₦airaland Forum

Amanda4life:
Where was your mum at that time? I guess she wasn't around.

If you are a female and you are upto 10years without being raped should thank the parents and God

she was never home. always wakawaka. not available. no adult. just us. give us our 'eating money' every week that's whenever she remembers. the rest, you are on your own.
Rape is real. Protect your children irrespective of gender.

ehmmy11:
this is the saddest thing I heard this week... Had to check ur previous posts.. And damn it my heart goes out to you

Thank you. You don't have to be sad. Just take care of children around you. make or female, they need protection.

newmanadrian:
I had an exam in school, but I didn't prepare at all for it, I had faith that something would drop from heaven inside the hall but the only thing that droped was tears from my eyes because I didn't lift my pen. Then I realized that faith without work is dead. That's how I failed in flying colours.

chai chai chai. sorry ooh. at least you now take responsibility.... There was this course in school. registered it a week the exam. never went to the class and I needed at least a credit.a night to the paper, I carried the new book, my sweater, lamp and started reading. at a point, I started crying because the book was difficult.... I went to sit for the exam at 7am. A guy was asked to sit beside me. and that was it. I passed with a 'B'......I frowned at the beginning but I smiled at the end. Thanks for reading.

taiwolomo1:
I think is because the girls attain puberty @ that age range...and they tend to get curious and go closer to any available man around making them vulnerable to those pathetic perverts to take advantage of them!!!

we moved to a new area. I was just eleven years and five months old. no friend and a house with 'what is my own' neighbors .he barged in and even came along with a penknife(mentioned is 1st name that I should ask around killing is nothing to him) . did it, forbade me from mentioning it. came again another day and forced me to take about 11 drugs that last night. don't know him ,his state or anything. bleeding started was in the hospital for long. Case never reported, never got justice, I got blamed for developing breast fast and attracting a man. three years later was still suffering from the effect of that scene. Thank God I overcame............... I wasn't curious. I was just unfortunate. Can't be erased............ please protect your children with every thing.

God help you o.

chai!!!

okay. Thank you. Let couples go to family planning clinics and choose which is the best method for them. why withdraw at the peak? it's like not eating the meat on top of your rice.

Death, trauma, pain. Why?

I know this dr sleem, school finance isn't even easy. God why? I hope the parents can bear the loss.

tunize:
hmmm your words are deep though. are you female or male?

i am female.

good evening sir. if you eventually get to sell your organ, please sell it for what it is worth. what you will look back on 25 years from now and won't have the urge to drink sniper. and be ready to face the consequences in case of whenever you start saving problems /challenges with the other one........................... I wont tell you not to sacrifice your kidney(s)..next time you have issues, you can sell an eye, ear, testis, a leg or an arm since they are luxury organs. (they come in pairs)....

it depends on the school, the subject you are teaching and the environment.. what I know is that in the teaching profession, you have to be courteous, decent and neat about what you wear and how you groom. if you are in an environment or state or culture that sees beards as good for men, then it is okay but must be kept neat even at that. if you teach a subject such as Islamic studies or arts, then you shouldn't have an issue keeping your beard neat. but if you are In a place where students, fellow teachers and parents have a phobia or premeditated thoughts about people with beards, you may either have to shave or quit the work sir.

Unfortunate.....Very unfortunate..... The living know that they will die but the dead knows nothing. A painful way to go.

tunize:
i tink i do a little though. but judging wit the said topic, anyway forget it. but all these are weakness that can be corrected.

somethings can not be corrected anymore by a partner except the person affected decides to. lesson I learnt from my past relationship is that he is he and you are you. many things should be left alone as they are. and others should be done with limit even if you do get married.

tunize:
sorry i find ur last line confusing how do you mean pls?

what you consider is strength might actually be is weakness. For instance, you may think he won't be involved in fraud, womanizing, pornography, lying, pride and other vices you can think of only to find out he is involved in such things. Do you understand me a bit now?

it isn't a job interview.

perfumes and sunshades. sunshades makes me feel very uncomfortable as I have the feeling he is hiding is true personality. Adding perfume completes it. I don't like it. When I see someone someone putting on sunshades, it makes me scared maybe there is a scientific word for that.

Almaiga:
Cool. Unlike some glorified Universities that could not produce a common Councilor.

Is politics your only criteria? what about Arts, Language, Sciences, Education, Law, Chefs, Pilots and many other sides of life? Governors that can't even be vouched for. Are those one's good alumni?

I haven't been able to get the free tv decoder here in Oyo state. please can you be more specific about where it can be bought?

I saw Y Y Sani in Lagos too.

Eva101:
Pls my fellow nairalanders,,,dont let january pass me by..i though january comes with job opportunities..but am not seeing any..am a graduate of mass communication..i ve knowledge of ms word n excel..pls any job around ikeja and itz axis will be highly appreciated,,tankz

I sincerely pray you get a job that can pay your bills.

Now I confirm that something is associated with apc. when Fayemi was governor then, I can't count how many students were involved in accidents in front of EKSU. This is too much of coincidence. Thank God school is on strike now.God please console the family of the departed.

can you still manage iwo road?

let me park here and learn.

oya make I try aam

those three plans don't prove anything. Just work on yourself and be sufficient and just watch if he will marry. all these signs don't work for everyone.

I wish I read this post at jjs3 before choosing a career.

omhor:
Can you pls explain further?

I once gave love a trial. we trusted each other explicitly. I could breathe love. I was working(i made sure I never made the mistake of asking for anything) he was working. he was a single father and I accepted him and is baby (the baby already called me big Mummy). we had goals, dreams, to me, everything was damn set. we were planning to get married,we got the parents involved, excitement was everywhere.... Suddenly, I started seeing him with small small stuffs like nice clothes and perfumes that I knew he didn't buy(we buy on budget) I became inquisitive. I will never check my man's phone.... so I took him out that weekend as usual, made sure he drank double of what he is used too( though he can still talk sense) I started asking questions and he replied (he was now going out with a rich ex who was ready to give him this and that -all material things) I told him that with a steady growth, we will achieve all her promises.......... the next week, he told me not to come to his place again that he will look for another means for us to meet each other by now, I was in tears, I cried my eyes out, what will I tell everybody? for what reason? money? I forgot about my health, bp start to go up.headache.me that have hormonal issues before hmm my body was in a mess. I increased the number of Guinness I took per day, I ate uncontrollably. I couldn't figure out what I did wrong. I called and called. I cried and cried and yes I ate and ate. I landed in the hospital my blood pressure was high something I never experienced before.................... to cut the long story short, I tooky life my the horn..... I had no savings again all spent at the hospital, I took a loan, and got a room apartment, I changed my church, and changed those contacts (our mutual fake friends) he is now with the woman and I am now with my peace of mind......... ........I Am happy to inform you that as of yesterday, he is looking for a divorce lawyer because everything did not turn out as expected.HE THINKS HE CAN COME BACK AND I LAUGH IN MY LANGUAGE because my peace can not be compromised.

Nice post