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iamoyindamola:
I am surprised with the agreement
Many many turn down from both parties
Do me I do

Frequent turn downs and revenge refusal dey unhealthy and fit breed resentment.

In the rare instances it happens, something we inculcated is that the refuser must initiate within 48hrs to make up to the other.

rabazamba:
Even the ones wey never marry before dey drop takes

Your comment has me in stitches.

But you for use your @

GloriousGbola:
i am an employer

so everything you have said, some staff will say as well

oga says there is no money but he is driving to site while we are using public transport
oga says there is no money but he is living in duplex with 24 hour light


there are periods when you are juggling salary, money for project, operating costs and you have to make hard decisions on what will likely bring in money asap.


i have also seen all of this when companies are belt tightening because of liquidity and cash flow issue

it is what it is

Your analogy is ridiculous. You dey talk like say FG na one-man business or startup company.

As an employer, your staff chose to work with you. If your cash flow dry, worst case, company folds. Dem leave.

Government no get that excuse. Government no dey fold. Has the FG stopped generating IGR? Has FG stop collecting taxes? Has FG stop exporting crude and other commodities? Has FG stop borrowing from internal and external creditors?

As a father, should you be flexing & chopping life when your kids are hungry?

But government na the opposite. The top never tightens. Their juicy perks of office still flow continuously without abating. Na only their employees dey bears the brunt.

Salary, allowances and wage awards are not gifts. They are obligations. Already approved, budgeted for and owed in advance to employees for work they will do. Politics, projects and political spending should never be prioritized over welfare of employees, even in situations of tight cash flow.

And e no get how you wan take spin am. its inexcusable and disgraceful that FG has not completed the payment of the six months 35k wage award to employees since 2024.

It is simply wickedness and misplaced priorities from the FG.

GloriousGbola:
Now add Iran war that is close to doubling price of petrol which will impact on price of every damn thing

Our Akwa-Cross friend say no be Iran war cause the increase in fuel.

Me, I don gbakamu for that level. Nothing wey go fall down wey ground no go absorb.

GloriousGbola:
it sounds cruel but govt is broke and trying to prioritize spending and disbursement of cash comes down to who can put pressure on the finance oga to fund their own unit/dept

i have seen it happen in corporate when company has no cash and cfo is juggling who gets what. it now boils down to your tactical harassment and lobbying skills

his leaving is not going to change the situation.

FG is broke but but political appointees and elected officials with their humongous remuneration have never complained about delayed salaries.

FG is broke but every year dem dey buy new SUVs and increase the convoy fleet of political appointees.

FG is broke but politicians and political appointees increasingly go on foreign trips with estacode flowing steady.

FG is broke but urgent contracts get funded overnight without going through due process because it benefits the right person(s)

FG is broke but Baba has the longest presidential convoy and never reduce am. Baba never cut waste.

etc

You don turn FG spokesman. Well done sir

Ibime:
Au contraire, I work physically in different cities, sometimes sleeping away from home and Roby knacking rate as an unemployed man is my baseline minimum as a married man with kids where you have to be worrying whether children are asleep etc

Semid is a soft worker, not in Lagos, a lecturer who probably lives on campus and can probably stroll to his house in 15 mins. Probably home by 4 pm and is home all through the school holidays. Anything less than 5 knackings per week, I will be disappointed.

Lol. Your profiling of me is so off. You think say na UniPort, Unilag, UI, Ife level be my institution. Even those universities only accomodate a tiny percentage of their staff on Campus.

Make I give you some context. ⬇️

I live in the capital city of the state. The university is in a rural community about 50 - 60 mins drive away. I no dey stroll from my home to the office.

Over 97% of staff live in the capital city and commute to work from there because staff accomodation on campus is almost non-existent. The few units that were built some years ago were cornered by the big ogas which they sublet to others at exorbitant rates.

The university community is not quite as developed. The power situation is terrible in the community (but my uni get steady light cos of solar plant wey GEJ give us when hin establish am )

Even young bachelors that started off living in the community eventually move to the capital city especially after marriage and when their kids want to start school to have good options.

