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FarmTech: Christianity is not all about getting involve in activities. It is about the way you live your life. I know a lot of women that are just hypocrites. You go to church but you dress immorally, isn't that nonsense?

but the Nigerian men do not seem to follow it either the only thing they are good at is demanding authority over those who are weaker

and the fat is these women accept christ weather you call them hypocrites or liars. at the end of the day they accept christ and that is what is being a christian.

Revolva: naija women serve which God...lies


they are more than hypocrite...i never hear say na naija women they serve God pass..woman tha are never unfaithful and are full of temptations

and you drink boos all day long,funny how you meet the women.

FOLYKAZE: Women are more than men in church because they went there to worship and show off their pastors.


How many married women out there can respect their husband like pastor? Hardly can you find one that will knee down for her husband at home but if they see the pastor in distant, they will knee down straight away. How many of them can serve their husband but you will see them 24 hours in church serving pastors


Also, women go crazy with fear. Man can still hold things to himself but women cant at all. If anyone of them hear a prophesy, they go gaga and fear mount on them all.

Since religion is created and sold out through fear of the unknown, definately women will be more than men in the church

Because a pastor showed his love and humbleness to God ,while you expect your wife to be submissive to you ,yet you cannot do your part also and be submissive to God.


A pastor does his part,and if you can't follow yours ,why should your wife follow hers.

Mr knowitall.:
Because Nigerian man can recognize game...he can notice a pimmp on the pulpit when he sees one...but women are easily

sweet talked by pastors so many of them get pimped by pastors....but most man will never fall for that....and for the most

part men are rational thinkers so its difficult for a man to really be religious....

The same reason why there are more male pastors in church than female is the same reason why there are more male pimmps

than female...

see what having no education can do. Living in a male dominated society it is expected that the pastors are males. prostitutes also get male pimps because a male love-vendor can protect and fight another male love-vendor, especially again in a male dominated society.

i would love to see a women pastor one day ,maybe more men would come. yet again a lot of you would probably not sit down to learn the word of God ,since you cannot bow down to God yourself.

Orikinla: But majority of Nigerian women don't know how spiritually powerful they are.

For example, the poor woman who was crippled by the NYSC camp commandant can simply go before our Almighty God JEHOVAH in her birthday suit and ask God to avenge her. Then she will see how powerful she is.

A mother with a troubled child can also do the same and see how God will answer her.

The fact that every man comes into this planet earth through a woman is enough to show women that they can influence the characters of men and shape the characters of nations.
But unfortunately instead of using the power of their womanhood and motherhood positively, they use it negatively and so have abused and misused the essence of their unique existence on earth.

They continue to behave like Eve in most cases. And what happened to Eve continues to happen to them.
Until they stop behaving like Eve and start behaving like the Virgin Mary, Queen Esther and Judge Deborah, our women will never realize and fulfill their divine destinies on earth no matter the amount of eye service and lip service they pay to God.
No one can flatter God.
You may deceive the whole world, but you can never deceive the God.
He is omnipotent, omnipresent and omniscient.

You say this but you don't tell me the fault of men. God put us in charge and we have caused more destruction then any women could imagine.

Fhemmmy: [b]Have u been to heaven to have access to this information?[/b]



It is not only in Nigeria, it is everywhere, and so sad cos these are men that ought to lead their home but action of some women that attends church too is not good enough to win the men over - Complicated topic but nice one

See what i mean they platy as if they are God themselves.

I understand if they are not religious , i don't force religion on anyone but if they are.They might as well follow God . not lie that they are religious and tell their wives to do their part . yest neglect their own part.Kinda like boko haram killing ppl in the name of Allah ,yet having sex and drugs in their camps.

Chiilove: Have u ever askd ursf y majority of d Angels mentiond in d bible were al men? In church on earth, men are scare but in heaven women are scarce and men are numerous because of our dressing. May God help women 2 serve God in obedience..

This is very stupid.

Angels are gender less.

and this ignorant mind of yours is whats gunna take you too hell.

