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Sunshinelady:
D only thin negative minds saw are d hate replies he got from just 4pple but didnt see d 2,158 likes he got for speakin d truth

I thought I was the only person who noticed this

Cc: lalasticiala mods abeg get this thing to the front page because if na negative news na Kia Kia e go hit front page

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome reconciles with wife Anita

By The Rainbow
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The Senior Pastor of Christ Embassy Church may have finally reconciled with his wife, Anita Oyakhilome (Nee Ebodaghe).

Indications are that the highly celebrated marital crisis which climaxed In the height of their marital Anita seeking divorce based on what she described as her husband’s inexplicable behaviour may have been resolved.

According to Huhuonline.com investigation, Chris over time had developed a habit of surrounding himself with female Church members, some of whom lived with him in his lagos home, popularly referred to as « White House.»

The online news portal reports that some of the ladies, particularly one Pastor Yemisi Kudehinbu, a pharmacy graduate from UNILAG, was a factor in the crisis

The newsonline further reports that the Kudehinbu closeness to Chris Oyakhilome dates back to the 90’s, when she was a Pastor of Christ Embassy Student Fellowship (Believers Love World).

The report further stated, “As soon a Anita travelled to London over the failing health of one of their daughters. Yemisi moved in with Chris. She lived with him, cooked for him, bought his clothes, drove him around and travelled everywhere with him.

“However, she moved out anytime Anita was in Nigeria, but returned as soon as Anita travelled back to London. Even after their daughter fully recovered from her ailment, Anita was not allowed to return to Nigeria, she was only allowed to visit during Church programmes, such as camp meeting e.t.c. Elder T. Oyakhilome, Christian Oyakhilomen’s father intervened several times, but his efforts were rebuffed by his son.

“While Anita Oyakhilome was only allowed to visit her matrimonial home, Yemisi lived and thrived there. Yemisi became so powerful within Christ Embassy that she could hire and fire, she began to override decisions by many senior pastors in the ministry including Anita.

“Irked by this and many other develpoment which we can’t pen down, Anita Oyakhilome sought to be accorded more respect in her home and the ministry she co-founded. When her request was rebuffed by her husband, Chris Oyakhilome, she quit her job as Pastor , stopped attending the Church and filed for divorce.

“Christian Oyakhilomen responded with a televised broadcast, saying: « A child of God must not divorce . » “My wife (Anita) is a bitter woman. I am not a preacher, I am a man of God, where was the wife of Peter or Paul mentioned in the bible.”

“This assertion made many question Chris Oyakhilomen’s understanding of scriptures, because Paul, whom he cited his name, urged Christian men to deal with their wife with understanding. Paul called the wife joint- heir of the grace of life and that if a man does not treat his spouse right his prayer will be blocked.

” In the heat of the crisis, Christian transferred his chief security officer, Pastor Pat, from Lagos to Benin for informing his(Chris) mother about his ordeal and suspended a female Pastor who raised prayer request for his marriage.

“Our checks reveal that Pastor Yemisi Kudehinbu, who lived with Christian Oyakhilomen for more than 18 years playing wifey, had threatened to expose him, if he ever returned to his real wife(Anita). However, it remains to be seen if she will carry out her threat.”

It is not clear whether Pastor Oyakhilome has announced the new development to members of his church, who had at the thick of the crisis appeared to have backed their pastor not minding what might be the truth.

Christ Embassy is a popular church especially among youths in Nigeria. Some other Pentecostal churches see it to overly worldly and its controversial stands on issues like masturbation and drinking of alcohol have marked it out from puritanical bodies.

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The Fulani Daura President

lukecent:
Too long but I managed to finish it.

The truth is Buhari was not preparing for governance before he was elected rather he, Rotimi & co were preparing for violence.
During campaign he was only saying 'I ll fight corruption' 'I ll stop boko haram' 'I ll make one dollar equal one naira etc. He never told us how he ll do all these.
Now he needs time, may be 4 yrs, to work these out.

The Fulani Daura President

That giant is the late bearded warlord

eazisky:
ori e to daru, iyalaya e

A tout will always remain one

What I don't understand is this - Saraki and Dogara are both APC so I don't understand what the problem is all about

Nigeria down 1-0

The Lagos State houseboy Governor looks cool

Blessing Emeka Eze hmmmmn! Na wa!

If she wants a child she can have one easily. Any woman can. Just adopt a child, simple! The child does not have to be your biological child. A child is a child no matter how he/she comes.

eazisky:
FAYOSE!!!! The people's choice, the impeachable FADA!!!

Do you know the meaning of your rant? That means he can be impeached. Oponu!

11 is too old ke. Why don't they make it 5? Awon Oloriburuku!

