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They sell more fuel when prices are lower, so they are using the press to pressure him.

nairalanda1:
Oga seun, I rarely, if ever do this, but after a lot of thought, I think you should tell your mods to sit up.

One cannot have a discussion on this site, or make comments on this site without having people being immature in their responses to one's opinions.

It kind of knocks the fun on this site out.

I realize people are not happy, but it is not right that one should be regulary abused, and nothing is done about it...whatever the beliefs.

Good morning, and sorry for the interruption.

Do you report them?

Lalasticlala (nlfpmod), mynd44 and dominique are paid supermods.

raumdeuter:
You have known each other for over a decade, you have had positive input in each others business for years
He credits your platform for being his launchpad, He credited you for being one of those who suggested the name of his first blog among other things. He was also a mod on your forum for many years

If he is not a friend to you in the strict sense of it, I believe he is someone you have related to cordially for several years and he deserves that courtesy from you

Can we talk? I'll send you a DM. I need to get to the root of this perception.

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He did that with the EndSARS protesters and they did not respond to his pleas.

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Sigh. I seem to have exhausted the questions. Thanks to everyone for participating.

Even if I LOVED being criticized, this is an AMA. You can make your domestic abuser supporting statements elsewhere. Create your own thread.

CyrusVI:
My own worry is how u intend to repair this damaged friendship, now that the wife denied all allegations of domestic abuse and everything is in his favour?

His wife's denial was expected. The magistrate obviously didn't believe it but they treated him appropriately as a first times offender. The relationship between me and Jarus was highly overrated and will never be repaired.

maasoap:
Are you close to his wife, like her friend to warrant protecting her from her husband when you admitted that you and her husband are not friends or close?

That was sarcasm. Obviously I'm not planning to marry his wife.

Anytime I read about a wife beating, I sympathize with the wife. Especially when the husband is unrepentant.

Do you only help or advocate for people who are very close to you?

Many people here are writing epistles instead of asking questions. Is this not offtopic? Should the moderators not delete the offtopic posts?

I am still taking questions.

Kenochi:
I weak oooo,I am really trying very hard to understand that the owner of an influential website will open a thread to clear the air on a perceived disagreement with a former moderator

I'm proud that I created this thread and shared my views. I care more about truth and facts than about being approved of by everyone.

If people dislike me for truthful reasons, that's fine. What stings is when the reasons you're disliked are false. That's what I came here to tackle.

I'm enjoying the serenity of Nairaland and the freedom to fully express my thoughts here.

descartes400:
That's what I expected of him, giving his history with jarus. He should have just sat it out.. least he is accused of being a meddlesome interloper in a friend's marital affairs especially when you and the friend are not longer in good terms.

I did not feel that we were close enough for me to suspend my bashing of polygamy. The response of Jarus proved me right.

Did he just started preaching about the evils of polygamy just about the time his friend or ex-friend was about marrying a second wife? Is that a coincidence?

No. See below:

descartes400:
If it was not a dig at Jarus, he should cite EVIDENCE of his consistency of his views about polygamy being a legalized adultery.

That particular tweet was certainly not a dig at Jarus because I didn't know about his troubles at that point. Search my profile for polygamy.

dapotemi:
Okay good.
Pls confirmed if at any time he was your employee(staff) or biz partner?

He was a moderator in the politics section. He also used to organize Nairaland-themed get-togethers like football matches, Iftar, etc. These were his initiatives. I never asked him to do them nor was I involved. So we were never really close. But a lot of people thought we were. 🤷‍♂️

Also, at a particular point your relationship went sour, what EXACTLY happen?

I think we just aren't compatible. Our values seem to be very different. Also, I think I didn't trust him & he thought I was crazy the whole time.

In your own mind, why exactly do you think is the reason for his anger towards you?

He has admitted that he is a temperamental person. Right now, he is angry because I didn't support him for striking his wife in the face.

You refer to him as a friend, do you think you've acted as a friend when he had that situation last week?

I can't recall referring to him as a friend. If I did, I have forgotten. His followers believe we're close friends. I'm guessing that he told them.

BlueRayDick:
Hi Seun, what caused your initial fallout with Jarus?

There is no fallout. The dude never liked me as a person. He liked my brand and my platform. We were never actually friends, though I tried.

Also seeing the way u jumped on the polygamy issue when the Jarus news broke the internet only for u to claim u didn’t know it was Jarus that was involved sounded a bit petty

When I posted my first viral tweet where I said polygamy is legalized adultery, I didn't know that Jarus was in trouble. But after that, I knew.

Why didn’t u just avoid joining that discussion since u know anything u say would be used against u considering ur standing in the social media space and ur past history with Jarus himself ?

I considered deleting the "legalized" tweet for a moment, but the arrogant tone of his defence of wife beating and polygamy made me not feel bad for him. I saw him as the aggressor and not the victim. I considered speaking to him, but from his antecedents I knew I wasn't going to change his mind. I was likely to get cursed out and blocked if I asked him to apologise. Also, I feel very strongly about polygamy and domestic violence. I had to choose between offending Jarus and acting against my conscience and my principles. It was a very easy choice.

Sapiosexuality:
I think Nairaland has more pressing issues that need addressing

This is offtopic, isn't it?
1. Please post all threads in the right section, and don't derail threads by posting off topic.

reccy:
Seun, how do you feel now, knowing fully the issue has been addressed by the court. What should be your relationship with him going forward?

We are now enemies, but I still admire his ability to get people to defend him despite striking his wife in the face. I still want to learn his tricks.

aljharem:
He mentioned you are jealous of him. Is it true and what gave him the impression.

StopTheBan:
What do you think made him say You are jealous of him??

It's more accurate to say that I admired him and wanted to learn his tricks. I even called him one of my role models.

Unperturbedpota:
Seun have you tried not judging and minding your business?

I'm sorry, but if you punch your wife in the face, I won't mind my business. Polygamy and wife beating are contrary to my values. Don't try it.

Unperturbedpota:
Do you mean psychiatric?

It is no longer considered fashionable to speak ill of people and mock them because you think that they may have mental health challenges.

seuncyrus:
You tweeted - Marrying a second wife is legalized adultery. Could this have been a subtle Jab at your friend Jarus.

That particular statement was not a jab at Jarus. I did not know that he punched his wife in the face when I posted that. However, when people started to say "how could you post that, he is your friend" I learned that Jarus had struck his wife in the face. I briefly considered deleting my tweet but the arrogance of his justification for beating his wife made me angry. In particular, the phrase "a dog that is destined for doom will not hear the whistle of the hunter" suggesting he thought that he was right to disrespect and injure his wife made me feel disgusted.

What exactly happened between you two that made him not to follow you back on twitter ?

To me, the reconciliation was a PR stunt on his part, to please his followers who thought we were close friends, & make himself look "mature".