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An2elect2:
This is serious. Will you feel at home or be open to
someone who exhibits all these too?

sure they will. That kind of person will be dere best bet self. But one thing i know is we(introverts) are kinda very nice and good people, and intelligent too. Just give us dat gentle nudge, make us relax and we will talk, have fun and be alrite.

In d end, it is those in favour say high and those against say neigh go end am.

U guys shld just forget all dis noise...... Amaechi belongs to d npdp, dat will count for him.... He is in d league of ex'governors, his mates will give him a soft landing. 4 d records, everybody on dat list will scale thru. Hand of God is all over amaechi's life because for all his political troubles, he has found one way or d oda to come out tops.

am i the only one feeling OSINANCHI by humblesmith ft phyno at the moment?

Tabelachizza:
Goodmorning peeps!!!

Dnt even knw whether am tired of my self:: Here in the hostel,the only connection I have wt my room-mates are greetings,apart 4rm dat,we dnt talk abt any other things;;I make sure that I have virtually everything I need to avoid talking to them in the name of asking for something**
Some Course mates term you a SNUB,if only dey wl understand my kind of person::
Seriously having problems in my relationship Cos if he don't call, I WON'T call::A Distant relationship though,even at the edge of breaking up now:Really wanna make things right by visiting him but don't know how to tell him cos he has been inviting since january,i turned him down:: I pray for God's Direction ::
People will term you as being PROUD!!! Mood swings is my Nafdac number **
NAIRALAND HAS ALWAYS BEEN MY SOLACE#

things wnt just change on dere own, u nid to make a conscious decision to be better.

MissMalia:
A friend discussed the issue she's presently experiencing in her relationship with me but I'm yet to give her a reply as I don't know what to say. She found herself dating a guy who is an introvert and so self conscious. The issue is that,they both school in the East and left school due to holidays last month. The girl is in Ogun state right now while the guy is in lagos. A week after they left school, she was d one doing the calling but later got tired and voiced out to the guy. His response was that he is doing a training which has been keeping him busy and he apologised but never changed so she complained again this time using her sister as an excuse. She told d guy that her sister is complaining that how can she be dating a guy who will never call her while ignoring odas who won't do without calling. He gave the response* then follow what your sister said. You know I don't have much dating experience and moreso, I already told you before we left school that I may not be calling everytime and also, you know calling is not my thing*. After the conversation that night, he never changed so she complained to his closest friend and he called only once for just 1min. Since then, she decided not to call him also but she is missing him badly as they still have a month before they can both see each other again.Infact,he is already making plans with his friends towards his forth coming birthday party next month without telling the lady nor did he involve her. She was told by his friend whom Is this a normal thing with introverts? Do you guys find it hard to talk on phone? Cos I don't get. Now the issue is like this, what do you as an introvert suggest?

this is superstory oooooooo. i think d real issue is dat people tend to hide dere weakness under d guise of introvertness and dats nt fair.

D pastors and members no fit call holy ghost fire on d masquerades ni abi dem be wuruwuru xtians?
D church must rili have few members for masquerades to overpower dem o, masquerades wey dem for gather beat(dat kain beating wey dey make person repent), beat dem sotey maquerades go by demselves give dere life to christ without any form of preaching. Shior!!!

Lols.......d pastor and members no fit rain holy ghost fire on d masquerade ni abi na wuruwuru xtians dem be?
D church must rili have few members for masquerades to overpower dem o, masquerades wey dem for gather beat, give dem serious beating sotey masquerades go by demselves give dere life to christ without any form of verbal preaching.

I see why we are where we are in d country.......... U want him to compensate party members, compensate geo political zones, compensate states, compensate gender differences, compensate people with disability and all manner of people wit appointments.....dis country is a joke.

In d guy's eye, every damn thing is iron, D rate at which people get violent over minor issues dis days is insane and sickening!!! And to think dere are no signs dat things are gonna get better, lord have mercy.

nkowaputa:
U need to get objective. What will one good man achieve in the midst of 99 corrupt people? This appointment tells us that no single person has integrity in the custom. So will the newly appointed be in the office and field? As a matter of fact this appointment will only encourage them to get deeper in their corrupt practice as there is nothing up there for anyone.

Also what about appointing a retired police IG to head the military (COAS), A medical doctor as his pilot and an engineer as governor to cbn.

Brother, PMB is wrong on this. Let's let him know when he is right and wrong.

bro, are u just bn mischievious or u just dnt knw? A team is as good as d leader. A lion can lead a herd of sheep but a sheep can never lead a lion.
A military, police, custom, navy, airforce can work in a top position of security architecture wit little or no problem. Same way an accountant, economist, or finance expert can work in financial institution without any hitch.
A nurse, medical scientist, doctor, pharmicist can become d cmd of an hospital and will run fine.
I gave dose examples to show dat some discipline can intertwine effortlessly without issues, so dose of u using an engineer to go head cbn as examples are just either bn malicious or genuinly ignonrant.
Lastly, leadership is about will and taking decisions. He wuld definately have assitants from within d custom so i dnt see wat d hullabaloo is all about.

On this, i stand wit buhari 100%. Wat is going on in custom is an organised fraud and smuggling dat needs an honest and tenacious outsider to fix. Promoting anyone within d ranks wuld have bn same of same. Buhari was spot on with dat. Reform nnpc, firs, npa and customs and see nigeria's revenue soar high.