Soft life no dey lecturing like that. Even now, as my uni dey semester break, I get over 500 scripts to mark across three courses with deadline to deliver. I get project student's wey I dey supervise, and read & correct their thesis

As per family levels, its just me & madam with our three kids, no domestic help or relatives living with us. Make I even yarn you sef, na me do omugwo for my wife when she drop #2 and #3.

Also, I do a lot of chores to keep the home running. Na me dey do dishes, Na me dey do school runs mostly. Na me dey sweep and mop house. Na me dey bathe kids morning and night. Na me dey iron clothes. Na me dey assist kids with assignments etc

Bottom line, I put in a lot of work in my job, and in the home. Nothing like soft life for my side. I no dey hypersexual and knacking no dey rule my mind. There are weeks I go without it. Oya, be disappointed.

Ibime:
No be you talk say your bed still dey shake?

Twice a week is on the low side

In their case where they don't have kids to worry about, twice a week was pitiful. If no kids in the house, should be 5-7 times a week

Bed still dey shake but e no get frequency. Na as the spirit leads either of us.

But we get standing rule that you don't turn down the other when they're in the mood.

izzou:
Just saw a video of Ministry workers placing a casket, with Wale Edun's picture, and signing a condolence register, celebrating his sack

Na so him bad reach?

He's performed abysmally in terms of worker's welfare.

1. Wage award payment- Six months 35k wage award that FG agreed with organized labour to pay to cushion the effect of subsidy removal has dragged on for over two years, and has not been completed. I think one/two months is still outstanding. The times FG paid was due to threats of strike by unions.

2. Salary delays in MDAs - For us wey dey Federal Tertiary Educational Institutions, its even worse cos we don commot IPPIS. The earliest I have received my salary this year is 6th. Memos start flying around from the Bursary Units of Institutions, and the excuse is always "no cash backing from Accountant General Office" which is in the Ministry of Finance.

3. Promotion without cash backing - Person go get promotion to the next level but na only for paper. The salary adjustment will be delayed, and dem fit no pay the arrears sef.

4. Unpaid allowances boku across MDAs.

5. Non release/lean overhead releases - Many MDAs can't fund routine and basic office operations, especially in their state offices.

6. I hear say hin shine eye for hin ministry, and begin dey put eye for work attendance and staff attitude.

raumdeuter:
That is why I am asking why did the guy agree to go on the show to embarrass himself. He did more damage to his reputation with that podcast

Na why I ask in a previous post if HonestBunch dey financially incentivize guests to come their podcasts.

E get some things wey people suppose keep off social media and others wey dem suppose take to their graves.

Roby Ekpo no need the social media circus. E for just move on quietly with hin life.

In your early marriage days una fit dey do all days. 7 days a week
but when you are in your 40s, and busy, both healthy couples, weekend between Friday night and Sunday night maybe twice. Midweek maybe twice.

There is no formula to it, some times you do 5 times a week, some times na once depending on physical and mental situation, Being slim and fit helps

I be tiger for bed, I be tiger for bed.

Na when you jam nymphomaniac, you go understand the meaning of the Yoruba phrase "olomi lo ma re".

2wice a week of quality sex is enough i.m.o for a busy couple. But apparently, hin no dey last. Cos Babes normally offer aphrodisiacs to their guys when they peak too soon.

Roby Ekpo: Baba, in a week, I fit knack like twice I dey alright.

Comments section of HonestBunch TT⬇️

Twice a week is not fair bro, you no try

Twice a week in public is actually twice a month in private.

Twice a week is actually poor.

my husband is 45 im 27 na evryday night and morning if he is home during the weekend 3 or 4 times which one is twice a week

At least 6times a week

Twice a week!!! Not twice daily

She really went through a lot I swear

Twice a week omo I go leave o

She really went through a lot I swear

Me: Isn't twice a week enough in marriage? How much is enough knacking in marriage?

iamoyindamola:
You guys should work on these guys, i am tired of playing vigilante

Your friend has deactivated.

raumdeuter:
This format na for wife. [b]The format for girlfriend wey you dey pay different na

Imagine say na one Genz Undergraduate baddie wey do bakkasi like Mercedes Benz S class wey you don decide to teach lesson wey she no go forget.

