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Suigeneris93:
Nice but most men have entirely different views from urs

people will always have different view......it doesn't negate wat is most important.

But in d true sense of it, no one is ugly............rather, d real question shld be what is beauty to u. For some it is physical while for others, it is intellectual.

HateU2:
My brother, if we keep preaching it, those who will hear will hear.

i hope so.

dachaste:
Seriousl? #wide eyes#. I guess I Neva came across It b4

so wuld u test ur bobo like dat too?

HateU2:
I wish they will just see beyond the body size and beauty. I'm not saying they should not have sm1 they imagine to spend the rest of their life with but when looking for that they should imagine how the girl will look like in some years to come. Giving birth and old age changes everything.

same way guys want ladies to look beyond wat they have in dere pocket but at dere vision........
My point is dis generation onli know how to major on d minors....it takes wisdom to be able to discern wat is truly important.

Dis joke is stale now op.......... But quick one, y wuld any sane person want to test a cat with meat?

DEllaluv:
Mehn, network has really dealt with me


@Shegxi,introvert/introvert r/ship is really working out for me

goodluck to u den ella, happy it is working for u......and happy new year by the way.

petkruz:
He's now very flexible and i'm now cool headed.

well, u guys shld talk and see what u can savage of d relationship....i wish u well
note also dat u dnt demand respect, u must earn it bck. u expect him to have forgiven and forgot all dat happened but in reality, things dnt work dat way.

Estharfabian:
Uh...she's sorry!

Whatever happened to second chances?

She fûcked up, big deal!!! Who doesn't

easier said.......u dn't beat a child and tell d child how to cry, we deal with issues differently.

Cesther:
I don't mind[color=#770077][/color]

wnt knw if he is a virgin or nt so wat diff does it make?

petkruz:
I didn't leave him because he was broke. I wanted to be free, he caged me, no friends, no hanging out, he was strict! As a crazy gal I couldn't stand all that hence I left but he thought I left cos he didn't have a job then.

so if i may ask, what has changed? have u stopped being crazy and stuff or is he no longer strict? see am nt judging u at all, am onli trying to see things from both perspective. is it a case of u coping now cos he now has money or wat?

Estharfabian:
He's just your boyfriend for crying out Loud!

If he can't deal with "Forgiveness"...? dump his Ass!

Besides, You guys should do a little "Communication"...It works wonders.

d lady shldnt have gotten bck in my opinion.......dumping a guy cos he his broke is a very big deal, communication wnt solve anything, they shld simply go dere way.......

u guys will continue to deal with dis for d rest of d relationship.........whenever he acts up, u will always think it is because he now has money and punishing u for d past. to also be fair to him, he would always hide d tru state of his finance from u cos somwere in his sub-conscious, he thinks u are onli after his money.
the real question will now be to determine whether d relationship is worth d stress and headache? and onli u can ansa dat. but to be honest, i wn't get bck wit a lady who left wen i was broke.......

great piece..........d oloshos wnt like this but preach on gurl

olarwhumy6:
Mr oga, u r very very wrong oooo, what's dis church wedding u r talking abt gan? Isn't a borrowed culture from a foreign land? D importance of a traditional wedding to a church weddin is just d dowry aspect dat God almighty recognised in d Bible. Abeg biko I wan ask u somfin, u fit pay dowry in a church wedding? Oh oh nw u see d important of traditional wedding. Church wedding na thanksgiving nd blessing from God.

u are rite......but even d church wedding is a big charade, God will bless ur marriage, church or nt and u can thank God without going to church. giving thanks is from d heart, nt d activities.

biz2get:
Do you consider modern life at all??

what is my business wit modern life? i define my world, i dnt allow d world define me.

biz2get:
Y'all don't get it....

But like she said



It's just the whole concept thing that makes sense.... Nothing more... There's no archivement after doing traditional marriage

Quote me if am wrong..

bro, u are wrong. after d traditional wedding, u are as good as married............na oversabi dey worry us for this part of d word joor. the white wedding is d one dat is nt rili important.

It is just duplication of ceremonies joor, d so call white wedding is d traditional wedding of anoda race. but as we like to show off in dis part of d world, our ladies no go gree oooo

Dejewel:
waiting for dat special day to come cos I av dis penchant for weddings.. doh I don't av any 'he' yet but I knw he's on d way *winks*

he is here already joor

ayokunlei:
no, u dont know me.
But I school in your school, have read ur posts b4.... You are good at teaching maths though u are in Life sciences... But have seen your face in school before...

bidexluv....look no further, someone has obviously taken interest in u #seizethebabe

Bidexluv:
You got it!!

dn't take it personal, dats wat majority of dem do. Learn to brush it off.

Bidexluv:
Dont get angry when asked my age


My mom knows my age and she Still ask me in such a way i dont like?

You know when your mom ask How old are you now? When talking about something

loool, i know joor. Especially our yoruba mothers. U will hear things like "abi omode lo si n pe ra e", "agba lo ma n da lo yii", "awon egbe e have done dis and dat".
Hope u undastand my yoruba?

Bidexluv:
Lols @ terrorist cos it Was christmas day shey?

I know she is bin the best mom that she is but as an introvert there are questions i dont like to be asked e.g
How old are you now?
What are you doing about marriage??
What are you doing about business
Why are you So quiet?
And So on.

You are also bin pressurized

yes now, cos she asked on xmas day, at least she shld have allowed u enjoy ursef dat day(dats a terrorist behaviour)
u knw as d quiet type.....i get dose questions too, me i just smile and unlook, i dnt let it bother me jare.

But y do ladies get angry when u ask dere age? Introvert or nt, I can't undastand @bidexluv

Bidexluv:
Nothing really.

In final year and mummy decided to ask abt my future plan in term of marriage on christmas day?

Knowing her daughter is an introvert that wont talk

hahahahahahahahahhahahaahha......ur mom is a terrorist mhen
but dnt take it badly, mum is just looking out for her daughter noni though dere approach can be sometimes annoying..........u are not alone.

dachaste:
Buh u agree there are guys that insult young single independent ladies right?

i do agree. There are guys who dn't know what they want, same way dere are ladies dat are confused too. Hence, d need to find a partner dat u guys share same believe system. I love independent and intelligent ladies so i know wat i want

@op, this discussion will continue to surface until we come to realise dat it is nt a man vs woman but an individual matter. People are shaped by dere believe system, choices, experiences and environment.

sinaj:
You av said it all.

It's simply inferiority complex nd insecurities.



Jux knw dat man is insatiable

and women are satiable abi? Make i just dey look u......

Bros....ur calling is clear ur winning ticket is older + akwa ibom, shikena!!!

Any lady dat is bad is bad and d one dat is good is good, yoruba or any oda tribe.
What shld be of concern to u is whether she is a good lady and does she meet ur standard........and u are d onli one who can ansa dat.