Family › Re: My Ex Or My New Man? by shanicemel(f): 9:23pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
keepingmum: please stick with your husband inugo? for better for worse brigade....next time he bangs your head to the wall you will explain to angel gabriel why you arrived earlier than your appointed time
and stay away from your family friend. You are clearly still hung up on your abusive ex. only enter a relationship when you have grieved and healed You are absolutely correct |
Christianity Etc › Re: DSS Must Arrest Apostle Suleiman!!! by shanicemel(f): 8:50am On Jan 26, 2017 |
bolaino: After Mr Johnson Suleiman Made Incidiary statements about His Bodyguards shooting at sight any Fulani they see around him. some Fulani have now become scared and are now in hiding for fear of their lives. and it is not right. Fulani are known to be Nomadic in nature and they are very peaceful people. and the criminals who are attacking these places all over the country are not Proven to be Hundred percent Fulani. they could be anybody because nobody usually sees them when they commit these atrocities and go. the only people who see them are the dead ones so how sure is Mr Johnson Suleiman that these criminals are of Fulani descent? to have ordered for the killing of Fulani herdsmen around him and mind you. where his Church headquarters is. in Auchi. A place known to be hospitable to Fulani people because of its Unique landscape. but his statements have endangered the lives of Innocent Fulani Herdsmen Families it is not fair. I hereby use this Medium to call on the Country security apparatus in the form of the DSS to please for the sake of the peace and oneness of this country to please get the relevant documents and signatories that would see to the successful arrest of this Mr Johnson Suleiman. and I want to advise the DSS to use more Tact this Time around. they should forget Gov. Fayose. we will handle him. but first they should successfully Arrest The Mr. Johnson. Long Live The Federal Republic Of Nigeria. This guy is sick l swear with all this plenty English u speak here u successfully said rubbish. Now Apostle suleman is to be arrested why didn't u say this about the Islamic clerics and ulammah that said rubbish atvAbuja l pray for u, u will feel the terror of these hausa fulanis on ur family |
Politics › Re: Meaning Of The Arabic Word On Nigerian Army Logo by shanicemel(f): 8:22am On Jan 26, 2017 |
ODUBEZE: Pls wake up! U are in a dream! Your comparison on this subject matter is not the same at all! Saturday and Sunday is declared by most as a day of rest in order to prepare for the working days! On Fridays some muslims put all work on hold in order to go to pray! even on Sundays, they now have one function or the order. Do you even know that they now have vigil? Nobody is marginalizing any body. What I am saying is that Nigeria is a secular State and does not belong to any religion! It should be treated as such! Must U be a fanatics in National issues? Since its army logo why cant they write something related to war and army terms. Eg strength in unity y arabic |
Politics › Re: Fayose Prevents The Arrest Of Johnson Suleman By DSS by shanicemel(f): 7:24am On Jan 25, 2017 |
ZUBY77: Will you please shut up. You little kids with Tecno phones always reason like the phone factory you all use. I am sure you won't reason this way if you ever touch an iPhone.
A group of people kill you every day, every month and every year for decades and the moment you turn around and ask your people to defend themselves, it becomes treason. How did some of you mistakes manage to locate Nairaland? Pls tell him ooo, because he has data he can talk rubbish |
Travel › Re: Man Crushed Beyond Recognition In Orile, Lagos (Graphic Photos) by shanicemel(f): 2:35pm On Jan 23, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: I Love My Girlfriend But Another Lady Is Four Months Pregnant With My Baby by shanicemel(f): 9:12am On Jan 21, 2017 |
[quote author=hollowpot15684 post=52988820]Guys pls how do I inform the lady I love that another lady is four month In with my baby, I've been with her for more than 4years and I don't want to loose her at all as I've make all my life plans with her.. whenever I imagine my future she's the only one I see in it. Pls kindly advice me on how to handle this situation.. when is the right time to tell her or should i just keep it as a secret?? I don't want to loose her pls..  [/quote Men men men and the ting in between there legs has no control, u cant eat ur cake and still have it. So marry the one you sent impregnated she is also a woman and d mother of ur unborn child gradually u will love her other than hurt the woman u claim to love .mtchewwww |
Romance › Re: If You Watched This Movie & Still Unmarried, My Friend Go For Deliverance by shanicemel(f): 9:08am On Jan 21, 2017 |
badassProdigy: Pray to the gods, they are not crazy... lol You are u married. I watched the movie and am not married |
Family › Re: Will I Be Making A Mistake Marrying This Guy? by shanicemel(f): 7:25am On Jan 20, 2017 |
greatnaija01: TRUE LOVE IS NOT BLIND but LUST is BLIND and will always get you LOST
everything you see in this man that you itemized is just a tip of the ICEBERG after marriage you will see SUPERSTORY and it will be all your fault. IT IS CLEAR YOU ALSO AINT VERY SPIRITUAL ELSE THE VOICE OF GOD WONT BE SILENT ON YOUR CASE. God can not watch you enter disaster and God will not lead you to nairaland before HE commands you to have SENSE.. Chai biko if a man's best friend is a womanizer then so is the man but you may be too slow to discern it.. Sister sister.... NA MARRIAGE GO TEAR YOUR EYE O.
