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OmniPotens:
, she said she was engaged about midnight and was not ready to continue with the relationship. Just too surprising and sudden. But we were together at the eatery about 9:00 PM the previous night to watch a live band.

Can someone explain to me if it was all a dream or a reality?

I'm I really single again?

wavemasta:
It's normal for you to react in anger and dissappointment knowing that your wifes past is haunting you now, preventing you from having your own child. When she told you about the earlier abortions, you should have both done a medical test, to determine if both of you could still have kids. This would have saved you the wahala you are experiencing now.
Anyways, whats done is done. Like I said, the feelings of anger and betrayal you feel are natural but you made the mistake of lashing out on your wife, I know you feel she was responsible and all that, and its human nature to project the anger. But now, if you want her back like you said, the only thing is to intensify your efforts. She probably feels bad that shes made you pay for her past mistakes, and you need to show her that while you feel sad, you still love her, and want her back, and you will not let the past color your treatment of her.
This is kind of sensitive, no one actually knows how they would react till they were in your shoes. I wish you the best of luck. Keep trying, and be persistent!

sistawoman:
This was not me, i did not write this, this is what he was linking us to.

But I agree with it 110%.

As much as I love my man there are certain things that just can't be compromised and that is me. And because he loves me so much he would ask/demand/expect me to compromise me.

sistawoman:
Here it is: And yes I agree:

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's
not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you.

Find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he
treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
you,speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior, Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are,

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise
is a two way thing.

You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute
about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals, look for someone
complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right. Make him
miss you sometimes,

When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily
available to him - he takes you for granted.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others. scary right, just
read it and pass it on.U don't know who might just need it.

HR.hotness:
who?

kokoye:
gbeborun

olofofo

gbefila

gbegele

gbepata

gbekoste
gbescarf

kokoye:
Kill her father! _{with your english}

kokoye:
Are there any exisiting relationships that started / originated on Nairaland?

do you know of any?

RichyBlacK:
Option 5: None of the above

spikedcylinder:
Correct.

Pulitzer? No?


@ topic

Quinine is obtained from the bark of which tree?

A. Redwood

B. Cinchona

C. Eucalyptus

D. Bunyan

Gina-Ukey:
That doesn't mean she's still in love with you, that could mean that she is a smart and intelligent girl who understands that it's ok to be civil and remain friends with someone she once cared about.