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Wow, how do you know these?

Would love to know more though

Rebekah029:
Thank you!

Unable to reply your last post.

Whatever you are going through, no matter how heavy your heart is, keep holding on. Talk to someone, message me and I might be able to tell one or two things to give you strength.

Thinking about the first point there, gays go plenty for Nairaland, cos 70% of guys there dey fear women.

In fact, they hate women. Fools.

Davidganna10:
i do talk to ladies all the time, although it may be difficult for me to woe them.
Once any guy start admiring a lady, I instantly detest her. And start looking for what is not perfect about her.
Thanks for you advice.

Be her friend. Even if another is trying to toast her, once you see she has your attention, tell her you want a relationship with her

You need to start making friends intensionally with women.

Must nairaland guys are nuts, they only care about money and will tell you to stay away from women (as if dem mama go born dem if dem papa stayed away)

Next time you see a lady you like, talk to her like you are taking to your guy. Make friends with her, but watch out for leeches and emotional blackmailers so you don't end up feeling worse towards them

michaelpop50:
There comes a time in a man's life where he abandons relationships with the opposite sex and build his life. I'm currently doing it. No sex so far this year.

As long as it works for you, fine. It might not for others

Maxmavis:
FOOL

Your new 40leaves exercise head better get filled with notes before e turn brown

Time is not on your side

LaJoe2:
Read your advice, and felt so empty

I'm not surprised.



I've seen people read proverb and yet they don't understand anything there

fairfora:
No, it's not natural to have a girl friend. Having a girlfriend is a total distraction. What a girlfriend can give you apart from sexx, you can fetch your self. Throughout my undergraduate days, I didn't have a single girlfriend. It's a commitment I had to make. I graduated top of my set and the record is there to show. After graduation and nysc, I got employed. I'd leave my house in the morning and return home without any hindrances or distractions. I was able to do all I needed to do with ease. I left the country a year after my first employment without thinking of a gf. Whereas, my friend wasn't as free and focused as I was. He was always telling me his gf was asking him to visit her parents, always talking about marriage when he wasn't even ready and this always caused issues btw them everytime the discussion came up. I'm not impotent...I was very virile that time and my manhood was active. It was a decision I took. I wasn't hating girls and am not ugly so people wouldn't be thinking in this direction. They were coming but I had to set a limit. I was and still a handsome, dark guy I've always been.

My dad called me one morning. He's not so educated. He had only standard 6 education but very sound. He sat me down and said, my son if you want to make it in life, do not put women first. You'd have your woman when the time is ripe. Face your career first. This has been my watchword. When I returned to the country. I married my colleague at my workplace and we are blessed with intelligent children by God. In addition, we've been blessed with good things people yearn to have in life. Before I travelled out, I was observing 2 girls. We used to communicate while abroad but occasionally. One of them was a daughter of a former minister. When I came back, they were also working in renown FMCG companies and doing fine. I took names of the 3 of them to meet my pastor...in fact i had 2 pastors who were sound spiritually. They didn't know each other. They told me same thing about the 3. My wife was the best choice. The 2 others were said to be ok but would have issues in future which I'd not want to explain here. They were of deep concerns to me. Recently one of them reached me after a long time of communicating. She spoke with me about an issue, which the 2 men of God had seen 16 years ago. I was shocked. the 3 girls were like zebra in beauty but God is the one who sees beyond the physical.

This was the way our fathers lived their lives, which made things worked well for them. As a peasant farmer, my dad built 3 houses. He gave all of us good education. If you're from Ekiti, you'd understand this better. He's a disciplinarian. My mum saw me with a girl one day. I was in SS2. She came to collect a note...she was my fellow prefect. My mum talked my head off that day...I had to explain things. She said haaaa, this is the type of life you want to live? From whom did you learn this and I became scared. I learn something from the igbo men of old( not the boys of nowadays). They always made women their last priority. Some would have built at least a house, expanded their shops before bringing in a woman. They were very successful.

Being a man is not about running from your problems, it's about manning up stop being like a pvssy. Las las, after building up all the wealth, you go come find woman to help you spend it, who we dey fool.
What you are scared of when you got nothing, you will now bring when you have everything.
That's an attribute of fools. My group of friends back in school dated every lady that comes their way, two of 5 of them made first class, determination has types, everybody can't be like you. What will be will be stop judging the whole basket because of just one fruit.

Nice epistle by the way

Most giving you the advice here are actually staying with their girlfriend, and definitely have 2-4 girlfriends.

Let them be deceiving you by giving motivation quotes
Better wise up. It's natural to have girlfriend unless you are impotent or gay

Pray you meet someone better, learn your lesson and move on. One day, you will know why your parents got married.

Rahmanjargo:
Blacks is the most useless race on earth.

Very useless set of people. America is not your country, stop messing that nation up with your dirty mentality. Come back to Nigeria,Ghana and other useless African nations you originated from.

Guess you don't know who are called Native Americans??

kenigwe18:
is that pharrell Williams?

Yeah

If she marry this guy,
Dem go born vampires, ageless being.

By the way, he's 47years old

31st

sexylassie2:
Read and understand.

Nairaland has nothing to do with it.

The person must have written an article here and reposted it in a group on whatsapp.

Someone got offended and reported to the school.

You are the one that should read and understand
If Nairaland has nothing to do with it why is it on the letter.
Do you even go through the post

You mods needs to be careful about what you push to the front page


I'm short, not all that glitters is gold.
Many news are fake, made only to push traffic to the OP's website.

Mehn, this is pure talent


Masterpiece

Baba no wan involve himself with mannerless company

At least she died being with her lover

Something I've always been scared of.
What if I invited her and she died over, how I go explain myself?

Nobody will definitely believe the guy

Mind you, forensic autopsy in Nigeria is a serious mess. Can't blame the guy for running. Either ways he's going to jail.

Stay positive

BuhariNaWah:
I wonder how Bianca will be feeling now

She wil be feeling like a Ferrari

Honestly, we really lack leaders in this country,

What we have are politicians and WhatsApp group leaders

Thunder fire dem


Thunder from hell

Oboy, God really save the killer of this snake ooo,

One bite and within seconds he's gone.

Surviving it's bite is actually less than 1%

You've answered the question for most

tellwisdom:
So you didn’t know he was in cult or a cultist till the day you were to marry him.?? I hope you have big breasttt and yansh the spirit can press very well??.

I guess you forgot your glasses