I miss my girl so much. We had everything goin on for us. The sex was da bomb, she was a chef in d kitchen & was a knockout. She kept getting cat calls whenever we walked d street 2gether. Best of all, we were birthday mates. She went on a trip to france, had wine with her colleagues cousin & BANG, they slept 2gether. She came back pregnant for the guy and didn't tell me until months after delivering in far away USA.

I had 2 end d relationship but we still r buddies. She asking me 2 4give her & get married 2 her.

My fiancee has that all over her butt & i get pissed whenever i look @ her. Is there any cure for it? Better still, is there any exercise that she can do 2 get d 'baby butt' smoothness back? Funny enough, she's really slim but her moms is quite fat. Is it a hereditary thing too?

@cute-ass, thanks 4 d words of advice. U really understand this game we're playing. We'll definitely sort things out & become better friends at d end of d day. I'll put everything u've said 2 practice.

@ davidylan, i feel u man. Matter of fact, im gonna b making a surprise trip to see her & i'll b strapped with a package dat'll sweep her off her feet.

Aww, dat is so sweet. Falling in love & keeping the fire burning is a lifetime project. I'll make sure i do everything within my power 2 keep d fire buring. Thanx again.

@adeboo, thanx 4 sharing this with me. I'll send her a couple of texts that should do d trick.

Women, God really created u people.

@ultrafem, nice observation. Funny enuff she works with a telecoms firm & call rates r cheaper 4 them. Be that as it may, if she wants 2 get her own back, it's ok with me. We must disagree 2 agree. My point is that communication, no doubt, is key. But must we communicate everyday? Also, must i reassure her that i love her everyday?

@uspry1, thanx. U have a large heart. i'll have look @ d topic. But one thing i know is dat theory is different from real life scenarios.

The problem is that she's not in working in lagos otherwise iwould have called her over. I understand that she's missing me as much as i do her but whn i don't call when she expects, she shouldn't feel that i don't love her anymore. She's trying to be 2 protective and it seems she doesn't understand that at times i need my space.

My fiance is really pissing me off. She complains that i do not call her as much as she calls me. Most times when we talk, we spend a minimum of 20mins, which to me is good enough time. We talk about everything and i expect that she should understand that after talkiing for a long time the previous day, we should give ourselves some space. Unfortunately she's not having none of that. The new twist to this is that after she called to ask me why i don't call her as much as she calls me, i decide 2 succumb 2 her request to try & call her as often as i can . I now place several calls to her fone & it rings without her picking. I even send her texts & she doesn't reply. That was 2 days ago. I sent her a text yesterday & called her fone without her picking or even replying my text. I'm pissed because if i take time out to call her & she sees my missed calls and texts without replying, i can safely conclude that she's out on a revenge mission. I have decided not to call or text her so that i'll c how far she's prepared to take this. How do you think i should handle this?

@gmyguy, i think you should enrol in a monsatery since u're a perfect candidate for celibacy

@busygirl, ur lips r so luscious, i'd love 2 find out how ur lipstick tastes on them

@odada, i've been watching from a distance how this drama u described has been playing itself out and i think you played yourself. One of the rules about bing a player is to undastand that there's no strings attached, i'm sure ur jand friend knew dat & dats y he went for the kill behind ur back. Seems 2 me u weren't man enough to go d extra mile.

Girls are very susceptible and gullible, so act like nothing happened and still relate with her. The idea is 2 get ur pound of flesh. Come on, think of all d investment u've made on her & u're going 2 let her bounce without hitting the skinz?

Well, it depends on the way the relationship ended. If u guys ended it as friends, you can still relate with him without attaching any strings. It will show maturity.

On the otherhand, if you guys ended it because of jealousy, half truths, hearsays, cheating or one person feeling he/she is 2 much for the other, chances are that the chips are down and maybe a realisation that wrong perception and judgement was employed in terminating the relationship: a reconciliation might be in the offing.

Whatever the case may be, two wrongs don't make a right. I believe u should still carry on as if u're unperturbed about him visiting you and all. Also, whenever he visits, make it a point of duty to subtly introduce your new boyfriend into your every conversation. This is to see if he is jealous or wants you back.

The bottom line is love. If love is involved, it will bring him back to you.

Many times you don't know the value of a person till u lose him/her

@Tinky, I think y'all should have a menage a'trois. That's the after party suprise. Mind u, he should have taken enough glasses of Moet

@ Baby Italy, y would u say there's no man in nairaland when im here?

*_{DHL a vibrator to her}*