I will suggest you change the perspective at which you are looking at it..... I hardly talk as well, I don't chart, and I don't talk on phone for more than a minute unless I'm talking to my Mom. but I don't see it as a weakness, instead I see it as being unique in my own way... with that mindset ladies can't have enough of me... because they see me the same way I see me "Unique"

Eight years. that's a tough One

For some reason I felt the guy is Childish.

It OK to Fail as long as you Try again..!

Being calm always does not always means being manipulative..... So people are just Naturally calm.. irrespective of the company they are keeping at a time.

Make a Girl Happy....Lol Make a Girl Happy....Lol

2 things Court Room & A broken Condom

In Victor AD's voice "If we no buy the Jet wetin we gain"

In Olamide's voice " Learner "

Dog spirit.....! LOL

I like my Space

Those are really cool!

Chikelue2000:
I am in Lafia too, police barracks, national supply, where r u

Behind CBN

ekensi01:
Have you ever think of reporting it to d local authories?

They the are aware, they all are, but it funny how it keep reoccurring, even my own cousin got robbed a week to Ramadan, they were all asked to lie down by the road side as usual and robbed of their valuables.

During the day, things seems to be in place but at night anything goes

We just tell my cousin that once its 4pm she should pack her loads and start heading home for safety.

nextstep:
We need more details than assumptions about the assailants and the reason for the manslaughter. These are dangerous times, but to jump to conclusions is more dangerous. We should also be careful not to embellish stories with phrases like "they asked all the Igbos to move to one side", unless they were actually true.

*EDIT* for instance, Sheflex4real shows a reasonable context and counterpoint to explain what might have happened...

Yeah, it just sad, last week Tuesday along Nasarawa Egon road,people that went there to sell their good were stop by some robber and were asked to lie down in the middle of the road,
A big lorry was approaching and the pple in the middle were instructed not to get up, and if they do they will get shot.

Those that did got shot and those that don't got smashed by the lorry because the driver did not stop, it's funny how no one talk about them, was it because they are Hausas?

Don't get me wrong, I'm Yoruba, and I'm not trying to take side.

I'm just saying let's keep things real.

Well 4 d record, I'm in Lafia, and I live very close to specialist hospital,& as a matter of fact my cousin was there this morning to greet her fellow marketers, if not for the so call Sallah celebration, chances are she will be in that same car with other cause they all sell stuff together in that village market, they do go there from lafia once in a week,

The bottom line is, people get Rob on those road that leads to those small small villages a lot most especially in the night.... The securities on those roads are really poor.

Every body got robbed, and things get out of hands, sadly some died without discrimination,Plus most of the people that died are Hausas.

So pls stop promoting violence, and get you facts straight @OP

OFFTOP,yesterday I did my lady wrong, like really screw up big time,

Now.

To answer the question
I call her all night but she did not pick up, not even once. So technically I don't close my eyes at all yesternight.

And now I can't even stand her.
She has been calling all day, I'm no longer interested

DEep.

What she did was wrong but we already know that. Now to answer your question

Yeah you should forgive her

Even though you can not truly Forget.

Reason been the fact that everybody screw up at some point.

But the main reason Y I think u should give her another chance is the fact that he will respect you more now. Knowing now that you are better than some of the guys that make her feels like they can do better.

Try never to use it against her.
And if it will make you feel any better, bleep someone B4 you get back with her.

Someone once told me that Devil you have known a long time is better than iscoming Angel.

In life we all regret what we don't do way more than what we do!

What she did is wrong,

That depends, If the girl in question agree to date the guy then there is nothing to fight about. Or if she is liking the attention. But if the reverse is the case and the guy keep tormenting My girl. I won't fight per say but it my responsibility to put him in check.

Don_Lex

I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Since all the funny behaviour is just happening I won't suggest u give up on what you have been unto for 2 years just like that. U want her back in her place here are the things you need to do:
1. Never ask her about her guy friend of hers anymore. That's shows you are not secure.
2. You need to give her a little break. By that I mean don't call her more than once in a day, call her when you assume she's less busy, if she missed the call Never call back until she reach out to you. Even it takes days.
3. While this is going on, Make sure you are not always available. Give her time to miss your present.
4. Try hard not to be miserable, cos she must not see or hear that you are.
5. Don't make the mistake reasoning, begging or buying stuff for her with the hope getting her back on track, It will only push her further away, cos she will see right through it, and Nothing kill attraction faster than desperation.
6. The next thing is make her jealous a little, I.e put you phone on password,when you with her and your phone rings, if it someone you can call back don't pick the call just put it on silence and pocket the phone, make it look like u have something to hide even though you have nothing to hide. But don't over do it though.
REMEMBER what ever you chase run and things you seems to be running from will chase you at some point. Its one off the law of nature.


Finally I understand doing those things will be hard "Really hard" but it is what it is!

If you do it right within a week he should be back on track, belief in me she dosen't want to lose you either, but the problem is you are always there, always around so she tend to take you for granted. If u were to be in her shoes u will do the same.

You need not worry about the new guys. You share with her what they don't "HISTORY" and that will always give u a upper hand.

Hope it helps

Don_Lex

Every lady are to be treated with care and respected,
But doing all that, I don't think I will have time for myself afterwards

And How about what they have to do to keep the Man, cause the last time I checked they are everywhere

The picture is touching...... Mom the only person I will gladly die for.

I was 24, and I even did it cause the lady in question says she's into me but won't get physical with me not anytime soon anyway. I know girls so I make her beg me to literally, I've been having them pass the weekend with me ever since I was 18, I have the understanding type of parent. Had my first official Kiss in Jss2

God, this brings back memory!

Ruggedfitness:


First you need to learn how to take control and I don't mean take control of yourself and hold the urge, I mean you need to take control of your marriage. What do you mean by she is not the sex kind of person?

You need to also improve on your sex tactics, because they might be turning her off, try watching sex movies (not porn, there are many available for married couples). This way you will make her enjoy sex and even want it more than you will do. It might be that you don't give her pleasure during sex and you just want it for yourself. Try to make her enjoy sex as much as you can and I tell you she will be asking for it a lot.

Secondly, you need to stop running away from your problems and stop seeking the next available option, whenever a situation like this arises look forward to how you can both solve it, because relationships (marriage too) is about give and take. Talk to her and the both of you can understand how to go about it to prevent problems arising in the near future.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

I remain your favorite health blogger Paul Samuel FitnessDoctor

Not bad

Every body say No at some point!
For every single lady out there, there is at least One guy who is tired of pretending to listening in exchange for sex....

since when do we start using guys and vaginity in the same sentence..... Am I missing something?

Dancing in the dark. Rihana

Easy!
First agree to be her friend,the listening type.
The Most important thing is " Anytime you are about her boy friend, Never I repeat Never speak bad of him, cause if you do she will defend him"

SO how do you accomplish your mission?

Easy! Always praise him, as a matter of fact over praise him, if you do it the right way, she will start noticing the flaws in him, it the way all our minds are design.

The minute she start comparing you to him in her mind, its over.

But its important to know that if you are not doing it for the right reasons, whatever it is you think you share with her is not going to last. We all know the saying " what goes around comes around"


Don_Lex.

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