Even if you do not have a spiritual authority over your life who can see into your life and correct you... UNLESS your church pastor is a blind rat..if you tell him these things he CAN NOT ask you to go ahead,.
About anger... madam biko i advise you on this... ANGER THAT IS EASILY EXPRESSED IS NOT DEEP but the one that "ignores" YOU is waiting till you are trapped to finish you.... your marriage wahala is doing NYSC.
ABOUT books... LOLS... did you not know the BIBLE says STUDY TO SHOW YOURSELF APPROVED? or are you so old that you will settle for anything in trouser and with a manhood? I pity you sha... because it looks like you are loving this man with your heart OPEN but your BRAIN CLOSED. Readers are leaders... The man is to be a leader to the woman and children.
If he is not PRAYERFUL then get ready to carry your kids to all manner of prayer meetings and programs forever cos he would not bother to start in marriage what he didnt start as a single
LOLS... you made me laugh by saying he is patient... even the devil is patient with you my sister... I KNOW YOU DO NOT READ. cos if you do.. YOU WOULD HAVE DUMPED that devil's plan in male clothing long ago... EVEN YOU ARE NOT A WIFE MATERIAL... cos you are able to be confused about a clear WRONG CHOICE.
DID GOD SPEAK TO YOU? ARE YOU NOT AWARE MARRIAGE IS A SPIRITUAL THING? DID YOU SEEK COUNSEL FROM YOUR PASTOR OR A VERY GENUINE SPIRITUAL PERSON? Do you pray and hear God's directions? cos this is a simple matter of BY THEIR FRUIT YE SHALL KNOW THEM.
If you can not correct him then how are you his HELP-MEET. my sister, print out all i have written and understand it. JESUS IS COMING SOON.... MARRY WHO WILL HELP YOU MAKE HEAVEN rather than WHO WILL DAMAGE YOU SO WELL THAT HEAVEN WILL NOT KNOW YOU EVEN EXISTED.
Wao! You said it all, you said it all without caring whose ox is goad. Infact if she doesn't read your post and follow your counsel then she is ready to suffer |
Romance › Re: Lady Discovered Her Boyfriend Of 7 Years Has Been Married For 4 Years by shanicemel(f): 9:45pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
Kolababe: A lady shared screen-shots of her chat with her boyfriend whom she dated for 7 years but had no idea he's been married for 4 years. The man blocked her on Facebook but a friend saw his photos with his wife and sent it to her.
When she confronted the man with the evidence, he denied being the person in the photos saying it was just another person bearing a striking resemblance to him. Continue to read their chat. http://www.newseveryhour.com/2017/01/lady-discovered-her-boyfriend-of-7.html Men !!! They can disorganize the frequency of a woman. How l hate men. |
Christianity Etc › Re: No Terrorist Group Shouts ‘Jesus, Jesus’ Before Attacks – CAN Replies Soyinka by shanicemel(f): 3:41pm On Jan 18, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Photos From The University Of Maiduguri Mosque Bomb Attack by shanicemel(f): 11:12am On Jan 16, 2017 |
AdoraAmadi: A bomb explosion occurred at the University of Maiduguri mosque this morning. Here are graphic photos from the scene. According to an eyewitness Baba Gani-Ali, Professor Mani, a Professor of Veterinary Medicine was among those killed during the early morning explosion. This is the first time that the University was attacked. All exams slated for today have been CANCELLED!
