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all4naija:
My ribs hurt for laughing out loud over that word significant in your statement! I can clearly see you will become a problem to your man's family

so you don't understand what significant other means? Lol what a shame. Google is free so use it

MrsChima:
Thank you! I love his family wella!

Aww that's so sweet. There is nothing better than getting a long with your significant others family.

all4naija:
It is not! A little disagreement with foreign forum users doesn't give them the right to demean the people of Nigeria. Oh, please! I have been here long enough to know that most of you are just looking for trouble because Nigerians believe their country is the GIANT of Africa. If I must blame the trouble on posters, it will be 70% blame on foreign posters and 30% on Nigerians.

you are very biased. That's your problem. No matter what foreigners will always be the problem. Learn to call a spade a spade. I know we are not always innocent but you should admit that too. At most its 50/50

MrsChima:
He is Nigerian American but traditional as hell! We are good for the most part until his family come for me more than him and take my side when we have a disagreement about something (usually about politics and religion) I am not religious and challenge him on the bible. Lol.

lol I see. Its always better to marry a 'westernised' african as they are more liberal and open minded. Anyways am glad things are working well and his family loves you.

all4naija:
I have read of some South African ladies' fairy tales like yours who were later violated by their men. I heard your country men are very quick to commit domestic violence against women.My two cent, I hope your guy is not going to be in that group with time. I gave you a clue on the best alternative already. Missing the best man, a Nigerian, for you is something you would reminisce after a complicated situation. Good luck with your Zulu relationship!

oh please as if there is no domestic violence in Nigerian homes. The amount of threads alone I have seen here on this topic is enough to say that it"s a problem. Domestic violence happens everywhere. It won't happen to me though because am not a lady that takes shit and my man knows that. If he dares hit me then he will know where he will find himself so he won't even try.

MrsChima:
Semuhle....

I like your name! Many naija men thinks just because white women fly in droves to Bleep and marry them on first meet is equivalent to other women sharing the same views.

Nsija men are no different than other men around the world...they take chauvinism to a different low.

Sexist as hell but hey!

lol thank you MrsChima. You are actually one of my favourite commentors on this site. You always know how to make me laugh. So how did you manage with the whole culture differences between you and your husband or was he already 'americanised'

PunkyOh:
Maybe they're from the rural areas. Usually Xhosa, especially the women, are pretty liberal. Personally the only people I don't gel with well are the people from up North because we're too different in almost everything. But I get what you're saying though.

lol @ from the rural areas. I get you though. I do agree with your point about Xhosa women. Most I have met are liberal when it comes to dating

all4naija:
Do you mean you haven't dreamed of a Nigerian hunk yet almost dated one? That is very interesting.

However, I didn't generalize about your people when I first registered with this forum. Until I came to understand how most other Africans treat Nigerians badly on topical issues and I was completely infuriated by them. There is this unanimous agreement by South Africans posting in threads to demonized the people, most especially, about those Nigerians living in Your country. It is very annoying to say the least.

Kenyans and Ghanaians usually follow suit. While some South Africans exhibit intelligence(the white South Africans posting on the forum)the others are blatantly silly in their lack of civilized life. That is not helping, and when you mention the problem in Townships many would like to scold you for saying the truth. That is very discouraging on how to move the people and continent forward. It is a big shame to Africans.

I am not going to back down until something is done to find solutions and all of you stop putting Nigerians down in your society. Many of you would have to earn my respect here by accepting the truth on African issues. Jeez!

the problem with some of you guys is that you love to play the victim too much. You guys fight South Africans, Ghanaians, Kenyans etc and say bad stuff but when they retaliate then its a problem. If you can't take the heat then step out of the kitchen.

all4naija:
Ha!!! Now you are against what you think it's right to thing to do. Your bf must be very lucky to have a lady like you with dough to spend on him. That means he is not the man with swag! Go for a Nigerian man, lady! It is the best thing for you to do!

lol I don't spend on him but I do stuff for him just like he does for me. my man spoils me a lot no doubt but I am not really a materialistic person. I make my own money too so can afford to buy what I want. Am a very independent lady.

PunkyOh:
Not trying to turn the thread into anything. Your comment just piqued my interests that's all because I know many Zulu guys & girls and most don't discriminate. At least when it comes to dating. Marriage may be another matter though. As you were..

dating is okay but marriage is another thing all together. Trust me its not something that is put out there but some of our family members say such unfortunately. But I must admit nowadays its much better than in the past. Btw even my Xhosa female friends have said something similar to me too.

PunkyOh:
You mean your family would have a problem if you dated other South African tribes? Such as?

lol let's not turn this into a tribalistic thing but its just one tribe in particular and unfortunately it happens. Not just in my family but lots of Zulus in general. Am sure you can read between the lines.

all4naija:
As if you are given the choice you would marry a peasant farmer or a petty trader!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXRN_LkCa_o

Neither. I got my own dough and so does my boo. So it's all good

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
abeg u fit find me work for jo'burg.... or u get any single friend

lol all my friends are attached. Beautiful ladies are hardly single

all4naija:
Have you ever in your life dreamed about a Nigerian hunk holding your arm or something?

