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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 2:14am On Jan 04, 2022 |
sorom4: It is obvious many here are not married and they all sees marriage in a particular ways. From my observation female here sees marriage as slavery which have to be compensated by men paying bills through their nose while men sees marriages as financial bandage which has to be defined b4 marriage. Non of this assumptions is true and it is not a good mindset because people are already taking position of war before marriage. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 2:03am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Like I v said, all this is mind set. If it is from my interpretation, I will gladly accept and if my wife sees this proposal I don't think she will also complain but if people have small mind and roll with similar people they will think in other direction. We all can't interpret things in the same way, it has to be within our own realm, frame of mind and exposure. It is even obvious op does not know what it takes to run a family by his list and likewise majority of men and women here seems to be single from their conversation. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 1:54am On Jan 04, 2022 |
ivolt: Yes he could v been a fiction but this will open many people's eyes, this is a very important conversation and I v been able to peep into many people's mind here. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 1:44am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy:@Bolded, I don't know op but I don't think those responsibilities falls only on the wife, majority of men are already doing this. Let me give you instance, I stays in a compound of four occupants and majority of times I hears my neahbour in the kitchen just the same time I'm in the kitchen, we all meet at laundry point together and we gist about politics, economy and latest business in town at Laundry point. The grocery is done now adays by men or both husband and wife, u needs to go to super markets to see what I'm saying even local market is full of men or u see men stand by the car while women goes in to buy. To be honest, I don't know the kind of men some ladies roll with but in my circle, homes, friends, environment all u mentioned are not exclusively women's thing again. On the issue of meat, the op said he will buy food in bulk which is what I do, do u care to know exactly what he will buy in bulk? Meat, fish, chicken can also be bought in bulk and the supplement could be some things that got exhausted before the next bulk purchase which could even be rice not necessarily meat. What I see here is small mind, if op's list was interpreted by me, he has done majority of the house spending but all this depends on mind set. I noticed women buys things in small quantity all the time while men buys things in large quantity once every 3 months or so, this might affect ur interpretations or op's girlfriend interpretation, it took my wife quite a while before she got used to bulk purchase of food stuff including meat or any thing at all. Infact op's list is more or less our list in my house except the vacation things, my wife supplement the food stuff pending the time I will make d next bulk purchase. On cable subscription, yes my wife pays for it even though it was not mandated by me I normally pays 6 to 12 months advanced subscription and when dstv messed up my subscription by mismanaging my advanced payment I vow never to give dstv my money again and I downgraded to only cartoon channels for my kids but she picked it up because it affected her own entertainment. Like I v said, this things is mind set, any lady that have a big mindset will care to know the details of op's list before she bolt because if I interpretes op's list, the lady should be very happy to take the responsibility except the vacation thing. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 1:00am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Calling him stingy despite contributing 80% of his income shows the entitlement mentality of average Nigerian girls. Yes some things in that list are outrageous, it shows he doesn't even know what day to day running of family is but calling him stingy with this plan is very wrong. Do u noticed op even shot himself in the foot by saying he will buy car and maintain it which includes fueling the car? I hope u know transportation is out of her concern? He said hospital bills will be his also. Ladies are just mad that the guy dear to plan the woman's income into the family which is how it should be in the first place but they way daughters are brought up, they tend to think it is wrong. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 12:44am On Jan 04, 2022 |
zimach: The guy he will buy car and maintain it. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 12:43am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Cocao: We can't say he should look for women that earns more otherwise who will marry the one than earn less if everybody just looks for high income earner, men can be acting like women. However I feels Op should just remove some unnecessary spending such as vacation from that list. It is extremely unnecessary to contribute more that 10% of ur income on vacation because their are other things we do as a family that is much more important than that, example is building/buy ur home. I believe the budget would have been reasonable if it that vacation was for mortgage and the said lady wouldn't have felt drown. In all things being said, the lady also have entitlement mentality if she truly told her friends he is stingy. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 12:32am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Killermamba: Do u read where he said he will buy and maintain cars. People needs to define this things from the beginning as he has done otherwise women will feel it is ur responsibilities to handle yours, family and thier needs while they hold on to their own and occasionally drop when they see that u are sinking. I learn in a hard way before I realized that I don't have saving nor can I provide for my parents while my wife spends lavishly on her parents and siblings because she doesn't contribute much at home. I stealthily transfered some responsibilities to her without her even knowing, by the time she realized it, I v already made it her obligation and I'm dumping more as time goes on. Now I can plan for other things that is of concern to the future of our family such as building house for us. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 12:18am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Twoclans: U need to understand that many modern girls are extremely unhelpful when it comes family responsibilities, u can even deduce from some comments u read here. I will never say all of them are irresponsible about family contribition because their are substantial number of them who are, but in all honesty many are not. I can even use my friend's circle as example, many are working and hustling day and night but are always tight handed toward family to support their husband, they feels they can only contribute once he is in tight corner and if they do the whole family and friends will know about it. However the old women, uneducated women and non materialistic/unsophisticated women are opposite, they tends to be committed to their family, contribute their best to support their homes and some are even the bread winner in their home. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by seunfly: 12:02am On Jan 04, 2022 |
dobnina: Ahha |
Celebrities / Re: Mo Bimpe Speaks On Marriage To Lateef Adedimeji (Pics) by seunfly: 5:03pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
Ok, your husband is acting childishly. |
Phones / Re: Screenshot And Post Your Data Usage In The Month Of December by seunfly: 2:11am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Mine is 88.38GB I watch alot of documentaries on YouTube via hotspot.