Bidexluv:
what do u do wen ur frd of 3years(met in sch) dnt understand what it means to be an introvert?
Didnt attend her birthday just because i cant stand gathering bt she is taking it as a p.
Tryin to separate myself now

i am introverted and i wuld be annnoyed if u did same to me. If she is truly ur fwend, wat u ought to have done is at least show face and leave b4 d gathering stats becoming unbearable for u or better still wuld have gone and stay in ur little corner thruout. Just apologise to her and u guys shld forge ahead.

No be your friend fault broda, d 4g network of d people wey dey follow ur guy from village strong gidi gan ni.

And same hypocrites will tell church members dat marriage is for better for worse and they must endure.
Nigerian pastors.......doing opposite of wat dey preach since 1914.

MarvellousGod:
Alright, let me believe you didn't edit it.
There's a difference between when a hurting person shares his/her experience and when some other person uses it to motivate others. . The guy that shared the thread did that because he has gotten over it. It wouldn't be the same if a friend of his happily opens a thread saying his friend just lost his mum and thanks God for his own mum, bla bla, bla...

Do you think relatives or friends of those affected by the ugly incidences you mentioned above will be delighted reading your article?
Just saying. . Have a good day

i think u are just bn overly sensitive with wat dude's post. I dn't see anything wrong in wat d guy has said. D truth is we all see what we are looking for. Watever u infer from d post is nt because of d examples d guy has used but ur own state of mind.
But in d end, ur opinion is ur opinion and i respect it even if i dn't agree. Good morning.

chudionu58:
Saying basically the same thing! NOI began the single accounts ish all for greater transparency and responsibility with graduated movements of capital >>recurrent accounts !!...Giving an order to continue in the same line of thought shouldn't be painted more than it's worth coming especially from a supposedly corrupt regime.That's my only source of fury.

its nt an order in same line of thought bro. This directive is far reaching and all encompassing as it affects our major cash cows too(NNPC, FIRS, NIMASA, immigration). I guess u dnt fully get wat it portends? It means to some extent we will be able to ascertain wat d nation earns. U nid to go look at dat pricewater audit report on NNpC again and u will appreciate dat dis directive is d real deal.

NNPC, FIRS, NIMASA and imigration will be d biggest casualty of this TSA cos dats d 4 biggest revenue-generating govt agencies and dats also where a whole loads of shady dealings are practiced.
One onli needs to look again into dat pricewater audit report on nnpc and u will undastand dat this directive is a big deal.

chudionu58:
Seriously I don't understand all these hype! This initiative started in 2013 by NOI... She moved all capital accounts of the MDAs into a single account! The second segment is the recurrent, so please there is nothing new here but rather continuing with the initiatives of the previous "corrupt government"

http://www.punchng.com/business/business-economy/fg-moves-mdas-capital-accounts-to-cbn-2/

bros, i guess u dnt fully undastand d diff btw d two propositions of noi(GEJ) and what buhari is offering. Wat NOI did is simply to regulate and make more transparent how govt agencies and ministries spends money. But wat buhari is saying is dat money earned and accrued to govt shld first be paid into one account b4 onward payments to various MDA's to spend.
D simple reality is dat we must first be fully able to transparently ascertain what govt can earn b4 even talking about how what is earned is now spent. That is what d TSA is all about.

Religion and government is d biggest organised fraud of dis century............

iamayodeji:
Yes you are very much right. its nice to have you here. am eagerly waiting for your valuable input to this thread.

thanks man, and as per ur signature, name ur price bro and i will pay

Hi people.........Wow, dis thread has gotten dis far. Nice one. Introvertism is nt bad as people think it is. D most intelligent and knowlegable people are introverts. We just need to learn how to accentuate our positives and improve/manage d negatives.

Firefire:
I am also wondering...

oga firefire, i expect u to know better. U are way too knowledgable to let all dis people drag u to dere ignoramus level bro. I like u even though u belong to d oda side of d divide, u're liberal and i love dat in people.

Lol....nigerians can be very confident in ignonrance sha......some people dat dn't have an idea how d presidency works are already here hyperventilating.
Just for d records, wat buhari did is mere announcement/approval. Osinbajo chose for himself. Laolu akande and osinbajo relationship dates back, he is also a pastor like d vp. People shld learn to ask questions b4 concluding wrongly.

Mzflexydeeva:
Happy weekend

longest tym ma'am, i trust u are doing well. Laredojohn, i hail u too baba and every other peeps.

4everGrand:
Someone once said Taraba state has the potential to be the richest state in Nigeria.

I served there and cannot agree less.

God help Nigeria.

d person is right o bro. Taraba is a tourist haven.

Mambila plateau is d ish, i was dere in 2013. Dat place doesnt feel like nigeria at all. Nature at its best and finest. Also bn to d gumti park between taraba and adamawa. Dis country is blessed.
If nt for d insurgency and d stupid leaders we have, d north east of nigeria is a really beautiful place dat one can't get tired of.

comos:
for looting lagos to debt.

i am tempted to give u a proper reply, bt i checked thru ur posts and noticed u only see thru d lens of tribalism and partisanship so i will let it pass.