How you go take run am, Na why Coco Samba, Oga Abeg, Atotte, Alomo dey be [/b]that

Egbon I no know.

Make Afrodoc and KingTom wey get expertise in mentoring answer that one.

iamoyindamola:
You guys should work on these guys, i am tired of playing vigilante

Treated in Sports section.

DissTroy:
No. But even with my old, now-dormant account in 2015, I use to go on about sexual libido. I'll debate how it is possible. Some people thought I was chest-beating.
https://www.nairaland.com/search?q=Thesonofmark+libido&search=Search

I was even called a liar:
https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashawo-beer-parlor/667#77001373 . I laughed it off considering I was living the experience.

Even back then I use to state a female being able to match up to (or willing to learn to work on matching) my libido was one of the requisites to commit else I won't commit to a lifetime of sexual insatiation.

I got lucky and ended up doing life with one who goes stroke for quiff with me as long as I want so I guess dreams come true.

Tuale Boss. I salute you. 🏆

Me, once the first round land well, na automatic logout. System shut down. No backup power.

I no dey do endurance test like say na Olympic Games for bedroom.

My own style dey simple:
🔸Enter pitch
🔸Deliver quality play.
🔸Score goal and shake net.
🔸Na odabo till the next match day.

I no wan hear say person collapse because I wan prove point.

Na consistency be the koko, and na repeat customer we dey build, no be one-night Guinness World Record.

Evidence of potency full ground sha. If you know, you know 😄

Theflint1:
So you wan block moderator ?

He dun know 😁

DissTroy:
Both the men and women from the Akwa-Cross region are tigers in bed by default. It seems like bragging when we say it but it's the truth.

I have a theory that it's the cuisine passed down over centuries.

The cuisines of coastal people have a lot of seafood (periwinkles, shellfish etc), and seafood have been said to contain aphrodisiacs. Now imagine stocking up bodily on natural aphrodisiacs all your life plus your genes from your progenitors...

The Ibibio, Efik, Ijaw... Coastal people like that. Ijaw women are crazy between the sheets too. Ask anyone who's been with Bayelsa women.

For the men, lifestyle of alcohol consumption is why sexual stamina might not be so pronounced after a while. But if you don't take alcohol and drug-free, you'll go hours if you want as a man from the region.

Oron/Ibeno/Eket females are right on the Ocean and have very heavy seafood meals.


You should also watch or attend a typical Ibibio/Efik traditional wedding. The man is asked to simulate certain movements I can't even reveal here, but it's to test his sexual stamina.


The stereotype is real. Some deny it to fake prudishness but I accepted my truth long ago.

Brag brother, brag. 😄

DissTroy, the Knackademus. Did you ever tell tales in the ABPT cos I'm dying to read em? 😊

abduleez1:
Werey "dey knack o" but na ONLY two rounds him fit give him nymph0 wife and na twice weekly strength him get.

Him trust him shooting capacity as per Calabar boy, still dey take concoction wey him wife bring give am to aid him shooting potency. 😂😂😂

Premium weak man.

Azeez, you are mouthed. I dey read your posts and I just dey Lol 😄

Meanwhile, didn't know the Calabar men were good in the other room. Always thought it was their babes that had a rep for premium knacking. Not that it has any relevance to the guys issue sha.

By the way, how does honestbunch get these guys on their podcast to tell their stories? Shey dem dey pay dem appearance fees ni?

daveP:
19yo? I thought....


She supposed dey u20 be dat na. She needs to step up and focus imo.

The babe fyne, and she plaster for SM dey post thirst traps.

Maybe na the hard work wey schemer dey refer to be that.

123jamessmith:
If the NFF push further they can get Ethan nweneri. The guy is not even a first team player in France. He's far from playing for England.

I don't rate Ethan Nwaneri. But following the dynamic and somewhat unpredictable nature of football, he may still come good.

NFF will not roll carpet for him. If he wants to play for Nigeria, he knows the route to follow.

