country or be happy about the sad news.

No religion teaches that..

Some of you guys think NL na village that you just talk recklessly.

There is freedom of speech, but after the speech, the freedom might not be guaranteed most especially if the speech was threatening speech
don't preach to people whose ancestors started first millitary coup in Nigeria. Evil and entitled minds. You quote me, I'll wash you, and look at you like a wasted soul.
Politics / Re: Edo Residents Thank Tinubu, Akpakomiza Over Repairs On Benin-Auchi Road by garfield1: 1:51pm On Apr 26
MichaelSokoto:

wat bill has he initiated since he rode on his dad's glory to victory?

Has he ever stood up one day to move any motion at all?

He has initiated 3 bills,even oshiomhole that knows how to talk hasn't initiated any.
Atiku and obi while in private business attracted projects home.asue is a failure
Politics / Re: Ogun PDP Chairman To Adebutu: You Caused Party’s Loss In 2023 Election by MemphitzDgreat1(m): 1:44pm On Apr 26
helinues:


How can he be senator for a decade in Lagos state without even making any tangible impacts in ordinary Yewa that he his from not to talk of Ogun state.

Now that he realized his ambition for Lagos is not possible, he suddenly remember the existence of Ogun state bah.

He can continue representing Yewa as senators but that ambition of Ogun governor, he should just forget about it .

Cc recenthistory
So you get sense like this?
Health / Re: What Kind Of Brutal STD/STI Can Cause This, (graphic Picture) by tochez24(m): 1:39pm On Apr 26
AlbertoIancu:


Avoid your wife completely, Oga. So you have been knacking an Ashawo raw and transferring everything to your wife. Do you have a conscience at all?

Even single men like us are scared to knack Ashawo even with condom, talk more of without.

You say she did STD test one year ago. Can you even listen to yourself? Even one day is enough for her to contract the worst of STDs, especially since she is an Ashawo.

And you had the mind to go raw with her.

I really don't have any sympathy for you. Na your innocent wife I dey pity.


A grown ass man just dey play with his wife's and unborn child's lives anyhow🥺

People dey for this life o
Politics / Re: Naira Falling- Obidients Nolonger Say CBN Is Defending Naira by Newstory1: 1:36pm On Apr 26
Na talk be this?
Na wa for Tinubu media people

Result is the only thing that silences insults.

If you ask me, Obidients are the ones pushing Tinubu to work because they know how to dig out facts.

Tinubu must realize that propaganda won't work again.

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Politics / Re: Ogun PDP Chairman To Adebutu: You Caused Party’s Loss In 2023 Election by helinues: 1:31pm On Apr 26
RecentHistory:


Exactly.

So, he wants to be like Fayemi and Aregbe who were in Lagos and went to contest in other states.

His own is worst. He didn't even look back. He might have good records in where he represented in Lagos state but nothing to show in ordinary Yewa now to talk of Ogun state .

How far is Lagos to Ogun state that he wasn't even part of the local politics self..

What an insult on the people of the state

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Politics / Re: Ogun PDP Chairman To Adebutu: You Caused Party’s Loss In 2023 Election by RecentHistory: 1:28pm On Apr 26
helinues:


That was a sarcasm. He never did anything for the Yewa people, not to talk of Ogun in general.

He didn't have any intention of governing Ogun state if not he would have been doing some projects background, he was eyeing Lagos state seats but he later realized the ambition in Lagos is not possible.

Exactly.

So, he wants to be like Fayemi and Aregbe who were in Lagos and went to contest in other states.
Romance / "18-23 years,Never Been To Libya” – Speed Darlington Launches Search For A Wife by DyshApp: 1:27pm On Apr 26
Nigerian rapper Speed Darlington has taken to social media to launch a search for a wife as he shares the physical and behavioral qualities he desires in a woman.

In a post shared online, the singer specified that he wants a dark-skinned woman between the ages of 18 to 23, weighing less than 150 pounds, with a voluptuous backside.

He also mentioned that he wants a virgin but he wouldn’t mind a non-virgin. He emphasized that she should have never been to Libya, be physically clean and be a secondary school graduate, at least.

Speed Darlington, who is known for his funny rants online, also listed his own qualities and assets, including six plots of land, an eleven-room mansion, a house in Lagos State, and access to the United States whenever he wants.

He concluded by encouraging interested women who meet the criteria to send three colored photos of themselves to a provided phone number.

