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Countless times, I have tried to delete some contacts from my phone, but they still come back to my phone memory once I refresh my WhatsApp contacts.

I even delete it from my Google contacts (where I backed them up) but it still comes back. Pls what can be done?

kevwemike:
is going to be a good news for her as God almighty lives

No place for women in politics

kevwemike:
it will never happen in Jesus name, heaven will back her up

Ok. Quote me when the results are out.

kevwemike:
Wahooo this is a good news am so happy for her and to all women congratulations to u all and happy mother's day to all good women

Stop hibernating, she would be rigged out in the 3 remaining LGAs.

Politics is not for women.

ytdivine:
Yes, I do

Price pls? And how long does it stay before fruiting?

I need agric red and yellow pawpaw. I want to have at least 4 pawpaw trees at the backyard.

LINSAR:
Lol.
You can marry her when she is jobless and in the marriage, she can rise to earn more. So you'll divorce her?

The position of a mother is different from that of a wife. If you divorce your wife because of your mom, can you marry your mom?

I won't divorce her. But she may have to become a housewife o.

Kobojunkie:
1. Taken care of by whom? It is Saturday so I no fit sit-down watch TV?

It's inappropriate to say everything on a faceless forum. But you know the truth. Unless you are a stay-at-home mum, then I'll understand.

LINSAR:
You prevent her from earning more than you in Europe, she divorces your ass. The court awards 50%(or whatever the country uses) of your worth to her. You pay her alimony. You pay child support monthly till the children are up to 18.


You lose! She wins!

I can't even live together with a woman that earns more than me in a foreign land, in the first place. I think ahead of time.

I am too careful when dealing with the opposite gender. Except my mum.

Kobojunkie:
1. Stress ke? I am currently sitting in front of the TV, watching a movie as I type. How is that stressful? I respond to a thread or two while waiting for the microwave or airfryer to finish, surely that isn't stressful.

1. None of those applies to me.

Surely, that aligns with my assertion. You are in a foreign land watching the TV, and surfing the net cos those things have been taken care of for you. Lucky you

I didn't expect you to answer in the affirmative either.

And the way you try to stay gender neutral on the forum needs to be studied as a course in the uni.. even though your gender is well-known.

Kobojunkie:
1. What stress? I live a very very simple life.

The stress of being here and there (online and offline) at every point in time.

I am suspecting you are the daughter of a Nigerian politician. Or your parents made life easy for you – likely the former. You can deny but deep down you know it's the truth.

Kobojunkie:
1. I am not old nor incapacitated.

So you mean to say that you can keep up with the stress that comes with it, right? Humm.. that's really weird

Kobojunkie:
1. Because I can?

Ok. But I mean at every given point in time. Even now you're still online. How do you manage to keep up with offline activities?

Kobojunkie:
Ok then

But how come you're on every thread on this forum?

Kobojunkie:
Probably the same reason why you who claim you don't joke with your mother wouldn't as well.

I love my mum so much. Can't trade anything for her.. so my wife must follow suit.

LINSAR:
This boy no fit pass 16 years old. When you become a man and marry, come back here to discuss.

Now overseas, most of the times, home bills are shared.
In a family of say 4(2 grown children), do you know how much you'll be paying per month?
By the time you're paying like €12,000 or more per month, body go tell you.

Who your provision epp. Your wife fit even dey earn pass you.

I can allow my wife earn more than me in Nigeria, but not in Europe. Never!

I know what to do if I see she has the potential to earn higher in future.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your own words betray you there. According to you, it is the wife's place to do as commanded by her husband meaning the wife is a slave to her husband.

2. So you also admit that this slave status women hold in marriage, you are only able to fully implement while confined within the shores of Nigeria. Outside of Nigeria, your hands are tied as your women are instead considered your equals.

3. You would stop providing, till she obeys your commands. Kind of like the way masters starve their slaves until they learn to obey their every whim?

So why would she refuse to go visit my mum, since she would do it if we were to be in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
1. So, because a wife says she is submissive, she becomes nothing but a servant the man can use as he pleases?

2. So, you admit that it is only in Nigeria that men are able to in fact treat a wife as a servant. They do not have that freedom outside of the shores of Nigeria. Meaning the woman is recognized as an equal member of the marriage outside of Nigeria?

1. Submissive is different from being a slave.

2. No. You women pretend a lot. She knows she can't try such in Nigeria without going back to her father's house. But she choose to do otherwise cos she knows the law is there for her.


Btw, I'd stop providing if I were to be her husband, till she obeys my instruction.

Kobojunkie:
You don't joke with your mom so you send someone else to take care of her?

Yes. At least for a certain period of time. Isn't a wife supposed to be submissive to her husband in the first place? Or is it because she's in a foreign land.

Can she try that nonsense in Nigeria?

ytdivine:
Could be pollination problem. Seems the female ovary is not fertilized that's why it keeps fallen of. Very common when there are not much of the pawpaw trees around to increase the chances of pollination.
When planting pawpaw, always plant many not just one

Alright. Do you sell agric pawpaw?

Divorce awaits the so called wife who would try such nonsense with me. I don't joke with my mum! Nonsense.

Hi. Pls I don't know what is happening to this pawpaw. I planted it since January last year but it is yet to fruit.. sometimes it starts fruiting but when it gets to a certain stage it will die off. The tree just keeps getter taller and larger. I don't know what is wrong pls

sat70:
Mobile App development is pretty simple bro. Learn java or flutter.

Java? Pls any app to learn it? Do I only need to learn java to become successful in that foel? How long would it take pls?

I need to earn in dollars like you.

charlsecy:
So you think a typical Igbo man concerns himself with the inheritance law from non-Igbo origins?

No mind the mugu

folake4u:
Lmao. Please and please. Don't embarrass yourself. You failed your parents by wasting their funds on your education, that's if you had one anyways.

Sharap mugu ewedu muncher. Women are 4th class species in Nigeria and Africa at large after Men, Animals and insects.

Generalwoodz:
Sat70 the guy with 9k$ is a mobile app developer...

Sat70 howfa? You fit sponsor me make I get fairly used laptop? I wish you all the Best.

Chai. How hard is that mobile app developer to learn pls?

folake4u:
Thank you for this. Parents should love their kids irrespective of the gender.

@the bolded. My father does this too. He place value more on us female kids than my brother.

That doesn't make the female any important in Igbo culture and Nigeria at large

You are still second class gender

Generalwoodz:
It's possible ooh. Knows peeps making 1500$, another 4000$, 9k$? I believe it's possible.

Na to know their niche o.. choi

sat70:
Waw. I achieved a lot. I completed 15 Udemy courses and got two remote jobs. I earn $9k/month and I live here in Lagos. I also go a job in Lagos but the pay is no where close to the foreign jobs. Buhari, I enjoyed your reign.

I doubt this!

TheCongo2:
Are you a lady ?
I have never heard of a lady who left her marriage because of childless issue

Maybe. We ladies are incapable of love. And are very cunning to the last!