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Politics / Re: Protest In Benin City Tomorrow. by sheabutter1: 3:40pm On Jan 30, 2023
pretydiva:

Protest wey don already start undecided

Give us the pictures, let's see what it look like!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Are You Are In Tech Or Interested In Diversifying Into Tech; Check This. by sheabutter1: 9:21am On Jan 30, 2023
Thanks
Fashion / Re: Designers Perfumes Call For Your Luxury Scent!!! by sheabutter1: 1:17pm On Nov 20, 2022
Armani for women 80000

Car Talk / Re: Are You Worried About Your Consignment? Call Us (clearing And Fowarder) by sheabutter1: 12:02am On Jun 29, 2022
How much would clear HundaI Santa 04, T/camry 05, T/corrola 06 in a container.
Fashion / Re: Designers Perfumes Call For Your Luxury Scent!!! by sheabutter1: 6:01pm On Jun 26, 2022
Call for your perfume.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by sheabutter1: 11:29pm On Dec 18, 2016
snapscore:


which one is enjoy?

I love your personal text. we are to thank God for everything he has done for us!
Celebrities / Re: See What Banky W Shared About His Current Status (snapshot) by sheabutter1: 11:18pm On May 31, 2016
pretydiva:
I'm single too Banky smiley come let's do d needful

Ole. go steal am na
Career / Re: Sacked Today For Being 'too Introverted', Unfair? by sheabutter1: 9:35am On Mar 26, 2016
pretydiva:
Dis is wat introvert like us suffer from. Na by force to talk/join in a conversation ni undecided

you introvert? Lai lai
Nairaland / General / Re: Born On The Month Of February? Step In Please by sheabutter1: 12:02am On Feb 02, 2016
Feb 11.

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Romance / Re: Ladies, What Are Your Turn On And Turn Off's In A Guy? by sheabutter1: 8:29pm On Dec 14, 2015
perod:
Turns me on a boy who reads, I think it's very sexy :-)

yes I read a lot, oya let's hook up *wink*
Politics / Re: Murray-Bruce Tweets About Looting And APC by sheabutter1: 4:54pm On Dec 13, 2015
they might get re-orientated when they became APC. law of every party defer...just like American accept gay laws, Nigeria say mba, ..let American nationalize to Nigeria, claim want to perform gay as being practice in American, will facce the consequences..

samething to PDP, that joined APC, if they eventually caught with the act of corruption , they should be ready to face the punishment.
Romance / Re: Any lady that says YES to these questions can't remain single for long. by sheabutter1: 1:13am On Dec 13, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:

By the way,there is nothing to understand from 3 and 5,ok.
A woman that wants a large wedding will look for a way to have it! Either she supplements with her money, borrows and puts the family in debt or she forces you to go out there and look for it. Before you answer any silly questions,it's better you sit down and access what you really want.
A woman that desires a large wedding might adjust and go for a small trad and a large white wedding in order to be 'happy'.
The most important thing is your happiness,it's not a no or yes answer. A woman who says No to 3 will never be a spinster forever,she would have to work with her partner to make her happy.
Finally, number 5 is not a closed question. There are thousands of people married to people within their age group. You don't have to say Yes to a 40 yr old man to be married,if that is not what you want deep down inside you! Tufia!
There is no point saying Yes to anything out of desperation,say yes because you are happy within you.

I can be rest assure that, you completely understand the op now , it require a lot of understanding to be outstanding .op's on point ..the No 3 point, simply means yes, iif you are ready to find a way to make it work out.

your no 5 point 's still on the illustration I made earlier ..if you can find it interesting seeking advice from older one , you could develop a feelings for him. just like Celin dion who got married to her Manager who's far older than her ..Marriage 's all about who we get connected for and makes us happy ..aside the materials things of the world. I drop my pen. gudnite!
Romance / Re: Any lady that says YES to these questions can't remain single for long. by sheabutter1: 12:31am On Dec 13, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:

Sorry,Op never made sense in the other points. Don't get carried away and swallow everything they Op posted. In the first place, he concluded that every man and woman in a relationship are sleeping with each other,that is insane!
Secondly, every guy that approaches you for marriage must not be your Boyfriend or someone that is dating you. In Nigeria, people meet their partners through different sources. Half of the proposals that come to ladies are not from men they are dating. Most of them are from friends who have admired them for sometime. The question is can you say yes to that poor broke man? If you are comfortable with it,by all means possible,accept his proposal.
The issue here is that the Op is shaming women that would say NO to the guy's proposal.
It's not a matter of saying Yes or No,it is about shaming women that stick to their standards and preferencies. In his twisted world,women are not supposed to have or make choices in marriage but Men have the liberty to do anything; including picking the most beautiful women, best cooks, sex kittens, educated, respectful, loyal, tall, shapely etc! Why the double standards?
No reasonable woman will pay attention to folks like him.

I never read where op stated your claim in your 2 point above, ..you know it's actually possible to date a guy in a room.? emotional spring up when we don't prepare for it. Assuming, you had mere friend (a guy) living in a room. you never had a mind of dating him. you just find it interesting holding talk with him, eventually, you both like each other, consequently , dating and making love to each other in in the so called in a room. All of a sudden, the guy propose to marry you , you turn him and your emotion down all because he didn't meet up the criteria , you want in a man. ..i believe , this is what I underderstood of the op's view
Romance / Re: Any lady that says YES to these questions can't remain single for long. by sheabutter1: 11:33pm On Dec 12, 2015
Ihuomadinihu:
At the end of the day,only points 3 and 5 are a little logical because they are preferencial issues. Some people apparently prefer small events and simple packing when it comes to weddings. Everyone must not put up a Mind blowing wedding reception for the world.

Number 5 is also based on Preference and Choice. There are single girls that prefer older partners. However,it's not advisable to go for people far away from your age group. Things may be all rosy at first but soon,you will start drifting away from that each other because you are no longer on the same wave lenght. When he is talking about retirement and slowing down his activities,you will be thinking of kick starting a new business or attending one event or the other.

Experienced married folks say it's preferable to marry someone within or not too far from your age group....

Apart from these 3 and 5, the other points are absolutely useless. A broke ass guy has no business chasing women for marriage. You have to put certain things in order before thinking of bringing in a women into your home. With marriage comes responsibilities,pregnancies and children. Who are you going to heap these problems on?
Get a regular job,get an accomodation before thinking of getting married otherwise you go for women you can afford and who will like to be with you!
Like i said before,this post is for broke ass lazy men and desperate women,a man that knows his onions and a woman of high esteem has nothing to gain from this post.

oh so you are able to understand the 2 points of op out of the 5 . my ddear , if you are able to read calmly, I believe you will pick some senses from other 3 .

I believe op, never stop you from your choice, he just emphasize on, never perceive what you can't condole. you know a guy in a room a No to you , you should never have let him date you in any reason ..for you to consider him to date you, that means your choice is scarce , and nothing bad in starting a life with him if he's ambitions minded ..not someone, who's comfortable in a room and room and ready to spend the rest of his life there..
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Are Your Turn On And Turn Off's In A Guy? by sheabutter1: 6:10pm On Dec 11, 2015
Zara Zara Zara, you are strong girl oooo. you've been entertaining us most. Just had response for every post directed to you. take it easy ooo.

you kept the canes for the igbos, given them their sizes one by one.

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Romance / Re: Ladies, What Are Your Turn On And Turn Off's In A Guy? by sheabutter1: 5:33pm On Dec 11, 2015
kestolove95:
Any one God bring..I go cari am follow body

I love your signature..May God forgive us all
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Are Your Turn On And Turn Off's In A Guy? by sheabutter1: 3:52pm On Dec 11, 2015
Springz:
Turn on : focused,

Turn off : B.O,
hello baby, can I meet you. I'm captivated with the look of your eyes...
Music/Radio / Re: Nairalander Singing/play The Guitar In Indiana Usa by sheabutter1: 12:33am On Nov 18, 2015
guy, I didn't waste my Meg. that was dope , keep it up!

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Properties / Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by sheabutter1: 2:45pm On Nov 11, 2015
take the so called greedy man to Federal fraud Unit FFU. I think they have a website, you can search for them. they will collect 10% of the money. surely, you will get your money.

