₦airaland Forum

Realists:
Christianity and hypocrisy, the school name should be changed from Christland to Krestland, if you know you know.

Sammy07:
RIP to your 25k bros.

You don't pay to get empowerment.
If nah Job he wan help you get, I for say,you can try him.

Buh empowerment
Don't pay shi shi to him.


Check the categories of registration, did you see any amount more than 500k there?
NO.

There is no FG empowerment that will give you 25million (when you no be contractor)

Sammy07:
Bros, kindly run away, else your 400k will be gone

Oluchia:
Jeez! This story day pain me. What kind of parents are this?? I cannot ask you to forgive them o because I'm not sure I will be able to do same if I were in your shoes. Please just follow your heart and do what will give you peace of mind. That's all I can say.

Enskynelson:
I saw this somewhere but not from an official source. It could serve as a guide

2020_2 academic calendar

September
Registration

October
Tma1-3

November
Pop exam

December
E exam

BluntNigerian:
This one would be difficult ooo..
You don't marry alone naa..
You must go with “family”.
So, prepare your mind now, and sort out which and which people you would use as your “Family”.

Sunnimuslim:
This is almost related to what Eminem went through. He also neglected his mum when he became successful but he still help out his step siblings from their abusive mother.

Olatoman:
I read a bit of replies to this, and what I think I should point out briefly is this, they are not your Parents. Parents are essentially caregivers of their offsprings. This are simply your biological father, and mother. You were treated like the bad product of a bad union, with no one wanting a reminder of that union, and in their hindsight, failed to account for the future.

I think you should offer forgiveness, if you want to, as theirs healing from that, but offer naught companionship to them, aye?

They also have offsprings from their respective unions, so why must they single-handed focus on you, wanting you to provide for them, not caring how you fairing and eve knowing the means to do so?

You can at your discretion, send whatever you want to them once in a while, but I do not think it will be healthy for you (mentally and all), to succumb to their pressure, as that pressure will not just be upon you, but on the family you are likely to raise later in the future.

For your step siblings, I think you need to make them acknowledge who you are first of all, and maybe understand the gravity of what your parents did, but also, might be necessary to have a form of relationship with them, cordial enough to start with.

This is not a period of demands upon you, but a period of sobriety and acknowledgment of wrong doing to you.

Lordkratus:
I hope you read my comment, bro cut them off and cut off people that might even want to link you to them , trust me you will not regret it. The only regret you will get is connecting with both of them. It will be a sad tale

luminouz:
Somebody else apart from me is using his brains. Other commenters are just bulldozing away with their emotions,scattering everywhere.


I had friends who did PT. They never went for service. Dude finished service and even did Msc so lemme assume he finished around 2017?

Akamariner:
People like that don't deserve any form of grace, be thankful that you don't grow with them, or else you also would have been corrupted with their mentality.

But you can still help them, albeit like you're helping strangers, atleast if a stranger come looking for help you surely will help according to your capacity, so do likewise and live your life like you're an orphan, cause in a truth you don't have no parent

Modified.
If you can't do the last advice without being emotionally stricken, it's best to ignore completely.

Mstick:
I know all this sentimental and religious nutjobs will try to emotionally manipulate you, but your parents deserve to be left where they were when you needed them.

I can't imagine not running to my child when they need my support. So you obviously know they're not coming to you because they love you but because they want to use you.

Akamariner:
Never associate with people that are not willing to add any form of benefit to your existence, this life is a solo race, regardless of who is who.

Fear not, who no Kno you before, should not know you now, it's your life and only your life, the only people that matters are those that genuinely add any form of benefit to your life.

That's what I shall do, if I'm to be in your shoe