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Bro, i honestly thnk you should go with your gut instinct, it usually works, am sure i dont need to tell you that, dont go out with her out of pity,

Killing him will not solve anything, i understand he has caused you a lot of pain but that dosen't give you the right to have him killed, leave him in the hands of God. God's punishment is far more greater than any punishment you will ever inflict on him. Just let it go, if its any consolation there is somebody out there for you who will treat you just the way you want to be treated, All the Best,

Gtexcute:
Hey mr 2 know have those people concented to speaking with you?

well duh!! what other consent do you need, when you've swapped numbers, perhaps  i need to fill in a consent form. . and its consented not concented, since i too know.

Good Girl:
She is not playing hard-to-get. She just doesn't want you. Period.

i concur, the chick no dey interested abeg move on, they are plenty more fish in the sea,

origina9ja:
@sesman
i kno the thread said chat about anything
but introduction first
who be you??

oh my bad,, am me, sesman, what do you want to know?

nana:
I give my number to some but scare them off when they call. . .

ibkaye:
Hahahahaha exactly!

why scare them off i thought you only give out numbers to people you want to speak to, dont give out your number if you dont want to speak to them, its simple or am i missing something here

Moyola:
w0t kan we du yu 4?

nothing, just thinking out loud thats all!!

am hungry, dont know if i want go out this weekend, after last weekend

There is no point worrying over split milk, i think you should move on mate, Goodluck

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7681519.stm

My Brothers and Sisters this is shocking something has to be done about this. The Nigerian Juducial System needs to be dramatically overhauled. It seems totallly unfair for people to be in prison especially death row for crimes they have not committed.

Ehise99:
And you AINT GAT English either, you lowlife motherfu*ker.

Ehise99:
No, she's a filthy Ghana tramp. Please teach me how to insult her in any Nigerian language. I only know some basic words like ashewo, atutupoyoyo, wahala, wayo and such but I want to barf an avalanche of insult on her.

i can't believe am actually replying to this post.i must be so bored!! , the lady in question is ghanian, so how did hell is she going to understand you if you insult her in any Nigerian Language , or is she bilingual

Ujujoan:
@ poster

As difficult as it may seem, I think that’s the best option. Stay away from him. If he has decided to leave you, then the earlier you know the better for you. No need wasting more time around him. Sometimes when a relationship is over, it’s just over. There’s nothing we can do to salvage it. Trust me, I know how hard it can be to let go, but at this point girl, you have no choice. If you don’t leave, sooner or later, he’ll leave you.

If he’s only passing through a phase than you giving him his space is the best thing you can do for him now. I always say when you love a bird you let it fly, if its yours, it’ll definitely come back to you. But if its not, then I’d say s**t happens. And when you really come to think of it, you’ll see the guy doesn’t deserve you one bit.




But guys sha . . .  how can a guy be sleeping with his girlfriend’s friend. That’s the height of betrayal if you ask me.  

Thats why I say guys are a**holes  

so what about the girl sleeping with her bestfriends man, so she is exempt from all this, is she?

well poster, ill recommend you still take Ujujoan's advice, just ignore the "Thats why I say guys are a**holes" part,

shegirl71:
Oh ok,I get it a little bit now,i think you should just leave your boyfriend to collect his money if he was to.she is a ghanian not a Nigerian so i think the language u will most likely want to learn is the Ghanian language.

Shegirl71, no mind am o!!, so na cursing go solve the problem abi, just sort it out between yourselves and leave us out of it, jeez, some people are so dumb,

shegirl71:
Oh ok,I get it a little bit now,i think you should just leave your boyfriend to collect his money if he was to.she is a ghanian not a Nigerian so i think the language u will most likely want to learn is the Ghanian language.

Shegirl71, no mind am o!!, so na cursing go solve the problem abi, just sort it out between yourself and leave us out of it, jeez, some people are so dumb,

no mate!!! you're the funny one act your age not your shoe size!

Baro:
It's true.
The incestuous relationship between a father and his daughter in Ibadan has resulted in the birth of a baby boy named Samuel, the News Agency of Nigeria reports.
Samuel, now one-month old, is in the custody of the Oyo State Youth Development Council, while his 36-year-old father/come grandfather, Olaolu Adeleke, is being held at the Agodi Prisons, after being arraigned on a three-count charge.
Mr. Kehinde Akinyemi, the Principal Social Welfare Officer at the Council, told NAN on Tuesday in Ibadan, that Samuel was in good health, but needed blood transfusion.
“We are consulting with the management on the issue,” Akinyemi said. NAN gathered that Adeleke turned his 16-year-old daughter (name withheld) into his sex partner after divorcing the mother a few years ago.
Adeleke had been arraigned before Chief Magistrate A. Bolaji on charges of unlawful carnal knowledge, threat to life and intimidation and attempt to kill.
Police Prosecutor, Benjamin Akindoyin, told the court that the accused committed the offences, punishable under Sections 284 (3), 358 and 509 of the Criminal Code Cap 38, Vol. 11 Laws of Oyo State of Nigeria.
The prosecutor said that the accused committed the act between December 2007 and March 2008.
When the case came up for hearing on Tuesday, it was adjourned till October 20 because the Chief Magistrate was on her annual vacation.