Graphic photos below. Viewer's discretion is advised.
http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/01/see-photos-from-university-of-maiduguri.html
Only yesterday one stupid ulamah and imam was talking trash, seconded by a stupid post that says Bishop Oyedepo 's sermon was inciting,well these inhuman animals don't need Buhari nor anyone to bomb a place.Ulamah dey abi or e no know hear the blast. GOD FORSAKEN DOCTRINE |
Christianity Etc › Re: CAN Replies Council Of Imams And Ulamah Of Kaduna State by shanicemel(f): 9:56pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
ozoebuka1: thank God say roman catholic church no join for CAN...That's just my take. Did u go to school @ll its called christian association of Nigerian so if peradventure it goes down God forbid all christians including the roman catholic goes down too. So pls look b4 u talk. As for this ulamah God of the Israelites, the God that divided the red sea will destroy them. No apologies |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Super Rich Churches That Do Business Must Pay Tax" – Sheikh Abdur-Rahman Ahmad by shanicemel(f): 5:39pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Skmoda360: http://punchng.com/super-rich-churches-business-must-pay-tax-ahmad/ Oga lmam all ur muslim societies like ansa udeen and d other should also be looked into especially the national mosque in Abuja. They must be brought into the FRC attention too. For ur info Imam all the christian secondary schools and universities owned by d christians also admitted your muslim brothers and sisters children so pls think before u talk. |
Politics › Re: FG To Probe Jim Obazee's Tenure As FRCN Boss by shanicemel(f): 10:06pm On Jan 14, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Oyedepo Commands Followers To Kill Suspected Terrorists - 2015 by shanicemel(f): 7:40am On Jan 13, 2017 |
Seun: Every decent person shares the humble Bishop's feelings about Boko Haram, but asking people to spill the blood of "anyone that looks like them" (i.e. a northerner or muslim in the wrong place at the wrong time) is very wrong. Didn't Jesus say, "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you"? How can you call yourself a Christian if you blatantly and proudly disobey the teachings of the very Christ you worship? Yes at a point in the bible, God told the Israelites to totally annihilate the Amalekites from the surface of the earth cos of the wrong they did to the Israelites. And it was King Saul who led that battle with the sole authority of prophet Samuel. So Baba Oyedepo is on the right track. |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by shanicemel(f): 7:29am On Jan 12, 2017 |
marked10: I know men can be cruel sometimes but my dear i didn't they can be this stupid and heartless. The pregnant woman pictured above was beaten to stupor by her violent hubby, James Alphonso Campbell recently in their matrimonial home. The mother of two identified as Florence Sabo Campbell took to the social media to send him a one of a kind birthday message as she announced she’s divorcing him.
Check out the bizarre birthday message:
“Happy birthday my husband and would be ex-husband James Alphonso Campbell the most wicked and violent man I have ever known in my life.May this day be the beginning of the time you will pay for all your crimes. May God never allow you to skip judgment and may your wickedness be serve as a birthday cake as you celebrate for the rest of your life.As you tortured me day and night when I was in your house may the laws of this country catch up with you one day . I survived your cruelty towards me because God was on my side but now is the time for the whole world to know the marriage I was in and why I used my hard earn money to file for divorce. See you soon in court James A Campbell”
http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/12/a-wife-sent-her-hubby-shocking-birthday.html
Can you imagine this type of assault on a woman even with pregnancy. And u say marriage is for better for worse. I disagree oo. Babe do everything in your power to deal with God forsaken man, and l know ur curse on him stands. Get healed soon. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: AUGUST BORN ..............let's Meet Here by shanicemel(f): 9:55pm On Jan 11, 2017 |
3Div: I'm Aug 10!.
