EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
stop playing reverse psychology..... this aint kindergarten........ we have all been fools to love, so dont be ashamed.... i wont tell your mommy okay?

all4naija:
No, I am not! I am a man and straight. I got a pretty girlfriend. Don't you ever listen to what that liar says!

SemuhleB:
pic of you and your pretty gf or....

SemuhleB:
I guess lucky for me am yet to be a fool in love. But I won't lie. I have never dated a Nigerian and honestly my family would never approve of it. Even some tribes in SA can also be a bit of a problem.

all4naija:

Hahaha...!

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
so if dangote was my elder bro, bill gates was my golf mate, and obama was my close pal, your family will still dissaprove if i wanted to marry you

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
so if dangote was my elder bro, bill gates was my golf mate, and obama was my close pal, your family will still dissaprove if i wanted to marry you

SemuhleB:
lol you know money always talk. Am sure they would obviously be less in disagreement after all you aint an average joe lol

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
so ** in rick ross' voice** ITS ALL ABOUT THE MOOOLAH....... lemme continue selling my ladies undies... #hustle must pay

SemuhleB:
what do you want to ask? Btw when will you change? What did south africans do to you. Btw I know you live in SA. So which province?

SemuhleB:
lol continue my brother. Its better than crime.

SemuhleB:
I guess lucky for me am yet to be a fool in love. But I won't lie. I have never dated a Nigerian and honestly my family would never approve of it. Even some tribes in SA can also be a bit of a problem.

SemuhleB:
lol continue my brother. Its better than crime.

all4naija:

Have you ever in your life dreamed about a Nigerian hunk holding your arm or something?

I used to stand up for South Africans in this forum until they really hurt my feelings regarding their views on xenophobia,r a p e and the criminally minded blacks in Townships. Hahaha... I would rather die than to live in that hellhole!

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
abeg u fit find me work for jo'burg.... or u get any single friend

all4naija:
As if you are given the choice you would marry a peasant farmer or a petty trader!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXRN_LkCa_o

PunkyOh:


You mean your family would have a problem if you dated other South African tribes? Such as?

SemuhleB:
lol let's not turn this into a tribalistic thing but its just one tribe in particular and unfortunately it happens. Not just in my family but lots of Zulus in general. Am sure you can read between the lines.

SemuhleB:
lol I have never dreamt of such. Well everywhere you go, you find good and bad people. Judging a whole nation by the bad or xenophobic is not right. Just like you guys here have said some very hurtful things about my country and unfortunately some of your brothers in SA are not putting you guys in a good light. But still I know that not every nigerian is bad. I try and judge a person individually and not by his race,nationality or tribe because no two people are the same. I will admit I used to be a bit ignorant about certain things in the past and I used to generalise a lot but its not right. Its easier said then done and sometimes you can't help it but I have been working on it.

PunkyOh:


Not trying to turn the thread into anything. Your comment just piqued my interests that's all because I know many Zulu guys & girls and most don't discriminate. At least when it comes to dating. Marriage may be another matter though. As you were..

all4naija:
Yet, you quoted me, you attention-seeking w h o r e!

all4naija:

Do you mean you haven't dreamed of a Nigerian hunk yet almost dated one? That is very interesting.

However, I didn't generalize about your people when I first registered with this forum. Until I came to understand how most other Africans treat Nigerians badly on topical issues and I was completely infuriated by them. There is this unanimous agreement by South Africans posting in threads to demonized the people, most especially, about those Nigerians living in Your country. It is very annoying to say the least.

Kenyans and Ghanaians usually follow suit. While some South Africans exhibit intelligence(the white South Africans posting on the forum)the others are blatantly silly in their lack of civilized life. That is not helping, and when you mention the problem in Townships many would like to scold you for saying the truth. That is very discouraging on how to move the people and continent forward. It is a big shame to Africans.

I am not going to back down until something is done to find solutions and all of you stop putting Nigerians down in your society. Many of you would have to earn my respect here by accepting the truth on African issues. Jeez!

SemuhleB:
Neither. I got my own dough and so does my boo. So it's all good

all4naija:

Ha!!! Now you are against what you think it's right to thing to do. Your bf must be very lucky to have a lady like you with dough to spend on him. That means he is not the man with swag! Go for a Nigerian man, lady! It is the best thing for you to do!

SemuhleB:
dating is okay but marriage is another thing all together. Trust me its not something that is put out there but some of our family members say such unfortunately. But I must admit nowadays its much better than in the past. Btw even my Xhosa female friends have said something similar to me too.

PunkyOh:


You're busy preaching about change, how about you start in your own backyard. As if America is not rotten to the core itself.

all4naija:

Do you mean you haven't dreamed of a Nigerian hunk yet almost dated one? That is very interesting.

However, I didn't generalize about your people when I first registered with this forum. Until I came to understand how most other Africans treat Nigerians badly on topical issues and I was completely infuriated by them. There is this unanimous agreement by South Africans posting in threads to demonized the people, most especially, about those Nigerians living in Your country. It is very annoying to say the least.

Kenyans and Ghanaians usually follow suit. While some South Africans exhibit intelligence(the white South Africans posting on the forum)the others are blatantly silly in their lack of civilized life. That is not helping, and when you mention the problem in Townships many would like to scold you for saying the truth. That is very discouraging on how to move the people and continent forward. It is a big shame to Africans.

I am not going to back down until something is done to find solutions and all of you stop putting Nigerians down in your society. Many of you would have to earn my respect here by accepting the truth on African issues. Jeez!

PunkyOh:


Maybe they're from the rural areas. Usually Xhosa, especially the women, are pretty liberal. Personally the only people I don't gel with well are the people from up North because we're too different in almost everything. But I get what you're saying though.

all4naija:

I have always been an instrument for change! I encourage change everywhere I go not just in this forum. Believe me, Africa needs it more than any other place. My father's land(Nigeria) needs it more than any other country on the planet.

MrsChima:
Semuhle....

I like your name! Many naija men thinks just because white women fly in droves to Bleep and marry them on first meet is equivalent to other women sharing the same views.

Nsija men are no different than other men around the world...they take chauvinism to a different low.

Sexist as hell but hey!