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Romance / Re: I'm So Ashamed Of Guys Who Do This..... by sheabutter1: 11:50am On Nov 10, 2015
YourMain:
Lol it's actually so cringe
Chai, you are FTC. but not happy lol. is being awhile, how you doing.
Family / Re: Dearest Nigerians, People Are Suffering.. Read This! by sheabutter1: 11:57am On Nov 07, 2015
[quote author=EggovinMma post=39767362] embarassed embarassed embarassed


If there's something that gives me joy in life, it's when I help in in my little way. Givers absolutely never lack.Life is beautiful when we help those around us . Sometimes I always winder what it will be like to have millions in my account, I may not even be happy, There remains a void in my heart when I see people living in abject poverty.

I have a true story to tell.
I happened to meet a young girl if about 12 while in school. I came home from lectures to see her moving around my hostel. I asked why she was there and she told me she needed to see one of my hostel mates who obviously is not around. From the disappointment on her face, I asked her if everything was fine.She narrated to me a story about how hungry her family was, and the fact that her mom sent her out to borrow money from my mate. I asked her to take me to her mother. It was an uncompleted building and I didn't know how somebody can live in that kind of place with grasses everywhere. I feared for snake bites as I approached the mother.I gave her quite a fairly good sum and told her not to return it . The way she thanked me sent a deep knife down my spine.I wish she never did, it made it even unbearable because it broke my heart even more


As I was living the compound in a haste for fear of snakes, a iron rod dragged my leg,almost ripping off the last toe on my left feet.


This part of your story is what fear people most from helping ..that shouldn't deprive us really from helping..we just have to do, then never turn back .

to be honest your big heart is worth to be commended . we should always do what, what we can to the needy .kudos to you!


On the last part .you listen to love songs , Which impeded love inside of you. I think it has to start from Nigeria musicians , they should try to preach more love on their songs. not just that loud and I want to shaye of a thing.

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Romance / Re: Advice Urgently Needed! by sheabutter1: 9:13am On Oct 13, 2015
you can see, many people are hailing your writing skill. you can actually make it a carrier for yourself. start from writing story on Nairaland go to literature, read more story and start yours too.

Another guy suggested hearing support audio at the first page, don't take it as a joke.

So, if you are chasing woman, think of how you develop yourself too, the income that carter for yourself, should be double to carter for 2, when the kids come in, make it 3. and so..

You need to develop yourself more and more.

best of luck.
Politics / Re: The Many Incredible Roles Of DSS Under President Muhammadu Buhari by sheabutter1: 3:12pm On Aug 04, 2015
I don't blame this barcawailer or whatever his name is. I blame the mods that brings his threads to front page.

Seun should know, this man is the enemy of so call Nigeria. and is their to mislead people, because of the token that will lead him to no where.
most Nigerian feels the present of good and transparent govt, that's ready to put every corrupt section into check. when there was bad government (PDP) many Nigerians are crying on this forum voluntarily.. without being paid for like the wailer here. .Corruption impeded every sectors. that made us do everything by yourself. we generate power by our self. we send our children to school with our hard earn money. just because of the corruption within the govt. The ruling party want to bring intelligence forces like DSS to check mate every sector, this stupid man 's saying is not their role.

If you guys continue this way (mods) mark my words today m Nigerians wouldn't take your forum seriously. and will be forgotten . I'm not saying you should be partisan, buh you should support good governance and the will of Nigeria people .
Politics / Re: Buhari Honored With A Traditional Title 'manahouwhe’ Gbede' In Benin by sheabutter1: 11:23pm On Aug 03, 2015
INTROVERT:




I don't usually respond to posts like this but il take an exception to this. any country that dosent have a viable opposition is in the doldrums. the republicans always speak Obama and so did the democrats speak against Bush. I must commend Barcanista for standing strong on his ideals and posts because we need an alternate view to keep things in check and let us understand the other side.
so you can call us whatever you like it won't change our resolve for speaking and criticising the present government because unless you won't Nigeria to be like NORTH KOREA.


I can see someone has converted your joblessness to money probably they have give token to get a data. and I believe every opposition of buhari, be PDP or even among the APC are against prosperous of this nation. . even the PDP them self believes Buhari is the only clean man among the APC. which mean, they know the man intention, they just want to distort his govt. when this man was inaugurated, you are one of his fans. the so call opposition who's find error to capitalize on had hijacked you. because they believed you are jobless. if you think the token you get now is helping, your mentality will remain so, you will white and continue to call it black. desist from that attitude, change start within our self to government itself.