Would love to meet a birthday mate. Is your sister on any SM platform? cool |
Family › Re: Domestic Violence: What Do You Think About This Married Man? by shanicemel(f): 6:43pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
prekumohtim: A married man updated his facebook status and it reads;
I know you are a lady and might not agree with me but I need to address this issue on domestic violence in women . This domestic violence thing is overrated and women are beginning to hang on it to become more senseless without putting any effort on making their marriage work.
Am a married man and I have been married for 9years and am pleased to tell you that I hit my wife. I beat her sometimes to correct her because women are like babies so you need to go extra miles to correct them . My wife is my baby and am her man so I can't watch her do wrong . I beat her up and apologize to her , is the same thing as flogging a child and dragging them with the other hand.
Look at our African parents , they beat us with all sorts of objects , shoes , stick, bottles, anything they can lay their hands on. I have seen parents pour pee pee on kids just to correct them and even do worse just to correct them and will you call that violence? If you can do all that to a child and they survive how can an adult die ? Many domestic violence we hear, is not their husbands that deliberately killed them , it's always an accident so I want you ladies to know that violence is a part of marriage . Believe it or not , your husband must at least give you a slap for you to have sense especially here in Africa . So make your marriage work please , those people you celebrate and admire their anniversaries also endured violence . Stop calling it violence , see it as correction , see yourself as the child and your man your daddy , that way you will understand the love comes with tears.
I know the ladies will insult me but I will continue to beat my wife if she misbehaves, is the best form of correction but I will never kill her, I love her so much . Ladies , beating is not enough to leave your marriage please see it as correction to make it work ." Oga so u r confidently saying u r proud to hit your wife. Maybe u were born in the 70s, but l dnt think any present day mother will pee break bottle on her childs head r body. Ur idea on marriage and other dey paranoid ooo. |
Romance › Re: "Every Girl I Tell I Live In Banana Island, I End Up Sleeping With' - Man Claims by shanicemel(f): 5:02pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Kolababe: This email was sent to flamboyant psychologist, and relationship expert Joro Olumofin.
http://www.newseveryhour.com/2017/01/every-girl-i-tell-i-live-in-banana.html Really ur story is false because all d girls you are hooking up with are all ashawos and oloshi. A real woman with confidence and dignity wont fall for your tricks when you are not even related to Dantata or Dangote. Ok you ve made FP and replies oya abeg try front oga. NEXT |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by shanicemel(f): 9:31pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
[quote author=wonukwuru post=52500821]I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.
Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.
Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.
My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.
Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.
Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".
My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.
What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused. quote]
Hmm the matter o critical gannnn!.ooo. Pls speak to a marriage counsellor. |
Events › Re: NLDERS Hook Up With Your Birth Day Mate. by shanicemel(f): 7:37pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
shanicemel: August 12 thanks . Don't tell me l have no Leo king to rule the kingdom with me  |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: AUGUST BORN ..............let's Meet Here by shanicemel(f): 2:56pm On Jan 02, 2017 |
Great thread am Aug 12 while my younger sis is Aug 10 |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Needed ASAP! by shanicemel(f): 12:51pm On Jan 02, 2017 |
Like seriously this ur facial expressions no be here ooo. Ok will find babe for u. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Man Brutally Beats Wife To Pulp, Breaks Her Ankle (graphic Photos) by shanicemel(f): 12:37pm On Jan 02, 2017 |
I know we women we can be annoying but damn you don't handle a woman like this seriously its unacceptable,as in d mother of your children haba. Marriage no be by force ooo. Abeg |
Romance › Re: Pls Someone Help Me, I Am In A Big Shit by shanicemel(f): 11:40am On Jan 02, 2017 |
kinibigdeal: Is this how you want to start 2017?  I wonder,I just wonder![color=][/color][color=][/color][color=][/color][color=][/color]  |
Crime › Re: Cultist Murders Girlfriend, Dumps Corpse In Well by shanicemel(f): 11:07am On Jan 02, 2017 |
Pls for now, suspend all bad news till Jan is over. Then by Feb start releasing d bad news biko. [color=][/color] |
Crime › Re: Hoodlums Set Woman And Her Grandchildren Ablaze In Delta (Graphic Photo) by shanicemel(f): 10:49am On Jan 02, 2017 |
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