GloriousGbola:
Right now amupitan has to resign. It is that simple. Anyone can send him 200m now with the comment ekiti election mobilisation

I am glad you said this. Respect.

DeloitteNG:
Club doctors have developed a protective suit for Osimhen's right arm. Made of carbon fiber, the suit is five times stronger than steel but as light as a feather. This will prevent Osimhen from being affected by blows to his arm. The suit will comply with FIFA and league rules. FIFA does not allow the use of devices that could injure opponents or players. Osimhen, who became a phenomenon with his iconic face mask, will transform into a true superhero with the suit on his arm. Coach Okan Buruk plans to field the star player in the starting eleven for the derby against Fenerbahçe, even if not for the Gençlerbirliği match.

How can the suit be stronger than steel but be as light as a feather?

Be like sensationalism to me.

jihday:
there are still issues with the stadium there are whispers that it could be moved to either Morocco or Southafrica

Yeah, they're way behind in preparation and readiness so CAF is already sounding out Morocco and South Africa to host the competition.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Iran's 10-point conditions that the US has been forced to accept:

The US is fundamentally committed to:
— Non-aggression
— Continued Iranian control over the Strait of Hormuz
— Acceptance of enrichment
— Lifting all primary sanctions
— Lifting all secondary sanctions
— Termination of all Security Council resolutions
— Termination of all Board of Governors resolutions
— Payment of reparations to Iran
— Withdrawal of US combat forces from the region
— Cessation of war on all fronts, including against the heroic Islamic Resistance of Lebanon

You sabi lie sha.

izzou:
Someone came online, said she has Stage 4 Cancer, and dropped an account number for people to donate.

Then she came back to laugh at them, and said she didn't force anybody to donate.

Abeg, what exactly is in Nigerian Prisons that people are hustling to enter?

Just watched her Arise TV news interview. Thumbs up to the Doctor on the panel that grilled her professionally.

All I can say is clout is an addictive drug and Blessing CEO has ODed on it. Make dem send her go prison to cool off for a while......

TheSuperNerd:
Times without number I have stated Onyedika has different role paths which his profile will lead him towards depending on how his continued development goes....... Double pivot CDM ▶️ Lone Pivot CDM, CM, or even CAM. But one thing is certain, this lad is on a right path yet is being written off early by most of you because of one game - The Morocco game.

If one game decided it all, we would not see the reinvention of Ndidi under Chelle even after his initial struggles when Chelle came in. Many wish to bury the fact that Ndidi also partly cost us the WC ticket due to his slip up leading to the DRC goal. Did we bury him permanently because of that? At the Afcon, Ndidi finally clicked and came to life, finally able to make the Chelle 4312 Diamond work.

If there is anything Football teaches me, it is that one game never truly defines you.

On Alhassan... True truths co-exist here. When I said Onyedika slander will not age well, that refers to all the talkdowns. But when I said, Alhassan was even castigated heavily here, that refers to some folks who know themselves, who are repeating same thing now on Onyedika and agreeing an Alhassan who they always talked down is now better than Onyedika.

I remember times without number on this thread pointing out how combative yet cerebral Yusuf is but not many saw it. All they saw was an aboki or a player filling up a quota system in the team according to them.

One of the best midfield combos I observed us feature was Onyedika and Alhassan starting together vs Rwanda in Uyo alongside FDB. We had already qualified but I saw a midfield deliver classy football in the first half. It lasted for 45mins as Alhassan made way for Onyeka who later on assisted Chukwueze who scored that marvellous goal... all before we went on to capitulate losing 2-1.


Even now, Alhassan is not football-dead. He is just in the MLS. But several folks use that to register him useless. Ngwanu, no problem. Now they agree he is better than a lad who has done it vs Barca and ATM in the UCL this season. This is where I laugh seriously and leave it up to time because it is not everyone who sees through to the core of what makes a player thick and able to rise above the doubts.

No lele bro. We be Super Eagles supporters, not fans.

Fans are those who remember the Super Eagles only during matches and post in the match day threads.

We the supporters post about the Super Eagles, every day of the week, throughout the year in this thread.

We scout and unearth players.