Judging by the way the bride balanced the crate on her head, she might be an "Omo alata" - a street hawker

The Ikeja State house appears to be more adequate though. The Marina state house was the former federal state house which our presidents lived in when Lagos was still the national capital. Why the federal government ceded it to Lagos State is still a mystery

honvalid:
Im not surprise at all.i think akpororo is over rated for such event.He is my close friend so iknow the programmes dat he can perform well.He is more like 95percent good for church programmes and 50percent okay for circular show.Believe u me he is over rated.They should have give it to Bovi or gandoki.He is not really a total comedian.He only sing,dance and add some jokes when its necessary.

He is your friend yet you feel he is overrated. With friends like you, no one needs an enemy

The tribunal will kick him out

Hmmmmm! The transient nature of power. Ka sha màa serere

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Idrismusty97:
That is actually what we are hoping for years. We want him to just go and rest but he choose to contest for presidency again, Is that someone who misses his so called quiet Ijaw lifestyle?

He did miss his quiet lifestyle. He was tired of the presidency but was persuaded to continue by the Hawks surrounding him. Reluctantly he agreed while praying within himself that he should lose hence his eagerness to concede defeat

ronald4lif:
The perceived failure or the failures of Jonathan as Nigeria’s president stems from one root, he was not a politician. Truth be told, I knew before now, that Jonathan did not only find himself in the corridors of power by sheer grace, it was accidental too. He was unprepared for the rigours of a political office and the management of a team of scavengers, vultures, wildlings and reptiles as is the case in Nigeria. He was weak, because he was not a politician, but a simple country man. He was never power hungry and in fact, in all honesty, from my perspective, was tired of the burden of leadership.

Had Nigeria been a country where people admit their inadequacies, Jonathan should have stepped down long ago, not because he lacked the sincerity, the honesty or a vision as to what Nigeria needs or should become, but like the biblical Moses, he was not the one destined to take Nigeria to the Promised Land and did not possess the physicality of Joshua.

Just yesterday, he again demonstrated his tiredness and saturation with power, by rejecting the offer to become PDP’s BOT chairman. I was an ardent supporter of Buhari and still is but I have one advice, please let's allow Jonathan to go home and rest. He misses his quiet Ijaw man life style. Thanks for your service (and disservice) to our fatherland.

May God bless you abundantly

Jonathan: Good man, bad president - Moral of the story: No one should get into political office by accident

Tunde Idiagbon; The most powerful number 2 man Nigeria has ever had. He was the one ruling while Buhari was a mere figure head . Buhari himself confirmed this recently. He was reputed to be someone who never smiled. No nonsense man. He was poisoned because OBJ wanted to appoint him as his Chief-of-staff and some people felt threatened by this

The truth of the matter is, Buhari was humiliated. Normally, Cameron should have waited for him to board his car before leaving . Cameron wouldn't try such with Obama or Merkel

They forgot to add one thing...David Cameron struggled to understand Buhari's thick Hausa accent

Why is the king wearing those tattered clothes ?

What if it is used to announce a coup? Bad move!

joebeckz:
call me. I would give u a little work for my room. Am in pH. 08131317378. Thank u.

Aren't you silly? You should be the one to call him, not the other way round.

I thought the first picture was P Diddy. Till someone said it's Olamide. Nice work though

The first institution I looked for on the list was my alma mata ACE. Thankfully it was there. Ondo now has three universities. My hometown can now boast of having a university. Up Arbico!