Even though you have passion for politics, not until you join opposition before you can be noticed. what happen if you set your pace with good game plan. if it's meant to be, you will definitely get their. leave the wailer and support the good govt my 2 cent.
Business / Re: What Eden1747(f) Did Not Tell Us About Her "Humilation" At ECOBANK Badagry Today by sheabutter1: 12:05pm On Jun 27, 2015
Have reading the comment here so far. From the time I read the op story I believe is a false. When the Eden came up again, she gently silence the op.

I don't know why some people has to blame it on Eden for the CMS action. ( There's always reaction on every action) the guy should just live with it.

To be candid, Ecobank should embark training on their staff. I experienced the same with their staff at Shomolu. The name Gbemi or so, she wasn't the attending to me, someone else, she was their antagonizing in my present. That, they can't grant my request . Even when my attendee had confirmed from the BM.

I don't know why they are so rude like that. And their Administrative should do something about it. If the continue this way, the so called Ecobank will become a history.

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Education / Re: Bad Condition Of Yabatech Students Sleeping In The Classroom(pics) by sheabutter1: 11:03pm On Jun 25, 2015
INTROVERT:

My network is just super fast. grin No code... just watching game of thrones and surfing d net.
I wonder too oooo. Which network do you use miss
Islam for Muslims / Re: From A Model To Islam - Joy From Delta State Convert To Islam by sheabutter1: 3:40pm On Jun 25, 2015
mubarakopeyemi:


Christians often ask what miracles the prophet Muhammad performed; many of u even make the claim that the Quran and the hadiths record no miracles done by the prophet. However so, it seems that I am reading a different Quran and hadith then, because you would have to be blind, or a big liar to claim that there are no recorded miracles of the prophet found in Islamic sources.

The Traditions mentioned below are all from Sahih al-Bukhari, the most authentic collection of ahadith

2- Splitting of the Moon

"The Hour has drawn near, and the moon has been cleft asunder" [Qur'an 54:1]

Volume 6, Book 60, Number 388:

Narrated Abdullah:

The moon was cleft asunder while we were in the company of the Prophet, and it became two parts. The Prophet said, Witness, witness (this miracle)."


3- Food Multiplication

Sahih Bukahri: Volume 4, Book 56, Number 780:

Narrated Jabir:

My father had died in debt. So I came to the Prophet and said, "My father (died) leaving unpaid debts, and I have nothing except the yield of his date palms; and their yield for many years will not cover his debts. So please come with me, so that the creditors may not misbehave with me." The Prophet went round one of the heaps of dates and invoked (Allah), and then did the same with another heap and sat on it and said, "Measure (for them)." He paid them their rights and what remained was as much as had been paid to them.

4- Water Multiplication

Volume 4, Book 56, Number 779:

Narrated 'Abdullah:

We used to consider miracles as Allah's Blessings, but you people consider them to be a warning. Once we were with Allah's Apostle on a journey, and we ran short of water. He said, "Bring the water remaining with you." The people brought a utensil containing a little water. He placed his hand in it and said, "Come to the blessed water, and the Blessing is from Allah." I saw the water flowing from among the fingers of Allah's Apostle , and no doubt, we heard the meal glorifying Allah, when it was being eaten (by him).

Volume 4, Book 56, Number 777:

Narrated Al-Bara:

We were one-thousand-and-four-hundred persons on the day of Al-Hudaibiya (Treaty), and (at) Al-Hudaibiya (there) was a well. We drew out its water not leaving even a single drop. The Prophet sat at the edge of the well and asked for some water with which he rinsed his mouth and then he threw it out into the well. We stayed for a short while and then drew water from the well and quenched our thirst, and even our riding animals drank water to their satisfaction.