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Phones / Re: Tiktok Ousts Google To Become Favourite Online Destination by seunfly: 11:13pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Pauldollars: You brought google into discussion and u are saying they are different things. If u think they are different, why did u bring google into d discussions in the first place. That was why I said I don't know where to start explaining things to u. |
Phones / Re: Tiktok Ousts Google To Become Favourite Online Destination by seunfly: 11:06pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Pauldollars: I don't even know where to start my explanation from, the only thing to tell u is that tiktok has gone beyond video and it is evolving into learning apps. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Aftermath Of Next Cash And Carry Supermarket Fire (Photos, Video) by seunfly: 11:01pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Forumobserver12: Go back and read it slowly, make sure u take note of the word might and if possible confirm very from ur dictionary. 2 Likes |
Phones / Re: Tiktok Ousts Google To Become Favourite Online Destination by seunfly: 10:16pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Pauldollars: Says who? Right now I'm learning Chinese on it. Tiktok has gone beyond funny videos and YouTube and and others have started to copy Tiktok's model. 1 Like |
Business / Re: Aftermath Of Next Cash And Carry Supermarket Fire (Photos, Video) by seunfly: 9:54pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
jrusky: Do u mind them? Always looking for ways to play victim and twist things but if it was otherway round they will rejoice and claim nemesis or say it is well deserves. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: Aftermath Of Next Cash And Carry Supermarket Fire (Photos, Video) by seunfly: 9:51pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
mancanoe: They are not into similar core area, Hmedix is drugs and provision store while next cash and carry is much more than that. But why do u people always look for somebody else to blame for accidents that might have been internally orchestrated to cover up fraud. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by seunfly: 6:57am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Tallesty1: U are one in millions of average Nigerians. Many Nigerians don't know how to decifer the truth out of oneside of the story, the first to report a case and paint a scenario is who they support and vilify the other party without consideration that majority of people will paint themselves as Saint while the party they are reporting will always be evil. No wonder Nigerian police also act this way because they are selected from the pool of people who reasons this way. |
Autos / Re: Registered Toyota Camry 2016 SE For Sale In Lagos- SOLD!!! by seunfly: 3:06am On Nov 20, 2021 |
ok |
Phones / Re: Oppo Find X4 “the Samsung Galaxy S22 Killer” Had First Details Revealed by seunfly: 7:13am On Nov 10, 2021 |
The problem of OPPO find X series is that oppo did not focus on a particular niche to be better than other flagship, therefore no reason for people to look up to their next series. The find X1 provided practical solution to front facing camera which gave them exposure, X2 is not different from One plus 8 Series and X3 focused on another thing entirely which is micro camera, the camera almost replicates microscope. I don't think this strategy will take them far in the industry. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: She Was Deceived Into Prostitution Abroad. by seunfly: 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
@Kaynnedy Contact NAPTIP as soon as possible. 1 Like |
Health / Re: Workers Shut Down ABSUTH Indefinitely Over 22 Months Salary Arrears by seunfly: 5:45pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Ok |
Sports / Re: Oshoala Scores A Brace & Provides An Assist As Barcelona Beat Real Sociedad 8-1 by seunfly: 6:45am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Ok |
Sports / Re: Chelsea Extend Their Lead At Top Of Premier League Table With 3 - 0 Win by seunfly: 7:58am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Ok |
Politics / Re: ICPC Recovers 301 Houses From Two Civil Servants In Abuja by seunfly: 5:53am On Oct 29, 2021 |
This is not new, anybody that is conversant with Abuja and all this government agencies knows this. NCC, National Export promotion Council, Nexim Bank, FIRS, Custom, CBN, FMBN, Ministry of Defence, Ministry of works and Housing, Accountant General, NNPC, Bank of Industry, NSITF, PENCOM/PENSIONS BOARD, AMCON, Bureau of public procurement, NEMA, PETF, PDTF, Nigerdelta Ministry etc if u are a minister, MD, perm sec, Director etc in all this organization, u are sitting on more money than many state governors, infact only few state governors can compete with CBN governor, NNPC GMD, minister of Defence, custom controller General and FIRS boss. 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Business / Re: FBN Holdings Appoints Nnamdi Okonkwo As GMD by seunfly: 5:20am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Penguin2: Lol always chest beating. I blame detribalised Otedola and other Yoruba goons. We know what will happen if it was Obi and co. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: 4 PDP Governors In Closed-Door Meeting With Mimiko by seunfly: 3:03pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
They have started gathering themselves to loot the country again. Like I said I wish the youth can just arrange themselves and force out all this blood sucking devilish PDP and APC instead of yeye endsars protestest sponsored by PDP. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: PDP Renaissance Group Tackles Governors, Stakeholders Over Comment On Secondus by seunfly: 4:08pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
I just wish both pdp and apc will just disappear. |
Career / Re: Should Relatives, Friends Know The Exact Amount You Earn by seunfly: 4:05pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
They will use it to mock u if it is presumed low or bill you if it is high. 4 Likes |
Business / Re: CBN Releases Guidelines For Enaira by seunfly: 4:48am On Oct 26, 2021 |
Ok 1 Like |
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