👉Follow up with Relationship Gist on Relationship talk Lounge🗣️👂

Health / Re: What Kind Of Brutal STD/STI Can Cause This, (graphic Picture) by pandax: 1:27pm On Apr 26
Kyng1:


I already got more drugs today, and I'm hoping it will work. I'm only scared for my wife not to contract it because she's pregnant. If it's really chicken pox, I heard it's extremely transferable.

I HATE you with every vein in my body because of your selfishness and carelessness. You disgust me, how can you have a wife at home and you are sleeping with a prostitute without protection?. How can you trust a girl you did RVS on last year and you were not residing in the same house with her, not to talk off a prostitute?

I am 90% sure that aside from the possible chicken pox as diagnosed by the doctors you consulted, you have contracted HIV
Politics / Re: Ogun PDP Chairman To Adebutu: You Caused Party’s Loss In 2023 Election by helinues: 1:26pm On Apr 26
RecentHistory:


Yayi cares for which state?

Well, I don't know about what he has done. Maybe those people pushing his candidacy can tell us.

That was a sarcasm. He never did anything for the Yewa people, not to talk of Ogun in general.

He didn't have any intention of governing Ogun state if not he would have been doing some projects background, he was eyeing Lagos state seats but he later realized the ambition in Lagos is not possible.

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Celebrities / Re: VIDEO: Odumeje Is A Real Pastor, Not Fake - Nkechi Blessing Defends Odumeje by Naira20: 1:24pm On Apr 26
If Nkechi Blessing recommend wife for your brother you go take her serious?
talk less of Pastor
Politics / Re: Edo Residents Thank Tinubu, Akpakomiza Over Repairs On Benin-Auchi Road by garfield1: 1:21pm On Apr 26
misano:


See mumu talk. 😂😂😂 So there's no Sterling Bank in Esan land abi?

There is none as of when he was there.he is a failure
Politics / Re: Edo Residents Thank Tinubu, Akpakomiza Over Repairs On Benin-Auchi Road by misano(m): 1:20pm On Apr 26
garfield1:


He was chairman of sterling bank.why did he not bring a branch of sterling to ESAN

See mumu talk. 😂😂😂 So there's no Sterling Bank in Esan land abi?
Education / Re: Schools Peter Obi Built & Over 100 Schools He Renovated & Upgraded As Governor by benjsniper33: 1:18pm On Apr 26
Adaisback:
Even if i break your coconut head and place the evidence in there, You will still ask me for evidence. If your ears are blocked , can't you use your eyes?

Come break my "coconut head"

Obi himself has confirmed he built no schools from scratch to finish ..so why you still yapping?

Well I'm not fazed , cos, as usual, it's the big talk ...no evidence 🤷🏽‍♂️🥴.

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Family / Re: Should I Be Regretting This? by Hathor5(f): 1:15pm On Apr 26
Moshybear:
Good day nairalanders. So this is a true story of my life and i am currently having mixed feelings maybe your comments will make me have a peace of mind (Hopefully)

Back then in school (IMSU) I had this roommate called Juliet ( not real name). For those who attended IMSU you will know that Hookup was full blown even before other Universities got acquainted with it. I look at Young girls doing it now and i just smile.

Anyways back to the story, this roommate of mine never lacked anything. Was it groceries, expensive hair, Phones, laptops etc , you name it. And this girl was from a poor background. I know her parents.

Rich Guys have rented very expensive apartments for her more than three times but she still chose to be roommates with me so as to chop their money and have savings.

I know you guys will be expecting a sad ending for her but this is not Nollywood. Presently she visits countries around the world like Dubai, Paris, London, LA , New York, Greece etc like breeze. I saw this girls posts and story on Instagram and couldn't believe my eyes.

However me back then was hoping on love and was dating a broke guy back then who later got me pregnant and i was refusing advances from very rich older men as an understanding girlfriend and wife to be ( foolish me) . Doing all the chores for this boy who later dumped me and the child as soon as he graduated and moved overseas. Since we graduated, this guy has never asked of my welfare nor sent a kobo to me for the upkeep of our "daughter".

Right now even to feed is a difficulty not to talk of accomodations.

So Nairaland people was i foolish to believe in Love at the expenses of a good life?

Thanks for reading this far.

I will really appreciate your responses. God bless

I still have a lot of info but let me stop here for now.

You were not foolish, you still are for asking very stewpid questions. Who asked you to get pregnant out of wedlock and without resources to care for a child? It`s only a rich husband that can give you a comfortable life? You can`t do it for yourself? Maybe if you had been reading your books instead of following boyfriends, we would read something sensible today.

I don`t particulary enjoy being hard on people but I don`t believe you are who you say you are. I think you want a thread that creates some heat. You`re welcome. smiley

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