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Okay so here goes. I have a few Nigerian male friends and a couple of days ago this is what one of them said to me " Here in South Africa you women are too free". Every little beating then you call the police. In Nigeria if a police came the first thing they would ask you is what is your relationship between the lady, and if it's your Gf/wife the police would leave you to continue. Beatings is how you keep women in check. After hearing this I was appalled but then I began to understand why a lot of Nigerian men beat their girlfriends and wife's here. So is it really a cultural thing, that it is okay for men to beat women? Do the police really not do anything about this? |
i find it strange that the word "hygiene" has been brought up several times. i wonder how many men make sure of their cleanliness when expecting head. balls have some of the worst sweat ever (think about that sack just glued to an inner thigh), and let us not forget the smell of stale urine also from the fact there is no wiping. and the hair on the scrotum might be the grossest human hair imaginable- worse than the hair in the crack. i am not saying that one is grosser than the other, mind you. everyone should just have equal expectations of themselves and others. also, i don't think that a female that might smell a little funky down there is "unclean", they just might have had their daily shower 12 hours earlier. |
pickabeau1:What does that have to do with anything? Am I not allowed to comment because of that ![]() |
GodMode:I am team average looking/ugly guys. Am too young to kill myself with those kind of men. A good looking man is usually everyones boyfriend ![]() |
'I'm going to be inside you as long as you let me. U know this is your heart. I know you do. I always come back. We just have to be more careful.' so he felt no remorse and actually wanted to continue with this.It serves him right. If you cheat be prepared to face the consequences. On a serious note is there a Nigerian man alive that does not cheat |
kendrick9:she is biracial so that is quite obvious her complexion would be light skinned ![]() |
lezz:Are you all4naija by any chance? You have a lot of similiarities |
Is that the winner beauty contest indeed |
JiggamanGh:Especially the women part cracks me up so much. Majority of South African women well the classy educated ones do not like Nigerian men. Nigerian men have a bad reputation here as they are chronic womanizers, cheats and they love to beat their girlfriends up. Nigerian men generally like women and especially yellow bones with ass and hips and they go crazy. The way they flip over women here is what makes the average South African believe that Nigerian women are not attractive. Also Nigerian men are the last on the list of the foreign men that South African women date. It seems they have an ego where they believe that they are better than every country and their women are crazy about them. They say our men are lazy but I have heard them use the same lines with Ghana men too. |
PunkyOh:They are damn hilarious bunch of people. Another favourite line is we are jealous of them that's why we hate them. ![]() |
onila:why must you refer to her as a b1tch. You act like Nigerians don't have baby mama's |
Lala247:Lol this is so ironic because same thing can be said about Nigerian men and much worse. I guess Nigerian and Jamaican men are the same |
vandalZA:Lol 400 years is even too little perhaps maybe 4000 ![]() |
logica:why the hmm? |
otiigba1: thank you |
enoqueen:No wonder bleaching is riff when people have such fish brain mentality. This coming from a woman is even worse. Am so disgusted! |
otiigba1: am sure we all know how ![]() |
PStacks:Exactly. I know South Africa is not perfect and has a lot of problems. We accept that there is Xenophobia in our country. But Nigerians never want to accept that they are also a problem. Why is it that every country all over have problems with Nigerians? That surely must mean something? I dunno why it seems that most of the bad Nigerians travel to other Countries and give all Nigerians a bad name. In CapeTown there is a place called Parklands and it's like a mini Lagos. Drugs and prostitution is ripe there and it has become overcrowded and noisy. This same area is not what it used to be. There are other foreign Nationals in South Africa who we have never had problems with like Ghana and Namibia for example. Why is it that you never hear complaints about them? It's because these citizens are law abiding citizens and do not have a rock stuck up their ass. |
Obijulius:Lol by 'breed' am not talking about looks but I see you had to chirp in my looks . What I was trying to say is the money grabbing cheap poor ladies are the ones who go for you men. That's the truth unfortunately and that's why they love you so much because you men sure know how to spend on them to get what you want. I personally don't hate Nigerians but I know there are a lot of South Africans that do. But it's not only limited to South Africa. Unfortunately a lot of people across the globe hate Nigerians. Is this about Xenophobia or Apartheid? Yes Apartheid happened but honestly Nigeria keep going on about how much they helped SA and it was only on Nairaland that I heared this hearsay. In our apartheid Museums Nigeria is not listed amongst the Countries that helped SA. Some countries that actually helped SA have been victims of this act but you do not hear them going about running their mouths about this. Also no Nigerians were killed during this Xenophobic attacks so I don't get why you are making this a Nigerian thing when it clearly is not. |
Obijulius:I don't know why Nigerians like to make things about women all the time. For your information out of all the foreign men that SA women date, Nigerian men are in the minority. To be honest those that are dating Nigerian men are a certain kind of 'breed' if you know what I mean. I will be honest that Xenophobia is a problem in South Africa and am against the way it was handled cos there are much better ways such as doing what Nigerians did to Ghana rather than killing the foreigners. I will also say that the media over-sensationalised the whole xenophobia attacks as a lot of videos and pictures circulated where not even from SA. It is bad but it was really over done. |
Igbowife1:My dear you are your own problem. You came on this site asking for advice. We gave you our opinion and advice of which you didn't like so now what was the whole point of your thread. I think now it's just best for you to accept the fact that you will never hear from him when he is in Nigeria and just deal with it simple. The best thing would be to speak to him about your concern and if that doesn't work then since you don't want to believe anything else then you just have to deal with it instead of frustrating yourself |
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all4naija:Don't you ever get tired of your senseless rants. Honestly most women think their men are the best. You can ask the foreign women on here and see what they say. Just like most of you men too think your women are the best. It's normal. Just because some date outside their nationality or race does not mean they love all Nigerian men for example. She just loves her man. Now stop this senseless comparison. It's very childish. |
cocostrawberry:aww that's so sweet thank you |
patrotic9gerian:Really am flattered but am already seeing someone |
Beamborla:lol I know I should not be laughing but your first comment killed me. This is really sad though. May God be with her |
all4naija:significant other. Not significant silly.Significant other (abbreviated SO) is colloquially used as a gender-neutral term for a person's partner in an intimate relationship[1] without disclosing or presuming anything about marital status, relationship status, or sexual orientation. Synonyms with similar properties include sweetheart, better half, spouse, domestic partner, lover, soulmate, or life partner. |
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so he felt no remorse and actually wanted to continue with this.
beauty contest indeed
, anyway could not help it, had to comment on gorgeous you look
thank you