₦airaland Forum

Olarewajub:
Do you have this uneasiness that some day they might stop being trust worthy?

i dn't. I have come to terms with d fact dat anybody can mess up at any time.

Bidexluv:
Have very close friends who people around calls my best friends but deep down they may just be close friends.
My trust issues is worst believe me when i say worst.

Trust no one at all except the Supreme Being Up in Heaven .

in d words of tuface "i know u cannot trust nobody but u have to trust someone". Life in itself is a risk, i have learnt to stat trusting people till they mess up. Guess wat? Some havn't messed up yet. Sometimes, its onli faith dat is required.

Mzflexydeeva:
been around, when it got dry I lost vibe so hardly online these days

i sha hope ur enjoying ursef and having fun?

Mzflexydeeva:
hmmmmmmm! Wats have u been up to? Been a while o! Wats been keeping you busy

i have just been around jare.......sometimes i feel lazy to type, i have bn up to so many things and u?

Chubhie:
Under the watchful eyes of an acclaimed General who saw war. This is enough to start impeachment proceedings against PMB. He has failed to secure lives and properties.

in ur haste to show u loathe buhari, u forgot d 2014 part of d report.......who was in charge den? receive sense bro.

Mzflexydeeva:
Jesus! Shegxi is this really you There's God oooooo.... how you dey?

am very fyn and u? I trust u have bn good too......

beautifullll1:
Both

so wat does it mean?

Laredojohn:
Wassup all being a while

sup bro...longest tym....mzflexydeeva, i hope u are kicking too.

beautifullll1:
So afid awo MI edung ke Lagos?

pls translate....and is dat efik or ibibio?

nikkybeez:
Smiles,tanx for the compliment.

instead of the tanx, i wish nairaland had a kiss smiley, dat wuld have bn more like it how are u doing?

dino is a noisemaker, he just say things so as to be noticed. and to think he prides himself as a "private investigator", it is a shame. am all for information to be on d public domain, but it shld be factual. a person that does not know is beta than someone with wrong information.

swahli is sexy.

nikkybeez:
wetin do the lips.

lol.....are u seriously asking dat question? ...u have got some intersting and inviting lips am sure am nt d first person telling u dat.

nikkybeez:
congatz guys.Nigerians are proud of you.

dose lips.........no comment

ori eyin mejeji daru........nonsence

SlimAdenike:
Good evening

hi slimadenike.....emphasis on d "slim". how are u and wats gud?

enevicky:
Sup guys nice been here, it's friday have fun don't drink and drive, don't do drugs play safe and have a lovely weekend kisses lol

still waiting for d email address ene......

lawyer:
It was not a forum to discuss proposals on how to move forward. That can be found in the Ekweremadu Report reviewing what went wrong in the last election for Pdp and proposals on how to move the party forward. It was a day for PDP faithfuls to come together after the last elections and pledge their solidarity to the party to work towards its success in the next election. The PDP Convention holds next year and new NWC would come in to move the party forward. Today wasnt a day for speeches or frank discussions. It was a day to make APC know PDP is still alive and would provide stiff opposition. It was a day to encourage the youths to become part of PDP and help shape the party's policies.

in essence, you are alluding to the fact that it is not a conference? Why tag it one in the first place? They culd have simply named it a solidarity rally or something. By naming it a national conference, they gave a wrong impression and that in itself is not a sign of seriousness.

For the pdp faithfuls, were u guys satisfied with what you witnessed today? Differing opinions are welcomed...........

Let me state clearly that i am not a big fan of pdp neither do i belong to the apc(though i have a soft spot for president buhari and the v.p, osinbajo), so this piece is coming on the backdrops of the fact that i look forward to a better Nigeria.
So when i heard of the pdp national conference, i was hoping this will become a good avenue for pdp to reflect and re-strategize so as to offer effective opposition to the apc but lo and behold, to say i was disappointed is an understatement.
It was same of same nonsence that they have done over the years that was repeated today. No thought provoking discussions, no action plan was suggested. In fact, i heard apc mentioned in there speeches more than the acronym pdp itself. Speaker after speaker, most were simply talking about winning elections and regaining power. To even be specific, the acting chairman of the board of trustees, dr haliru bello said pdp has laid good foundation for nigeria and that every good thing we see today is because of pdp but went further to say apc shld be blamed for the economy and security.
In a national conference, i thought it is a forum where people come together and discuss real issues and then go on to take frank decisions. What i saw today was a jamboree and a pity party, that is not the way to go if they want to remain relevant and be taken seriously. To be fair on senator Godswill akpabio, he was the only person who harped on the need for sober reflections and things to be done differently. The rest of the speakers were just saying the same lines and rhetorics over the year.
Finally, it will do us(Nigeria) no good if we fall into a one party system, so pdp must either truly evolve or metamorphised into another party that can challenge the ruling party. This is the time for those that truly love pdp to look themselves in the face and speak the truth(which most times are bitter and not palatable) to one another. If the show of shame today is their defination of a national conference, then pdp is on its way to the abyss of "that party was once a great party".

zicoraads:
And he stylishly side stepped the question. Are you from Taraba state? Or, where in Taraba do you stay?