5- Supplication for Rain

Volume 8, Book 73, Number 115:

Narrated Anas:

A man came to the Prophet on a Friday while he (the Prophet) was delivering a sermon at Medina, and said, "There is lack of rain, so please invoke your Lord to bless us with the rain." The Prophet looked at the sky when no cloud could be detected. Then he invoked Allah for rain. Clouds started gathering together and it rained till the Medina valleys started flowing with water. It continued raining till the next Friday. Then that man (or some other man) stood up while the Prophet was delivering the Friday sermon, and said, "We are drowned; Please invoke your Lord to withhold it (rain) from us" The Prophet smiled and said twice or thrice, "O Allah! Please let it rain round about us and not upon us." The clouds started dispersing over Medina to the right and to the left, and it rained round about Medina and not upon Medina. Allah showed them (the people) the miracle of His Prophet and His response to his invocation.

6- Lights to guide Companions

Volume 1, Book 8, Number 454:

Narrated Anas bin Malik:

Two of the companions of the Prophet departed from him on a dark night and were led by two lights like lamps (going in front of them from Allah as a miracle) lighting the way in front of them, and when they parted, each of them was accompanied by one of these lights till he reached their (respective) houses.

7- Crying of the stem of the Date-palm Tree

Volume 4, Book 56, Number 783:

Narrated Ibn Umar:

The Prophet used to deliver his sermons while standing beside a trunk of a datepalm. When he had the pulpit made, he used it instead. The trunk started crying and the Prophet went to it, rubbing his hand over it (to stop its crying).

8- The Prophet's Night Journey to Jerusalem (Arabic: Israa) and Ascent to the Heavens (Arabic: Miraj)

Volume 5, Book 58, Number 228:

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:

Regarding the Statement of Allah"

"And We granted the vision (Ascension to the heavens) which We made you see (as an actual eye witness) was only made as a trial for the people." (17.60)

Ibn Abbas added: The sights which Allah's Apostle was shown on the Night Journey when he was taken to Bait-ul Maqdis (i.e. Jerusalem) were actual sights, (not dreams). And the Cursed Tree (mentioned) in the Quran is the tree of Zaqqum (itself) .

Volume 4, Book 54, Number 462:

Narrated Ibn Abbas:

The Prophet said, "On the night of my Ascent to the Heaven, I saw Moses who was a tall brown curly-haired man as if he was one of the men of Shan'awa tribe, and I saw Jesus, a man of medium height and moderate complexion inclined to the red and white colors and of lank hair. I also saw Malik, the gate-keeper of the (Hell) Fire and Ad-Dajjal amongst the signs which Allah showed me." (The Prophet then recited the Holy Verse): "So be not you in doubt of meeting him' when you met Moses during the night of Mi'raj over the heavens" (32.23)

Narrated Anas and Abu Bakra: "The Prophet said, "The angels will guard Medina from Ad-Dajjal (who will not be able to enter the city of Medina)."


A fellow human needs enlightenment.
Salam

Sala lau alai wasalam. May peace be upon him. Thanks for sharing this.

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Celebrities / Re: Derenle Edun's Tomboy Younger Sister (Photos) by sheabutter1: 2:46pm On Jun 25, 2015
Hmmmm orishirishi
Politics / Re: Who Says Buhari Has Out-performed His Predecessor? by sheabutter1: 1:21am On Jun 21, 2015
its not your fault op . its the mod that kept pushing your trash thread on front page ..
Politics / Re: Shock As America Says Boko Haram Is Now Winning by sheabutter1: 6:28pm On Jun 19, 2015
This oyinbo never stopped painting us black. Enough of them please.

Boko haram have drastically reduced, since the emerge of PMB. I'm sure is because their Sponsor ers are hidden under the shadow. Not to get caught. Because of the fear of Baba.

America should go, sit down jawee.
Food / Re: Foods That Make Your Buttocks Bigger Naturally by sheabutter1: 12:49pm On May 22, 2015
Jambsupport:
Not when my PM is having issues. That helps smiley But i don't know why lalasticlala hasn't put this on front page. This is the second thread I have tagged him on.

I see my message returned and never delivered. Contact me let's roll baby..I hope yours will deliver to me kiss
Food / Re: Foods That Make Your Buttocks Bigger Naturally by sheabutter1: 12:49pm On May 22, 2015
Jambsupport:
Not when my PM is having issues. That helps smiley But i don't know why lalasticlala hasn't put this on front page. This is the second thread I have tagged him on.

I see my message returned to me and never delivered. Contact me let's roll baby..I hope yours will deliver to me kiss

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