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200810081313484

now!! thats sickening, its nothing new, but its still shocking all the same, God Help us

who cares

oh and secondly you might want to check your dictionary for "insure" as there is such a word. maybe not used in the right context,

JazzyJ:
it is unsure not insure
firstly der is no such word as insure
secondly insured?
errrr.
error
sorry i m an english teacher
i cnt stand simple grammar mistakes like this
y do u say that? bout the reality show?
does what i say amuse u so much?

and here's the pot calling the kettle black , You also making a lot of spelling and gramatical mistake, my dear English Teacher

~Sauron~:
I am afraid, he didn't quit.

Ya boy/f is still shagging his ex. . . . .whether u like it or not.
U are clearly under-estimating the power of close proximity.
The more they see each other and talk in an enclosed space, the more likely they are going to end up between the sheets.

I totally agree with this, your boy is obviously still having his and cake and eating it, you need to sort it out before you it is too late, all the best,

Siena:
Too convoluted a tale too even comprehend, you're not clear.

Moved to Romance section.

not clear indeed,

olajimi07:
my last relationship fall aside brcos my demand for sex.

Dude, there is a similar topic on the forum, under (Is Sex The Most Important Thing In A Relationship? ) you might wanna check that out for answers,

playah P:
NOW THIS ONE IS JUST A SIMPLE QUESTION TO THOSE OF US that EVER HAD A TRAUMATIC RELATIONSHIP,


what WAS THE WORST QUALITY UR EX HAD AND WHY DID YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM/HER



[i][/i] THIS IS MY OWN TRUE LIFE STORY.

i broke up with mine because she was double dating and actually fixed a wedding date with the other guy but was just dating me to get more money for the wedding,
it was after i found out that d pieces started fitting into the puzzle,
that was when i realised that she had just been playing me and the most remarkable was the time that she lied to me that she needed my assistance to open up a new boutique and i gave her some cash but i never got to see the boutique because wenever i asked her bout it she said that she invested it in the stock market sooo that the money would grow and maybe she can open a big boutique and a restaurant,
when i found out and confronted her she was speechless,
that was one of the toughest moment of my life because i just wanted to loose my self control but somehow i managed to scale through without anyone getting hurt and for a moment i just felt like oohhh GOD is this me,
i wanted to ruin her wedding by telling her other guy that she been double dating and stealing but i asked myself what is the use
she FOOLED me and yeah i was blind but i shouldnt ruin her chance of getting married AND somehow i managed to Attend their wedding and wish her well in my mind,
i wish her welll(haaa, even God would find it hard 2 forgive), they had their second child last month,

u see this shitz making me feel reallly bad,

now thats tough, am sorry!! i think you should continue to be who you are and the right person will come along surely, it takes abig person to do what you did! ill never forgive her,


well i broke with my ex cos the love wasn't equal, i love her more than she loves me and that certainly didn't feel right, so i had to let go,

Mine is from when Harry met Sally,


Harry to Sally:

"I love the way that it takes you ten minutes to order your food. I love the way you get that crease in your forehead when you look at me. I love the fact that your the last person I want to talk to at night and the first person I want to talk to in the morning"

thats just cool!!

ammamat:
Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women
Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life, and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

Talking about "everyday" stuff, is not a bad thing, at least it shows you are normal, and real, if a woman ask me about my job,it shows she has an interest in what i do and her telling me about what she does means she wants me to get to know her, there is nothing boring about that, communicating love and enjoyment is all well and good, but its not the only thing that keeps a man attracted or interested, "everyday stuff is good too, it shows you are connected to reality, there is no point of being something you are not,

juniremix:
hi my name is Anthony from aba Nigeria age 21,back in complexion,need a respectful god fearing ladies from aba and abia state university uturu
mail2onwukwe@yahoo.co.uk
07031131703

mate!, you might want to put your ad in the dating section! ladies the answers to your prayers is here,

iceland:
Nigger and negro don't mean the same and the pronuounciations are different.Did you get that?
Call me a negro,i will smile But a nigga?Hell no

shegirl71:
Mr wannabe,I don't think any sane person will nt ask questions when they see a txt like that,And one more thing it is nt a mentality it is culture and you Mr wannabe hip hop guy u are completely lost if u think culture is mentality.I imagine if u saw a txt like that on your fathers phone.God has absolutely nothing to do with this he gave us brains to think,and dear friend you are nt using urs very well.

You couldnt have wrote it better dnt mind him he is just another want to-be.

He is obviously an attention seeker, who has nothing constructive to say! we all have better things to do than to argue with someone like him,

sistawoman:
If i was texting my mom I would say say Hey to her. I would say i miss you. If i was texting my ex husbands mom i would say the same and would not find it strange to have my man text my mom the same way.

Now the fact that I am an American i would not text an Nigerian that way. Because based on the responses here one might be lead to believe that men f,ck their MIL's all the time and that women have to be overly concerned with everything their man sends to their moms.

I would never believe my man to be fu,cking my mom unless i walked in on them doing the do. This is just not acceptable behavior in our culture. At least not among blacks, now among oyinbos that is a different story.

Sistawoman, we are certainly not saying that, if i can speak for the others, what we are saying is, in our Nigerian Culture, it is not apporpirate to send a txt message like that to your Girlfriends mom. this is deemed as being disrespectul.

iceland:
English Language is not ours.If we want to make use of the language,let's use it the way it would be used by the owners.Read the quote below,she's an american!

The poster's girlfriend is not an American, so can i suggest you have a full understanding of the topic before making any ill-judged comment.