I used to stand up for South Africans in this forum until they really hurt my feelings regarding their views on xenophobia,r a p e and the criminally minded blacks in Townships. Hahaha... I would rather die than to live in that hellhole!

lol I have never dreamt of such. Well everywhere you go, you find good and bad people. Judging a whole nation by the bad or xenophobic is not right. Just like you guys here have said some very hurtful things about my country and unfortunately some of your brothers in SA are not putting you guys in a good light. But still I know that not every nigerian is bad. I try and judge a person individually and not by his race,nationality or tribe because no two people are the same. I will admit I used to be a bit ignorant about certain things in the past and I used to generalise a lot but its not right. Its easier said then done and sometimes you can't help it but I have been working on it.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
so ** in rick ross' voice** ITS ALL ABOUT THE MOOOLAH....... lemme continue selling my ladies undies... #hustle must pay

lol continue my brother. Its better than crime.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
so if dangote was my elder bro, bill gates was my golf mate, and obama was my close pal, your family will still dissaprove if i wanted to marry you

lol you know money always talk. Am sure they would obviously be less in disagreement after all you aint an average joe lol

all4naija:
Hahaha...!

what do you want to ask? Btw when will you change? What did south africans do to you. Btw I know you live in SA. So which province?

all4naija:
No, I am not! I am a man and straight. I got a pretty girlfriend. Don't you ever listen to what that liar says!

pic of you and your pretty gf or....

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
stop playing reverse psychology..... this aint kindergarten........ we have all been fools to love, so dont be ashamed.... i wont tell your mommy okay?

I guess lucky for me am yet to be a fool in love. But I won't lie. I have never dated a Nigerian and honestly my family would never approve of it. Even some tribes in SA can also be a bit of a problem.

all4naija:
Can I ask you a personal question, SemuhleB?

what?

all4naija:
Hahaha... She has always been a shameless b i a t c h!

I hear that you are a lady? Are you a lesbian?

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
and chatting led to his bed which led to hot sëx which led to dating which then led to breakup........ LIAR!!! LIAR!!! PANTS ON FIRE!!!!

lol I can't stop laughing. I dunno why some of my peeps take you ppl so seriously. You guys are clowns. #Zulumenalldayeveryday :-)

all4naija:
Stop lying! You admit to almost date a Nigeria whom you had some disagreement with. Oh,yeah!Possibly, kissing him and dreaming about him was not applicable. Bwahaha... Please...

is almost dating dating. Chatting is not dating. Like I said, I have never dated a Nigerian so deal with it.

[quote author=all4naija post=32132266]Stop lying! You admit to almost date a Nigeria whom you had some disagreement with. Oh,yeah!Possibly, kissing him and dreaming about him was not applicable. Bwahaha... Please... [/quotel lol you are funny

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
abeggi..... "A TOAD DOES NOT RUN IN THE DAY FOR NOTHING"........ you dont need to gi e me crap explanations, i have seen too many Nigeria-Bitter women like you, and tha annoying fact is that you all tried to hide the fact you all fell foolishly in love with a naija guy....... so abeg leave MATTER FOR MATTHIAS and SABI for SABINUS

lol believe whatever makes you sleep at night. Not all foreign women are crazy about Nigerian guys. That's the truth

all4naija:
You are a disgrace to you ex-Nigerian boyfriend. I will never in my life visit South Africa. I would rather die than to visit SA - even if I am told the doctor to treat me is only available in South Africa not in anywhere else.

that's your opinion and quite frankly I don't care. Lol @ my ex nigerian bf in your dreams. I am dating a wonderful Zulu man and am not really into foreign men.

swallu:
Let me give this to you straight.Nigerian men who date and get married to foreign women do so for financial gain or for papers.This is why you see many nigerian men with fat ugly white women or black american women.Mind you though many of these nigerian men with fat ugly foreign wives are married to nigerian women back home.South africa is a much more developed country so nigerian men there who might be seeking greener pastures there would do anything to survive including lying to you desperate women who might be looking to get laid.Dont be deceived because the average nigerian man is very good in deceit and lies and would say anything to a woman just to get into her pants.To all you foreign women here married to nigerian men i had suggest you scrutinize your nigerian husbands to know if they have wives and kids back home but then ninety eight percent of them married to foreign women have wives and kiddies in nigeria.

I agree with you. This is the truth, thanks for being honest. Most smart ladies are aware of this.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
nigerian dudes don báng the OP puna taya, sotey the tin don slack............ any foreign woman who complains of naija men has had her puna overbánged and her heart shattered

lol Fyi I have never dated a Nigerian guy before so this does not apply to me. Btw where am I complaining? Its just a simply question I asked.

all4naija:
Hi, lady! Where have you been? I still think Nigerian men have more swag than South African Township black guys.

Can you please stop quoting me with your bullshit . We are not friends get it!

MduZA:
baby gal do you think somebody from kwamhlaba uyalingana knows her? I don't think so,she is only known by those who buy Bona or Pace magazines...last time I heard she was dating Euphonik,another unknown ...

lol okay dear.

MduZA:
you see now ,you want me to take your fallacy,am just telling you that bonang is not that popular here,she might be popular to you people up there because she is rumored to be dating your Godfather...Babalwa Mneo was born from a Zimbabwean father,yes she is a south African,mine here was to give you another dimension so that you can understand why she made those utterances about south African men...anyway keep on fantasying about rocking south African women...

How. Mdu how can you say Bonang is not known

Halimi25:
Ha!ha!!!ha!!!ha!!ha!!ha!!ha!!!Stop lying!!!!Punky oh registered on March 11 2015 & Ginaking registered on March 21 2015.What a coincidence!!!! Punky oh has just logged out while Ginaking is still logged in!!!!I don catch u walahi!!!Ha!!!ha!!!ha!!ha!ha!!!

Even a blind bat can tell that these two are completely different with different personalities. Even if they were the same people so what? Lol you act like you just won the lottery. You get all sorts of characters here