From these comments i believe the reason is,Nigerian men do not like to be controlled and follow a higher authority.
Yes no one is perfect in church but at least these women come to show their faith weather they are a prostitute or not they still accept the word of God.
Everyone sins but only some repent . i notice its mostly women who do this. While the men run around sinning like crazy and is not humble enough to bow down to God and ask for forgiveness.Serving God also does not mean just going to church it means practicing Gods words in general. So leave pastor stealing your money out of it.

and what a stupid question to ask why their is no female pastors ,shows how ungodly you are to not know. the reason is most of you are in denial ,as the women on the other hand admit to their faults.


As i said pastor sexsinners. repent don't wait until your nearly dead.

To all the haters weather you like it or not virginity and abstinence should be preached. Don't you see most of the ppl marching are underage.Teens need to feel proud of who they are and what they stand for , sex brings a lot of responsibilities that a teen cannot handle, like pregnancy.


so because they are not preaching having sex like most media and stars are doing today ,you want to make them feel ashamed.

so people who are having sex can preach it ,but people who do not can't

pathetic

Btw this is not me,this is a girl i am helping.

i use to be a super blessed person, everything i wanted , i always achieved.Life wasn't the greatest dealing with the death of my mother at 13.Yet i still had my gifts of being strong and being able to move on with life,and do my best.I always had good intentions ,for myself and other people.I am a very kind person who is very cautious of my sins. i repent daily even when i judge people.


It all started in university.My first year of university i did brilliant,didn't fail any classes Sept one ,but i passed it when i took it in the summer.My troubles started when i started school in fall, i was doing great in the beginning,but as soon as it was November came found myself failing everything ,even when i tried my hardest.strange things like sudden headaches ,panic attacks ,late/broken buses,messed up computer,illnesses ,all came at once anytime i wanted to do my work and progress.I cared so much about school that i went for help,the help that i got from my school was terrible,they were ignorant to my situation and could not understand what i was going through.I even went to my doctor,but he just labelled it as a mental illness,but is hesitant to get me further help,plus therapy was $ and i was broke.Eventually summer came and i still had the same problem,.Without any help to know what my problem was, i had to fight myself and i was angry at myself daily.Everything i did resulted with bad news, frds ,family,school,love and job.I tried to be positive ,but i am starting to believe God took my blessings away from me ,because he is mad at me. I have become a victim to almost everything i do.

I am not progressing in anything at all, i often feel my soul is dying ,because my days are dark,this has been happening for almost two years ,now and my situations are getting worse. i have been to church , I've been prayed for,but nothing good is happening.No doors are opening for me, am losing my motivation and determination. God did not promise us that there will be no problems in our life but he did promise us a safe landing.

but , i have no desire to fight anymore.

I know women are more naturally emotional.Yet,their certain step that women take and sacrifice to serve God. Like' when i am at church it is majority women who sing along ,and get involved.Hardly do i see their husbands there with them doing the same thing. I only see the women and children there.Also it's rare for me to hear of my Nigerian brothers fasting ,and if they do it will be a short fast with little prayers.They are also not faithful to what they say ,they often see no harm in dishonesty ,and don't see no harm in adultery.They rather work work all the time,eat, and sleep,but do not give at least an hour of their day to pray.

I tend to come across Nigerian men who claim to be christian but behave like an atheist.They play God by, requesting for an abortion ,when they get a girl outside of marriage pregnant.They take demand into their own hands instead of following the word of God.And sing praise Jesus ,even if they got their money illegally or with sin ,example (D'banj).

You see you may yell at me or insult me pastor sexsinners ,but it's the truth.Repent now and start following God.