We profile players.

We discuss formation, player combinations and tactics.

We decry the ineptitude in our football administration.

When results don't go our way, we vent our frustrations, crash out and cry.

Some disappear for days to lick their wounds.

But eventually, we return and start again looking forward to the future with hope.

It takes an enormous amount of love, commitment and resources to do these things.

Ultimately, what we all want is for our players to come good, do well in their clubsides and the National team, and prove their doubters wrong cos its to the benefit of the team.

We don't post to gloat and bag bragging rights of I told you so.

So, I will be so glad for time to prove me wrong on Onyedika, as I have been proven wrong a few times on other players.

Peace.

TheSuperNerd:
All these Onyedika slanders will not age well. I leave it to time to prove me right.

Now same Alhassan Yusuf that was constantly castigated here yet rated by me is being mentioned in fine light just to talk down on Nwadike. Lol... Time is a beautiful thing.

It might not age well because footballers are human and are capable of improving, being stagnant or declining. Ultimately. they prove you either right or wrong. Such is life.

I once did not rate Ekong. Thought he was a very poor defender but he went to the 2023 AFCON and put in a 2006 world cup Cannavaro-esque stellar performance and emerged tournament MVP.

Also, I thought Calvin Bassey was poor circa 2021-2022 when he made his Super Eagles debut and played for Rangers & Ajax but he's turned out to be our best defender at the 2025 AFCON and made team of the tournament.

I wish Onyedika well but I just don't think he's the right type of profile for the Super Eagles DM position in any formation.

BTW, I have always rated Alhassan Yusuf. This thread is replete with my posts praising him and defending his invitation/inclusion to/in the Super Eagles team when others labelled him a quota system pick.

I hope Chelle recalls him back to the team. A good player is a good player irrespective of the league he plays.

ChrisKels:
If Chelle succeeds in getting Gibson Yah and or Emeka Iroegbu, Onyedika will be gone.

He is not imposing and can't dictate the pace of the game. Always looking confused and looking for the easy way out by passing backwards and sideways. Not a top marker either.

Apt. Poor scanning, poor anticipation, poor positional awareness, not combative and hadworking too.

I once thought he was the best thing after slice bread but the scales have since fallen off my eyes.

Little wonder Jose Peseiro preferred Alhassan Yusuf to him at the 2023 AFCON.

.. . And truly Alhassan better pass am by far.

BankyGee:
Good evening my bosses, please I need your help to help me tag Osimhen in the comments section of my short letter to him. Maybe I fit dey lucky make baba say "hi" seff 😂. Thank you very much.

https://x.com/i/status/2039663246064447821

Nice. Just coming back from your X post. May your dreams come through.

A40:
That Wilder interview is the craziest thing I have ever seen

How Piers kept a straight face through it all I don't know.

How does he find the most conniving women on the planet over and over

Watching it now, and I dey cringe. Wilder ya were gan.

Goke7:
Sacking a coach at this time few months to the World Cup doesn’t make sense! Looks like an emotional reaction! How can you use friendly matches results to justify this?

An emotional reaction.

Heard from an egbon sports journalist that their FA is divided between appointing

1. Kwesi Appiah

or

2. Eric Sekou Chelle

Morocco is taking this their AFCON issue with Senegal to extreme levels.

So Morocco anticipated that Senegal were gonna parade the AFCON trophy at the stadium before their match against Peru.

The Moroccan FA appointed a justice commissioner to attend the match, note all the details about the trophy parade and gather evidence.

Morocco has now filed a petition to FIFA Ethics committee accusing Senegal FA of violating article 15 of the FIFA Disciplinary code - 'an act of defiance by parading and celebrating a trophy revoked by CAF Appeal board, and also having two stars on their jerseys.'

The punishment for this breach in the FIFA rules book is indefinite suspension by FIFA and expulsion from all organized sporting competitions which Morocco is now pushing for.

Morocco dey beef Senegal no be small.

sleekdot:
semid4lyfe abeg help me release the last post

Done cos your wish is my command Boss. I've also unbanned you

Make dem no quote the post sha to avoid ban.