Xeedorf:
But on the February 2, 1999, the man fondly known as "Ajala travel"
> died. He died in penury. The world famous Ajala died unsung and
> unrecognised. His grave in central Lagos is no different from any other.
>
> For more than a year, Ajala suffered. He had a stroke which paralysed
> his left limb. But his army of children were not there to give him
> succour. He only had two of them around, Olaolu Ajala, a 20-year-old
> student of Baptist Academy, Lagos, and Bolanle Ajala, his 17-year-old
> daughter who had just finished her senior secondary education at the
> Baptist High School, Bariga, Lagos.
>
> With him also in his last hour was another teenager, 14-year-old Wale
> Anifowoshe. Wale was especially fond of him. He kept all Ajala's
> money, the little there was.
>
> Some of his children who could not be with him include Dante, Femi,
> Lisa and Sydney all of whom are based in Australia. They are the
> children of his Australian wife, Joan.
>
> Some of his other children are also spread around the globe. There are
> Taiwo and Kehinde in the United States as well as Bisola in England.
> But all were not around to bid their father a final goodbye except
> Olaolu and Bolanle.
>
> Indeed, it is a sad end for a man whose scooter is now a national
> monument. None of his numerous wives was around to bid him goodbye to
> the world beyond. His first wife, Alhaja Sade, could not find time
> during the year-long sickness of her husband until he finally died.
> She lives in Ikotun, a suburb of Lagos. "We told her that he was sick
> and she told us she would come, but we never saw her," Olaolu said.
>
> He was not sure whether she is aware that her husband is dead. Joan,
> only got in touch with him through correspondence. There are also Mrs.
> Toyin Ajala in England and Mrs. Sherifat Ajala, mother of his lastK
> daughter, Bolanle.
>
> But they were not around to tend to the man when he was battling with
> his sickness.
>
> A neighbour in Bariga who spoke on condition of anonymity said: "He
> could have survived if he had had adequate care."
>
> Adequate care was indeed far from the late globe-trotter. In no other
> place was this manifested than his residence, a rented apartment in a
> two-storey building on Adenira Street, Bariga.
>
> Climbing two flights of stairs to the top floor, one is immediately
> confronted with the way life had treated Ajala. A passage leads into a
> 16-by-12 feet sitting room.
>
> The sitting room, devoid of carpet has a table with about five locally
> made iron chairs in a corner. This, the reporter gathered, serves as
> the dining table. An old black and white television set sits
> uncomfortably in all ill-constructed shelf. The cushion on the sofa
> hurts the buttock as it has become flat. The curtains on the windows
> of the two bedroom flats show signs of old age. It is indeed a story
> of penury.
>
> But his two children in Nigeria still hold fond memories of their
> father. They eagerly answered questions and consulted calendars to
> give precise dates which they had marked on the calendar. The mantle
> of responsibility falls on Olaolu who printed the poster that gave the
> details of his father's death.
>
> Narrating the last days of his father, Olaolu told {The Guardian On
> Saturday} that he had a stroke on June 18, last year. "On that day, I
> had gone to school. When I came back, he told me he fell down on the
> balcony. We went to call a doctor about three blocks away. It was the
> doctor who told us that he had a stroke."
>
> According to Olaolu, medications were prescribed. "We bought the drugs
> and we followed the doctor's instruction that we should allow him to
> rest."
>
> The doctor, who came from a private hospital further advised the
> children to get their father a physiotherapist. "We got one for him at
> the Igbobi Orthopaedic Hospital and he was always coming home to give
> him therapy. And we noticed that he was getting better."
>
> But the picture changed after three months of home medication. "After
> three months, we realised that he had relapsed. He was able to walk if
> he held on to someone. But this suddenly stopped. He could no longer
> walk."
>
> That was when divine intervention came from a family friend, Morufu
> Ojikutu, who arrived from Germany. "He advised that we should take him
> to the hospital when he saw his condition. He also gave us money for
> his treatment," Olaolu said.
>
> The reporter gathered that what really stopped the ailing Ajala from
> going to the hospital was the lack of funds. Says Olaolu: "When he got
> sick, he did not have money but later my sisters and mum sent in some
> money for his treatment. And it is this that we spent to keep
> ourselves together."
>
> But Bolanle chipped in that at times, money sent to their father
> doesn't get to him. "Brother Femi (his second son) sent him £500 but
> he never received it and that was what he was harping on until he
> died", she said.
>
> In spite of the lack of funds, Olaolu believes that he died because he
> did not get quick medical attention. "When Mr. Ojikutu came, it was
> already too late. I think he also knew he was about to die and he did
> not want to die at home. That was why he insisted that he should be
> taken to the hospital."
>
> Ajala eventually ended up at the General Hospital, Ikeja. "He was
> there for 11 days. Prior to his death, his younger sister also
> deposited money with an aunt at the hospital to take care of him,"
> Olaolu said.
>
> It was gathered that before his death, Ajala had demanded that his
> relatives should bring a more comfortable chair, radio and orange
> juice. "But when the things were taken to him on February 2, he was
> already dead," Olaolu said.
>
> According to Wale, who was with him in the hospital, Ajala had been
> restless since the weekend before his eventual death. "When he first
> got to the hospital on January 25, he was always playing and joking
> with the people in the ward. But from Sunday, January 30, he could not
> breathe very well. He was always breathing through the mouth until he
> died on Tuesday, February 2," Olaolu said.`
>
> `Ajala explored the unexplored and charted the hitherto uncharted
> areas of the world. He wined and dined with heads of state and leaders
> including the late Alhaji Tafawa Balewa, first Republic Prime Minister
> of Nigeria; the late Paudit Nehru of India; the late Abdel Nasser of
> Egypt; the late Golda Meir of Israel; the late Marshall Ayub Khan of
> Pakistan; the late President Makarios of Greece; the late General
> Ignatuis Acheampong of Ghana and the late Odinga Oginga, one-time
> vice-president of Kenya. The list, indeed, is endless

Such an informative piece. I guess he squandered his money because he was a socialite. I remember Obey singing about "Alhaja Shade"