[quote author=dellaziz][/quote]you've probably know or raped a person b4 and let me tell you. you will face the consequences ,you will not escape what you have done. God will catch you.

repent nowww

Monicasque: we all know that guys are visual beings so when they see something most of them go for it. Even us ladies we know that if you wana catch a guy you must check the way you present yourself so i would suggest that ladies who do not want to be victims they take care of how they dress on the other hand i do not understand why men rape old woman and kids and ladies who are just normal dressers those maybe rapists are shit upstairs

they will be victims no matter what way they dress ,nothing is 100%. A women can wear a burka and still get raped.the only effective way they cannot be a victim is if they are with someone at all times.

rapist on average go for girls tht are alone, decent dressing or not.

Soooo many uneducated idiots in the house today , may your daughters never get raped.

You are not an animal , you have control over your body , if you cannot control it and you want to harm someone just simply cut off your dick.If you want to justify rape ,then killing/injuring a rapist is just as justifiable because they are behaving on their uncontrollable emotions too.

rapist beware and girls if you want to dress indecent or whatever make sure to carry a knife with you at all times ,so you can cut whoever touches you its only fair.

Lol To all those guys saying a naturally curvy ,(not fat girl) will explode after marriage.

The thing is we live in 2013 there are tuns of workouts(proven by beyonce),to keep their shape.while marrying a lekpa who naturally does not have a curvy shape will stay the same before and after marriage.plain with no ass and boobs(even when they work out).

while a curvy girl with ass,boobs and and a small waist can go bk to that same shape after having kids(when they work out). i have seen this happen ,and more women and men are making it a priority that they work out.

am sick of Muslims not allowing us Christians to be ourselves,yet they complain when thy are restricted from their practice in A christian area.

hypocrites

tosh_acer: Even parents slap and beat their wards, what rights are you talking about?

rights to not physically or verbally assault the people they employ into their house. duh

Often when i see Nigerian movies , i see the owner yell or slap the house helpers.I also sometimes see them get raped and beaten,and no police is called into the scene.It is almost like they are slaves but get paid for it.They are physically and mentally abuse daily by their owners,and are often threaten everyday that they will loose their job.

Do these "people" in Nigeria have rights even thought they are not educated, and financially well off.

I know i said i saw this in movies ,but you cannot deny that this really happens in Nigeria. house owners assault their house helpers ,and if they do have rights for them ,i believe their employers should read them their rights to not being verbally or physically assaulted.

I don't know why no none here can process into their brains of what your post is about. But i completely understand it and think you are correct.

for those who are confused reread it and focus only on the post ,don't think of other scenarios like married guy,just use your head.

theres nothing skimy about it. ooo nigeria please get your head out of the gutter.idiots should not rule

Why do Boys in Nigeria behave as if ,they have no morals or conscious.I am seeing too much of this in nigeria. The devil lives strong and well in nigeria ,Please start repenting and praying for nigeria to seek light and show morals.

Dolly-Parton:
So boys have lower chance of behaving and going to school abi

I know way to many boys who ,go into the quick rich path ,instead of taking step by step.Also boys are meant to take charge so it's harder to make them listen to your rules.

and that's why it's documented that there are more female graduates than male in college.


from a guy with six sisters.

4 Girls

If you are lucky to raise good girls like my sisters.You will feel blessed.plus girls are more likely to help out with the house,and are more likely to behave and go to school.they are also more caring and emotionally attached.

i will make sure to raise them smart like my sisters.

slimyem: Real virgins almost never talk about it...
#fact!!#

Sorry to burst your bubbles ,but this is only true when you speak of real life. Online virgins love to parade that they are virgin ,especially on cultural sites and religious sites.Remember online people feel free to say whatever ,because no one can find them and they remain anonymous.

khiaa: Hahahahah This is some BS and you know it. Polygamy is more of an advantage to women than men, how did you even form your fingers to type that mess.

i know how you girls are. Think about it if polygamy was very common .Who would you run too?


This is why king Solomon had soo many wives and concubine . i wonder how many ladies were left for other men.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL MEN DON'T WISH for polygamy on us. Polygamy is more of an advantage to women than men. because the richest men will get all the girls . While the poorest men get close to no girls at all.you would miss out on all the hot single ladies,because they would be taken by some rich fool.