Aisha can only win in her zone, Taraba-north. And that zone alone can never make her the governor. That zone is dominated by Muslims. The rest of the state by Christians. Stop spewing gibberish about things you know nothing about. You cannot stay where ever you are and claim to know more about a state you have probably never been to nor hail from.

If the tribunal had ordered a rerun, Darius would have taken her to the cleaners a million times.

bros, pdp can kiss taraba byebye, they shot demselves in d foot. Even if d court of appeal orders a rerun, pdp wuld nt participate in d election because in d eyes of d law, they do not have a candidate and u can't admit a new candidate for a re-run election.

dustmalik:
The emboldened, maybe so. But we'll never know now, because there won't be a rerun.

PDP shot itself in the foot on this one.

all of u are making a big mistake......even if dere was to be a re-run, pdp wnt be allow to take part in it cos in d eyes of d law, pdp did nt have a candidate in d election in d first place.
What dat means is dat no new person can be admitted for a re-run election. In d end, pdp can kiss taraby byebye because they shot demselves in d foot.

enevicky:
I just have three more days to go before my bday so happy yaaaaaay lol

were are we celebrating it? I want to eat party rice o

Lilyomi:
Last borns r usually intelligent, stubborn, fearless and curious. I'm one.

dis person is truly a last born. U are spot on, u can interchange stubborn for rebellious.

muphasar11:
Hello sorry I had to quote you please. I follow an2elect2 and I read dis and decided to drop a few words. I didn't read as much though just your comment and hers (last 2). The fact that a so call righteous person does wrong don't make the righteous peeps bad. I noticed that we have more righteous peeps doing wrong these days. I have get more help from secular friends than the ones in the church. The value of a Christian chap may have been lost but the place of the value and the intent of the value still stands. You sound nice and so does the young lady I follow. We must be the change we want to see.

thanks for dropping by. If u watch closely i didnt use righteous, i specifically use "religious" for a reason. Am sure u can figure wat i mean. Like i affirm in my previous post, i like people of faith(believe, convictions and actions) but u will agree wit me dat religion dis days is simply about doctrines and if one is nt careful and discerning..........u knw d rest.

An2elect2:
Friends with my pastor? Hahaha yes and no

Me too. I have been blessed with 'good' people from all kinds of belief system.

Still want like-minded people for Spiritual growth My friends right now are on the secular side. Not good for me…

My day has been great, keeping myself busy with stuffs for Monday.

lol, dis is were i give up.........

An2elect2:
utsh. Sorry for this late come back.

You made sense tho the company i crave for is a religious kind but not the mainstream ones. I still have intelligent friends and pals with good sense of humour however i don't go deep with them urrgh. And that's what i want, deep friendship!

I enjoy playing cool songs. Love dancing Gist, surf the internet Reading my bible and good Christian write ups! et al. Thanks for asking. . How are you today?

religious? Mayb u need to become friend wit ur pastor den. I am skeptical wen it comes to religion, i have seen many so called religious people do unthinkable things.

I generally look out for good people irrespective of religion, i have fwends dat are nt even xtians but have bn immensely good towards me. Dnt get me wrong, i like people of faith.

My day has bn good so far, church was great, just finished eating sunday rice and going out soon. How has ur own day be? And y do you nt go deep wit d friends u have?

mrtopeqs:
but, I talk and joke when I finally get to know someone albeit after keeping mute for sometimes or a long time depending on the gender, is that part of an introvert too?

bros, nothing do u, it is part of d "symptoms" LOL.

An2elect2:
I understand. Have you ever asked yourself(sincerely) why you cant look at people in the eye?

1. They look better?
2. You cant speak well?
3. They always know better?(assumption)
4.They will be disappointed?
5.

dnt break a sweat about dis. Introverts are self-conscious people. So, even when people think they are amazing, they innately feel dat they are nt up to d task. I have walked dis road too but dis days,i no dey send again o.

An2elect2:
Okay thank you for the correction

No, i don't consider myself an introvert, don't know how to keep things to myself tho i can be quite too.

I love my private time and i love company too! but 'good' company. These days, 'good' company is hard to come by, and i am (painfully) forced to keep to myself. I don't know for how long i can cope

good company is nt hard to come by my dear, d problem is we look for it in d wrong people and things.

D S.I unit of good company is intelligence and humour and unfortunately, dats d last thing we look out for in people. Most times, we look for d tall, dark, handsome, smoothtalking, car-key swerving(in dudes) and d chanel bag- carrying, brazilian weavon fixing, buttylicious and boobslicious(in ladies). I hope u get d point am trying to make?

Painfully(like u affirm), its better u keep to ursef dan keep nt so good company.
Wat are ur hobbies?

An2elect2:
@bolded I thought as much. True, Introverts always turn out to be very warm to everyone's dismay. When people get to know them they are like, 'how can this one lonely, boring and probably sad man be this cheerful! unbelievable'

Most, not all are intelligent

I dunno if i am right, but i think an introvert might do better(socially) with someone more introverted.

And yes, i will always make introverts feel at home!

LOL, u shld knw i mean most about d intelligence remark. By default, they shld be.
As per doin well with a more introverted person, it doesn't necessarily follow. D key thing is "understanding" one anoda. There4, an introvert can do well socially also wit an extrovert. "Understanding" here means knowing each others limit, tolerating and compromising, and meeting each other at d half way.
Do u consider ursef as an introvert?