₦airaland Forum

I have read comments of men heavily criticizing the young ladies and even women for having big tommy due to lack of exercise, laziness, eating habits, childbirth etc.
I believe not all men have the right to say piiiimmmmp on this matter, considering how their mother's tommy is.
Whether it turns you on or off, not every ladies stature will suit your insatiable Hot conditions.
And other thing is that, just because some men say they don't like it, some yeye ones will join team ##follow follow##
Look at that lady's mother and other female family members before you conclude she is team natural flat tommy. All these activeness, super duper sex, aggressive exercising will wane off at some point after marriage.
Each lady will do what she can and will go an extra mile for her health but don't expect it to be for you.

God please show me what to do with my life. Most of this legends started from somewhere. Where do I start from?

I have found very interesting comments on this topic. Mine is that, I can be playing this minute and people will think the play is too much. And then the next second,I will be bitterly sad for no obvious reason or be angry. The sadness will just engulf me I will start remembering things that happened about 10years ago that might not be even related to what's happening presently. Somehow , when I am neither sad or happy, I am sleeping. because it's like traveling to another world for me where I am free and nobody thinks I am mad.

here is mine

You can't plan life.

Thank God for you. Not only because of this trend but because of many other reasons. I just hope those are in the military make it to the end alive.

I think its as a result of leaving a STD untreated. or the lady needs to step up are hygiene.

congrats. live life and grow old together. Happy married life.

I don't know how to express my sincere sympathy. please take mummy to a teaching hospital or general hospital before things get out of hand. there are specialists with experience there and the drugs are cheaper than private hospitals. God will not leave mummy as she will live to testify.

maybe you shouldn't continue with the traditional as you both are already legally married.she needs rest and peace for now especially as she is pregnant. I think you need patience okay. Pregnancy isn't easy and makes women rude,naughty or develop other weird behaviors. Be patient. with your finances now, I will advice you not to spend money on some things for now (either traditional marriage ceremony or divorce) just be patient and save up money for your lovely baby that's on the way.

Chai!!!! Federal Government?so with all the issues on human trafficking, security lapses, bad roads and bridges causing untimely deaths everyday,high cost of food ,vat/tax/and all the bills,FSARS extra judicial killings, poor and expensive medical facilities,etc .na sanitary pad them fit help us with..una no go believe sai I feel like crying.
Except this program will involve topics like hygiene education, cancer orientation, sex education and how to defend sexual harassment, it doesn't make sense to me .

hmm. Between 2016 - 2019 he studied law. I studied a 4 years course in Nigeria between 2011 - 2017.Enough strikes plus a year spill over. It's like obudo oyinbo is not part of this world sef.

hmm. what about us that don't want to get married nko?

Well, I don't like this article. how will Jesus be God's incarnate?(or what are you trying to preach?) I am a Christian.

Coffeempire:
There is a difference, hons is written on a certificate of a graduate that never carried a course during d study while hons is removed if the person had a carryover course while in skul

not in Nigeria

In the real Nigeria education system not paper policy. Private schools are seen as the best, you can accuse the school for not promoting your child and take your child elsewhere, if your child is not in school at 3 years old, you really don't care about that child future because of the age attachments in most jobs, even higher institutions can decide to shut down...etc.....

Well my own no sweet o. I met him for the first time when I don already get breast. He was fighting and they were threatening each other with acid, na there I know say problem dey. met him a total of about 6 times and there was always problem. Thank God I chose the right genes I for be gangster.

obowunmi:
If you are a woman sha, the biological clock is ticking.

Is life about children only? what happened to devoting my time to myself? should she now go down with a man for the sole purpose of child birthing? not everyone can make the sacrifices of motherhood therefore, it isn't for everyone.

Well, to start with, I believe every woman must discover herself and know her purpose of living before even conceiving the idea of marriage. Once you know what keeps you moving (it is not your lover o) other values, rules, and ambition will fall in place..... I see couples around and believe in most cases that the woman is just foolish. How will a man wake up and ask me to stop working? (will he do same if I ask him to stop?, will he even suggest it if my brothers and father are army generals or terrorist?), some will even hide behind the idea of care giving to their children for the woman to stop work. (mummy's in the house don't attempt it). What ever decision a woman makes in a marriage please never let go of your passion and source of income. These things make your heart beat not that low self esteemed man. .................stupid oppressor. I will like men like this man to give birth to six beautiful girls. Have the money to give them the best and then when they get married, their husbands will ask them not to practice their career and give it all up. I wish to know what is reaction will be then.

Ask her don't just assume. She might have faked it. but since the clitoris is not the only thing that makes a woman enjoy sexual intercourse, she might as well have enjoyed it. (her state of mind, labia, vaginal walls, nipples,etc).........................did you say digging? she be soil?

This is interesting. I didn't even bother to verify because it is new, interesting and makes sense to me.

castro316:
see this nitwit. Are you suggesting he should talk to her in a tete a tete discussion?What if the baby died In the process? kidnapped? You better change your monika because you are not portraying that name well

Why are you now referring to me as a nitwit? what if the woman also died in the process? this isn't about the woman it is about the 'PARENT' that is, the man and the woman. I am yet to read any scroll that dictates the baby must always be with the mother.... what's your problem with I been selfwife?

chai. but two wrongs won't make anything right.

Even God knows something is wrong with you. With the rampant suicide cases around, you think your title is cool right?

see his face like orangutan. you beheaded a human like you because she didn't want to marry you. your case shouldn't stay long. you already know your sentence............ some practices should be abolished by now.

Marry now or marry later. Marriage isn't for everyone.

blackslayer:
Talking about it does help....and you are correct, that picture can never be erased from your memory!!!
You will still remember it like day and night, almost as if it happened yesterday. I was molested by a female house maid when i was 5/6 years old.

so sorry. sometimes, parents think the child is still too young to be protected from perverts. may God heal you. It's really annoying. I don't think you should tell them.

femi4:
So sorry about what you went through.

Thank you. protect little ones around you.